Single Mother Survival Guide

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Steady support for life after separation.

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Single Mother Survival Guide is a steady companion for the messy middle of separation and single motherhood. Led by Julia, it blends divorce-coaching language with lived experience, focusing on nervous-system regulation, confidence, grief, boundaries, and the daily logistics of parenting after a split.

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About Single Mother Survival Guide

Single Mother Survival Guide centers on the emotional, practical, and identity-level upheaval of separation, divorce, and single motherhood. Julia speaks from the position of a host who also identifies as a certified divorce coach and certified transition and recovery coach. The episodes in this window are less about legal strategy than about what happens inside a person while life is being rearranged. That gives the show its usefulness. It names the feelings many people try to outrun. Closure may not come from an ex. A first weekend without the children can feel exposing. Co-parenting messages can trigger old patterns long after the relationship itself has ended. The show treats those reactions as signals to understand, not evidence of personal failure. Nervous-system language appears often, alongside simple tactics such as pausing before responding, creating structure, taking a walk, or writing a draft that is not sent yet. The register is intimate and encouraging, but it does not pretend the transition is easy. Julia talks about shame, exhaustion, grief, lost certainty, and the strange pressure to look capable while carrying too much. Short advice passages sit beside personal reflections and reminders that rebuilding can take time. There is also a recurring community layer, with references to a support forum, coaching resources, and Thrive Tribe. The show is especially clear when it separates what can be controlled from what cannot. It often brings the focus back to boundaries, self-regulation, and choosing the next steady action. The language is accessible, not academic. The pace feels like a pep talk that has learned to sit with discomfort. It can be tender. It can also be blunt about the cost of waiting for another person to provide peace. Across the episodes, Single Mother Survival Guide offers a grounded emotional map for mothers moving through the shock, strain, and eventual redesign of life after separation.

Made for: Suits a listener who is considering separation, moving through divorce, co-parenting with an ex, or rebuilding confidence after a major family change. It is best for someone who wants emotional validation paired with concrete next steps.

What sets it apart: The show stands out by pairing single-mother lived experience with divorce and transition coaching language. Its strongest lane is the inner work of separation: regulation, shame, grief, boundaries, and self-trust.

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Becoming a single mum is one of the most daunting and overwhelming life changes someone will ever go through. Whether you are pregnant or have teenagers, you will most likely be confused and struggling with what to do next. I became a single mum in 2013 when my daughter was just a few months old, and it has been a challenging but rewarding journey ever since. This Podcast (and the website www.singlemothersurvivalguide) was created to assist newly single mothers in all things they may need to know about.SO WHAT IS THE SINGLE MOTHER SURVIVAL GUIDE PODCAST ABOUT?A Podcast for single mums, made by a single mum… The Single Mother Survival Guide Podcast includes a mixture of me babbling about sing…

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500 - What 500 episodes have taught me about embracing single motherhoodMar 31, 2026

A 500-episode milestone reframes single motherhood's shame as a case for peace, rebuilding, and hope.

Episode 500 turns inward, using single motherhood as a lens on fear, shame, and the slow work of rebuilding. The host draws on her experience becoming a single mom in 2013 and finding steadier ground with her daughter, making the case that choosing peace, leaving toxicity or…

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    446 - Avoiding burnout as a single mum and how to reclaim your energy

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    501 - The first weekend without your kids

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    500 - What 500 episodes have taught me about embracing single motherhood

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    499 - Why co-parenting triggers you more than your marriage did

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    498 - You're not broken, you're in transition

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    497 - The invisible shock of separation (even if you chose it)

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    496 - Why you don't actually need to 'be strong' right now

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    495 - Divorce transition and how to get through it

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    492 - The emotional rollercoaster of sending your child to school or high school

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    491 - The Confidence Rebuild

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    490 - Designing your best year yet (even as a busy single mum)

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    489 - How to Dream Again After Divorce or Loss & Creating a Vision for the Life You Deserve

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    488 - What I Want for You in the New Year

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    486 - Your Pep Talk for Christmas Morning

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    485 - Helping your kids thrive through a two-household Christmas

