What DEE Says!

Coach Dee Shields

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Blunt relationship talk with moral clarity.

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What DEE Says! mixes relationship counsel, celebrity news, and self-respect lessons in a fast, conversational monologue. Coach Dee Shields turns breakups, viral trends, and personal history into plainspoken arguments about choices, healing, and responsibility.

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About What DEE Says!

What DEE Says! is a solo talk show where relationship pain, celebrity drama, and everyday self-checks get treated as connected material. Coach Dee Shields does not separate pop culture from character. A breakup headline becomes a way to talk about trust. A viral trend becomes a warning about boundaries. A personal story about pregnancy, marriage, abuse, and single parenting becomes a larger reflection on responsibility, survival, and how people tell the story of their own choices. The show is casual, but it is not passive. It keeps circling the same moral question from different angles: what did someone do, what did it cost, and what lesson should be taken seriously before the pattern repeats. That makes the relationship episodes feel less like gossip and more like correction with context. Coach Dee Shields brings in her own history as a mother and grandmother, especially when discussing pregnancy, young adulthood, and decisions made under pressure. She also watches how younger audiences process celebrity relationships, including the Meg Thee Stallion and Kalei Thomas breakup discussion, and uses that reaction to talk about misplaced romantic certainty. The provider girlfriend topic brings out the show’s sharper side, with clear skepticism toward relationships built on imbalance, secrecy, or self-erasure. Entertainment news still has a place here. Dave Chappelle, Kanye, Diddy, and Ashley Jenea appear as public reference points, but the show is usually more interested in the behavior around the story than in fandom alone. The rhythm is fast and conversational. It can repeat, correct itself, laugh, warn, soften, and then return to the central point with more force. Faith language and calls for prayer appear naturally when grief or tragedy enters the conversation. So do practical wellness notes, from hiking to digital detoxes, when the subject turns toward healing and discipline. The result is a show for people who want relationship talk with personality, not sterile advice. It values plain speech over polish. It is protective of dignity, suspicious of excuses, and willing to call a pattern unhealthy even when the opinion is unpopular. At its best, What DEE Says! feels like one long, insistent reminder that love, attention, and loyalty mean very little without accountability.

Made for: For listeners who like fast, opinionated relationship commentary tied to celebrity stories, personal experience, and everyday accountability. It especially suits people drawn to breakup recovery, self-worth conversations, and direct advice without clinical distance.

What sets it apart: The show stands out by treating viral culture and private relationship wounds as part of the same moral conversation. Coach Dee Shields brings lived experience, faith language, and conversational momentum to topics that other shows might handle as either gossip or generic advice.

In their own words

What DEE Says: the Podcast, with talk radio host Dee Shields! From a weekly blog, relationship talk, viral discussions, Entertainment, Answering questions and more! Stay tuned as the podcast grows!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/what-dee-says--5735632/support.

As heard by us

Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Dee Shields makes personal accountability concrete through candid commentary on relationships, family obligations, public behavior, and her own lived experience.

What DEE Says! turns everyday conflicts into direct, expansive talks about judgment and responsibility. Dee Shields moves from infidelity and social-media boundaries to family obligations, encounters with police, and personal experiences with drug use.

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  • to hear why silence after cheating might serve you better than the perfect comeback
  • someone to turn your Beyonce outrage toward what your family and community need
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What DEE Says: 'He Knocked Me Up', Meg & Klay, Provider Girlfriend, 4.29.2026 EDITED 2Apr 29, 2026

A blunt relationship sermon that treats messy choices as consequences, not mysteries.

Coach Dee turns a provider-girlfriend conversation into a blunt talk about choice, accountability, and the relationship habits she sees doing real damage.

DEMEANOR when Police Authorities are on the sceneApr 2, 2025

A blunt reminder that an apology does not reset the damage already done.

D Shields keeps the episode on one clear idea: an apology does not wipe the slate clean. That focus works. The tone is plain and urgent, and it pushes the listener toward accountability instead of excuses.

