
To 50 and Beyond | Midlife and Alcohol-Free Lifestyle
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Midlife, alcohol-free, and still becoming.
The gist
To 50 and Beyond treats alcohol-free living as a practical midlife reset, not a dramatic reinvention. Lori brings personal history, coaching experience, guest conversations, and reflective prompts to questions about anxiety, vacations, self-love, community, menopause, and starting again.
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About To 50 and Beyond | Midlife and Alcohol-Free Lifestyle
To 50 and Beyond covers alcohol-free living from the particular angle of midlife womanhood. Its center of gravity is not crisis alone, but the long lead-up: the years of cutting back, making rules, taking breaks, doubting the decision, and wondering why alcohol no longer works. Lori brings her own history into the frame, including drinking for decades, stopping in 2013, and learning how different life feels without the two- or three-day recovery cycle. The show is personal, but it is also structured around useful reminders. It treats alcohol as a false solution for confidence, anxiety, boredom, celebration, sex, vacations, restaurants, family brunches, and hard Sundays. That clarity gives the episodes their force. Lori often returns to the idea that women are not broken because they struggle to stop; they are in a process that needs time, compassion, support, and tools. Some episodes are solo reflections with a coaching feel. Others bring in guests for lived-experience conversations, including Donna Ferris on sobriety over 50, Paula Muller on self-love after alcohol, and Lindsay Sutherland-Bowl on radical accountability and changing without hitting a crisis point. The show has a practical streak. It offers prompts for mood boards, reminders for travel, permission to cancel plans that no longer fit, and ways to rethink day one without shame. It also spends time on community, especially Elevate, as a place where alcohol-free midlife women can share challenges and wins with people who understand the choice. The emotional register is intimate and steady. Lori can be sentimental, but the episodes keep circling back to concrete questions: what needs relief, what feels true, what support is available, and what kind of spring or next chapter a woman wants to create. Aging is treated as an opening rather than a shrinking horizon. Menopause, post-menopause, habit change, family roles, and changing social lives all appear as part of the same larger transition. The show is best for listeners who want alcohol-free guidance that sounds like a real conversation, not a rigid program. It is especially strong when it makes sobriety feel ordinary, creative, and possible in the exact places where drinking used to feel automatic.
Made for: Midlife women who are alcohol-free, sober curious, trying to moderate, or starting again after returning to drinking. It especially suits listeners who want encouragement without a rigid roadmap.
What sets it apart: The show blends recovery coaching, aging, menopause-aware self-reflection, and intimate lived experience instead of treating sobriety as a one-size-fits-all plan. Its most useful moments are ordinary and specific: restaurants, vacations, day one, mood boards, community calls, and the private self-talk around alcohol.
In their own words
Welcome to To 50 and Beyond, where I invite you into conversations about midlife and living alcohol-free. Here, we focus on the possibilities ahead of you and the practices you can start right now, so you can connect with yourself and design a lifestyle alcohol can't touch.I'm Lori Massicot, born November 11, 1967, post-menopause, and after 30 years of drinking, I decided at 45 that alcohol no longer worked in my life. So I went all in on living alcohol-free, and what I found was a full life, a different life, and honestly a better one than I ever expected.Since 2018, I've worked privately with women as a coach and mentor, helping them go alcohol-free and stay alcohol-free, their way.You can…
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- midlife encouragement that treats self-trust as something you can practice, not magically possess
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The Next Chapter: Rediscovering Who You Are After Alcohol
·19m - 2
The Experience of Being Sober Over 50 with Donna Ferris
·31m - 3
Create a Spring Mood Board Just For Fun
·13m - 4
A Peek Inside My Online Community For Midlife Women Living Alcohol-Free
·22m - 5
You're Not Alone if You're In the Middle of a Life Transition
·13m - 6
A Look Inside My First Two Years Alcohol-Free: Is This Lifestyle For You?
·23m - 7
Hey There, Im Lori! A Reintroduction to the Podcast and Me
·21m - 8
Becoming a Party Girl: The Night I Went All In on Alcohol at 14
·6m - 9
What I Needed to Hear When I Quit Drinking
·12m - 10
Podcast Update: Why I'm Starting Fresh in 2026 After 8 Years of Podcasting
·15m - 11
What I'm Doing to Take Care of Myself Right Now - Ideas For You
·14m - 12
New Year, Same Courageous and Capable You
·5m - 13
A Holiday Check-In: You Are Not Alone
·8m - 14
Take a Walk With Wonder This Season
·15m - 15
Expectations and Empowering the Word "Still"
·13m - 16
Tired of Sounding Like a Broken Record? Try an "Opposite Day!"
