Parenting Through The Hard

Parenting Through the Hard

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Faithful steadiness for the long middle.

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Angie speaks to parents of teens and adult children facing strained relationships, dangerous behavior, addiction, and long stretches of uncertainty. The tone is intimate and reflective, holding grief beside gratitude without forcing either one to disappear.

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About Parenting Through The Hard

Parenting Through The Hard is a reflective show about loving teens and adult children when their lives are unsettled and the parent cannot simply repair what hurts. Angie hosts in a solo, confessional style. Her episodes move through strained relationships, addiction, dangerous behavior, emotional distance, and the exhausting work of staying present without becoming consumed. The pace is slow enough to notice what crisis does inside a parent. She often names the feeling first. Resentment becomes a clue to self-abandonment, not proof of failed love. Over-functioning becomes a pattern learned from fear, not just a habit to stop. Withdrawal becomes a way the nervous system tries to protect itself when closeness feels unsafe. That emotional honesty gives the show its shape. Angie does not turn family pain into a checklist, and she rarely treats hard seasons as problems that can be solved by a better phrase or firmer boundary. Instead, she circles the tension between compassion and control, hope and fatigue, gratitude and grief. Faith is central. Some episodes lean directly into scripture, prayer, spiritual struggle, and the idea that fear can isolate both parent and child. Others stay closer to the body-level experience of waiting, bracing, and finally feeling emotions that had been postponed. The show is especially strong when it talks about the long middle, where nothing looks resolved but something is being formed. It gives language to parents who are tired of editing themselves so their pain sounds more acceptable. It also resists making the child the entire story. The parent’s healing, limits, faith, and steadiness matter too. Parenting Through The Hard is tender, serious, and grounded in lived experience, with a clear Christian frame and a careful respect for unresolved family pain.

Made for: Parents of teens and adult children facing strained relationships, addiction, dangerous behavior, emotional distance, or prolonged uncertainty. It especially fits Christian parents who want reflective language for grief, boundaries, hope, and control.

What sets it apart: The show treats parenting crisis as an interior and spiritual experience, not only a behavior-management problem. Angie’s solo reflections linger on the parent’s nervous system, faith, resentment, waiting, and need to stay connected without disappearing.

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Parenting Through the Hard is a podcast for parents walking through the toughest seasons with their teens or adult children. Whether you’re facing crisis, unexpected choices, or the heavy weight of uncertainty, this space is for you. I’m Angie, a mom who has lived through the worry, heartbreak, and messy middle of raising older kids. I’m not an expert, but I share what I’ve learned in hopes that you’ll feel less alone in your journey. Each episode offers honest, grace-filled conversations about loving your child without losing yourself, holding compassion and boundaries together, and keeping faith stea...

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Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026

It gives parents of teens and adult children a grounded vocabulary for holding love, limits, fear, and personal responsibility at once.

Angie starts where advice has run out. Parenting Through The Hard follows the parent's emotional life while a teen or adult child faces addiction, strained relationships, or prolonged uncertainty.

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Why you'd press play

Angie's shoreline metaphor gives your parental panic somewhere steadier to stand.

Press play if you want

  • language for loving a struggling grown child without volunteering as collateral damage
  • a calmer alternative to five anxious suggestions when one steady question will do
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parenting teens and adult childrenstrained parent-child relationshipsaddiction and substance useover-functioning and controlself-abandonment and resentmentfaith, scripture, and prayerwaiting through uncertaintycompassion with boundaries

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When Loving Well Starts to Cost YouApr 8, 2026

A tender reflection on resentment, self-abandonment, and the cost of disappearing inside caregiving.

Parenting through hard, unresolved seasons can make love feel less like devotion and more like a quiet requirement to disappear. Angie, host of Parenting Through the Hard, traces resentment through pressure, fatigue, isolation, and self-editing, then names the deeper pattern as…

Parenting Through Strained Relationships With Your Teen or Adult ChildApr 1, 2026

A clear, steady look at how old family wiring keeps showing up in present-day conflict.

Angie traces the strain of parenting teens and adult children when closeness feels uncertain, and she keeps the focus on how old family patterns still shape the present.

The Long Middle: Parenting a Child Struggling with AddictionFeb 25, 2026

Relief and grief can arrive together, and Angie keeps that truth intact without forcing it into a tidy lesson.

