All it Takes is a Plan

Lauren Engler

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Sleep plans with room for real life.

The gist

All It Takes is a Plan turns common parenting sleep worries into workable next steps. Episodes cover hotel-room sleep, separation anxiety, breastfeeding and sleep training, crying, schedule flexibility, and occasional family-life topics like homeschooling.

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About All it Takes is a Plan

All It Takes is a Plan treats child sleep as both a practical problem and an emotional one. The show returns often to the moment when a parent thinks something has suddenly gone wrong: bedtime screaming, a rough hotel night, separation anxiety, crying during sleep training, or a baby still needing night feeds. Lauren Engler gives those moments a shape. She explains what may be developmental, what may be a schedule issue, and what may simply require consistency for a little longer. The tone is warm, but the advice is specific. Hotel sleep becomes a conversation about room separation, blackout space, pack and plays, older kids sharing beds, and what happens when everyone is crammed into one room. Separation anxiety becomes extra stories, silliness, one-on-one time, and clear thinking about whether sleep is still working overall. Breastfeeding and sleep training are handled without treating nursing and sleep as enemies. The show repeatedly makes room for nuance: a four-month-old and a ten-month-old are not the same, a rigid schedule suits some families, and a skipped nap does not mean everything is ruined. That is its core rhythm. Name the fear. Sort the variables. Try the next practical step. Leave space for imperfect nights. The sleep training episodes are also willing to say uncomfortable things plainly, especially around crying and the limits of so-called no-cry methods. At the same time, the show avoids a hard-edged coaching style. It cares about family temperament, siblings, travel, daycare pickup, bedtime routines, and the ordinary logistics that make clean advice messy. The 100th episode brings in Dr. Shana Sarita-Alvarez to discuss secure attachment and sleep training concerns from a research-informed angle. Other episodes stay closer to home, including a candid look at homeschooling and the flexibility it has created for Lauren Engler's family. That family context matters because the show often teaches through lived examples before widening into guidance. It is not a glossy parenting brand voice. It is more like a careful parent-coach translating sleep theory into the small decisions of a normal week. Parents who want both direction and permission to be human will find its lane quickly.

Made for: Parents of babies, toddlers, and young kids who want calm, concrete help with sleep, bedtime routines, travel, nursing, and separation anxiety. It especially suits families who want guidance without being pushed toward one perfect parenting style.

What sets it apart: The show pairs sleep-consultant structure with unusually specific family logistics, from hotel-room layouts to late bedtimes and sibling schedules. Its strength is turning broad sleep debates into small, doable decisions.

In their own words

If you're looking for real talk about all things sleep and parenting, you're in the right place! Lauren Engler, pediatric sleep consultant and mom of three, shares her sleep tips and tricks for babies, toddlers, and young kids, so your family can get the best sleep possible. She also interviews other guest experts to help you feel confident in your parenting journey.

As heard by us

Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Lauren Engler makes child sleep advice more usable by testing plans against feeding, travel, family schedules, and her own difficult nights.

All it Takes is a Plan turns child sleep into a practical family problem, with Lauren Engler combining her perspective as a pediatric sleep consultant and mother.

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  • practical sleep plans that leave room for hotel chaos and the occasional car nap
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Best episodes of All it Takes is a Plan

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Sleeping in a Hotel Room with Kids: How to Survive (And Actually Sleep)Jun 3, 2026

A practical, flexible guide to making one hotel room work when children sleep beside their parents.

A hotel room becomes the whole sleep system when parents are trying to fit luggage, a baby, and older children into the same space. Lauren Engler, a mom and pediatric sleep consultant at Via Graces, keeps the focus on a useful middle ground: plan carefully for sleep, then allow…

Homeschooling: What We Love About It, and What We Don'tMay 27, 2026

A candid account of how treatment schedules, travel, and family rhythms reshaped one household's approach to school.

Homeschooling lands as a story about a plan that had to change shape. The host remembers once pushing hard against the idea, then explains how Olivia's three-year treatment schedule made flexibility feel less like a philosophy and more like a practical need.

