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Join Kayla W.B. and M.J. as they dig down, around, and through weekly sexual wellness, kink, intimacy, and other spicy topics. These two take a on a shameless and lighthearted approach that doesn't shy away from the difficult and important topics or questions. For every side of everyone: We cover everything from asexual to heterosexual with all that's in between; and from vanilla to kinks you may not realize existed. We accept you and want you to "Feel Good, Be Naughty".
Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026
Candid host chemistry makes consent, kink safety, intimate communication, and sexual wellness easier to discuss without sanding away their complexity.
Backdoor BOINK[A (Silly) Sexual Wellness Podcast] turns intimate questions into candid conversations between Kayla, a certified relationship and intimacy coach, and MJ.
A towel for period sex, a raised eyebrow for aphrodisiac pills: Kayla and MJ meet your awkward questions.
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A blunt, compassionate look at insecurity, journaling, and feeling more at ease in your own skin.
Backdoor Boink treats insecurity as something worth saying out loud, especially when appearance, gender discomfort, and the relief of naming feelings start to blur together. The episode lands best when journaling is presented as a useful habit, not a slogan.
Consent gets practical and a little messy as hugs, handshakes, and kink share the frame.
Kayla and MJ treat consent as a day-to-day question about touch, not a slogan. Hugs at work, handshakes, waves, and the awkward little pauses around them all get the same plainspoken attention.
A blunt, playful reset for anyone trying to get desire back on track.
Backdoor Boink keeps this clip loose and useful. Kayla and MJ move from teasing banter into a straightforward look at what can flatten desire: stress, anxiety, depression, and the side effects of SSRIs.
Jokey, direct harm-reduction talk about breath play, with consent and safety kept firmly in view.
Backdoor Boink keeps consent, limits, and the hazards of restricting air at the center of its conversation. It moves briskly from jokes into blunt anatomical detail and practical warnings about choking, corsets, chest compression, and pressure that can cause damage.
A loose, frank hangout that treats non-monogamy as logistics, feelings, and work.
Part 2 stays with scenes rather than penetration, and the real pull is how play and partnership start to blur. Kayla and MJ sound most natural when a blunt question turns into plain talk about ethical non-monogamy, jealousy, time, and the grind of finding a relationship shape…
A blunt, messy conversation about the crash that can follow a scene.
Backdoor Boink takes a holiday check-in and a top-versus-bottom conversation and turns them into a blunt look at what can linger after a scene ends: adrenaline dropping, pain hanging around, humiliation echoing, and the brain starting to ask ugly questions.
A blunt, funny look at anger as a loop that keeps feeding the next fight.
The segment treats anger less like a fixed trait and more like a loop. Kayla and MJ walk through a trigger, the response that follows, and how that response can become the next trigger.
A messy, funny leather-history chat that treats titles as tools for care.
Backdoor Boink turns a leather-community conversation into a story about care, access, and the odd power of titles. Peter and Pup Scout move through the New England Leather Organization, the competition title, and the way that title can open doors for advocacy, including work…
Candid sex talk with kink-literate warmth.
Kayla and MJ open with an 18-plus warning, then bring Peter and Pup Scout onto the couch for a leather-history ride.
Backdoor BOINK’s “Erotic Blueprints” episode breaks down five categories — energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter — and ties each one to specific arousal patterns.
Kayla and MJ discuss how to overcome intimacy dry spells in relationships, covering practical tips like scheduling sex, managing stress and medication side effects, and using techniques like the 'reset' for mismatched libidos.
Backdoor BOINK’s “Knotty Rope” centers on rope bondage, with Kayla identifying herself as a certified relationship and intimacy coach and MJ joining as the co-host who says, “I brought the lube.” The episode moves from Shibari aesthetics and Instagram-style suspension photos to the practical risks of rope, including trauma shears, nerve damage, and circulation loss.
Backdoor Boink spends this episode on the five love languages, starting with Kayla’s confession that she likes “physical touch” and MJ’s answer that acts of service make him feel loved.
Backdoor BOINK’s “Fisting” episode opens with Kayla, a certified relationship and intimacy coach, and MJ joking through a practical, explicit guide to the topic.
Backdoor BOINK interviews Riven about ProDom work, including why “tribute” can replace payment language and why ProDoms are often categorized as sex workers despite some having no sexual contact.
Kayla, a certified relationship and intimacy coach, and MJ examine unequal medical attention for penis partners and vulva owners through personal stories and research comparisons.
Backdoor BOINK interviews Teddy about his polyamorous relationship, which began with his wife using forms of ethical non-monogamy and swinging.
Backdoor BOINK's "Kink Acronym Soup" focuses on six BDSM and consent acronyms, starting with SSC, RAC, PRIC, FRIES, SICK, and a bonus four C's framework.
Backdoor Boink's episode "CNC!
Kayla and MJ open with an 18 plus warning, then settle into a playful back-and-forth about toy categories.
Backdoor Boink's “Put My Mouth Where?
Backdoor BOINK[A (Silly) Sexual Wellness Podcast] uses "Cha-Cha-Changes!" to talk through how relationships shift in household labor, communication, and intimacy.
Kayla and MJ talk through collars and the meanings people attach to them.
Kayla and MJ dig into period sex with the same blunt, off-the-rails energy that drives the show.
Backdoor Boink brings Brandy Beckett to the table for a story about gender discovery.
The conversation starts off silly.
Backdoor Boink spends this episode on insecurities.
Kayla and MJ spend the episode circling breath play from a few awkward angles.
Backdoor Boink turns to food, supplements, and sexual enhancement products.
Backdoor BOINK’s “Curious Kinks - Part 1” opens with Kayla, a certified relationship and intimacy coach, and MJ, who jokes that he “brought the lube,” framing the show as 18 plus and focused on weekly wellness topics.
Kayla and MJ discuss how to feel sexy by addressing body image issues, societal pressures, and self-confidence.
In this episode, Kayla and MJ continue their discussion on non-monogamous relationships, exploring terms like monogamish, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging.
Backdoor BOINK’s “Food for Thought, or...” centers on a real cake-sploshing test with a quarter sheet cake, trash bags taped to the floor, and pre-cut pieces for cleanup and safety.
Kayla and MJ use Lady Bird Vixen’s burlesque birthday show, cupcakes, and smeared frosting to define sploshing as wet-and-messy food play involving cakes, icing, Jell-O, oils, and chocolate sauce.
Kayla and MJ open with holiday haze, a cheeky New Year check-in, and banter that quickly shifts into kink talk.
Backdoor BOINK discusses squirting, the G-spot, and the P-spot, starting with the claim that squirting is not pee but fluid from the Skene's gland.
Kayla and MJ spend the episode on consent and the different ways bodies negotiate touch.