To 50 and Beyond | Midlife and Alcohol-Free Lifestyle

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Midlife, alcohol-free, and still becoming.

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To 50 and Beyond treats alcohol-free living as a practical midlife reset, not a dramatic reinvention. Lori brings personal history, coaching experience, guest conversations, and reflective prompts to questions about anxiety, vacations, self-love, community, menopause, and starting again.

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About To 50 and Beyond | Midlife and Alcohol-Free Lifestyle

To 50 and Beyond covers alcohol-free living from the particular angle of midlife womanhood. Its center of gravity is not crisis alone, but the long lead-up: the years of cutting back, making rules, taking breaks, doubting the decision, and wondering why alcohol no longer works. Lori brings her own history into the frame, including drinking for decades, stopping in 2013, and learning how different life feels without the two- or three-day recovery cycle. The show is personal, but it is also structured around useful reminders. It treats alcohol as a false solution for confidence, anxiety, boredom, celebration, sex, vacations, restaurants, family brunches, and hard Sundays. That clarity gives the episodes their force. Lori often returns to the idea that women are not broken because they struggle to stop; they are in a process that needs time, compassion, support, and tools. Some episodes are solo reflections with a coaching feel. Others bring in guests for lived-experience conversations, including Donna Ferris on sobriety over 50, Paula Muller on self-love after alcohol, and Lindsay Sutherland-Bowl on radical accountability and changing without hitting a crisis point. The show has a practical streak. It offers prompts for mood boards, reminders for travel, permission to cancel plans that no longer fit, and ways to rethink day one without shame. It also spends time on community, especially Elevate, as a place where alcohol-free midlife women can share challenges and wins with people who understand the choice. The emotional register is intimate and steady. Lori can be sentimental, but the episodes keep circling back to concrete questions: what needs relief, what feels true, what support is available, and what kind of spring or next chapter a woman wants to create. Aging is treated as an opening rather than a shrinking horizon. Menopause, post-menopause, habit change, family roles, and changing social lives all appear as part of the same larger transition. The show is best for listeners who want alcohol-free guidance that sounds like a real conversation, not a rigid program. It is especially strong when it makes sobriety feel ordinary, creative, and possible in the exact places where drinking used to feel automatic.

Made for: Midlife women who are alcohol-free, sober curious, trying to moderate, or starting again after returning to drinking. It especially suits listeners who want encouragement without a rigid roadmap.

What sets it apart: The show blends recovery coaching, aging, menopause-aware self-reflection, and intimate lived experience instead of treating sobriety as a one-size-fits-all plan. Its most useful moments are ordinary and specific: restaurants, vacations, day one, mood boards, community calls, and the private self-talk around alcohol.

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Welcome to To 50 and Beyond, where I invite you into conversations about midlife and living alcohol-free. Here, we focus on the possibilities ahead of you and the practices you can start right now, so you can connect with yourself and design a lifestyle alcohol can't touch.I'm Lori Massicot, born November 11, 1967, post-menopause, and after 30 years of drinking, I decided at 45 that alcohol no longer worked in my life. So I went all in on living alcohol-free, and what I found was a full life, a different life, and honestly a better one than I ever expected.Since 2018, I've worked privately with women as a coach and mentor, helping them go alcohol-free and stay alcohol-free, their way.You can…

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  1. 1

    The Next Chapter: Rediscovering Who You Are After Alcohol

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  2. 2

    The Experience of Being Sober Over 50 with Donna Ferris

    ·31m
  3. 3

    Create a Spring Mood Board Just For Fun

    ·13m
  4. 4

    A Peek Inside My Online Community For Midlife Women Living Alcohol-Free

    ·22m
  5. 5

    You're Not Alone if You're In the Middle of a Life Transition

    ·13m
  6. 6

    A Look Inside My First Two Years Alcohol-Free: Is This Lifestyle For You?