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    484 - When Christmas Doesn't Feel Merry - Grief, Loss & Letting Go

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    482 - Giving back during the holidays

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    481 - Letting go of resentment and reclaiming joy

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    479 - The Emotional Check In... How Are You Really Doing

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    478 - The impact of social media on kids

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    477 - How acceptance can set you free

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    476 - Lindsey's Story

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    475 - Boundaries with Family Members

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    474 - Chrissy's Story

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    473 - 5 things I'd do differently if I was a single mum at the beginning again

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    472 - Annie's Story (Part 2)

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    471 - Annie's Story (Part 1)

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    470 - Navigating Father's Day as a Single Mum

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    451 - Finding joy in single mum life chaos

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    468 - Disneyland dads and the fun parent trap - Why stability trumps spectacle

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    467 - Seeking professional help when dealing with a high-conflict ex

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    466 - The myth of the perfect single mum

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    465 - Why blaming your ex is holding you back

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    464 - Parallel parenting 101

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    463 - Beating the mid-year slump: Strategies for staying energised and focused

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    462 - The top 5 things co-parents argue about and how to manage them

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    461 - Mid-year reset - How to refocus and recharge your goals as a single mum

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    460 - How to support your kids while healing yourself

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    459 - Understanding stress - What it is and how it affects your mind and body

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    458 - 12 practical self-care tips for divorcing mums

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    457 - Navigating and channeling anger after divorce

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    456 - What your divorce coach won't tell you: Five hard truths you need to know

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    455 - How our self-talk affects us as single mums and our children

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    454 - 8 ways to manage the mental load as a single mum

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    453 - Redefining Mother's Day - Celebrating yourself as a single mum

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    452 - Five factors you need to consider in your parenting plan

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    445 - Reframing forgiveness as acceptance as a path to healing

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    444 - Rediscovering yourself again

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    443 - Helping your child navigate difficult relationships

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    442 - Healthy tech practices in your family

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    441 - 10 quick ways for busy single mums to relax and recharge in less than 15 minutes

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    440 - Meeting your ex-partner's new wife: Do you really need to like her?

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    439 - Steps to achieve financial stability - for single mums

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    438 - 5 ways you undervalue yourself in relationships as a single mum and how to overcome them

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    428 - The Importance of setting and maintaining boundaries to protect personal well-being

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    425 - Balancing romance and parenting

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    424 - Embracing empowerment and defying stereotypes as a single mum

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    408 - The scarcity mindset - and how to overcome it!

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    407 - Helping our kids thrive through separation or divorce, with Hannah Strong

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    404 - Six areas where single mums can go wrong

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    403 - High conflict personalities in separation or divorce

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    402 - What is a high-conflict divorce

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    480 - Why the 'Nuclear Family' Ideal is Hurting Single Mums and Our Kids - and how to fix it!

    Julia discusses how the nuclear family ideal harms single mothers and children, and offers solutions for building supportive communities.

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    493 - Dating again as a mum - What's different (and how to stay true to you)

    Julia Husher discusses the unique challenges and opportunities of dating again as a single mother, emphasizing how to stay true to yourself while navigating the dating world.

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    502 - Stop waiting for closure from your ex

    A divorce coach discusses why you should stop waiting for closure from your ex and offers support for mothers navigating separation or divorce.

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    501 - The first weekend without your kids

    A divorce coach discusses the emotional and practical challenges of the first weekend without kids after separation.

    Apr 7, 2026·13m
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    500 - What 500 episodes have taught me about embracing single motherhood

    Episode 500 of Single Mother Survival Guide has Julia Bass, a certified divorce coach and certified transition and recovery coach, reflecting on 500 episodes and nearly 10 years of weekly publishing.

    Mar 31, 2026·26m·1 clip
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    499 - Why co-parenting triggers you more than your marriage did

    This episode explores why co-parenting can trigger more intense emotional reactions than the marriage itself, offering insights for divorced parents.

    Mar 24, 2026·14m
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    498 - You're not broken, you're in transition

    A divorce coach addresses moms feeling broken during divorce transition, reassuring them that their emotional struggles are normal parts of the process.

