The Divorcing Religion Podcast

Janice Selbie

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The Divorcing Religion Podcast was launched by professional counsellor Janice Selbie to highlight the impact of Religious Trauma Syndrome. Guests include The Thinking Atheist Seth Andrews, The Friendly Atheist Hemant Mehta, author Margaret Atwood, Godless Mom, Mandisa Thomas, Dr. Darrel Ray, Dr. Marlene Winell and more.

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Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Janice Selby's interviews connect faith loss to family, sexuality, identity, and the practical work of rebuilding self-trust.

Janice Selby gives people room to describe what happens after inherited certainty begins to break. Her interviews follow departures from Christianity through the parts that doctrine can obscure: strained family bonds, changing identities, sexual shame, controlling relationships,…

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Dr. Sarah Farrell - Shattering Into a Whole

A calm conversation about religious trauma, deconstruction, and the slow work of changing perspective.

Janice Selby speaks with Dr. Sarah Farrell, a clinical social worker, therapist, professor, and stand-up comedian, about religious trauma and deconstruction. The episode follows how college, an MSW mentor, therapy, PhD study, and comedy can widen a person's sense of the world.

Elyse Bouvier - Unfolding Faith Film

A measured look at faith loss, family strain, and recovery.

Elise Bouvier's discussion of Unfolding Faith centers on the personal cost of leaving Christianity and the way that decision can ripple through identity and family ties.

Timmy Joe Gibson - Former Tongue Talkin, Holy Rollin, Bible Thumper

A former pastor traces how leaving evangelical certainty changed his faith and his sense of self.

Timmy Gibson describes a long break with the evangelical certainty he spent 30 years teaching. He moves from Bible college and the pulpit to therapy, deconstruction, and a view of Christianity as a made-up story, and Janice Selby lets that arc unfold without crowding it.

Lacey Bond - From Bible Study to Sex Ed, Part 1

A clear-eyed conversation about purity culture, shame, and the work of untangling sex from fear.

Janice Selby and Lacey Bond keep the conversation close to the fallout from purity culture. Janice brings a counselor's steadiness, while Lacey's evangelical background and her work as a sex, relationship, and intimacy coach give the talk its edge.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    S&P Podcast: Detra Denise - Ashes and Embers: How Detra Denise Turned Pain into Power PART 2

    Host Janice Selby continues her conversation with Detra Denise, a former pastor's wife who rebuilt her life after leaving a toxic marriage.

    ·58m·5 clips
  2. 2

    Karrah Youngblood - Exposing A Predator: Wildfire

    ·53m
  3. 3

    Melody Post - House of Yahweh Cult

    ·1h 5m
  4. 4

    Tara Jean Stevens - Heaven Bent

    ·1h 1m
  5. 5

    Jennie Gage - Life, Take Two!

    ·1h 12m
  6. 6

    S&P Podcast: Kiki Negress - The Uppity Negress

    ·1h 29m
  7. 7

    Sex & Power: Chris Tompkins - The Truth About Shame: Chris Tompkins on Love, Liberation, and LGBTQ Resilience

    ·52m
  8. 8

    Lacey Bond - From Bible Study to Sex Ed, Part 2

    ·1h 4m
  9. 9

    S&P Podcast: Detra Denise - Ashes and Embers: How Detra Denise Turned Pain into Power PART 1

    ·1h 7m
  10. 10

    The Sex & Power Podcast: Truth-telling that liberates with Mike Steve Collins

    ·1h
  11. 11

    Pamela Jones - Escaping a Deadly Polygamous Cult

    ·1h 16m
  12. 12

    David Hayward - The Naked Pastor, Revealed

    ·51m
  13. 13

    Sex & Power: Clara Ritger - When Success is Killing You: Clara Ritger on Meditation, Mortality, and Meaning

    ·57m
  14. 14

    Dr. Pavna K. Sodhi (Part2) - Navigating Internalized Racism in 3rd-Generation Punjabi-Sikh Immigrants

    ·57m
  15. 15

    Sex & Power: Katherine Spearing - Healing After Spiritual Abuse

    ·57m
  16. 16

    Timmy Joe Gibson - Former Tongue Talkin, Holy Rollin, Bible Thumper

    Janice Selbie interviews Timmy Gibson, a former fundamental evangelical pastor who spent 30 years preaching before deconstructing his faith.

    ·59m·5 clips
  17. 17

    Lacey Bond - From Bible Study to Sex Ed, Part 1

    Janice Selbie interviews Lacey Bond, a certified sex and intimacy coach, about recovering from evangelical purity culture.