Conversation with an Entertainment Industry Bodyguard! October 2024Oct 12, 2024

A candid backstage talk that comes alive in the details, even if the phone-line audio is uneven.

What DEE Says! uses a phone-call interview with an industry bodyguard to sketch the work behind access, venue security, and the logistics that keep artists moving.

Use Drugs or Die?! My near death experience! (Share this episode!)Apr 21, 2024

A candid cautionary episode that treats marijuana use as a matter of responsibility.

Dee Shields keeps the episode moving with a clear warning about marijuana, responsibility, and the easy habit of telling yourself something is harmless just because it is familiar. The point stays simple: legalization does not erase risk, and casual use still asks for judgment.

Replying to: ‘my guy keeps looking at other women on social media’Feb 13, 2024

A direct relationship lecture about loyalty, temptation, and the cost of looking too long.

D Shields keeps the focus on a listener-sent question about a man lurking on other women’s pages and turns it into a blunt talk about integrity, temptation, and disrespect. The delivery stays direct and insistent, with the same point pressed from a few angles until it lands.

The BEST reaction(s) immediately after they cheat on you!Nov 14, 2023

A calm look at cheating, boundaries, and keeping your composure.

Dee Shields starts with a blunt question: what reaction makes sense after a partner cheats? She does not pretend there is one clean answer. The episode weighs silence, talking it out, and staying calm, then draws a line between a one-time mistake and behavior that keeps…

Ep 1 5 things your family, legacy and future need from you...instead of bashing Beyonce/ on social media!Feb 1, 2023

A blunt Black History Month opener that turns celebrity bashing into a lesson on legacy and responsibility.

Dee Shields uses this opening episode to stretch a remark about Beyonce into something bigger: Black History Month, legacy, and the responsibilities she says families have been dodging.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    What DEE Says: Nolan Wells Mystery update, plus 'You Can't Make People Stay!' 7.10.2026

    Jul 10, 2026·9m
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    What DEE Says: Nolan Wells Mystery, plus Indiana man removed his own junk?!+ 7.9.2026

    Jul 9, 2026·8m
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    What DEE Says: Time for The DTR Talk, Entertainment and Political News 7.7.2026

    Jul 7, 2026·11m
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    What DEE Says: It's Not Necessarily How You Talk, It's the What, When, Where!! 7.1.2026

    Jul 2, 2026·11m
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    What DEE Says: Relationships Update, New Phone Line, News. 6.30.26

    Jun 30, 2026·11m
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    What DEE Says: POV: Oprah dishes on Whitney soon as Clive Davis Passes?! Lionel Ritchie Hospitalized?! Dolly Pardon...! 6.25.2026

    Jun 25, 2026·7m
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    What DEE Says: It Takes a Village? 2026 Dating, You Set Me Up?! 6.23.26

    Jun 23, 2026·14m
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    What DEE Says: Limits to that Soft Parenting Move or this Happens, 6.4.2026

    Jun 4, 2026·9m
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    What DEE Says: Learn Effective Communication, Family Celebrations, Memorial Day 5.23.2026

    May 23, 2026·10m
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    What DEE Says: 'He Knocked Me Up', Meg & Klay, Provider Girlfriend, 4.29.2026 EDITED 2

    Coach Dee is back.

    Apr 29, 2026·19m·1 clip
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    What DEE Says: 'He Knocked Me Up', Meg & Klay, Provider Girlfriend, 4.29.2026 EDITED

    Apr 29, 2026·13m
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    What DEE Says: 'He Knocked Me Up', Meg & Klay, Provider Girlfriend, 4.29.2026 EDITED

    Apr 29, 2026·13m
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    What DEE Says: Ashley Jeanee, D4VD arrest, Diddy trial similarities April 17, 2026

    The host analyzes connections between recent news stories involving Ashley Jeanee, D4VD arrest, and the Diddy trial, focusing on the common theme of 'Somebody's Sons' and expressing support for victims.