·16m - 17
Reminders to Help You Stay Alcohol-Free on Vacation and in Restaurants and Redefine "Day One"
·24m - 18
Noelle Van on Long-Term Recovery and How to Transition Out of Corporate
·48m - 19
End-of-Year Check-In: What Will You Focus on and Not Focus On?
·22m - 20
How to Love What's On Your Plate: Finding Joy and Balance in Food and Life with Stephanie Valentine
·54m - 21
Life After Alcohol: Navigating Thoughts About Drinking Without Drinking
·24m - 22
Changing Your Drinking and Supporting Loved Ones Through the Process with Amber Hollingsworth
·38m - 23
A Conversation About Seasons of Life, Aging, and Recovery with Leigh and Anne Walkup
·49m - 24
Ideas for Celebrating Sober Anniversaries for You and Loved Ones
·26m - 25
Listener Appreciation: I'm Proud of You Keep Going
·19m - 26
Make Your Morning Routine Work For You
·20m - 27
Listen to Help You Get Centered On Why You Don't Want to Drink
·18m - 28
Everyday Self-Care to Support Your Alcohol-Free Lifestyle
·22m - 29
Listen to Help You "Play the Tape Forward"
·21m - 30
My First Year of Sobriety: What I Did to Stay Alcohol-Free
·28m - 31
Life After Alcohol: Learning to Love Yourself More with Paula Muller
·49m - 32
Staying Alcohol-Free on the "Patio" This Summer
·17m - 33
Listen When You Feel Left Out Because You're Not Drinking
·8m - 34
Negotiate for Yourself Not Alcohol
·14m - 35
What Are You Aware of About Your Relationship with Alcohol?
·17m - 36
Never-Ending To-Do Lists and Playing Catch Up
·16m - 37
Dear Midlife Woman You Are the Solution (Not Alcohol)
·18m - 38
The Midlife Sobriety Movement is Here
·18m - 39
The Benefits of Going "All In" with Leigh and Anne Walkup
·32m - 40
Reframing "Time Wasted" Drinking
·12m - 41
Honor Your Why
·18m - 42
The Meaning of Going "All In" On Living Alcohol-Free
·20m - 43
The Compound Effect: Trust Your Process
·13m - 44
Thoughts on Alcohol and Leaving it in 2024
·13m - 45
Hypnotherapy as a Tool During Dry January
·38m - 46
What Are You Waiting For? A Compassionate Approach
·23m - 47
The Alcohol-Free Lifestyle with Lindsay Sutherland Boal
·41m - 48
You Deserve to Stay Alcohol-Free This Holiday
·19m - 49
Break Free From People Pleasing with Karen Ehman
·37m - 50
Navigating Why Aren't You Drinking?
·21m - 51
Escaping Without Drinking Alcohol
·25m - 52
Realizations From Midlife Women After They Stopped Drinking
·24m - 53
A Reset For Midway Through a 30 Day Break From Alcohol
·22m - 54
Own Your Process and Celebrate Your Progress
·12m - 55
Outgrowing Yourself in Midlife
·21m - 56
Reclaim Self-Comfort From Alcohol
·24m - 57
Figuring Things Out As You Go: A Reintroduction to To 50 and Beyond
·19m - 58
Tips to Help You Prepare an Alcohol-Free Vacation
·25m - 59
Sober Gal Summer: What's In and Out
·21m - 60
Q & A: When Does Sobriety Stop Being So Hard?
·30m - 61
How I Managed My Anxiety When I Quit Drinking Alcohol
·25m - 62
Starting Over on Day One
·18m - 63
The Benefits of Staying Sober When You're Alone
·18m - 64
Wondering if Your Drinking Isn't "Bad Enough" to Quit?
·19m - 65
The Hardest Part of Getting Sober
·16m - 66
Living With the Regret of My Drinking as a Mom
·18m - 67
The Daily Sobriety Toolkit to Help You Stay Alcohol-Free
·13m - 68
How Alcohol Affects Hormones During Menopause with Dr. Dawn Bantel
·39m - 69
Understanding Alcohol Use Disorder with Sarah Rusbatch
·41m - 70
Drinking Moderately Vs. Moderating Your Drinking
·24m - 71
When Alcohol is a Reward with Leigh and Anne Walkup
·46m - 72
Insights Into Addiction and 12-Step Programs Today with Angela Pugh
·45m - 73
25 "Permission Slip" Ideas for Midlife Women
·22m - 74
Getting Older and Staying Sober
·24m - 75
Finding Freedom From Disordered Eating with Helen Bennett
·46m - 76
The Signs of Gray Area Drinking with Kari Schwear
·41m - 77
Quitting or Continuing to Drink for Other People
·22m - 78
When You're Worried About Your Drinking with Gigi Langer, PhD
·43m - 79
My Story: Why Committing to Sobriety Felt Impossible
·29m - 80
Managing Sobriety Through Nutrition and Supplements with Dr. Brooke Scheller
·47m - 81
How to Write a "Dear Alcohol" Letter as a New Year Ritual
·29m - 82
A Message to Help You Stay Sober This Holiday
·28m - 83
Is There a Downside to Doing a Dry January?
