Billy Lore, Kate Sloan
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Smart, blunt sex talk with ethics attached.
The Dildorks turns sex-culture questions into lively, practical conversation. Recent episodes move from metamour dynamics and kink-aware therapy to sex toy myths, unusual fetishes, advice etiquette, and the strange emotional math of desire.
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The Dildorks is a candid, brainy sexuality show where desire is treated as both deeply personal and socially complicated. It moves fast. Recent episodes range across metamour relationships, kink-aware therapy, vibrator myths, vintage sex-toy lore, online fetishes, large-body sensation, and the ethics of giving advice. The appeal is not just the subject matter, but the way the conversation keeps testing language against lived experience. A term like metamour becomes a doorway into privacy, self-experimentation, relationship stages, and the awkward beauty of people knowing each other too well. A discussion of therapy becomes a sharper look at what kink-literate care can notice about power, consent, and abuse that more generic frameworks may miss. Sex toys get handled with retail-seasoned impatience for bad myths, but also with real interest in pleasure, anatomy, and cultural hype. The show likes a weird question. It also likes the follow-up question that makes the weirdness useful. That gives the episodes a distinctive balance: irreverent without being careless, intimate without becoming sentimental, and educational without pretending every answer is universal. Advice is framed as optional perspective rather than commandment. Kinks are not reduced to punchlines, even when the jokes are quick. Polyamory is not sold as enlightenment; it is examined as a messy practice with privacy needs, jealousy-adjacent logistics, and different kinds of connection. The show’s best moments come when a joke, a personal aside, and a precise distinction all land in the same stretch of conversation. It is explicit in topic but usually generous in method. Listeners get a map of how people think, negotiate, fantasize, and revise themselves. For sexuality content, that combination of warmth, skepticism, and practical fluency is unusually useful.
Made for: For listeners who want open, informed conversation about kink, sex toys, polyamory, dating, and sexual culture without clinical distance or moral panic. It especially suits people who enjoy messy nuance, lived experience, and practical boundary talk.
What sets it apart: The show stands out by treating niche desires and everyday relationship problems as equally worthy of careful analysis. It pairs sex-educator fluency with the texture of friends thinking aloud, so jokes and digressions often become part of the insight.
Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.
Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026
The Dildorks pairs candid sex education with sharp cultural observation, making kink, compatibility, and pleasure easier to discuss without flattening their complexity.
The Dildorks makes sexual knowledge conversational without making it vague. Kate Sloan and Billy Lohr bring professional experience in journalism, education, and adult media to discussions of pleasure, dating, kink, and sexual myths.
This is where your kink questions get nuance, footnotes, and the occasional disembodied-head detour.
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Short reviews from the PlayNext desk, based on the episodes we processed.
Kink-aware therapy gets treated as a practical question about power, abuse, and client care.
Billy Lohr frames the episode around a sex educator, porn maker, and kinkster, while Calvin Hauer comes across as a sex-positive therapist in Minneapolis who works openly with sexuality and kink.
A rude, smart myth-busting hangout that makes sex toy lore worth a second look.
This episode offers a funny, nerdy take on sex toy myths and misconceptions, with the old hysteria-doctor story surfacing as a running example of how badly people can misunderstand pleasure, anatomy, and cultural hype.
A blunt, careful listen on whether kink and vanilla can actually share a bed.
This episode lives in the middle ground between kink and vanilla dating, and it lands best when Kate Sloan and Billy Lohr move past labels and into the practical questions underneath: what compatibility looks like, what it means to be willing rather than naturally inclined, and…
A candid, funny tour of niche desire that keeps asking what the kink is really doing.
Kate Sloan and Billy Lora spend the episode moving through Reddit's stranger corners of desire, starting with a post that grabs them right away and opening out into fetishes, taboo, and the odd ways people explain what turns them on.
A funny, sharp hangout about trans erotica, queer roles, and exact editing.
