Vaginal fisting is described as “this sense of total filling” that can reach the G-spot and A-spot.
1. Backdoor BOINK’s “Fisting” episode centers on a sexual-wellness discussion about fisting and the anatomy around it.
2. Kayla, a certified relationship and intimacy coach, and MJ, who jokes about bringing the lube, host the conversation and steer the practical advice.
3. The episode asks what fisting is for, whether it can be pleasurable, and how to do it without causing harm.
4. The hosts begin with preparation basics: remove rings, keep fingernails trimmed and clean, wash hands, and use lots of lube.
5. They say fisting can involve two different orifices, but most of the discussion stays on the lower two and on vaginal and anal play.
6. Kayla brings up “porno pussy” as a misconception about permanent vaginal stretching and says it is debunked.
7. She contrasts that belief with the lack of equivalent shaming around erections, penis size, and repeated erections or “too many different holes.”
8. The hosts describe the vagina and anus as tissue with “amazing elasticity” and say the stretching is temporary when done carefully.
9. They also say that, when done right, fisting does not cause irreparable damage to the orifices in question.
10. The conversation uses a Google answer about the anus stretching up to seven inches and a raccoon fitting into four-inch holes as a comic reference point.
11. Kayla says vaginal fisting can feel like “this sense of total filling,” especially for people who like pressure around the G-spot and A-spot.
12. The episode explains vaginal tenting and says the cervix area can move upward by six or more inches when aroused.
13. The hosts outline two hand shapes: a full fist with the thumb tucked and a cone shape with the thumb tucked into the palm.
14. They recommend the cone shape for beginners because it gives a more gradual stretch and can feel more filling.
15. They also note that the anus may need a slight push from the bottom, because gentle pushing relaxes the anal muscles.
16. They compare the body’s response during vaginal insertion to pressure on the pubic bone, especially when relaxation and patience are missing.
17. The tone is chatty, joking, and instructional, with interruptions, wordplay, and repeated reminders to communicate clearly.
18. The format is a two-host back-and-forth with practical examples, personal experience, and occasional digressions into Google, massage, and bodily anatomy.
19. Listeners interested in sex education, kink basics, and anatomy-based advice would likely get the most from it.
20. Listeners who want clinical restraint or avoid explicit sex talk should skip it.