·17m - 84
Goal Setting for the Different Stages of Motherhood
·59m - 85
How to Mocktail with Debbie Podlogar
·47m - 86
A Look Inside an Online Sober Community with Janet Gourand
·40m - 87
Let's Plan Your Alcohol-Free Holiday Calendar Together
·44m - 88
Managing Holiday Stress with Cohost Amy Connell
·49m - 89
From Early Sobriety to Beyond a Year with Co-Host Sondra Primeaux
·1h 6m - 90
When to Keep Sobriety to Yourself and When to Share
·20m - 91
A Daily Plan to Support Your Alcohol-Free Lifestyle with Michelle Smith
·43m - 92
Living Alcohol-Free: The First Year with Co-Host Casey McGuire Davidson
·1h 4m - 93
How to Get Past "Forever Sober" Thinking with Co-Hosts Anne and Leigh Walkup
·52m - 94
The Bright Side of Going Alcohol-Free in Midlife
·19m - 95
Why September is a Great Time to Take a Break from Drinking
·19m - 96
How to Keep Alcohol-Free Living Top of Mind Daily
·25m - 97
The 3 Types of People Who May Derail Your Alcohol-Free Journey
·23m - 98
When You Change Your Mind - I'm on a Podcast Break Until September 11, 2024
·6m - 99
Choosing Yourself in Midlife | My Interview on The Change Effect Podcast with Noelle Van
Laurie shares her interview on The Change Effect podcast about getting sober in midlife and choosing yourself.
·41m - 100
Daily Habits to Support Long-Lasting Sobriety with Jen Hirst
Jen Hirst discusses six key habits for maintaining long-term sobriety, including hydration, gratitude, reading, exercise, accountability, and community.
·58m - 101
What Trying to Make Alcohol Work For Two Years Looked and Felt Like
Lori shares her two-year struggle to make alcohol work in her life before ultimately going alcohol-free in 2013.
Apr 15, 2026·12m - 102
Dear Midlife Woman: You Are the Solution (Not Alcohol)
Lori explains why midlife women can replace alcohol-based coping with specific personal solutions, using her own sobriety beginning at age 45 in 2013 as the central example.
Apr 8, 2026·18m·1 clip - 103
The Experience of Being Sober Over 50 with Donna Ferris
Hidden gemLaurie and Donna discuss their experiences of being sober after 50, sharing personal stories and insights about the benefits of an alcohol-free life.
Apr 1, 2026·31m·2 clips - 104
Create a Spring Mood Board Just For Fun
Lori guides listeners through creating a spring mood board as a creative project to support an alcohol-free lifestyle and celebrate aging.
Mar 25, 2026·13m - 105
A Peek Inside My Online Community For Midlife Women Living Alcohol-Free
Hidden gemLori, a 58-year-old certified life and recovery coach with 12 years sober, explains how her online alcohol-free community evolved from Team Alcohol-Free into Elevate.
Mar 18, 2026·22m·1 clip - 106
You're Not Alone if You're In the Middle of a Life Transition
Mar 11, 2026·13m - 107
A Look Inside My First Two Years Alcohol-Free: Is This Lifestyle For You?
Mar 4, 2026·23m - 108
Becoming a Party Girl: The Night I Went All In on Alcohol at 14
Feb 25, 2026·6m - 109
Hey There, Im Lori! A Reintroduction to the Podcast and Me
Feb 25, 2026·21m - 110
Podcast Update: Why I'm Starting Fresh in 2026 After 8 Years of Podcasting
Feb 9, 2026·15m - 111
What I'm Doing to Take Care of Myself Right Now - Ideas For You
Hidden gemLori describes how alcohol gave her brief relief but later amplified anxiety and disrupted sleep, especially as she got older.