Kate Sloan and MB Bischoff spend the episode with Tuck Wood on the odd mix of craft and desire that comes with editing trans erotica. Sex Change in the City gives them a way into queer desire and the blunt precision sex writing asks for, and the best stretch is the one where a…
Candid sex talk with kink-literate warmth.
Intimate stories, plainly and kindly told.
This episode explores the dynamics and variety of metamour relationships in polyamory, featuring personal anecdotes and insights from sex educators.
Calvin Hauer, a sex-positive marriage and family therapist in Minneapolis, talks with host Billy Lohr about the practical and ethical challenges of being openly kinky while serving a kinky client community.
Kate Sloan and Billy Lora of The Dildorks deliver part two of their series on sex toy myths, opening with the Victorian hysteria vibrator myth — which sex toy historian Hallie Lieberman's book Buzz found to have no historical documentation, despite its propagation by the film Hysteria and Rachel Maines' book The Technology of Orgasm.
Two sex experts discuss common myths and misconceptions about sex toys, particularly focusing on vibrators and their effects.
Two sex educators discuss their personal interests and experiences with fisting and large penetration in a casual, humorous conversation about sexual exploration.
The hosts discuss exploring various fetishes from Reddit, analyzing their appeal and how to incorporate them into sex life.
Kate Sloan and Billy Lohr discuss navigating advice-giving in poly and kinky contexts, sharing personal experiences about managing expectations around sex on dates.
Sex nerds Billy and Kate discuss giving unsolicited advice about sex, dating, and masturbation, framing their advice as optional perspectives.
Two sex educators discuss their Valentine's Day experiences, including BDSM scenes and the emotional catharsis of kink.
Two sex nerds discuss the language and experience of spanking versus beating, sharing personal anecdotes about butt bruises and kink terminology.
Hosts Kate and Billy interview dating coach Dr.
Two sex educators discuss yearning, desire, and the complexities of sexual and romantic feelings.
Two sex-positive friends discuss their sexual fantasies, review past love and sex goals, and set new goals for the upcoming year.
The hosts discuss their holiday breaks and introduce their annual tradition of reflecting on their sex lives from the past year, including trends, changes, fantasies, and sex toys.
This episode continues a discussion on objectification kink, relating it to holiday consumerism and personal stress relief through sexual activities.
This episode explores the concept of objectification in sex and kink, discussing its definitions, feminist implications, and personal experiences.
Vanilla is not the joke here.
Reddit desire gets weird fast.
It gets cheerfully, almost dangerously specific.
Two sex educators discuss the concept of sexual selfishness in casual versus long-term contexts.
Two sex educators discuss the concept of sexual selfishness, exploring its positive and negative connotations through personal experiences.
Two sex educators discuss the nuances of having effective sex education conversations, focusing on meeting people where they are.
Hosts Kate and Billy discuss listener questions about kissing in honor of International Kissing Day, blending personal anecdotes with sex education.
The hosts discuss the exhausting process of moving and living together, sharing personal experiences about their recent transitions and settling into a shared home.
Two sex-positive friends discuss crushes and how they influence life decisions.
Billy and Kate discuss unrequited crushes and navigating friendships with benefits, sharing personal experiences and listener questions.
Two sex educators discuss the nuances of friends with benefits versus fuck buddies, sharing personal experiences and definitions.
Two sex nerds and best friends discuss sex, dating, and masturbation, starting with a Pride Month rant and a personal reflection on orgasms and periods.
Kate and guest host MB discuss the effects of estrogen hormone therapy on sex and body changes for trans feminine individuals.
The hosts discuss masturbation, answering listener questions about responsive desire and how to want to masturbate more.
Two sex educators discuss polyamory and moving in with a polycule, explaining kitchen table polyamory.
Kate and guest Addison Finch discuss leather culture and BDSM history, sparked by a lecture series.
This episode is a 420-themed discussion where the hosts get high and explore listener-submitted hypothetical questions about sex, dating, and masturbation.
Two sex-positive friends discuss planning dates and public sex locations as spring arrives in Toronto.
Two sex nerds discuss the eggplant emoji's use in sexting and its cultural implications.