    ·23m
  7. 7

    Hey There, Im Lori! A Reintroduction to the Podcast and Me

    ·21m
  8. 8

    Becoming a Party Girl: The Night I Went All In on Alcohol at 14

    ·6m
  9. 9

    What I Needed to Hear When I Quit Drinking

    ·12m
  10. 10

    Podcast Update: Why I'm Starting Fresh in 2026 After 8 Years of Podcasting

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  11. 11

    What I'm Doing to Take Care of Myself Right Now - Ideas For You

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  12. 12

    New Year, Same Courageous and Capable You

    ·5m
  13. 13

    A Holiday Check-In: You Are Not Alone

    ·8m
  14. 14

    Take a Walk With Wonder This Season

    ·15m
  15. 15

    Expectations and Empowering the Word "Still"

    ·13m
  16. 16

    Tired of Sounding Like a Broken Record? Try an "Opposite Day!"

    ·16m
  17. 17

    Reminders to Help You Stay Alcohol-Free on Vacation and in Restaurants and Redefine "Day One"

    ·24m
  18. 18

    Noelle Van on Long-Term Recovery and How to Transition Out of Corporate

    ·48m
  19. 19

    End-of-Year Check-In: What Will You Focus on and Not Focus On?

    ·22m
  20. 20

    How to Love What's On Your Plate: Finding Joy and Balance in Food and Life with Stephanie Valentine

    ·54m
  21. 21

    Life After Alcohol: Navigating Thoughts About Drinking Without Drinking

    ·24m
  22. 22

    Changing Your Drinking and Supporting Loved Ones Through the Process with Amber Hollingsworth

    ·38m
  23. 23

    A Conversation About Seasons of Life, Aging, and Recovery with Leigh and Anne Walkup

    ·49m
  24. 24

    Ideas for Celebrating Sober Anniversaries for You and Loved Ones

    ·26m
  25. 25

    Listener Appreciation: I'm Proud of You Keep Going

    ·19m
  26. 26

    Make Your Morning Routine Work For You

    ·20m
  27. 27

    Listen to Help You Get Centered On Why You Don't Want to Drink

    ·18m
  28. 28

    Everyday Self-Care to Support Your Alcohol-Free Lifestyle

    ·22m
  29. 29

    Listen to Help You "Play the Tape Forward"

    ·21m
  30. 30

    My First Year of Sobriety: What I Did to Stay Alcohol-Free

    ·28m
  31. 31

    Life After Alcohol: Learning to Love Yourself More with Paula Muller

    ·49m
  32. 32

    Staying Alcohol-Free on the "Patio" This Summer

    ·17m
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    Listen When You Feel Left Out Because You're Not Drinking

    ·8m
  34. 34

    Negotiate for Yourself Not Alcohol

    ·14m
  35. 35

    What Are You Aware of About Your Relationship with Alcohol?

    ·17m
  36. 36

    Never-Ending To-Do Lists and Playing Catch Up

    ·16m
  37. 37

    Dear Midlife Woman You Are the Solution (Not Alcohol)

    ·18m
  38. 38

    The Midlife Sobriety Movement is Here

    ·18m
  39. 39

    The Benefits of Going "All In" with Leigh and Anne Walkup

    ·32m
  40. 40

    Reframing "Time Wasted" Drinking

    ·12m
  41. 41

    Honor Your Why

    ·18m
  42. 42

    The Meaning of Going "All In" On Living Alcohol-Free

    ·20m
  43. 43

    The Compound Effect: Trust Your Process

    ·13m
  44. 44

    Thoughts on Alcohol and Leaving it in 2024

    ·13m
  45. 45

    Hypnotherapy as a Tool During Dry January

    ·38m
  46. 46

    What Are You Waiting For? A Compassionate Approach

    ·23m
  47. 47

    The Alcohol-Free Lifestyle with Lindsay Sutherland Boal

    ·41m
  48. 48

    You Deserve to Stay Alcohol-Free This Holiday

    ·19m
  49. 49

    Break Free From People Pleasing with Karen Ehman

    ·37m
  50. 50

    Navigating Why Aren't You Drinking?