    ·56m·5 clips
  18. 18

    Dr. Sarah Farrell - Shattering Into a Whole

    Host Janice Selbie interviews Dr.

    ·58m·5 clips
  19. 19

    Melissa Duge Spiers - HOLY DISOBEDIENCE: GOOD GIRL GONE WILD

    ·1h 5m
  20. 20

    Elyse Bouvier - Unfolding Faith Film

    Host Janice Selbie interviews Canadian filmmaker Elise Bouvier about her documentary 'Unfolding Faith,' which explores her journey out of Pentecostal Christianity.

    ·57m·5 clips
  21. 21

    Pamela Nickel Williams - Scientology: When Lies Are True

    Aug 20, 2025·1h 12m
  22. 22

    Allie Monday - Erotic Photographer & Worshiper of Women

    Jul 23, 2025·57m
  23. 23

    Cynane Shay - Tinfoil Hats and Lizard People PART TWO

    Jul 16, 2025·1h 8m
  24. 24

    Cynane Shay - Tinfoil Hats & Lizard People PART ONE

    Jul 9, 2025·1h 3m
  25. 25

    Alyona Smoky - A Beautiful Liberation

    Jul 2, 2025·1h 3m
  26. 26

    Michelle Moffitt - From Abuse to Freedom

    Jun 25, 2025·53m
  27. 27

    Steve Ghikadis - Humanism from the Heart

    Jun 18, 2025·53m
  28. 28

    Forest Benedict, LMFT - Porn Is Not the Problem

    Jun 11, 2025·56m
  29. 29

    Pavna K. Sodhi, EdD - Exploring the Intersections of Punjabi-Sikh Cultural/Religious Identity - Part 1

    Jun 4, 2025·58m
  30. 30

    Unquestionable Calvin - From Religion to Conspiracies to Reality

    May 28, 2025·55m
  31. 31

    Kristin Cherry Jackson, LMFTA - Sex & Intimacy

    May 21, 2025·1h 9m
  32. 32

    Tessi Muskrat, M.A. - Free To Explore: Sexuality After Purity Culture

    May 19, 2025·55m
  33. 33

    Patti & Nancy, Apostate Sisters - Life After a Doomsday Cult

    May 14, 2025·1h 31m
  34. 34

    Quantas Ginn, MBA, MS, LMFT-S, CST - Sex Therapy for Purity Culture Survivors

    May 7, 2025·54m
  35. 35

    Dr. Kayden Vargas - From Conservative Christian to Nonbinary Psychologist

    Apr 30, 2025·1h
  36. 36

    Glenda Jordan - Powerful Polyamory

    Apr 23, 2025·1h 14m
  37. 37

    Jeremy de Tolly - Liberate Your Voice

    Apr 16, 2025·57m
  38. 38

    Lauren Elise Rogers - Sex Ed for You!

    Apr 9, 2025·56m
  39. 39

    Dr. Josie McSkimming - Gutsy Girls

    Apr 2, 2025·1h
  40. 40

    Hip-Hop Artist, Seven J - Betrayed by Christianity

    Mar 26, 2025·1h 9m
  41. 41

    Emily Hedrick - Resiliency in Tough Times

    Mar 19, 2025·55m
  42. 42

    Ann Russo, LCSW - Sexuality & Religious Trauma

    Mar 12, 2025·57m
  43. 43

    Janice Formichella - Estranged

    Mar 5, 2025·1h 8m
  44. 44

    Beth Granger - Leaving the Cult Was Only Half the Battle

    Feb 26, 2025·1h 4m
  45. 45

    Marla Taviano - From Missionary to Heretic

    Feb 19, 2025·53m
  46. 46

    Luis Cornejo - Born this way!

    Feb 12, 2025·55m
  47. 47

    Jamin Coller - Almost A Cult

    Feb 5, 2025·1h
  48. 48

    Strong Women in Secular Spaces: Annie Laurie Gaylor - Religion is Killing American Women

    Jan 29, 2025·48m
  49. 49

    Malkie Schwartz - From Fundy to Freedom Fighter

    Jan 22, 2025·47m
  50. 50

    Strong Women in Secular Spaces: Carol Merchasin - Suing Predatory Spiritual Leaders

    Jan 15, 2025·57m
  51. 51

    Strong Women in Secular Spaces: Mandisa Thomas - WTF, USA?!