Parenting a child through addiction is a subject that can make language feel thin, and Angie does not rush past that strain. She lingers on how the word itself can weigh on people, then reaches the harder truth: when the pressure finally loosens, relief does not come cleanly.

Hope, Disappointment, and Learning to Stay: Parenting Through Addiction’s In-BetweenFeb 11, 2026

A steady reflection on hope, disappointment, waiting, and trying again.

Parenting Through the Hard treats parenting through a substance struggle as a cycle of hope, disappointment, waiting, and trying again. Angie keeps the tone measured and reflective, showing how hope can ease the strain and sharpen it at the same time.

Loving Through Addiction and Uncertainty: Letting it Be Without Giving UpJan 28, 2026

A raw, faith-shaped look at loving without losing yourself.

Angie treats this as a hard, unfinished meditation on parenting under strain rather than a lesson to be handed down. Its clearest idea is that love can still have edges: peace does not require self-abandonment, care is not control, and frustration, fear, and anger do not need to…

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Bonus Episode: When Their Pain Feels Like My Problem to Solve

    Oct 13, 2026·27m
  2. 2

    The Pressure to Do Something (and Learning Not To)

    Oct 6, 2026·19m
  3. 3

    The Lie I Believed About Peace and Parenting

    Sep 22, 2026·21m
  4. 4

    When Love Grows Up: Staying Connected While Letting Go

    Host Angie and guest Esther Getz, a motherhood coach and mom of four grown kids, unpack the difference between being responsible "to" versus "for" children, a distinction Esther first took from Henry Cloud's book "Boundaries." Esther says the urge to fix, such as calling AAA at 1 a.m.

    Sep 8, 2026·1h·2 clips
  5. 5

    When Loving Well Starts to Cost You

    Hidden gem

    In Parenting Through The Hard, Angie examines why a hoped-for change in a family crisis can still bring fatigue, resentment, and pressure to perform perfectly.

    Apr 8, 2026·24m·1 clip
  6. 6

    Parenting Through Strained Relationships With Your Teen or Adult Child

    Hidden gem

    Angie opens by thanking Anthony for sponsoring today's episode.

    Apr 1, 2026·23m·1 clip
  7. 7

    I Wonder If They’ll Ever Understand

    Hidden gem

    In "I Wonder If They’ll Ever Understand," Angie examines why parents of teens and adult children may still long for acknowledgment after years of boundaries, late-night calls, counseling appointments, and financial support.

    Mar 25, 2026·26m·1 clip
  8. 8

    When Your Child’s Change Changes You: Healing Over-Functioning in Parenthood

    This episode explores how parents can heal from over-functioning behaviors when their children face challenges like substance abuse, offering honest conversations rooted in hope and love.

    Mar 18, 2026·24m
  9. 9

    When Your Child’s Chaos Becomes Yours: How to Stay Steady

    Hidden gem

    Angie uses the image of an ocean and shoreline to explain why parents of teens and adult children cannot control a child's setbacks, moods, or crises.

    Mar 11, 2026·27m·1 clip
  10. 10

    Hope in the Hard: The Waiting That Shapes Us

    Mar 4, 2026·16m
  11. 11

    The Long Middle: Parenting a Child Struggling with Addiction

    Hidden gem

    Angie opens by naming how hard it can be to talk about addiction when it is tied to your child or family.

    Feb 25, 2026·27m·1 clip
  12. 12

    Hope in the Hard: Turning Toward the Light

    Feb 18, 2026·16m
  13. 13

    Hope, Disappointment, and Learning to Stay: Parenting Through Addiction’s In-Between

    Hidden gem

    Angie opens the episode by naming the hard middle parents can end up living in when substance use is part of the family story.

    Feb 11, 2026·22m·1 clip
  14. 14

    Hope in the Hard: The Practice of Letting it Be (Unresolved)

    Feb 4, 2026·10m
  15. 15

    Loving Through Addiction and Uncertainty: Letting it Be Without Giving Up

    Hidden gem

    Angie opens with a quiet thank-you, a disclaimer, and a reminder that this is not professional advice.

    Jan 28, 2026·34m·2 clips
  16. 16

    Hope in the Hard: Would Understanding Change Everything?

    Jan 14, 2026·17m
  17. 17

    WHY IS THIS STILL SO HARD? For the parent who thought they’d be past this by now.

