Is My Child A Monster? A Parenting Therapy Podcast

Leslie Cohen-Rubury

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Is My Child A Monster? A brand new parenting therapy podcast. You get to be a fly on the wall in Leslie Cohen-Rubury’s office and listen in as she sits with parents who share their stories in therapy sessions recorded live.

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Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Recorded coaching sessions reveal the family patterns beneath everyday conflict and turn them into specific, usable parenting choices.

A child's blowup is rarely allowed to remain a simple behavior problem here. Leslie Cohen-Rubery listens to parents in recorded coaching sessions, then slows the situation down until the feelings, assumptions, and family patterns beneath it become visible.

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How To Talk To Your Kid About Phones With Special Guest Max StosselAug 12, 2025

A steady, useful conversation about phones, modeling, and the strain of constant reachability.

This episode lands in the hard middle of parenting in a phone-saturated world: how do you talk to a kid about screens when they are shaping self-worth and development at the same time?

Kevin & Scott Part 3 of 3: When Everyday Tasks Feel ChallengingAug 5, 2025

A calm coaching session about everyday conflict in family life.

Kevin and Scott's final session with Leslie Cohen-Rubary keeps its focus on the everyday friction that can build when two neurodivergent boys, three-year-old Gavin and four-year-old Arthur, are not on the same page as their parents.

Kevin & Scott Part 1 of 3: When Parenting Feels Like A Sea of ChaosJul 22, 2025

A grounded coaching session on grief, playful connection, and reward systems that stop working.

Parenting two neurodivergent boys is treated here as a conversation about grief as much as behavior. Kevin and Scott describe life with seven-year-old Gavin and four-year-old Arthur, both diagnosed with ADHD, with Arthur also recently diagnosed with autism.

Krystal & Burt Part 3 of 3: When One Parent Worries and The Other Parent Doesn’tJul 8, 2025

A grounded conversation about ADHD, mixed parental reactions, and the value of clear explanation.

Leslie Cohen-Rubary frames the episode around a familiar tension: one parent keeps a more hopeful tone while the other sounds more worried. That contrast gives the discussion its shape, especially as Margo's new ADHD diagnosis prompts the family to adjust.

Krystal & Burt Part 1 of 3: When Kids Pick up on Marital TensionJun 24, 2025

When co-parent strain shows up in the kids, the conversation turns sharp, humane, and useful.

The episode starts with sibling rivalry, but it settles into something heavier: co-parent tension, parental overwhelm, and the way kids absorb what is going on around them.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Anna Part 1 of 2: When Sibling Rivalry Upsets The Parent More Than The Kids

    Hidden gem

    Anna, a stay-at-home mother of three, comes to Leslie Cohen-Rubary worn down by constant sibling conflict and the feeling that her children are always fighting for her attention.

    ·52m·3 clips
  2. 2

    Krystal & Burt Part 2 of 3: When Your Tween Gets Their First Phone

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rubary meets again with Crystal and Bert in a second session as they work through Matt's first phone.

    ·47m·3 clips
  3. 3

    Jean & Alex Part 1 of 3: When Your Kid Can't Handle Needles or Bandaids

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rubary works with Jean and Alex on six-year-old Ellie, whose sensitivities show up in hugs, hair touching her face, and removing a Band-Aid.

    ·41m·2 clips
  4. 4

    How to Resolve Conflicts with Special Guest Dale Rubury

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rewberry and her daughter Dale build a five-step conflict-resolution model for sibling rivalry on Is My Child a Monster?, with empathy named as the step that is most often skipped.

    ·30m·1 clip
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    Nicky & AJ Part 2 of 4: Stopping Generational Trauma

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rubery works with Nikki and AJ on how their 11-year-old daughter Lily reacts to school stress, shower resistance, and morning routines.

    ·47m·3 clips
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    Bonus Episode: Making Hard Conversations Easier with the DEAR MAN Skill

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rubery and producer Alita Cooper use a bonus episode of Is My Child a Monster?

    ·22m·1 clip
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    How To Manage Parental Overwhelm with Special Guest Dr. Kiki Felhling

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rubery talks with licensed psychologist Dr.

    ·37m·2 clips
  8. 8

    Karen Part 2 of 3: How To Establish Limits and Teach Coping Skills

    Hidden gem

    Karen comes back for a second coaching session with Leslie Cohen-Rubary.

    ·50m·2 clips
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    Nicky & AJ Part 3 of 4: When Shame Gets In The Way

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rubary uses Nikki and AJ’s email conflict to teach the DBT communication skill DEAR MAN, with AJ admitting he did not know how to respond to a trauma-resource email.

