Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast with The Matadoras

Elizabeth Jane and Deana Lynn

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Surviving Toxic Relationships is a Christian podcast for women who are ready to break free from toxic, emotionally abusive, or narcissistic relationships and step into healing, clarity, and truth. Deana and Lizzie are two women whose lives unexpectedly crossed when they were married to the SAME manipulative, cheating, financially abusive partner. Their combined passion is to provide women with the tools to avoid, escape, or heal from toxic, harmful, or confusing relationships. If you’ve been searching for faith based wisdom that goes deeper than surface-level advice, this show is for you. We talk honestly about trauma, emotional wounds, spiritual confu...

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Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Lizzie and Dina pair survivor testimony with Christian encouragement and practical conversations about boundaries, self-trust, and recovery from controlling relationships.

Lizzie and Dina turn a remarkable shared history, marriages to the same manipulative partner, into candid guest conversations about recognizing harm and recovering self-trust.

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Lizzie and Dina married the same man; 'he's so nice' may not settle your doubts.

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  • words for the confusion you feel when everyone else thinks your partner is lovely
  • small ways to speak up when a grand boundary speech could put you at risk
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Episode #85: When Toxic Families Turn on You

A faith-centered look at toxic relationships, family denial, and healing for children.

The episode centers on the pain of loving someone who slowly chips away at a sense of self, while also holding to the choice to answer trauma with love and kindness. It shows how denial can let families stand behind an abuser, leaving children caught in confusion and pain.

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Episodes

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    Episode 80: When the Holidays Don’t Feel the Same: Healing, Grief & Finding Peace After Toxic Relationships

    Hidden gem

    The host, Lizzie, delivers a heartfelt solo episode exploring the complex emotions and identity shifts that accompany the holiday season after experiencing major life changes like divorce, children leaving home, or the loss of a loved one.

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    Episode #73: The "Now What" of Leaving a Toxic Relationship

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    Episode #89: Renewing the Mind After Trauma & Addiction | Faith, Neuroscience, and Freedom with Roseanne Forte

    Hidden gem

    Roseanne Forte, creator of the Choose Freedom program and author of Transformed by His Promises, explains how faith and neuroscience shaped her recovery from addiction and a toxic marriage.

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    Episode #85: When Toxic Families Turn on You

    Hidden gem

    Johnny Woods, a certified life coach and founder of Journey Coaching in Ann Arbor, Michigan, describes how her ex-husband's death in August 2020 led to a custody fight with his family over her children.

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    Episode #75: Feeling Broken After Loss? Listen to This!

    Hidden gem

    Elizabeth Jane, author of Free and First, Unlocking Your Ultimate Life, describes how a sudden end to a 25-year marriage with four children pushed her into shock, grief, and a long search for steadier tools.

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    Episode #92: Christian Boundaries vs Walls: Protecting Your Peace in Toxic or Spiritually Confusing Relationships

    Hidden gem

    Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast with The Matadoras uses Episode #92 to contrast Christian boundaries with walls and to explain why “boundaries come from faith, walls come from fear.” Dina and Lizzie connect the idea to their books, including Love With Eyes Wide Open, Teaching Our Daughters To Recognize Red Flags, and God's Voice In Relationships, and they describe boundaries as protection for peace, values, emotional health, and safety.

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    Episode #78: Adapt & Advance! Faith That Survives the Fire! Dr. Wole Babatunde on Turning Pain into Purpose

    Dr.

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    Episode #87: Why “Keeping the Peace” Is Destroying Families: Conflict, Boundaries & Self-Advocacy with Jen Fry

    Hidden gem

    Lizzie and Dina sit down with Dr.

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    Episode #90: What Is Discernment? Faith-Based Relationship Wisdom for Mothers Raising Daughters (And Every Christian Woman)

    Hidden gem

    Love with Eyes Wide Open frames Chapter 1 around a single claim from the hosts: “discernment is protection,” not simply being nice.

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    Episode #71: Sick, Stuck, and Still Worthy: Deborah Weed’s Powerful Midlife Comeback

    Hidden gem

    Debra Weed traces her self-worth work back to childhood sensitivity, a corporate career at Citibank, and a three-year stretch of debilitating pain that she says left her bedridden.

    ·33m·2 clips
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    Episode #74: Exposing Serial Predators, How Technology is Helping Survivors Connect & Heal

    Hidden gem

    Tracy DiTomasi, CEO of Callisto, explains how callistovault.org lets people with a .edu email use encrypted matching to find other survivors of the same perpetrator without public disclosure.