    Apr 17, 2026·13m
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    What DEE Says: Is Dave Chappelle Bringing Chappelle's Show Back?! Plus Provider Girlfriend Trend?! April 15, 2026

    The host discusses rumors about Dave Chappelle potentially bringing back Chappelle's Show, sharing personal anecdotes and excitement about the show's impact.

    Apr 15, 2026·6m
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    What DEE SAYS: To Find Love, Love You! Also, Diddy on the Way Home?! April 9, 2026

    Coach D Shields discusses the importance of loving yourself first to find happiness and avoid jealousy in relationships.

    Apr 9, 2026·9m
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    Was Kanye banned from performing in the UK for this reason? 4.7.2026

    Apr 8, 2026·1m
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    What DEE Says: Here's Why They Still Bring It Up! April 8, 2026

    This episode explores why people bring up past hurts years later, discussing how healing, therapy, and newfound awareness can lead to revisiting old conflicts, often making the perpetrator uncomfortable.

    Apr 8, 2026·8m
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    What DEE Says: Humility Season, Digital Detox, Look up! March 30, 2026

    The host discusses embracing spring in Texas, focusing on hiking and a digital detox as part of a personal healing journey and humility season.

    Mar 30, 2026·10m
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    What DEE Says: Don't Get Uncomfortable, March 6, 2026

    Mar 7, 2026·5m
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    What DEE Says: Don't Get Uncomfortable, March 6, 2026

    Mar 7, 2026·5m
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    What DEE Says: The Difficult Relationship, March 3, 2026

    Mar 3, 2026·8m
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    What DEE Says: Brent & Coach Dee Answer Rapid Fire (Couple) Questions! February 26, 2026

    Feb 27, 2026·11m
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    What DEE Says: 'How You Got Him is How You Lose Him?!' February 25, 2026

    Feb 25, 2026·4m
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    What DEE Says: The Gossip Caused This to Happen, February 21, 2026

    Feb 22, 2026·10m
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    What DEE Says: How to Get Closure When It's Over, February 21, 2026

    Feb 21, 2026·5m
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    What DEE Says: Relationship Talk Bonus, pt 3 February 20, 2026

    Feb 20, 2026·4m
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    **Relationship Talk Bonus Episode **: Here's Why I Never Ask a Man to Stay! February 18, 2026

    Feb 19, 2026·13m
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    What DEE Says: Relationship Talk Bonus, pt 2, February 19, 2026

    Feb 19, 2026·8m
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    What DEE Says: Reaction to World Headlines February 17, 2026

    Feb 18, 2026·9m
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    What DEE Says: Hey, Y'all Hey from Coach Dee Shields February 15, 2026

    Feb 15, 2026·8m
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    What DEE Says: Hey, Y'all Hey from Coach Dee Shields February 15, 2026

    Feb 15, 2026·8m
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    What DEE Says: Chat with Coach Dee Shields February 5, 2026

    Feb 6, 2026·8m
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    What DEE Says: Chat with Coach Dee Shields February 2, 2026

    Feb 3, 2026·6m
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    What DEE Says: Chat with Coach Dee January 29, 2026

    Jan 29, 2026·7m
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    What DEE Says: Coach Dee reacts to news January 27, 2026

    Jan 27, 2026·6m
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    Coach Dee Shields read & Reaction to Kanye West Apology 1.26.26

    Jan 26, 2026·10m
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    Coach Dee Shields IRL Streaming January 21, 2026

    Jan 21, 2026·9m
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    Coach Dee Shields MLK Day Chat January 19, 2026

    Jan 19, 2026·5m
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    Coach Dee Shields Podcast Chat January 15, 2026

    Jan 16, 2026·12m
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    Coach Dee Shields IRL January 14, 2026

    Jan 14, 2026·8m
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    Coach Dee Shields Message January 13, 2026

    Jan 13, 2026·8m
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    What DEE Says: HOT TOPICS 12.14.2025

    Dec 14, 2025·9m
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    What DEE Says HOT TOPICS!