    ·21m
  51. 51

    Escaping Without Drinking Alcohol

    ·25m
  52. 52

    Realizations From Midlife Women After They Stopped Drinking

    ·24m
  53. 53

    A Reset For Midway Through a 30 Day Break From Alcohol

    ·22m
  54. 54

    Own Your Process and Celebrate Your Progress

    ·12m
  55. 55

    Outgrowing Yourself in Midlife

    ·21m
  56. 56

    Reclaim Self-Comfort From Alcohol

    ·24m
  57. 57

    Figuring Things Out As You Go: A Reintroduction to To 50 and Beyond

    ·19m
  58. 58

    Tips to Help You Prepare an Alcohol-Free Vacation

    ·25m
  59. 59

    Sober Gal Summer: What's In and Out

    ·21m
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    Q & A: When Does Sobriety Stop Being So Hard?

    ·30m
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    How I Managed My Anxiety When I Quit Drinking Alcohol

    ·25m
  62. 62

    Starting Over on Day One

    ·18m
  63. 63

    The Benefits of Staying Sober When You're Alone

    ·18m
  64. 64

    Wondering if Your Drinking Isn't "Bad Enough" to Quit?

    ·19m
  65. 65

    The Hardest Part of Getting Sober

    ·16m
  66. 66

    Living With the Regret of My Drinking as a Mom

    ·18m
  67. 67

    The Daily Sobriety Toolkit to Help You Stay Alcohol-Free

    ·13m
  68. 68

    How Alcohol Affects Hormones During Menopause with Dr. Dawn Bantel

    ·39m
  69. 69

    Understanding Alcohol Use Disorder with Sarah Rusbatch

    ·41m
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    Drinking Moderately Vs. Moderating Your Drinking

    ·24m
  71. 71

    When Alcohol is a Reward with Leigh and Anne Walkup

    ·46m
  72. 72

    Insights Into Addiction and 12-Step Programs Today with Angela Pugh

    ·45m
  73. 73

    25 "Permission Slip" Ideas for Midlife Women

    ·22m
  74. 74

    Getting Older and Staying Sober

    ·24m
  75. 75

    Finding Freedom From Disordered Eating with Helen Bennett

    ·46m
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    The Signs of Gray Area Drinking with Kari Schwear

    ·41m
  77. 77

    Quitting or Continuing to Drink for Other People

    ·22m
  78. 78

    When You're Worried About Your Drinking with Gigi Langer, PhD

    ·43m
  79. 79

    My Story: Why Committing to Sobriety Felt Impossible

    ·29m
  80. 80

    Managing Sobriety Through Nutrition and Supplements with Dr. Brooke Scheller

    ·47m
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    How to Write a "Dear Alcohol" Letter as a New Year Ritual

    ·29m
  82. 82

    A Message to Help You Stay Sober This Holiday

    ·28m
  83. 83

    Is There a Downside to Doing a Dry January?

    ·17m
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    Goal Setting for the Different Stages of Motherhood

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    How to Mocktail with Debbie Podlogar

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  86. 86

    A Look Inside an Online Sober Community with Janet Gourand

    ·40m
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    Let's Plan Your Alcohol-Free Holiday Calendar Together

    ·44m
  88. 88

    Managing Holiday Stress with Cohost Amy Connell

    ·49m
  89. 89

    From Early Sobriety to Beyond a Year with Co-Host Sondra Primeaux

    ·1h 6m
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    When to Keep Sobriety to Yourself and When to Share

    ·20m
  91. 91

    A Daily Plan to Support Your Alcohol-Free Lifestyle with Michelle Smith

    ·43m
  92. 92

    Living Alcohol-Free: The First Year with Co-Host Casey McGuire Davidson

    ·1h 4m
  93. 93

    How to Get Past "Forever Sober" Thinking with Co-Hosts Anne and Leigh Walkup

    ·52m
  94. 94

    The Bright Side of Going Alcohol-Free in Midlife

    ·19m
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    Why September is a Great Time to Take a Break from Drinking

    ·19m
  96. 96

    How to Keep Alcohol-Free Living Top of Mind Daily

    ·25m
  97. 97

    The 3 Types of People Who May Derail Your Alcohol-Free Journey

    ·23m
  98. 98

    When You Change Your Mind - I'm on a Podcast Break Until September 11, 2024

    ·6m
  99. 99

    Choosing Yourself in Midlife | My Interview on The Change Effect Podcast with Noelle Van

    Laurie shares her interview on The Change Effect podcast about getting sober in midlife and choosing yourself.