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    Episode #94: When Scripture Is Used to Control | Spiritual Confusion, Marriage, and Discernment

    Hidden gem

    Episode #94 of Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast with The Matadoras focuses on what happens when Bible verses about marriage, submission, and divorce are quoted without context and women feel pressure instead of peace.

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    Episode #69: Am I The Toxic One in the Relationship??

    Lizzie and Dina explore whether listeners might be contributing to toxicity in their relationships, distinguishing between toxic behaviors and being a toxic person.

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    Episode 82: When Faith, Marriage, and Abuse Collide: My Journey Out of Religious and Emotional Control

    Hidden gem

    Host Lizzie shares her deeply personal journey through two toxic marriages marked by religious control, emotional and spiritual abuse, and eventual escape.

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    Episode #70: How to Stop Being Codependent; Self Esteem, Boundaries, and Inner Healing

    Hidden gem

    Lizzie and Dina frame codependency as a pattern where someone sacrifices personal needs, minimizes toxic behavior, and loses self-esteem while trying to keep a relationship stable.

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    Episode #98: How Toxic Relationships Make You Feel Unlovable (And How to Heal) | Ashana Kaiulani

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    Episode #96: Moral Injury Explained | How Trauma, Abuse, and Faith Collide (Dr. Larry Brant)

    Hidden gem

    The show welcomes Dr.

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    Episode #91: Before You Hire a Divorce Lawyer… Listen to This | Mediation, Narcissists & High-Conflict Divorce

    Hidden gem

    Lizzie and Dina sit down with divorce mediator Elizabeth Merrill.

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    Episode #76: Fear-Based Leaders: How to Spot Them and Stop Them from Breaking You

    Hidden gem

    Dina and Lizzie sit down with CEO coach and author Kate Lowry to talk about fear based leaders.

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    Episode #77: I Put My Fibromyalgia Into Remission!

    Hidden gem

    The hosts sit down with fibromyalgia coach Tammy Stackelhaus.

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    Episode #88: Escaping Narcissistic Abuse After 20 Years | Skye Bellarmine on Healing, Faith, and Reclaiming Your Life

    Hidden gem

    Lizzie and Dina welcome author Skye Bellarmine for a conversation about surviving narcissistic abuse after 20 years.

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    Episode 81: Write Your Next Chapter: Turning Pain into Purpose Through Publishing with Terry Whalin

    Hidden gem

    Lizzie and Dina welcome Terry Whalen for a conversation about turning pain into purpose through publishing.

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    Episode #95: How Toxic Relationships Keep Women Stuck | Nikki Allen on Abuse, Trauma Bonds, and Healing

    Hidden gem

    Nikki Allen brings heartbreak into the room.

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    Episode #97: The Nice Guy Trap | Barb Nangle on Codependency, Boundaries, and Healthy Love

    Hidden gem

    The danger looked nice.

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    Episode #72: From Toxic Patterns to Self Love; Jonathan Aslay on Healing After Loss

    Hidden gem

    Lizzie and Dina sit with Jonathan Aslay as he traces the road from loss to self-love.

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    Episode 84: Healing After Bullying & Emotional Abuse: Breaking Limiting Beliefs to Live Free | Brooke DeBoer

    Hidden gem

    Have those voices followed you?

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    Episode 83: When the Truth Comes Out: Private Investigator Ken Childs on Narcissists, Double Lives, and Protecting Yourself!

    Hidden gem

    Your gut may already know.

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    Episode #86: He Rescued a Stranger in a Devastating Car Accident; Then Discovered It Was His Father?

    Hidden gem

    Steve Eichenblatt shares a story that starts with a terrible car wreck.

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    Episode #93: When Intimacy Disappears: The Hidden Sign You’re in a Toxic Relationship. Dr Jordin Wiggins

    Hidden gem

    Lizzie opens by speaking straight to listeners who suspect there is a book inside them.

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    Episode #99: Brain Hijack in Relationships Why You Feel Unsafe in Love (Even When You’re Not) | Diane McDowell

    Apr 15, 2026·32m
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    Podcast Trailer: Surviving Toxic Relationships with The Matadoras (aka Deana & Lizzie)

    Dec 24, 2025·2m
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    Episode 79: Holiday Self-Care for Women Who Are Emotionally Exhausted

    A Christian podcast offering holiday self-care advice for women healing from toxic relationships.

    Dec 17, 2025·9m
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    Episode #68: Leaving A Narcissist; Why It's So Hard, And How to Stay Free

    Two women discuss the challenges of leaving a narcissistic partner and offer faith-based guidance for staying free.

    Sep 24, 2025·23m
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    Episode #67: Strength of Scars: Surviving Childhood Trauma, Adoption, Abuse & Finding God

    Hosts Lizzie and Dina interview Avonlea Lightstone about her autobiography 'Strength of Scars' and her journey from tragedy to triumph through faith.