    Jan 8, 2025·53m
  52. 52

    Lonnie Mann - Gaytheist

    Jan 1, 2025·59m
  53. 53

    Strong Women in Secular Spaces: Dr. Marlene Winell - Christianity Run Amok

    Dec 25, 2024·59m
  54. 54

    Strong Women in Secular Spaces: Yasmine Mohammed - Fighting Religious Tyranny

    Dec 15, 2024·53m
  55. 55

    Strong Women in Secular Spaces: Alice Greczyn

    Dec 11, 2024·55m
  56. 56

    Ashlen Hilliard, MSc - Cult Intervention Specialist

    Dec 4, 2024·1h 1m
  57. 57

    Jason Pollick - Confessions of a Former Priest

    Nov 27, 2024·1h 1m
  58. 58

    David Fitzgerald - Jesus Isn’t Real

    Nov 20, 2024·1h
  59. 59

    Eric Skwarczynski - Preacher Boys: Exposing the IFB

    Nov 13, 2024·57m
  60. 60

    Richard A. Kiers - Christian Cult Survivor

    Nov 6, 2024·56m
  61. 61

    Phil Zuckerman - Exploring Secularism

    Oct 30, 2024·56m
  62. 62

    Elayna Love - From Sex Toxic to Sex Positive

    Oct 23, 2024·51m
  63. 63

    Sacha Mardou - Healing after the JWs

    Oct 16, 2024·57m
  64. 64

    Betsy Nuismer - Relationships

    Oct 9, 2024·53m
  65. 65

    Lia Dugal - Calvary Chapel Survivor

    Oct 2, 2024·55m
  66. 66

    Mick Larson - WWJD on Election Day

    Sep 25, 2024·58m
  67. 67

    Andreya Jones - From MK to Sex Therapist

    Sep 18, 2024·55m
  68. 68

    Amie Myrick - Media & Self-care

    Sep 11, 2024·55m
  69. 69

    Trisha Wilkerson - Religion & Diet Culture

    Sep 4, 2024·56m
  70. 70

    Teddy Hose - Gun Worship in the Unification Church

    Aug 28, 2024·55m
  71. 71

    Michelle Fischler - Sex Educator

    Aug 21, 2024·1h 3m
  72. 72

    Korrenne Jensen - Intersection of ADHD and Religious Trauma

    Aug 14, 2024·53m
  73. 73

    Tia Levings - A Well-Trained Wife

    Aug 6, 2024·57m
  74. 74

    Britt Hartley - No Nonsense Spirituality

    Jul 31, 2024·1h
  75. 75

    Anke Richter - DECULT

    Jul 24, 2024·1h
  76. 76

    Wilbur Turner - Two-by-Two Survivor

    Jul 17, 2024·1h 3m
  77. 77

    Lyn Smith Gregory - Relative of Joseph Smith

    Jul 10, 2024·58m
  78. 78

    Karrine Blouin - ExJW Girl In Shambles

    Jul 3, 2024·47m
  79. 79

    Meg Applegate - Unsilenced

    Jun 26, 2024·51m
  80. 80

    Rebekah Monroe - Religious Trauma Research

    Jun 19, 2024·58m
  81. 81

    Lindsey Doolittle - Recovering from Religion & Suicide Loss

    Jun 12, 2024·55m
  82. 82

    Nikole Mitchell - From Pastor to Only Fans Model

    Jun 5, 2024·55m
  83. 83

    Linda Martin - Religious Exemptions are Killing Kids

    May 29, 2024·1h 1m
  84. 84

    Clint Heacock - Is Christianity Killing Democracy?