    Jan 7, 2026·22m
  18. 18

    Hope in the Hard: Making All Things New

    Dec 28, 2025·21m
  19. 19

    Hope in the Hard: When Hope Comes Quietly

    Dec 22, 2025·14m
  20. 20

    Holidays in the Hard: A Story of Hope for the Fractured Family

    Dec 15, 2025·24m
  21. 21

    Is It Okay to Grieve the Life I Imagined for My Child?

    Dec 10, 2025·22m
  22. 22

    Hope in the Hard: When Loving My Child Feels Heavy

    Dec 3, 2025·7m
  23. 23

    The Compulsion to Fix My Child—and What It’s Costing Me

    Nov 26, 2025·38m
  24. 24

    Hope in the Hard: Permission to Rest

    Nov 19, 2025·7m
  25. 25

    Parenting Through the Doubt: Is My Best Enough?

    Nov 12, 2025·29m
  26. 26

    Hope in the Hard: Finding Beauty in the Ordinary

    Nov 5, 2025·8m
  27. 27

    Soft Serve Parenting: Can Control & Love Coexist?

    Oct 29, 2025·25m
  28. 28

    Hope in the Hard: When You Don’t Know What to Pray

    Oct 22, 2025·7m
  29. 29

    When the Storm is Loud: Reconnecting with Love

    Oct 15, 2025·16m
  30. 30

    The Chapter I Didn’t Choose, but Couldn’t Ignore

    Oct 1, 2025·13m
  31. 31

    Searching for Hope After Losing My Mom: Taking Time to Grieve

    Mar 12, 2024·11m
  32. 32

    Am I on the Right Parenting Path with my Teen?

    This episode invites parents of teens in crisis to join a supportive community for honest conversations about navigating challenges, reducing shame, and finding healing.

    Feb 27, 2024·22m
  33. 33

    Reframing Your Parental Fears to Serve You

    Feb 13, 2024·25m
  34. 34

    Breaking the Cycle: Parenting Teens with Love in the Face of Fear

    This episode explores the challenges of parenting teens in crisis, emphasizing honest conversations to combat shame and promote healing through a mother's love.

    Jan 30, 2024·50m
  35. 35

    Nurturing the Nurturer: Reclaiming Yourself Amidst the Challenge of Parenting Your Teen

    Jan 16, 2024·46m
  36. 36

    Closing the Chapter: My Favorite Moments on Parenting Teens Through the Hard

    Jan 1, 2024·25m
  37. 37

    How to find Strength and Resilience as You Parent Your Teen

    This episode offers support and honest conversations for parents, especially mothers, navigating the challenges of raising teenagers in crisis while emphasizing self-care and community.

    Dec 19, 2023·35m
  38. 38

    Balanced Oversight: Navigating Parental Control and Teen Independence

    Dec 5, 2023·34m
  39. 39

    Seasons of Strength: A Journey Through Holiday Challenges

    Nov 21, 2023·22m
  40. 40

    Courage to Connect: How Vulnerability Strengthens Parent-Teen Relationships

    Nov 14, 2023·36m
  41. 41

    Heart Talk: Parent-Teen Conversations that Count

    Oct 31, 2023·34m
  42. 42

    Parenting Unmasked: Breaking Free from the Chains of Fear

    Oct 17, 2023·27m
  43. 43

    Connecting Through Conversation: Navigating the Shifting Landscape of Parent-Teen Communication

    Oct 3, 2023·44m
  44. 44

    Time to Get the "F" Out: The Journey from Hurt Parent to Healed Parent

    Sep 19, 2023·22m
  45. 45

    From Seed to Harvest: Finding Peace in The Process of Parenting Teens

    Sep 5, 2023·28m
  46. 46

    The Learning Curve: Final Stage of Learning to Parent a Teen in Crisis

    Aug 22, 2023·29m
  47. 47

    The Learning Curve: Stage 3 of Learning to Parent a Teen in Crisis

    Aug 8, 2023·25m
  48. 48

    The Learning Curve: Stage 2 of Learning to Parent a Teen in Crisis

    Jul 25, 2023·17m
  49. 49

    The Learning Curve: Stage 1 of Learning to Parent a Teen in Crisis

    Jul 11, 2023·20m
  50. 50

    ParenTEENg Decisions: The #1 Factor That Should Be Guiding Them

    Jun 27, 2023·22m
  51. 51

    Connection vs. Control: Finding the Right Balance in Your Parenting Approach

    This episode explores the balance between connection and control in parenting teenagers, particularly those facing crises like the juvenile court system, while emphasizing honest conversations and a mother's unyielding love.