    Sep 16, 2025·47m
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    Episode #66: From Peanuts to Purpose; Hilary Powers on Recovery, Faith & Forgiveness

    Sep 10, 2025·39m
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    Episode #65: How a DV Survivor Helps Kids Regulate Big Feelings: Jacintha Field on Healing, Play, & Co-Parenting

    Sep 3, 2025·40m
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    Episode #64: From Widow to Warrior: Julie Barth on Surviving Grief, Narcissistic Abuse & Rebuilding Life

    Aug 27, 2025·36m
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    Episode #63: Untangling Complex Shame: A Journey to Healing with Dr. Zoe Shaw

    Aug 13, 2025·39m
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    Episode #62: He Controlled Everything: My 29-Year Marriage to a Covert Narcissist

    Aug 7, 2025·30m
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    Episode #61: Samia Come Forth: From Rock Bottom to Purpose-Driven Powerhouse

    Jul 30, 2025·54m
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    Episode #60: Why Wives Feel Invisible At Home; With Dr. Becky Whetstone

    Jul 24, 2025·44m
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    Episode #59: When the Affair Goes Viral; But You're the One Left Bleeding

    Jul 22, 2025·23m
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    Episode #58: Navigating High Conflict Divorces: Insights from Lisa Johnson

    Jul 15, 2025·42m
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    Episode #57: Gaslighting, Blame Shifting & Minimizing; 3 Toxic Tactics That Keep You Stuck

    Jul 8, 2025·25m
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    Episode #56: When the Marriage Ends in Midlife: Healing After Betrayal & Financial Devastation

    Jun 23, 2025·16m
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    Episode #55: Spotting Manipulation in Conversations; How to Trust Your Gut Again

    Jun 20, 2025·26m
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    Episode #54: Breaking Free; A Story of Resilience

    Jun 12, 2025·32m
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    Episode #53: I Think I Want Out; The 5 Stages of Marital Breakdown

    May 15, 2025·51m
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    Episode #52; Forgiveness vs Reconciliation: Why You Can Let Go Without Going Back

    May 10, 2025·26m
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    Episode #51: Healing From Narcissistic Abuse: Red Flags, Boundaries, and Reclaiming Self Worth

    May 1, 2025·51m
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    Episode #50: Emotional Healing & Nervous System Reset After Abuse

    Apr 22, 2025·29m
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    Episode #49: Toxic Dating & Red Flags: An LMFT's Survival Guide

    Apr 4, 2025·38m
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    Episode #48: The Matadoras Origin Story; 2 Ex Wives Unveil A Narcissists Double Life & Protect The Next Victim

    Mar 26, 2025·10m
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    Episode #47: Do You Have Healthy Boundaries? 6 Keys To Building Healthy Boundaries

    Mar 26, 2025·9m
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    Episode #46; Breaking The Generational Cycle of Trauma; Tina's Journey of Forgiveness and Self Love

    Mar 4, 2025·32m
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    Episode #45; Narcissistic Abuse: How to Recover & Heal (Strategies for Survivors) with Katherine Miura LMFT

    Feb 23, 2025·30m
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    Episode #44: The Red Flags Of Suicide Manipulation; Surviving Manipulation Abuse

    Feb 14, 2025·18m
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    Episode #43: You Can't Make This Stuff Up! Laughing Through The Narcissistic Nightmare

    Feb 9, 2025·44m
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    Episode #42: Interview with Dr. Sam Vaknin, Professor of Psychology; Breaking the Manipulation & Aggression Cycle

    Feb 1, 2025·49m
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    Episode #41: The Power Shift: Recognizing & Breaking Free from the Victim Role

    Jan 23, 2025·41m
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    Episode #40; The Lonely Dark; Finding Your Way Out of Depression.

    Jan 10, 2025·43m
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    Episode #42 Don't Miss This! Free Guidance From Abuse Experts; Limited Time Only!

    Jan 3, 2025·26m
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    Episode #41: Cooking Up Family Fun; Our Interview with Silly Chef Garby!

    Dec 24, 2024·24m
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    Episode #39: The Weight Of "What If's"-Navigating Grief, Loss & Regret

    Dec 11, 2024·39m
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    Episode #38: 3 Critical Elements To Move You From Confused To Confident

    Nov 23, 2024·46m
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    Episode #37: Safe Holidays, Strong Families

    Nov 15, 2024·22m
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    Episode #36: Hidden Harm; The Enablers Role In Abuse

    Nov 7, 2024·43m
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    Episode #35: Bright Minds, Dark Deceptions: How Even the Smartest Get Fooled by Narcissists

    Oct 31, 2024·1h 20m
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    Episode #34: Are You Aligning With Your Ideal Self, Or Stuck In Your Lowest Habits?