    May 22, 2024·55m
  85. 85

    Dr. Danielle Kramer - Taylor Swift and Deep Fake Porn

    May 8, 2024·54m
  86. 86

    Sandy Bigtree & Philip Arnold - The Religious Origins of White Supremacy

    May 1, 2024·57m
  87. 87

    Hannah Abbasi - From Christian to Muslim to Secular Humanist, Part 2

    Apr 24, 2024·1h 38m
  88. 88

    Hannah Abbasi - From Christian to Muslim to Secular Humanist, Part 1

    Apr 17, 2024·49m
  89. 89

    Melanie Trecek-King - Critical Thinking is Power

    Apr 10, 2024·58m
  90. 90

    Jeff Beaumont - Trafficked by Scientology

    Apr 3, 2024·56m
  91. 91

    Matthew Remski - Conspirituality

    Mar 27, 2024·1h 9m
  92. 92

    Seth Andrews - Our Lord & Saviour, Taylor Swift

    Mar 20, 2024·1h
  93. 93

    Dr. Darrel Ray - All About Sex

    Mar 13, 2024·1h 22m
  94. 94

    Erin Harrop - Eating Disorders & Christianity

    Mar 6, 2024·1h 20m
  95. 95

    Nick Khatiam - Leaving the Jehovah’s Witnesses

    Feb 28, 2024·1h 13m
  96. 96

    Sarah Westbrook - Trauma Bonded

    Feb 21, 2024·1h 7m
  97. 97

    Ian Bushfield - Humanism in Canada

    Feb 14, 2024·1h 2m
  98. 98

    Lisa Kohn - Addicted to The Messiah

    Feb 7, 2024·1h 1m
  99. 99

    Dawne Knoch Anthony - Mom of 9 who Divorced Religion

    Jan 31, 2024·58m
  100. 100

    The Margaret Atwood Episode

    Jan 24, 2024·52m
  101. 101

    Dorian Ortega - Dismantling Systems of Oppression

    Jan 17, 2024·59m
  102. 102

    Philip Moss - Athletes in Action Exposed

    Jan 10, 2024·1h 1m
  103. 103

    Jeremy Low - Intense Christianity led to Intense Depression

    Jan 3, 2024·1h 28m
  104. 104

    Naomi Norton - White Evangelical Power and Control

    Dec 27, 2023·58m
  105. 105

    Kelly Hofer - From Hutterite to Heathen

    Dec 20, 2023·1h
  106. 106

    Yehudis Keller - Sockless Rebel

    Dec 13, 2023·1h 1m
  107. 107

    DJ Williams, PhD - Murder as a Leisure Activity Divorced: Mormonism

    Dec 6, 2023·1h
  108. 108

    Sara Tasneem - Child Marriage Survivor

    Nov 29, 2023·55m
  109. 109

    The Cult Sisters - Life in the Last Days Ministries Christian Cult

    Nov 22, 2023·57m
  110. 110

    Seth Showalter - Conversion Therapy Survivor

    Nov 15, 2023·55m
  111. 111

    Brady Hardin - Sued by his Evangelical Mother

    Nov 8, 2023·1h 1m
  112. 112

    Tamara MC - Child Bride in the USA

    Nov 1, 2023·57m
  113. 113

    Carol Merchasin - Sexual Misconduct by Spiritual Community Leaders

    Oct 25, 2023·56m
  114. 114

    Susanna Guarino - Religious Trauma in Relationships

    Oct 18, 2023·54m
  115. 115

    Uthman Khan - Overcoming Islamic Indoctrination

    Oct 11, 2023·1h 12m
  116. 116

    Mike Phillips - I Like Mike

    Oct 4, 2023·56m
  117. 117

    Chris Johnson - The Atheist Book

    Sep 27, 2023·52m
  118. 118

    E.V. - From Moonie to Atheist

    Sep 20, 2023·58m
  119. 119

    Divorcing Religion is More Fun than Fundamentalism

    Sep 13, 2023·49m
  120. 120

    Ryan Hernandez - Escaping the Alliance of the Holy Family Cult

    Sep 8, 2023·1h 7m
  121. 121

    Scott Okamoto - Asian American Apostate

    Sep 8, 2023·1h
  122. 122

    Jessica Robin - Recovering from Islamic Oppression

    Aug 17, 2023·59m
  123. 123

    Brett Harper - Exposing the Troubled Teen Industry (TTI)