Jan 29, 2026·14m - 112
New Year, Same Courageous and Capable You
Jan 2, 2026·5m - 113
A Holiday Check-In: You Are Not Alone
Dec 17, 2025·8m - 114
Take a Walk With Wonder This Season
Nov 23, 2025·15m - 115
Choosing Yourself in Midlife | My Interview on The Change Effect Podcast with Noelle Van
Nov 12, 2025·41m - 116
Expectations and Empowering the Word "Still"
Oct 29, 2025·13m - 117
Tired of Sounding Like a Broken Record? Try an "Opposite Day!"
Oct 22, 2025·16m - 118
Reminders to Help You Stay Alcohol-Free on Vacation and in Restaurants and Redefine "Day One"
Lori, host of 250 and Beyond, gives alcohol-free listeners reminders for vacations, restaurants, and returning to “day one.” She draws on stopping drinking at age 45 in 2013 after 30 years of linking alcohol with anxiety relief, relationships, vacations, restaurants, and her “Party Girl” identity.
Oct 15, 2025·24m·1 clip - 119
Noelle Van on Long-Term Recovery and How to Transition Out of Corporate
Oct 8, 2025·48m - 120
End-of-Year Check-In: What Will You Focus on and Not Focus On?
Oct 1, 2025·22m - 121
How to Love What's On Your Plate: Finding Joy and Balance in Food and Life with Stephanie Valentine
Sep 24, 2025·54m - 122
Life After Alcohol: Navigating Thoughts About Drinking Without Drinking
Sep 17, 2025·24m - 123
Changing Your Drinking and Supporting Loved Ones Through the Process with Amber Hollingsworth
Sep 10, 2025·38m - 124
A Conversation About Seasons of Life, Aging, and Recovery with Leigh and Anne Walkup
Sep 3, 2025·49m - 125
Ideas for Celebrating Sober Anniversaries for You and Loved Ones
Aug 27, 2025·26m - 126
Listener Appreciation: I'm Proud of You Keep Going
Aug 6, 2025·19m - 127
Make Your Morning Routine Work For You
Jul 30, 2025·20m - 128
Listen to Help You Get Centered On Why You Don't Want to Drink
Jul 23, 2025·18m - 129
Everyday Self-Care to Support Your Alcohol-Free Lifestyle
Jul 16, 2025·22m - 130
Listen to Help You "Play the Tape Forward"
Jul 9, 2025·21m - 131
My First Year of Sobriety: What I Did to Stay Alcohol-Free
Jul 2, 2025·28m - 132
Life After Alcohol: Learning to Love Yourself More with Paula Muller
Host Laurie Massacott interviews Paula Muller about learning to love yourself after quitting alcohol later in life.
Jun 25, 2025·49m - 133
Staying Alcohol-Free on the "Patio" This Summer
Jun 18, 2025·17m - 134
Listen When You Feel Left Out Because You're Not Drinking
Jun 18, 2025·8m - 135
Negotiate for Yourself Not Alcohol
Apr 23, 2025·14m - 136
What Are You Aware of About Your Relationship with Alcohol?
Apr 2, 2025·17m - 137
Never-Ending To-Do Lists and Playing Catch Up
Mar 26, 2025·16m - 138
The Next Chapter: Rediscovering Who You Are After Alcohol
Mar 12, 2025·19m - 139
The Midlife Sobriety Movement is Here
Feb 26, 2025·18m - 140
The Benefits of Going "All In" with Leigh and Anne Walkup
Feb 19, 2025·32m - 141
Reframing "Time Wasted" Drinking
Feb 12, 2025·12m - 142
Honor Your Why
Feb 5, 2025·18m - 143
The Meaning of Going "All In" On Living Alcohol-Free
Jan 29, 2025·20m - 144
The Compound Effect: Trust Your Process
Jan 15, 2025·13m - 145
Thoughts on Alcohol and Leaving it in 2024
Dec 25, 2024·13m - 146
Hypnotherapy as a Tool During Dry January
Dec 18, 2024·38m - 147
What Are You Waiting For? A Compassionate Approach
Dec 11, 2024·23m - 148
The Alcohol-Free Lifestyle with Lindsay Sutherland Boal
Lindsay Sutherland Boal discusses the alcohol-free lifestyle, emphasizing radical accountability and the misconception of rock bottom, while sharing resources from her Uncovery app and She Walks Canada.
Dec 4, 2024·41m - 149
You Deserve to Stay Alcohol-Free This Holiday
Nov 27, 2024·19m - 150
Break Free From People Pleasing with Karen Ehman
Laurie Massacott interviews Karen Ehman about breaking the pattern of people pleasing to support an alcohol-free lifestyle.
Nov 20, 2024·37m