    The hosts discuss the importance of thought work for overall wellness, sharing personal experiences and practical advice on becoming the best version of yourself.

    Oct 16, 2024·31m
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    Episode #33: Beating The Narc At His Own Game-Trish's Story

    Sep 29, 2024·39m
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    Episode #34: Have You Been Attracting "Boys" instead of Men?? Ask Andre!

    Sep 17, 2024·1h 30m
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    Episode #33: Exciting Announcements from The Matadoras!

    Sep 10, 2024·23m
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    Episode #32: My Ex Tracked Me, Stalked Me, And Hired People To Hurt Me (So Why Am I Thankful?)

    Aug 28, 2024·58m
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    Episode #31: Want A New Life? Time For New Choices

    Aug 17, 2024·44m
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    Episode #30: Cortisol; The Hidden Link Between Stress, Cravings & Weight Gain

    Aug 9, 2024·27m
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    Episode #29: Afraid To Date, And I Don't Need Anyone- Hyper-independence

    Aug 2, 2024·44m
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    Episode #28: PJ's To Powerhouse; Overcoming your negative mental state

    Jul 25, 2024·30m
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    Episode #27: Media Manipulation; Are we being gaslit by the news??

    Jul 18, 2024·22m
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    Episode #26: When He Steals Your Car, And Then Asks To Pray For You ....you might be in a toxic relationship

    Jul 12, 2024·38m
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    Episode #25:Burnout Is Real: How to Recognize It, Recover, and Reclaim Your Life

    Two women discuss the signs, causes, and solutions for burnout, drawing from personal experience with toxic relationships.

    Jul 5, 2024·28m
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    Episode #24: Am I The Crazy One?? Reactive Abuse

    Jun 29, 2024·38m
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    Episode #23: Are You Freaking Kidding Me?? When the family of the narcissist buys their lies....

    Jun 21, 2024·31m
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    Episode #22: Growing Up With a Narc-The Kids Speak Out!

    Jun 6, 2024·51m
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    Episode #21: When Your Ex Tries To Lure You Back With Jewelry Mart....LOL!!!!

    May 29, 2024·46m
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    Episode #20: My Choices Hurt My Children--Guilt and Healing

    May 20, 2024·42m
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    Episode #19: Mica Miller-The Tragic Saga

    May 10, 2024·45m
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    Episode #18: Lies I Believed; Alexis Story

    May 2, 2024·38m
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    Episode #17: Silent Bullying at work; The Covert Narcissist Boss

    Apr 26, 2024·39m
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    Episode #16: Wolves In Sheep's Clothing, Wolves In The Church

    Apr 19, 2024·1h
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    Episode #15: Was God In My Marriage Vows? The "Marriage Covenant"

    Apr 12, 2024·27m
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    Episode #14: I Feel So Helpless To Help! Supporting the loved one caught in toxicity

    Apr 4, 2024·28m
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    Episode #13: Molested By A Church Leader; Jarron's Story

    Mar 25, 2024·46m
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    Episode #12: Moving Past Your Past & Growing Your Soul- Happy Hour #2

    Mar 22, 2024·23m
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    Episode #11: I Married A Sex Addict; What Sexual Addiction Is, and Is NOT.

    Mar 14, 2024·59m
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    Episode #10: I Married A Cop Who Tried To Kill Me! Now I Am Terrified To Face Him In The Courtroom.

    Mar 8, 2024·57m
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    Episode #9: Brain Fog & Exhaustion

    Feb 26, 2024·37m
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    Episode #8: I Married The Grinch, Before He Grew A Heart--Tammie's Story

    Feb 24, 2024·59m
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    Episode #7: Happy Hour! Why We Are Truly Happy (Finally!!)

    Feb 16, 2024·36m
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    Episode #6: Are You Being Financially Abused?

    Feb 5, 2024·1h
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    Episode #5: The Exit Plan; Safely Saving Yourself From The Abuser

    Feb 2, 2024·38m
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    Episode #4 : Chat with a Therapist; Are you the problem? Are they the problem??

    Jan 22, 2024·45m
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    Episode #3: When He Uses God To Crush And Control You---Spiritual Abuse

    Jan 18, 2024·53m
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    Episode # 2: OOPS! I did it again???

    Jan 8, 2024·28m
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    Episode #1: We Found Wife Number Three; Deception, Manipulation, and a Double Life

    Dec 31, 2023·52m