    ·41m
  100. 100

    Daily Habits to Support Long-Lasting Sobriety with Jen Hirst

    Jen Hirst discusses six key habits for maintaining long-term sobriety, including hydration, gratitude, reading, exercise, accountability, and community.

    ·58m
  101. 101

    What Trying to Make Alcohol Work For Two Years Looked and Felt Like

    Lori shares her two-year struggle to make alcohol work in her life before ultimately going alcohol-free in 2013.

    Apr 15, 2026·12m
  102. 102

    Dear Midlife Woman: You Are the Solution (Not Alcohol)

    Lori explains why midlife women can replace alcohol-based coping with specific personal solutions, using her own sobriety beginning at age 45 in 2013 as the central example.

    Apr 8, 2026·18m·1 clip
  103. 103

    The Experience of Being Sober Over 50 with Donna Ferris

    Hidden gem

    Laurie and Donna discuss their experiences of being sober after 50, sharing personal stories and insights about the benefits of an alcohol-free life.

    Apr 1, 2026·31m·2 clips
  104. 104

    Create a Spring Mood Board Just For Fun

    Lori guides listeners through creating a spring mood board as a creative project to support an alcohol-free lifestyle and celebrate aging.

    Mar 25, 2026·13m
  105. 105

    A Peek Inside My Online Community For Midlife Women Living Alcohol-Free

    Hidden gem

    Lori, a 58-year-old certified life and recovery coach with 12 years sober, explains how her online alcohol-free community evolved from Team Alcohol-Free into Elevate.

    Mar 18, 2026·22m·1 clip
  106. 106

    You're Not Alone if You're In the Middle of a Life Transition

    Mar 11, 2026·13m
  107. 107

    A Look Inside My First Two Years Alcohol-Free: Is This Lifestyle For You?

    Mar 4, 2026·23m
  108. 108

    Becoming a Party Girl: The Night I Went All In on Alcohol at 14

    Feb 25, 2026·6m
  109. 109

    Hey There, Im Lori! A Reintroduction to the Podcast and Me

    Feb 25, 2026·21m
  110. 110

    Podcast Update: Why I'm Starting Fresh in 2026 After 8 Years of Podcasting

    Feb 9, 2026·15m
  111. 111

    What I'm Doing to Take Care of Myself Right Now - Ideas For You

    Hidden gem

    Lori describes how alcohol gave her brief relief but later amplified anxiety and disrupted sleep, especially as she got older.

    Jan 29, 2026·14m
  112. 112

    New Year, Same Courageous and Capable You

    Jan 2, 2026·5m
  113. 113

    A Holiday Check-In: You Are Not Alone

    Dec 17, 2025·8m
  114. 114

    Take a Walk With Wonder This Season

    Nov 23, 2025·15m
  115. 115

    Choosing Yourself in Midlife | My Interview on The Change Effect Podcast with Noelle Van

    Nov 12, 2025·41m
  116. 116

    Expectations and Empowering the Word "Still"

    Oct 29, 2025·13m
  117. 117

    Tired of Sounding Like a Broken Record? Try an "Opposite Day!"

    Oct 22, 2025·16m
  118. 118

    Reminders to Help You Stay Alcohol-Free on Vacation and in Restaurants and Redefine "Day One"

    Lori, host of 250 and Beyond, gives alcohol-free listeners reminders for vacations, restaurants, and returning to “day one.” She draws on stopping drinking at age 45 in 2013 after 30 years of linking alcohol with anxiety relief, relationships, vacations, restaurants, and her “Party Girl” identity.