    Aug 10, 2023·1h 5m
  124. 124

    Dr. Gillie Jenkinson - Post-Cult Counselling

    Aug 2, 2023·55m
  125. 125

    Marie Lerch - Divorcing Religion While Married to a Pastor

    Jul 19, 2023·57m
  126. 126

    Jimmy Snow - Jimmy Snow Was Born in the Dirt

    Jul 5, 2023·56m
  127. 127

    Dr. Coco Owen - The Courage to Doubt

    Jun 16, 2023·56m
  128. 128

    Chris Shelton - Scientology Survivor

    Jun 7, 2023·1h
  129. 129

    Connie Baker - Christian Codependency

    Jun 2, 2023·53m
  130. 130

    Seth Andrews - Magical Thinking & Misinformation

    May 26, 2023·49m
  131. 131

    Mahrs Schoppman - The Colonization of our Bodies

    May 17, 2023·54m
  132. 132

    Jessica Barksdale - Family Secrets

    May 10, 2023·58m
  133. 133

    Isaiah Bell - From Cult Survivor to Composer

    May 10, 2023·1h 3m
  134. 134

    Jena Miyu - Rebuilding Identity Post-Religion

    Apr 26, 2023·58m
  135. 135

    Daniella Mestyanek Young - Sex Cult Survivor

    Apr 19, 2023·59m
  136. 136

    Dr. Ling Lam - Spiritual Refugee

    Apr 12, 2023·47m
  137. 137

    Erica Smith - Sex After Purity Culture

    Apr 5, 2023·45m
  138. 138

    Angel De Santis - Surviving God’s Twisted Love

    Mar 30, 2023·56m
  139. 139

    Tatyana Russell Chipp - Adoption, Religion, and LGBTQ+ Life

    Mar 24, 2023·1h
  140. 140

    Zorah Khan - My Leap to Freedom

    Mar 23, 2023·57m
  141. 141

    Mary Byler - AMISH MISFIT

    Mar 23, 2023·48m
  142. 142

    Marie LePage - PSYCHEDELICS: THE UNF*CKENING

    Mar 15, 2023·51m
  143. 143

    Willie Cartwright - Saved to Sane

    Mar 10, 2023·58m
  144. 144

    Dr. Josie McSkimming - Rebuilding Identity

    Mar 8, 2023·1h
  145. 145

    Christy Powell - Exploring Sexuality

    Mar 3, 2023·51m
  146. 146

    Marty Shoemaker - Sex, Psychology, & Humanism

    Mar 1, 2023·1h 11m
  147. 147

    Luna Corbden - Mormon Manipulation

    Feb 27, 2023·48m
  148. 148

    Ryan Stollar - The Bible: No Friend to Children

    Feb 22, 2023·48m
  149. 149

    Jerusha Lofland - Homeschool Hell

    Feb 17, 2023·1h 7m
  150. 150

    Emily Hedrick - Finding and Leaving Progressive Christianity

    Feb 17, 2023·1h 3m
  151. 151

    Mary Burkhart - Leaving The Black Church

    Feb 10, 2023·49m
  152. 152

    David Teachout - When Bible College Kills Faith

    Feb 9, 2023·58m
  153. 153

    Rick Pidcock - Courage to Question

    Feb 3, 2023·53m
  154. 154

    Jennifer French - Trapped in a Mystical Cult

    Feb 1, 2023·57m
  155. 155

    Pesach Eisen - From Orthodox to Advocate

    Jan 27, 2023·1h 3m
  156. 156

    Angela Soffe - Rising Star

    Jan 25, 2023·52m
  157. 157

    Elam Zook - Amish Nonconformist

    Jan 20, 2023·1h 3m
  158. 158

    Caleb Lack - Treating religious fear & anxiety

    Jan 18, 2023·52m
  159. 159

    Clint Heacock - From Missional Metalhead to Ex-Christian

    Jan 13, 2023·1h
  160. 160

    David Smalley - Mothers, Music, & Mental Health

    Jan 11, 2023·53m
  161. 161

    David Smalley - Mothers, Music, & Mental Health

    Jan 11, 2023·53m
  162. 162

    Matt Dillahunty - The Godfather of Atheism

    Jan 2, 2023·1h
  163. 163

    Jillian Aurora - Unapologetic Woman

    Dec 26, 2022·53m
  164. 164

    Beatrice Weber - From Powerless to Powerhouse

    Dec 19, 2022·1h 2m
  165. 165

    Hemant Mehta - The Friendliest Atheist

    Dec 13, 2022·46m
  166. 166

    Courtney Heard - QAnon Victims

    Dec 5, 2022·56m
  167. 167

    Erin Louis - Wife, Mother, Stripper

    Nov 28, 2022·56m
  168. 168

    Mandisa Thomas - Black Nonbeliever, Kick-ass Leader

    Nov 21, 2022·56m
  169. 169

    Dr. Bradley Onishi of SWAJ

    Nov 14, 2022·51m
  170. 170

    Marlene Winell - Coming Out

    Nov 7, 2022·49m
  171. 171

    Shirley Fessel - Domestic Violence, in Jesus' Name

    Oct 31, 2022·1h
  172. 172

    Alice Greczyn - The Mindf*cks of Faith

    Oct 13, 2022·1h 9m
  173. 173

    Darrel Ray - From Dogma to Dildos

    Oct 3, 2022·53m
  174. 174

    Seth Andrews - On Recovering his Humanity

    Sep 19, 2022·54m