Will Sleep Training Make Our Life Rigid?Apr 8, 2026

Sleep training can still leave room for real life, depending on what a family needs.

The episode centers on a practical parent concern: whether sleep training ends up making family life feel boxed in. Its clearest strength is naming that tension without softening it, then grounding the discussion in travel, fireworks, trick-or-treating, daycare, and off days…

Bedtime Snacks and Who Needs ThemMar 11, 2026

Alyssa Miller talks through bedtime snacks and picky eating with a clear eye on both kids and parents.

Alyssa Miller, a mom of three and a registered dietitian with Nutrition for Littles, talks through bedtime snacks and picky eating in a way that stays grounded in family life.

The Ludwig Family's Sleep Training StoryFeb 25, 2026

A grounded sleep-training conversation that leaves room for the hard parts and the limits of any one plan.

Angie Ludwig's conversation keeps its feet on the ground. It follows the before and after of sleep training for both children, but does not flatten the hard middle: a baby who screamed much of the time and a toddler in the mix.

Our Sleep Challenges with Baby #4Jan 14, 2026

A candid look at the hard middle of a long sleep struggle.

Lauren keeps the focus on the hard middle of a long sleep fight, where ordinary family life starts bending around a newborn who has not settled.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Screen Time in Our Family: How Our Rules Have Changed Over the Years

    Oct 21, 2026·14m
  2. 2

    Nervous System Regulation for Parents: Practical Tools for You and Your Kids

    Oct 14, 2026·29m
  3. 3

    The Vagus Nerve & Sleep: How Your Nervous System Affects Sleep

    Oct 7, 2026·42m
  4. 4

    Split Nights: Why Your Child is Awake for Hours in the Night

    Sep 30, 2026·15m
  5. 5

    Relapse Treatment: Olivia's Cancer Journey

    Sep 23, 2026·41m
  6. 6

    Frontline Treatment: Olivia's Cancer Journey

    Sep 16, 2026·36m
  7. 7

    The Diagnosis: Olivia's Cancer Journey

    Sep 9, 2026·36m
  8. 8

    Q&A: September

    Sep 2, 2026·24m
  9. 9

    Sleeping in a Hotel Room with Kids: How to Survive (And Actually Sleep)

    Hidden gem

    Lauren Engler, a pediatric sleep consultant at Via Graces, focuses this episode of All it Takes is a Plan on sleeping in a hotel room with kids.

    Jun 3, 2026·19m·1 clip
  10. 10

    Homeschooling: What We Love About It, and What We Don't

    The host of All It Takes is a Plan explains how Olivia’s cancer diagnosis at almost five changed the family’s plan from public school to homeschooling.

    May 27, 2026·24m·1 clip
  11. 11

    Toddler Separation Anxiety at Bedtime: Why Your Toddler Won't Let You Leave (and What Helps)

    May 20, 2026·17m
  12. 12

    Baby Separation Anxiety and Sleep: Why Your Baby Suddenly Cries at Bedtime

    May 13, 2026·13m
  13. 13

    7 Ways to Prevent Crib Climbing (And What to do if Your Toddler Climbs Out)

    May 6, 2026·15m
  14. 14

    Samantha's Why - Her Story and Why She's Now a Sleep Coach

    Apr 29, 2026·18m
  15. 15

    What if Sleep Training Doesn't Work?

    Apr 22, 2026·13m
  16. 16

    Can You Sleep Train and Breastfeed? Let's Clear This Up

    This episode clarifies that breastfeeding and sleep training are compatible, addressing common concerns about night feeds, milk supply, and weaning.

    Apr 15, 2026·12m
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    Will Sleep Training Make Our Life Rigid?

    Hidden gem

    The episode asks whether sleep training makes family life rigid.

    Apr 8, 2026·16m·1 clip
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    How Much Will My Baby Cry During Sleep Training?

    This episode addresses common parental concerns about crying during sleep training, explaining that some crying is inevitable and clarifying misconceptions about gentle methods.