    ·47m·3 clips
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    Understanding Trauma, Shame and Chronic Invalidation with Special Guest Lorie Ritschel

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rubary and Dr.

    ·38m·2 clips
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    Karen Part 3 of 3: When You Feel Like Parenting Should Be Easier

    Hidden gem

    Karen returns for her final coaching session, and the conversation starts in a familiar place: shame, adequacy, and the sense that parenting should come more naturally.

    ·52m·3 clips
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    Nicky & AJ Part 1 of 4: When Your Child's Defiance is Confusing

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rubary sits with Nikki and AJ, parents of 11-year-old Lily.

    ·47m·3 clips
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    Bonus Episode: Understanding Shame

    ·15m
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    Jean & Alex Part 2 of 3: When Your Child Wants a Lot of Your Attention

    Hidden gem

    Jean and Alex return for a second session with Leslie Cohen-Rubary around a familiar parenting strain: one child wants constant closeness, while the parent is frustrated and needs a break.

    ·46m·3 clips
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    Jean & Alex Part 3 of 3: When You Want to Get Unstuck

    Hidden gem

    Jean and Alex return for the third and final session, and the focus is on getting unstuck.

    ·49m·3 clips
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    Sarah Part 3 of 3: When Parents and Kids Feel Shame

    Hidden gem

    Sarah's final session starts in shame.

    ·55m·3 clips
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    Kevin & Scott Part 2 of 3: When Homework is Frustrating for Everyone

    Hidden gem

    Kevin and Scott return with Gavin's homework struggle still front and center.

    ·44m·2 clips
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    How To Use Validation To Prioritize Family Relationships With Special Guest Dale Rubury

    Sep 9, 2025·42m·1 clip
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    Karen Part 1 of 3: Tailoring Technology Strategies To Fit Your Child’s Needs

    Karen comes in with a familiar problem: three children, three different reactions to technology limits.

    Aug 19, 2025·45m·2 clips
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    How To Talk To Your Kid About Phones With Special Guest Max Stossel

    Leslie Cohen-Rubery interviews Max Stossel, founder of Social Awakening and former social media strategist, about how smartphones and social media function like slot machines for kids' brains.

    Aug 12, 2025·50m·2 clips
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    Kevin & Scott Part 3 of 3: When Everyday Tasks Feel Challenging

    Hidden gem

    In this final coaching session with Kevin and Scott, parents of two neurodivergent boys (3-year-old Gavin and 4-year-old Arthur), therapist Leslie Cohen-Rubury teaches practical DBT-based mindfulness and communication skills for everyday parenting challenges.

    Aug 5, 2025·44m·2 clips
  22. 22

    Kevin & Scott Part 1 of 3: When Parenting Feels Like A Sea of Chaos

    Jul 22, 2025·40m·2 clips
  23. 23

    Krystal & Burt Part 3 of 3: When One Parent Worries and The Other Parent Doesn’t

    Leslie Cohen-Rubary wraps up her final session with Crystal and Bird.

    Jul 8, 2025·49m·4 clips
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    Bonus Episode: Managing Car Rides With Kids

    Jul 3, 2025·20m
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    Krystal & Burt Part 1 of 3: When Kids Pick up on Marital Tension

    Leslie Cohen-Rubery meets Crystal and Bert, parents of 12-year-old Matt and 8-year-old Margo, and opens with a familiar family complaint about sibling rivalry.

    Jun 24, 2025·54m·2 clips
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    Anna Part 2 of 2: When It Feels Like Your Kids Are Growing Up Too Fast And Other Fears

    Hidden gem

    In this live parenting coaching session, stay-at-home mom Anna returns to discuss sibling rivalry between her three children and her fears about approaching preteen years.

    Jun 11, 2025·44m·2 clips
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    Nicky & AJ Part 4 of 4: When Rewards and Punishments No Longer Work

    Hidden gem

    AJ opens by describing Lily leaving wrappers on the counter, then notices that he gets less tense when he asks her calmly to throw them away.

    May 20, 2025·39m·2 clips
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    Why Your Child's Play Is Essential Communication with Special Guest Jennifer Sims

    Hidden gem

    Jen Sims, a licensed professional counselor and registered play therapist with 16 years of experience, joins Leslie Cohen-Rubary on Is My Child A Monster?

    Apr 22, 2025·34m·2 clips
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    Bonus Episode: Understanding Problematic Thinking Patterns

    This bonus episode explores rigid thinking, also known as all or nothing or black and white thinking, and its impact on parenting and family dynamics, with host Leslie Cohen-Rubury discussing definitions and implications with producer Alita Cooper.