    Dec 12, 2025·7m
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    Are those toxic PODCAST/Social talks real?!

    Apr 4, 2025·13m
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    DEMEANOR when Police Authorities are on the scene

    D Shields talks about what happens when someone is already in a law enforcement situation.

    Apr 2, 2025·25m·1 clip
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    Expect the Unexpected: a Coach Dee Shields Lesson

    Mar 7, 2025·6m
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    Leave your attitude at the door!

    Feb 25, 2025·4m
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    A Motivational Speech with Dee Shields: Learn this from NEGATIVE people!

    Nov 13, 2024·10m
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    Conversation with an Entertainment Industry Bodyguard! October 2024

    Hidden gem

    Dee Shields opens with a phone-call interview with an industry bodyguard.

    Oct 12, 2024·48m·3 clips
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    What about the ‘Diddy’ around you?!

    Sep 20, 2024·18m
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    Ep 18 Neglecting yourself, left you with selfhate.

    Aug 19, 2024·14m
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    He’s a 50/50 and his parenting is mid?! Listen up this Father’s Day!

    Jun 15, 2024·19m
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    Use Drugs or Die?! My near death experience! (Share this episode!)

    Dee opens with a Cowboy Carter-era welcome and a warning about marijuana.

    Apr 21, 2024·28m·2 clips
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    POV: The way a History class is held during Beyonce’s ‘Texas Hold ‘Em’ Country music song release!

    Feb 16, 2024·11m
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    Replying to: ‘my guy keeps looking at other women on social media’

    D Shields opens fast, gives her social handles, and goes straight to a listener question about a man who keeps looking at other women’s pages online.

    Feb 13, 2024·25m·1 clip
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    You want a 100% guy?! Let’s listen in to What DEE Says!

    Feb 2, 2024·16m
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    Ep 12 - Quid Pro Quo love? Lady upset guy didn’t buy groceries, TD Jakes & more

    Dec 24, 2023·21m
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    The BEST reaction(s) immediately after they cheat on you!

    Dee opens by saying she does not want to slow down and wants to live fast, even if that means burning out.

    Nov 14, 2023·36m·2 clips
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    Reason you shouldn’t lay with another trying to get over the other!

    This episode discusses why using new relationships to get over past ones is ineffective and harmful, addressing common advice from unhealed individuals.

    Nov 6, 2023·22m
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    She was softer when you met her, now she’s mean? Here’s why it’s your fault!

    This episode explores why a partner might seem meaner over time, suggesting it could be the listener's fault due to communication or relationship dynamics.

    Nov 2, 2023·41m
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    Celebrating first Halloween in 2023 at age 50: How religion impacted this American holiday tradition.

    A 50-year-old shares their personal journey of celebrating Halloween for the first time in 2023, reflecting on how religion has influenced this American holiday tradition while discussing stepping out of their comfort zone.

    Nov 1, 2023·39m
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    No one fumbles you, the experience was meant to happen!

    This episode explores the viral relationship concept that 'no one can fumble you,' emphasizing personal empowerment and the law of attraction in navigating life experiences.

    Oct 31, 2023·30m
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    Ep. 6 - Do men cheat with DISPOSABLE women?!

    Oct 21, 2023·11m
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    Ep. 5- 10 things to do, before you leave the Relationship!

    Oct 14, 2023·37m
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    Ep 4 - Chapter 50 ♍️ The REALIZATION and how it impacts my relationship, and Yours!

    Sep 17, 2023·46m
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    Ep. 3 - Rude to the ones who LOVE you? Here’s why!

    Jul 25, 2023·17m
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    Ep. 2 - Who Raised You series: ‘A Time and a Place’

    Jul 18, 2023·27m
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    Ep 1 5 things your family, legacy and future need from you...instead of bashing Beyonce/ on social media!

    Dee Shields opens with Black History Month and a push to start the season in the right spirit.

    Feb 1, 2023·33m·2 clips