    Jun 13, 2023·30m
  52. 52

    React Less, Respond More: Parenting Tips for Mindful Communication

    May 30, 2023·33m
  53. 53

    Parenting Through the Storm: Self-Care and Friendship in Teen Crisis

    May 16, 2023·38m
  54. 54

    The Role of Self Reflection in the Healing Process

    May 2, 2023·26m
  55. 55

    Peaceful Parenting: Unveiling Inner Harmony Through Self-Care

    Apr 18, 2023·24m
  56. 56

    Empowered Parenting: The Vital Role of Therapy and Support Amid Teen Struggles

    Apr 4, 2023·24m
  57. 57

    Self Care Beyond Bubble Baths: The Role Your Body Plays in Your Mental Health

    Mar 21, 2023·46m
  58. 58

    Self-Compassion 101: Healing on a Soul Level

    Mar 7, 2023·16m
  59. 59

    A Look at Teen Behaviors: Conflict

    Feb 21, 2023·29m
  60. 60

    A Look at Teen Behaviors: Manipulation

    Feb 7, 2023·19m
  61. 61

    A Look at Teen Behaviors: Isolating

    Jan 24, 2023·21m
  62. 62

    Embracing Imperfection: Why You Need to Let Go of the Need to Fix Your Teen

    Jan 10, 2023·24m
  63. 63

    Strengthening Your Realtionship with Your Teen

    Dec 27, 2022·23m
  64. 64

    The Greatest Risk You Are Facing

    Dec 13, 2022·33m
  65. 65

    Getting Through the Holidays

    Nov 29, 2022·22m
  66. 66

    Finding Your Own Path

    Nov 8, 2022·21m
  67. 67

    Raw, Real & Unedited

    Oct 25, 2022·12m
  68. 68

    Teen Independence Unleashed: Loving Detachment Strategies

    Oct 11, 2022·28m
  69. 69

    The #1 Reason You Are Exhausted

    Sep 27, 2022·32m
  70. 70

    When Does the Healing Begin?

    Sep 13, 2022·22m
  71. 71

    Finding Meaning in the Mess

    Aug 30, 2022·26m
  72. 72

    The Secret To Reestablishing Trust

    Aug 16, 2022·33m
  73. 73

    Down Grief Mountain: With Mary Crantson

    Aug 2, 2022·38m
  74. 74

    Grief Mountain with Mary Cranston Part 1

    Jul 19, 2022·45m
  75. 75

    When the Challenge Changes You - Part Two

    Jul 5, 2022·11m
  76. 76

    When the Challenge Changes You - Blake's Story

    Jun 21, 2022·36m
  77. 77

    What No One Tells You About Youth Probation

    Jun 7, 2022·38m
  78. 78

    Protecting vs Equipping: How to Get it Right

    May 24, 2022·27m
  79. 79

    Moving Through the Unknown with Purpose

    May 10, 2022·32m
  80. 80

    Parent-Child Connection: 1 Thing You May Not Be Doing That You Should

    Apr 26, 2022·26m
  81. 81

    Parenting in the Shadows: Conversations About Children Facing Legal Hurdles

    Apr 12, 2022·30m
  82. 82

    Defining True Strength

    Mar 29, 2022·28m
  83. 83

    Into the Unknown: What to Expect-Your Child

    Mar 15, 2022·30m
  84. 84

    Into the Unknown: What to Expect-Siblings

    Nov 23, 2021·37m
  85. 85

    Into the Unknown: What to Expect in Your Marriage/Relationship

    Nov 9, 2021·33m
  86. 86

    Into the Unknown: What to Expect From Yourself

    Oct 26, 2021·33m
  87. 87

    Into the Unknown: What to Expect-Juvenile Court System

    Oct 12, 2021·36m
  88. 88

    Into the Unknown: What to Expect-Juvenile Court System Pt 2

    Oct 12, 2021·38m
  89. 89

    Unyielding Love

    Oct 8, 2021·12m