    Mar 17, 2026·13m
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    497 - The invisible shock of separation (even if you chose it)

    Mar 10, 2026·10m
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    496 - Why you don't actually need to 'be strong' right now

    Julia defines real strength as cancelling plans, crying, asking for help, and admitting, "I don't know what I'm doing."

    Mar 3, 2026·15m·1 clip
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    495 - Divorce transition and how to get through it

    Hidden gem

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    Feb 24, 2026·31m·2 clips
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    494 - Healthy habits for women in their 40s

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    Feb 17, 2026·29m·2 clips
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    493 - Dating again as a mum - What's different (and how to stay true to you)

    Julia Husher tells single mothers, "Do not settle for crumbs when you deserve the whole meal."

    Feb 10, 2026·29m·2 clips
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    492 - The emotional rollercoaster of sending your child to school or high school

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    Feb 3, 2026·24m·2 clips
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    491 - The Confidence Rebuild

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    Jan 27, 2026·33m·2 clips
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    490 - Designing your best year yet (even as a busy single mum)

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    Jan 20, 2026·37m·2 clips
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    489 - How to Dream Again After Divorce or Loss & Creating a Vision for the Life You Deserve

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    488 - What I Want for You in the New Year

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    487 - What this year taught me

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    486 - Your Pep Talk for Christmas Morning

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    484 - When Christmas Doesn't Feel Merry - Grief, Loss & Letting Go

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    483 - Navigating family gatherings during the holidays

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    482 - Giving back during the holidays

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    481 - Letting go of resentment and reclaiming joy

    Nov 18, 2025·25m
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    480 - Why the 'Nuclear Family' Ideal is Hurting Single Mums and Our Kids - and how to fix it!

    Julia discusses how the nuclear family ideal harms single mothers and children, and offers solutions.

    Nov 11, 2025·25m
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    479 - The Emotional Check In... How Are You Really Doing

    Nov 4, 2025·34m
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    478 - The impact of social media on kids

    Oct 28, 2025·34m
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    477 - How acceptance can set you free

    Oct 21, 2025·15m
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    476 - Lindsey's Story

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    475 - Boundaries with Family Members

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    474 - Chrissy's Story

    Sep 30, 2025·1h 3m
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    473 - 5 things I'd do differently if I was a single mum at the beginning again

    Sep 23, 2025·13m
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    472 - Annie's Story (Part 2)

    Sep 16, 2025·1h 1m
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    471 - Annie's Story (Part 1)

    Sep 9, 2025·49m
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    470 - Navigating Father's Day as a Single Mum

    Sep 2, 2025·12m
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    469 - SMSG Turns 9!

    Aug 26, 2025·38m
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    468 - Disneyland dads and the fun parent trap - Why stability trumps spectacle

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    467 - Seeking professional help when dealing with a high-conflict ex

    Aug 12, 2025·20m
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    466 - The myth of the perfect single mum

    Aug 5, 2025·18m
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    465 - Why blaming your ex is holding you back

    Jul 29, 2025·16m
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    464 - Parallel parenting 101

    Jul 22, 2025·16m
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    463 - Beating the mid-year slump: Strategies for staying energised and focused

    Jul 15, 2025·23m
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    462 - The top 5 things co-parents argue about and how to manage them

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    Jul 8, 2025·21m
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    461 - Mid-year reset - How to refocus and recharge your goals as a single mum

    Jul 1, 2025·19m
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    460 - How to support your kids while healing yourself

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    Jun 24, 2025·21m
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    459 - Understanding stress - What it is and how it affects your mind and body

    Jun 17, 2025·20m
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    458 - 12 practical self-care tips for divorcing mums

    Jun 10, 2025·19m
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    457 - Navigating and channeling anger after divorce

    Jun 3, 2025·29m
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    456 - What your divorce coach won't tell you: Five hard truths you need to know

    May 27, 2025·21m
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    455 - How our self-talk affects us as single mums and our children

    May 20, 2025·22m
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    454 - 8 ways to manage the mental load as a single mum

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    453 - Redefining Mother's Day - Celebrating yourself as a single mum

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