    Apr 3, 2025·17m·1 clip
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    When To Give In and When To Stand Firm with Special Guest Amy Kalasunas

    Hidden gem

    Leslie Cohen-Rubary talks with licensed clinical counselor and behaviorist Amy Kalasunas about when to accommodate a child and when to stand firm.

    Mar 25, 2025·39m·2 clips
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    Sarah Part 2 of 3: When Parents Struggle with Control

    Mar 11, 2025·42m
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    Bonus Episode: Understanding Why a Good Parent-Child Fit Matters

    Mar 6, 2025·17m
  33. 33

    Sarah Part 1 of 3: When your Teen is a Great Negotiator

    Mar 4, 2025·42m
  34. 34

    Help us Shape Season 3 of Is My Child A Monster? A Parenting Skills Podcast

    Jan 21, 2025·1m
  35. 35

    Giving and Receiving Feedback with Special Guest Dale Rubury

    Oct 8, 2024·47m
  36. 36

    The Power of Books with Guest Speaker Deborah Farmer Kris

    Oct 1, 2024·41m
  37. 37

    Mary and Antoine Part 3 of 3: When Parents Fight

    Sep 24, 2024·51m
  38. 38

    Mary Part 2 of 3: When Kids Have a Low Frustration Tolerance

    Sep 17, 2024·43m
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    Mary Part 1 of 3: When Your Kid Hates Change

    Sep 10, 2024·47m
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    Calm the Chaos: Parenting Neurodivergent Kids with Special Guest Dayna Abraham

    Sep 3, 2024·42m
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    Pedro & Claudia Part 3 of 3: When Nagging Your Kid Doesn't Work

    Aug 27, 2024·52m
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    Pedro & Claudia Part 2 of 3: When Panic Attacks Disrupt the Whole Family

    Aug 20, 2024·46m
  43. 43

    Pedro & Claudia: Part 1 of 3: Fear and Frustration when Parenting your Teen

    Aug 13, 2024·50m
  44. 44

    The Life of a Rule Follower with Guest Dale Rubury

    Aug 6, 2024·36m
  45. 45

    Hannah & Alex Part 3 of 3: The Balancing Act of Parenting

    Jul 30, 2024·48m
  46. 46

    Hannah & Alex Part 2 of 3: When Saying No to your Kid feels Impossible

    Jul 23, 2024·43m
  47. 47

    Hannah & Alex Part 1 of 3: When you Feel Unprepared to be a Parent

    Jul 16, 2024·44m
  48. 48

    Louise & George Part 3 of 3: When a Parent Feels like a Trainee

    Jul 9, 2024·47m
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    Louise & George Part 2 of 3: Parenting Your Child Without Punishments or Rewards

    Jul 2, 2024·41m
  50. 50

    Louise & George Part 1 of 3: When You and Your Kid "Flip Your Lid"

    Jun 25, 2024·40m
  51. 51

    Building Mastery with Special Guest Dale Rubury - Reprise

    Jun 18, 2024·42m
  52. 52

    Emma Part 3 out of 3: When your Kid Misbehaves

    Jun 11, 2024·42m
  53. 53

    Emma Part 2 of 3: When You Need A Perspective Shift

    Jun 4, 2024·44m
  54. 54

    Emma Part 1 of 3: When You Think Your Kid is Manipulating You

    May 28, 2024·42m
  55. 55

    Managing Anxiety for the Whole Family with Special Guest Lynn Lyons

    May 21, 2024·43m
  56. 56

    Leigh & Pierre Part 3 of 3: When Your Kid is Having a Meltdown

    May 14, 2024·34m
  57. 57

    Leigh & Pierre Part 2 of 3: When Your Kid Likes to be in Control

    May 7, 2024·41m
  58. 58

    Leigh & Pierre Part 1 of 3: When your Kid Doesn’t Want to Talk

    Apr 29, 2024·44m
  59. 59

    Special Guests Dale and Carrie Rubury: When your Sibling is the “Monster” Child

    Apr 23, 2024·47m
  60. 60

    Molly & Alastair Part 4 of 4: When Everyone in the Family has a little bit of Anxiety

