The Powder Room

Ivy Ashley

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Midlife counsel with faith, candor, and grit.

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The Powder Room is a warm advice show led by Ivy Ashley, centered on women navigating midlife, dating, healing, and identity. Its episodes turn personal experience, spiritual encouragement, and practical reflection into direct guidance for life after divorce, loss, frustration, and bodily change.

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About The Powder Room

The Powder Room is a warm, candid show about women’s lives at the point where old roles stop fitting. Ivy Ashley speaks from a midlife vantage point, bringing urgency, humor, faith, and hard-won reflection to subjects that are often handled too politely. Dating is one of the show’s major lanes. It approaches dating after divorce, loss, and long frustration as a matter of discernment rather than desperation. First dates become audits. Texting, awkwardness, over-politeness, nervous habits, and the gap between words and behavior are treated as information, not entertainment. The show is especially interested in what women observe when they stop chasing validation. It asks whether a potential relationship offers alignment, emotional safety, and shared direction. That practical dating counsel sits beside a larger midlife conversation. Ivy frames midlife not as personal collapse but as a season of seeing clearly: seeing what was tolerated, what was sacrificed, and what no longer fits. Body changes are addressed plainly. Hot flashes, fatigue, night sweats, energy changes, and the silence around women’s health are discussed as normal transitions that deserve more education and less shame. The reproductive-health thread is personal and spiritual, especially in the material around the body, hope, and identity. Trauma brings a more serious register. The show looks at how pain can follow adults into conflict, relationships, self-protection, and the urge to prove worth. It repeatedly separates awareness from professional care, encouraging medical or mental-health support when trauma or mental-health challenges require it. The rhythm is conversational and sometimes breathless. Points are repeated, refined, and brought back to simple takeaways. The faith frame is central, with references to God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, blessing, and prophetic hope shaping the show’s language of recovery. Humor still has a place, especially when dating frustration becomes absurd enough to laugh at. The Powder Room works best for women who want frank midlife guidance without clinical distance. It treats mess, grief, aging, and romantic disappointment as material for discernment, not as proof that a woman is finished.

Made for: Women in midlife who are navigating dating, divorce, loss, body changes, trauma recovery, or renewed self-definition. It especially suits listeners comfortable with faith language and direct sister-to-sister guidance.

What sets it apart: The show blends practical dating audits, midlife body honesty, trauma reflection, and faith encouragement in a single advice format. Its strength is the way Ivy Ashley turns personal vulnerability into plainspoken frameworks for discernment and healing.

In their own words

The Powder Room is a safe space for women to have real, unfiltered conversations about the topics that matter most to us. From relationships and career shifts to wellness, aging, and everything in between, no subject is off-limits. Whether you’re looking for advice, a good laugh, or just the comfort of knowing you’re not alone, this is your place to connect, reflect, and grow. Welcome to The Powder Room, "Where we discover the message within our messes."© 2025 Ivy Ashley, The Powder Room Podcast. All rights reserved.

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Midlife dating gets an audit here, while your strong-woman veil is politely invited to come off.

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  • a first-date filter that separates genuine red flags from plain old nerves
  • faith-forward advice on choosing alignment over validation without pretending dating after 40 is effortless
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Dating, Not DesperationApr 28, 2026

A first-date check-in for women 40 plus that favors pattern-spotting over panic.

Ivy Ashley frames first-date dating for women 40 plus as a careful read rather than a rush to judgment, especially after divorce, loss, or long frustration.

These Dating Streets Are Ghetto!Apr 21, 2026

A blunt dating reset built around discernment, alignment, and realistic expectations.

The Powder Room presents dating less as a chase and more as a test of judgment, with Ivy Ashley steering listeners away from long wish lists, approval-seeking, and ego-driven choices.

Your Midlife is not a CrisisApr 15, 2026

Midlife is framed as clarity rather than collapse, with body changes and identity shifts pulled into one plainspoken message.

This episode treats midlife as a moment of clear-eyed accounting, not decline. It draws a direct line between body changes like hot flashes, night sweats, and shifting energy, and the deeper work of rethinking identity, noticing what was tolerated, and admitting what no longer…

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Love Lesson 1 - Know Your Worth

    Sep 30, 2026·32m
  2. 2

    The Strong Friend Check-in

    Sep 23, 2026·30m
  3. 3

    Positioning is not Pursuing

    Sep 16, 2026·32m
  4. 4

    Hidden in Plain Sight

    Hidden gem

    In season two, episode 55 of The Powder Room, Ivy Ashley uses Nathaniel Hawthorne’s “The Minister’s Black Veil” to examine how people become hidden in plain sight.

    Jun 24, 2026·44m·2 clips
  5. 5

    The Before & After, Part 2

    Jun 17, 2026·22m
  6. 6

    The Before & After, Part 1

    Jun 10, 2026·40m
  7. 7

    REWIND: Why Did I Get Married - The Watts

    Ivy Ashley revisits The Powder Room’s most-downloaded episode, “Why Did I Get Married,” with married couple Osby and Kaiya Watts, who had been together 29 years and married nearly 25 years.

    May 27, 2026·1h 18m·5 clips
  8. 8

    Caregiving: The Weight of Grief & Decisions

    Hidden gem

    Host Ivy Ashley and her sister Terry Slaughter continue their two-part Powder Room conversation on caregiving, focusing on the decisions Terry made for their mother after an ALS diagnosis in 2014.