    Apr 1, 2026·14m
  19. 19

    Does Sleep Training Harm Attachment? What the Research Really Says

    This episode interviews psychologist Dr.

    Mar 25, 2026·1h 2m
  20. 20

    Sleep Training Twins and Triplets

    This episode provides sleep training advice and support specifically for parents of twins and triplets, addressing the unique challenges of managing multiple children's sleep.

    Mar 18, 2026·17m
  21. 21

    Bedtime Snacks and Who Needs Them

    Hidden gem

    The show opens with a bedtime question that feels bigger than the plate.

    Mar 11, 2026·53m·3 clips
  22. 22

    My Baby is 12 Months Old...Now What?

    Mar 4, 2026·10m
  23. 23

    The Ludwig Family's Sleep Training Story

    Hidden gem

    Angie Ludwig joins the show to talk about the before-and-after of sleep training for her two children.

    Feb 25, 2026·27m·1 clip
  24. 24

    Overtiredness and Undertiredness: What's the Difference?

    Feb 18, 2026·18m
  25. 25

    The Bassinet to Crib Transition

    Feb 11, 2026·10m
  26. 26

    Car Seat Safety with Safe in the Seat

    Feb 4, 2026·46m
  27. 27

    Co-Sleeping Real Talk, Safety, & Survival Mode

    Jan 28, 2026·11m
  28. 28

    Sleep Training Baby James

    Jan 21, 2026·26m
  29. 29

    Our Sleep Challenges with Baby #4

    Hidden gem

    Lauren opens with a candid update on nearly a year of sleep upheaval with baby James.

    Jan 14, 2026·36m·2 clips
  30. 30

    The Best Time to Sleep Train

    Jan 7, 2026·15m
  31. 31

    The SlumberPod and Why It's One of the Best Sleep Products

    Nov 19, 2025·13m
  32. 32

    Pelvic Floor PT and How it Overlaps with Pediatric and Adult Sleep

    This episode features an interview with Dr.

    Nov 5, 2025·43m
  33. 33

    Why Your Toddler is Waking Up at Night

    Oct 29, 2025·21m
  34. 34

    Why Your Baby is Waking Up at Night

    Oct 22, 2025·17m
  35. 35

    How to Transfer Your Baby from the Car to the Crib at Bedtime

    Oct 15, 2025·14m
  36. 36

    Plagiocephaly, Torticollis, and What Every Parent Should Know

    Oct 8, 2025·36m
  37. 37

    Safe Sleep Guidelines for Toddlers and Big Kids

    Oct 1, 2025·11m
  38. 38

    Safe Sleep Guidelines for Babies

    Sep 24, 2025·18m
  39. 39

    Teething and How It Impacts Your Baby's Sleep

    Sep 17, 2025·14m
  40. 40

    How More Fun Will Actually Help Adults Sleep Better

    Sep 10, 2025·22m
  41. 41

    How to Extend Your Toddler's Short Naps

    Sep 3, 2025·14m
  42. 42

    How to Extend Your Baby's Short Naps

    Aug 27, 2025·17m
  43. 43

    How to Help Siblings Adjust to a New Baby in the House

    Aug 20, 2025·20m
  44. 44

    Bedtime Fears and Anxieties, and How to Help Your Child Through Them

    This episode provides eight strategies for parents to help children overcome bedtime fears and anxieties, shared by a pediatric sleep consultant and mom.

    Aug 13, 2025·21m
  45. 45

    How to Talk to Kids About Sleep

    Aug 6, 2025·15m
  46. 46

    Tummy Time, Infant Feeding, and How They Work Together

    Jul 30, 2025·28m
  47. 47

    Breastfeeding Challenges with Baby #4

    Lauren Engler shares her personal breastfeeding journey with her fourth baby, James, discussing the highs and lows of the first 12 weeks while emphasizing it's not professional advice but a relatable story for fellow parents.