    Apr 16, 2024·29m
  61. 61

    Molly & Alastair Part 3 of 4: When your Co-Parent Steps in to Help

    Apr 9, 2024·33m
  62. 62

    Molly & Alastair Part 2 of 4: When you’re in a Power Struggle with your Kids

    Apr 2, 2024·42m
  63. 63

    Molly & Alastair Part 1 of 4: When your Kids Need Different Kinds of Support

    Mar 26, 2024·47m
  64. 64

    Special Guest Jamilah Lemieux: Deciding to Take your Kid to Therapy

    Mar 19, 2024·25m
  65. 65

    Salimah Part 4 of 4: When Parenting Feels Relentless

    Mar 12, 2024·47m
  66. 66

    Salimah Part 3 of 4: When Your Happy Kid is Mean to You

    Mar 5, 2024·43m
  67. 67

    Salimah Part 2 of 4: When Your Teen Shrugs Their Shoulders

    Feb 27, 2024·41m
  68. 68

    Salimah Part 1 of 4: When Your Kid Destroys Their Room

    Feb 20, 2024·38m
  69. 69

    Special Guest Dr. Liz Angoff: Explaining a Diagnosis to Parents and Children

    Feb 13, 2024·37m
  70. 70

    Emilee & David Part 3 of 3: When Your Kid Metaphorically Throws Up On You

    Feb 6, 2024·42m
  71. 71

    Emilee & David Part 2 of 3: When You Have Different Parenting Styles and How to Do Less

    Jan 30, 2024·46m
  72. 72

    Emilee & David Part 1 of 3: When Your Kid Says "I Don’t know"

    Jan 23, 2024·47m
  73. 73

    Trailer for Season 2

    Jan 16, 2024·3m
  74. 74

    Focus On Understanding Your Kid’s Big Reactions With Guest Dale Rubury

    Nov 27, 2023·15m
  75. 75

    Managing Holiday Stress with Michael Ian Black and Martha Hagen-Black

    Nov 20, 2023·31m
  76. 76

    What It’s Like To Be A Guest On Is My Child A Monster?

    Oct 30, 2023·10m
  77. 77

    Revisit: Michelle & Emiliano: When Your Kid Is Afraid To Do New Things

    Oct 16, 2023·40m
  78. 78

    Focus On Raising A Responsible Child Versus Raising An Obedient Child With Guest Dale Rubury

    Oct 2, 2023·43m
  79. 79

    Alice Part 3 of 3: When Your Kids Complain

    Sep 25, 2023·49m
  80. 80

    Alice Part 2 of 3: When Your Life Is Full Of Shoulds

    Sep 18, 2023·48m
  81. 81

    Alice Part 1 of 3: When Your Kid Says "It's Unfair"

    Sep 11, 2023·50m
  82. 82

    Focus On Parenting A LGBTQ+ Child With Special Guest Lindz Amer

    Sep 4, 2023·42m
  83. 83

    May Part 1 of 1: When Parenting A Trans Child

    Aug 28, 2023·1h 4m
  84. 84

    Zach & Sarah Part 2 of 2: When Your Teen Doesn't Want To Grow Up

    Aug 21, 2023·48m
  85. 85

    Zach & Sarah Part 1 of 2: When Your Teen Is Withdrawn

    Aug 14, 2023·42m
  86. 86

    Mary: When Your Kid's Worries Disrupt Bedtime

    Aug 7, 2023·34m
  87. 87

    Skills Focus on Apologies with Guest Dale Rubury

    Jul 31, 2023·38m
  88. 88

    Kathryn Part 5 of 5: When Conflict Escalates

    Jul 24, 2023·33m
  89. 89

    Kathryn Part 4 of 5: When Your Teen Deserves An Apology

    Jul 17, 2023·39m
  90. 90

    Kathryn Part 3 of 5: When Your Teen Breaks The Rules

    Jul 10, 2023·36m
  91. 91

    Kathryn Part 2 of 5: When Your Teen Says "You Don't Understand Me"

    Jul 3, 2023·36m
  92. 92

    Kathryn Part 1 of 5: When Parenting YourTeen Feels Like a Rollercoaster

    Jun 26, 2023·37m
  93. 93

    Skills Focus: Building Mastery with Guest Dale Rubury

    Jun 19, 2023·41m
  94. 94

    Tim & Natasha Part 4 of 4: The Blame Game

    Jun 12, 2023·29m
  95. 95

    Tim & Natasha Part 3 of 4: When You Lose Your Cool

    Jun 5, 2023·39m
  96. 96

    Tim & Natasha Part 2 of 4: How Your Parents Affect Your Parenting

    May 29, 2023·39m
  97. 97

    Tim & Natasha Part 1 of 4: When Your Kid Drives You Crazy

    May 22, 2023·32m
  98. 98

    Michelle and Emiliano Part 3 of 3: When Your Kid Is Afraid To Do New Things

    May 15, 2023·39m
  99. 99

    Michelle & Emilliano Part 2 of 3: When Your Kid Can't Sleep

    May 8, 2023·39m
  100. 100

    Michelle & Emiliano Part 1 of 3: When Your Kid Struggles With Anxiety

    May 1, 2023·47m
  101. 101

    Meet The Host: How parenting made me the therapist I am

    Apr 24, 2023·14m
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    Trailer

    Apr 8, 2023·2m