    Oct 15, 2025·24m·1 clip
  119. 119

    Noelle Van on Long-Term Recovery and How to Transition Out of Corporate

    Oct 8, 2025·48m
  120. 120

    End-of-Year Check-In: What Will You Focus on and Not Focus On?

    Oct 1, 2025·22m
  121. 121

    How to Love What's On Your Plate: Finding Joy and Balance in Food and Life with Stephanie Valentine

    Sep 24, 2025·54m
  122. 122

    Life After Alcohol: Navigating Thoughts About Drinking Without Drinking

    Sep 17, 2025·24m
  123. 123

    Changing Your Drinking and Supporting Loved Ones Through the Process with Amber Hollingsworth

    Sep 10, 2025·38m
  124. 124

    A Conversation About Seasons of Life, Aging, and Recovery with Leigh and Anne Walkup

    Sep 3, 2025·49m
  125. 125

    Ideas for Celebrating Sober Anniversaries for You and Loved Ones

    Aug 27, 2025·26m
  126. 126

    Listener Appreciation: I'm Proud of You Keep Going

    Aug 6, 2025·19m
  127. 127

    Make Your Morning Routine Work For You

    Jul 30, 2025·20m
  128. 128

    Listen to Help You Get Centered On Why You Don't Want to Drink

    Jul 23, 2025·18m
  129. 129

    Everyday Self-Care to Support Your Alcohol-Free Lifestyle

    Jul 16, 2025·22m
  130. 130

    Listen to Help You "Play the Tape Forward"

    Jul 9, 2025·21m
  131. 131

    My First Year of Sobriety: What I Did to Stay Alcohol-Free

    Jul 2, 2025·28m
  132. 132

    Life After Alcohol: Learning to Love Yourself More with Paula Muller

    Host Laurie Massacott interviews Paula Muller about learning to love yourself after quitting alcohol later in life.

    Jun 25, 2025·49m
  133. 133

    Staying Alcohol-Free on the "Patio" This Summer

    Jun 18, 2025·17m
  134. 134

    Listen When You Feel Left Out Because You're Not Drinking

    Jun 18, 2025·8m
  135. 135

    Negotiate for Yourself Not Alcohol

    Apr 23, 2025·14m
  136. 136

    What Are You Aware of About Your Relationship with Alcohol?

    Apr 2, 2025·17m
  137. 137

    Never-Ending To-Do Lists and Playing Catch Up

    Mar 26, 2025·16m
  138. 138

    The Next Chapter: Rediscovering Who You Are After Alcohol

    Mar 12, 2025·19m
  139. 139

    The Midlife Sobriety Movement is Here

    Feb 26, 2025·18m
  140. 140

    The Benefits of Going "All In" with Leigh and Anne Walkup

    Feb 19, 2025·32m
  141. 141

    Reframing "Time Wasted" Drinking

    Feb 12, 2025·12m
  142. 142

    Honor Your Why

    Feb 5, 2025·18m
  143. 143

    The Meaning of Going "All In" On Living Alcohol-Free

    Jan 29, 2025·20m
  144. 144

    The Compound Effect: Trust Your Process

    Jan 15, 2025·13m
  145. 145

    Thoughts on Alcohol and Leaving it in 2024

    Dec 25, 2024·13m
  146. 146

    Hypnotherapy as a Tool During Dry January

    Dec 18, 2024·38m
  147. 147

    What Are You Waiting For? A Compassionate Approach

    Dec 11, 2024·23m
  148. 148

    The Alcohol-Free Lifestyle with Lindsay Sutherland Boal

    Lindsay Sutherland Boal discusses the alcohol-free lifestyle, emphasizing radical accountability and the misconception of rock bottom, while sharing resources from her Uncovery app and She Walks Canada.

    Dec 4, 2024·41m
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    You Deserve to Stay Alcohol-Free This Holiday

    Nov 27, 2024·19m
  150. 150

    Break Free From People Pleasing with Karen Ehman

    Laurie Massacott interviews Karen Ehman about breaking the pattern of people pleasing to support an alcohol-free lifestyle.

    Nov 20, 2024·37m