    May 20, 2026·1h 20m·2 clips
  9. 9

    Caregiving & Aging Parents: When Love Becomes Responsibility

    May 13, 2026·1h 9m
  10. 10

    Just Checking In...

    May 5, 2026·42m
  11. 11

    Dating, Not Desperation

    Hidden gem

    The Powder Room turns to a first-date audit.

    Apr 28, 2026·28m·1 clip
  12. 12

    These Dating Streets Are Ghetto!

    The host opens with a laugh at the title.

    Apr 21, 2026·52m·4 clips
  13. 13

    Your Midlife is not a Crisis

    The host opens with a blunt claim.

    Apr 15, 2026·47m·3 clips
  14. 14

    Green Flags We Keep Ignoring

    Apr 8, 2026·48m
  15. 15

    When Trauma Speaks Part 2: Healing What Still Hurts

    Apr 1, 2026·37m
  16. 16

    REWIND: Dating Delusions

    Mar 25, 2026·43m
  17. 17

    When Trauma Speaks, Part 1 - Recognizing the Voice

    Mar 18, 2026·27m
  18. 18

    High Standards or High Walls, Part 2

    Mar 11, 2026·33m
  19. 19

    High Standards or High Walls?

    Mar 4, 2026·39m
  20. 20

    Faithful, Healed...& Still Single

    Feb 25, 2026·41m
  21. 21

    REWIND: The Pee in the Dating Pool, Part 2

    Feb 18, 2026·39m
  22. 22

    REWIND: The Pee in the Dating Pool, Part 1

    Feb 18, 2026·36m
  23. 23

    From Rules to Relationship

    Feb 11, 2026·33m
  24. 24

    Held Hostage By Religion

    Feb 4, 2026·39m
  25. 25

    Vision Beyond Sight, Part 2

    Jan 28, 2026·34m
  26. 26

    Vision Beyond Sight, Part 1

    Jan 21, 2026·38m
  27. 27

    The Holiday Rewind

    Dec 24, 2025·43m
  28. 28

    Finding the "Good" in Goodbye

    Dec 17, 2025·34m
  29. 29

    Pause & Reflect

    Dec 10, 2025·40m
  30. 30

    Love and Loss: Healing After Heartbreak

    Dec 3, 2025·1h 16m
  31. 31

    Living Life Thankful

    Nov 26, 2025·43m
  32. 32

    Intention Versus Perception

    Nov 19, 2025·35m
  33. 33

    When Faith & Fatigue Collide, Part 2

    Nov 12, 2025·49m
  34. 34

    When Faith & Fatigue Collide, Part 1

    Nov 5, 2025·45m
  35. 35

    Single & Content, Part 2

    Oct 29, 2025·37m
  36. 36

    Single & Content, Part 1

    Oct 22, 2025·36m
  37. 37

    Navigating Life's Transitions

    Oct 15, 2025·59m
  38. 38

    Series Recap "Why Did I Get Married?"

    Oct 1, 2025·40m
  39. 39

    Why Did I Get Married - The Sheards

    Sep 17, 2025·1h 8m
  40. 40

    Why Did I Get Married - The Smiths

    Sep 10, 2025·1h 17m
  41. 41

    Why Did I Get Married - The Watts

    Sep 3, 2025·1h 16m
  42. 42

    Your Balance Blueprint - Part 2

    Jul 2, 2025·1h 3m
  43. 43

    Your Balance Blueprint

    Jun 25, 2025·36m
  44. 44

    Moving Beyond Daddy Issues

    Jun 18, 2025·33m
  45. 45

    Confronting Daddy Issues

    Jun 11, 2025·36m
  46. 46

    Uncovering Daddy Issues

    Jun 4, 2025·37m
  47. 47

    I Am Not My Uterus, Part 2

    Host Ivy Ashley shares her personal journey of reproductive health struggles and recovery, emphasizing faith and resilience.

    May 28, 2025·43m
  48. 48

    I Am Not My Uterus, Part 1

    May 21, 2025·33m
  49. 49

    Motherless Daughters: A Mother's Day Tribute

    May 7, 2025·1h 5m
  50. 50

    Dating For Dummies: Love Lessons

    Apr 30, 2025·31m
  51. 51

    Dating For Dummies: Must Haves, Preferences, and Lists

    Apr 23, 2025·34m
  52. 52

    Dating For Dummies: Online Dating

    Apr 16, 2025·48m
  53. 53

    Red Flag Behavior

    Apr 9, 2025·43m
  54. 54

    The Dangers of Unforgiveness

    Apr 2, 2025·41m
  55. 55

    Whole, Not Broken - Transformative Self Awareness

    Mar 19, 2025·36m
  56. 56

    The Truth About Being Unequally Yoked, Part 2

    Mar 12, 2025·30m
  57. 57

    The Truth About Being Unequally Yoked

    Mar 5, 2025·33m
  58. 58

    The Pee in the Dating Pool - Part 2

    Feb 26, 2025·39m
  59. 59

    The Pee in the Dating Pool - Part 1

    Feb 18, 2025·36m
  60. 60

    The Powder Room Intro

    Feb 12, 2025·4m
  61. 61

    Dating Delusions

    Feb 12, 2025·43m