    Jul 23, 2025·32m
  48. 48

    The Swaddle Transition: When and How to Do It

    Jul 16, 2025·14m
  49. 49

    Changing Time Zones with Babies and Toddlers

    Jul 9, 2025·18m
  50. 50

    How to Prepare for Hurricanes and Other Natural Disasters with Kids

    Jul 2, 2025·20m
  51. 51

    The Fourth of July: How to do it With Babies and Toddlers

    Jun 25, 2025·17m
  52. 52

    6 Sleep Training Mistakes to Avoid

    Jun 18, 2025·21m
  53. 53

    Homebirth: Our Why and Common Questions Answered

    Jun 11, 2025·18m
  54. 54

    My Fourth Baby - James' Birth Story

    Jun 4, 2025·17m
  55. 55

    Four Daytime Tips to Help Adults Sleep Better Overnight

    Feb 5, 2025·25m
  56. 56

    Sound Machines and White Noise - Everything You Need to Know

    Jan 29, 2025·17m
  57. 57

    My Top Three Newborn Sleep Priorities

    Jan 22, 2025·13m
  58. 58

    My Top Three Postpartum Priorities

    Jan 15, 2025·12m
  59. 59

    Awake Windows: All You Need to Know

    Jan 8, 2025·16m
  60. 60

    What is the Best Age to Sleep Train?

    Jan 1, 2025·20m
  61. 61

    Adult Sleep Tips Over the Holidays

    Dec 18, 2024·19m
  62. 62

    Handling Off Days: Short Naps, Skipped Naps, and Late Bedtimes

    Dec 11, 2024·22m
  63. 63

    Three Ways to Wean a Baby or Toddler from Breastfeeding

    Dec 4, 2024·23m
  64. 64

    When and How to Wean Your Baby or Toddler from the Bottle

    This episode provides guidance on when and how to wean babies or toddlers from the bottle, connecting it to sleep and overall child development.

    Nov 27, 2024·20m
  65. 65

    The Crib to Bed Transition: What to Do and What Not to DO

    Nov 20, 2024·19m
  66. 66

    Veterans and Insomnia: The Problem and Solution

    Nov 13, 2024·27m
  67. 67

    The Best Baby and Toddler Sleep Sacks

    Nov 6, 2024·17m
  68. 68

    Nightmares vs. Night Terrors: How to Respond to Them and Prevent Them

    Oct 30, 2024·14m
  69. 69

    Falling Back: How to Adjust Your Child's Schedule for Daylight Saving TIme

    Oct 23, 2024·12m
  70. 70

    The Most Common Reasons Babies and Kids Wake Up Early

    Oct 16, 2024·14m
  71. 71

    How to Help Your Child Sleep When They're Sick

    Oct 9, 2024·18m
  72. 72

    How Infertility and Guilt About Sleep Training Often Come Together

    Oct 2, 2024·34m
  73. 73

    Moving, Sleep Regressions, and How to Avoid Them

    Sep 25, 2024·19m
  74. 74

    Social Jet Lag and How it Can Hurt Your Sleep

    Sep 18, 2024·22m
  75. 75

    Newborn Sleep and How Sleep Consultants Can Help - Hazel's Story

    Sep 11, 2024·31m
  76. 76

    Sleep Training a Baby or Toddler Who Goes to Daycare

    Sep 4, 2024·16m
  77. 77

    Realistic Expectations for Daycare Sleep

    Aug 28, 2024·21m
  78. 78

    Pillows and Blankets: When and How to Give them to a Toddler

    Aug 21, 2024·14m
  79. 79

    When and How to Introduce a Lovey, Blankie, or Stuffed Animal to Your Baby

    Aug 14, 2024·11m
  80. 80

    How to Help Siblings Share a Room and Sleep Well

    Aug 7, 2024·14m
  81. 81

    Why Body Temperature Matters for Adult Sleep

    Jul 31, 2024·17m
  82. 82

    Five Key Pieces to Successfully Sleep Training Your Baby or Toddler

    Jul 24, 2024·16m
  83. 83

    Mouth Breathing and High Palates with a Myofunctional Therapist

    Jul 17, 2024·37m
  84. 84

    How Craniosacral Therapy Helps with Oral Restrictions

    Jul 10, 2024·38m
  85. 85

    Oral Restrictions Explained by a Lactation Counselor

    Jul 3, 2024·1h 3m
  86. 86

    Signs of Our Baby's Tongue Tie, Lip Tie, and High Palate

    Jun 26, 2024·18m
  87. 87

    What is an Adult Sleep Coach?

    Jun 19, 2024·22m
  88. 88

    Popular Baby Sleep Products I Don't Recommend

    Jun 12, 2024·15m
  89. 89

    How We Handled Naps and Bedtime at Disney World

    Jun 5, 2024·21m
  90. 90

    Travel Tips to Help Babies, Toddlers, & Young Kids Sleep While Away

    May 29, 2024·18m
  91. 91

    Toddler Clocks: When and How to Use One with Your Child

    May 22, 2024·17m
  92. 92

    Dream Feeding: Will it Actually Help Your Baby Sleep?

    May 15, 2024·14m
  93. 93

    Toddler Sleep Regressions and How to Get Through Them

    May 8, 2024·20m
  94. 94

    Baby Sleep Regressions: When They Happen & How to Get Through Them

    May 1, 2024·14m
  95. 95

    How to Survive the Four Month Sleep Regression

    Apr 24, 2024·15m
  96. 96

    A Case Study: Night Weaning a One-Year-Old

    Apr 17, 2024·21m
  97. 97

    How to Wean a Baby from Nighttime Feedings

    Apr 10, 2024·43m
  98. 98

    How One-on-One Time Can Help With Sleep

    Apr 3, 2024·16m
  99. 99

    The Story of Our Miscarriage

    Mar 27, 2024·56m
  100. 100

    The Best Blackout Curtains for Your Child's Room

    Mar 20, 2024·21m
  101. 101

    How to Talk to Grandparents About Sleep Training

    Mar 13, 2024·28m
  102. 102

    Spring Forward: How to Ajdust Your Child's Schedule for Daylight Saving Time

    Mar 6, 2024·9m
  103. 103

    Quiet Time and How to Set it Up

    Feb 28, 2024·21m
  104. 104

    Dropping the Last Nap: When and How to Do It

    Feb 21, 2024·16m
  105. 105

    Transitioning to One Nap: When and How to Transition Your Baby/Toddler

    Feb 14, 2024·18m
  106. 106

    Transitioning to Two Naps and a Clock-Based Schedule

    Feb 7, 2024·15m
  107. 107

    Four Naps to Three: When and How to Transition Your Baby

    Jan 31, 2024·11m
  108. 108

    Will the Wonder Weeks App Help Your Baby Sleep?

    Jan 24, 2024·19m
  109. 109

    The Most Practical Parenting Tips I've Ever Heard, for Babies and Toddlers

    Jan 17, 2024·13m
  110. 110

    The Four Most Common Sleep Training Methods

    Jan 10, 2024·13m
  111. 111

    Our Story of Sleepless Nights to Nights Full of Sleep

    Jan 3, 2024·13m
  112. 112

    The Best Bedtime Routines for Babies, Toddlers, and Young Kids

    Dec 27, 2023·14m
  113. 113

    Baby and Toddler Sleep Tips Over the Holidays

    Dec 20, 2023·14m
  114. 114

    How to Use the "Bedtime Reset" Strategy on Off Nights

    Dec 13, 2023·12m
  115. 115

    When Pacifiers Help Babies Sleep and When They Don't

    Dec 6, 2023·14m
  116. 116

    Sleep Training Baby James - The Family's Story

    Dec 6, 2023·28m
  117. 117

    When to Wake Up Your Sleeping Baby or Toddler

    Dec 6, 2023·10m
  118. 118

    Welcome to All it Takes is a Plan!

    Nov 30, 2023·8m