The Orange Tree

Lilythrewthatorange

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Blunt growth talk from the messy middle.

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The Orange Tree turns personal turbulence into direct talk about growing up, identity, goals, college, and emotional control. Lily’s style is fast, informal, and allergic to empty encouragement, favoring real examples over polished self-help language.

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About The Orange Tree

The Orange Tree is a rapid, personal self-improvement show centered on Lily’s running commentary about becoming a more deliberate person. It does not sound detached. It sounds like someone catching herself in the middle of a life transition and deciding to make a lesson out of it before the lesson has fully cooled. Recent episodes move through identity, goals, maturity, college, emotional control, and the slow discipline of getting one percent better. The show’s energy comes from the gap between chaos and structure. Lily talks about living in short windows, chasing big dream goals, applying for jobs, rethinking paths, and still wanting enough order to keep the whole thing from spinning out. That tension gives the advice its shape. She is not selling calm from a distance. She is trying to build it in public. The strongest episodes take ordinary examples and make them useful: coffee habits, walking into the gym, choosing a college major, noticing a trigger before reacting, or realizing a relationship no longer fits. The show is especially sharp when it pushes against vague encouragement. It wants small actions, honest self-audits, and better questions. Who is someone becoming? What title has expired? Is a reaction worth its consequence? The tone can be messy, funny, blunt, and emotionally open within the same stretch. That mix makes The Orange Tree feel more like a direct personal dispatch than a polished coaching product. It is motivational, but not soft-focus. It treats growth as repetitive work: showing up, paying attention, changing a little, then doing it again. For listeners in young adulthood, transition, or ambition overload, the show offers a voice that understands uncertainty without romanticizing it. It keeps returning to the same useful demand: mature, choose, adjust, and keep moving.

Made for: Best for young adults, ambitious late starters, students, and self-improvement listeners who want direct motivation tied to ordinary life choices. It especially fits people rethinking identity, school, relationships, goals, or emotional habits.

What sets it apart: The show’s edge is Lily’s refusal to make growth sound clean or abstract. Personal chaos becomes the evidence, and the advice stays grounded in small repeatable actions rather than pretty slogans.

In their own words

Looking for a podcast that delves into the real-life struggles and transformations that we all go through? Look no further than The Orange Tree podcast! Join our dynamic host, Lily, as she shares her personal experiences and insights on everything from pursuing your dreams at a young age to confronting difficult issues that affect us all. With Lily's unique perspective as a self-proclaimed "poster child" for youth and ambition, you're sure to come away from each episode feeling inspired and empowered to tackle whatever life throws your way. So tune in to The Orange Tree podcast today!

As heard by us

Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Lily makes personal growth tangible by connecting goals, identity, and emotional regulation to decisions drawn from her own life.

Lily treats personal development as something tested in ordinary decisions. Speaking solo and conversationally, she moves through identity, emotional reactions, goal-setting, habit change, and the value of college, usually beginning with a problem from her own life before…

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Why you'd press play

Pickle-jar coffee meets one-percent progress, with Lily nudging you toward changes small enough to survive Monday.

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  • a candid push to question college before taking on debt just because it is expected
  • help separating a hot reaction from the response your future self can live with
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Best episodes of The Orange Tree

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Identity: The Truth Pt. 4 Ep. 19Jul 18, 2023

A blunt identity check for anyone outgrowing the life they built.

Lily turns a run of job delays, rejection letters, and sudden reversals into a plainspoken look at identity as something that keeps shifting. The piece works best when it resists neatness and says, without fuss, that people can outgrow jobs, titles, circumstances, and even the…

The True Impact of Goals Pt. 3 Ep. 18Jul 4, 2023

Goals matter more once they stop pretending one path fits everyone.

The episode treats goals less like a productivity trick and more like a test of values and identity. In part three of Lily's four-part series on how to live a better life, the focus stays on the emotional side of change and on the simple fact that what works in one place will…

Reacting vs Responding: Choosing the Best Version of You Ep. 8Apr 25, 2023

A blunt reminder to pause before answering, and to let time change how you show up for other people.

The Orange Tree episode eight, with Lily, stays on one clear idea: responding is different from reacting, and that difference matters for young people and for people with kids.

3 Main Reasons Why You Should Go to College Ep. 5Apr 4, 2023

A blunt warning against treating college as the default way to figure out your life.

She treats college as a costly decision, not a default milestone. After starting at 17 in farm and ranch management at the University of Wyoming, she changes majors when a ranch economics and accounting class turns into a mess that even the TAs cannot really explain.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    End of The Season! Ep 20

    Host Lily uses episode 20 of The Orange Tree to announce the end of the current podcast season and explain her reasons for taking a break.

    Jul 25, 2023·10m
  2. 2

    Identity: The Truth Pt. 4 Ep. 19

    Episode 19 starts messy.

    Jul 18, 2023·27m·2 clips
  3. 3

    The True Impact of Goals Pt. 3 Ep. 18

    Lily spends episode 18 on goals.

    Jul 4, 2023·26m·2 clips
  4. 4

    Embracing Your Values and Living THAT Life Pt. 2 Ep. 17

    Jun 27, 2023·17m
  5. 5

    Becoming THAT Girl: The Foundations Pt. 1 Ep. 16

    Jun 20, 2023·24m
  6. 6

    Legends of Transformation: Unveiling the 10 Influencers who Shaped My Journey Ep. 15

    Jun 13, 2023·39m
  7. 7

    The Impact of Divisiveness: Unmasking Manipulation and Cultivating Individuality Ep. 14

    Jun 6, 2023·25m
  8. 8

    Mind Matters: Insights and Inspiration for Cultivating a Healthier Mindset Ep. 13

    May 30, 2023·31m
  9. 9

    Youthful Wanderlust: The Benefits of Moving to Different States While You're Young Ep. 12

    May 23, 2023·16m
  10. 10

    Mindfulness and Self-Awareness: The Key to Understanding Your Emotions Ep. 11

    May 16, 2023·22m
  11. 11

    The Art of Continuous Improvement: The Key to Motivation and Personal Growth Ep. 10

    Glitter Speak goes first, and Lily is not gentle with it.

    May 9, 2023·23m·2 clips
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    Building a Body You Love: Shifting Focus from Results to the Journey Ep. 9

    May 2, 2023·23m
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    Reacting vs Responding: Choosing the Best Version of You Ep. 8

    Episode eight starts with a simple split.

    Apr 25, 2023·25m·2 clips
  14. 14

    Bonus: LTTO Origin Story

    Apr 22, 2023·5m
  15. 15

    The Straightforward Approach to Beating Anxiety Ep. 7

    Apr 18, 2023·31m
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    Overcoming Adversity: Lessons from a Foster Kid Ep. 6

    Apr 11, 2023·23m
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    3 Main Reasons Why You Should Go to College Ep. 5

    College is not a personality test.

    Apr 4, 2023·32m·2 clips
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    From Besties to Bullies: How Friendships Shape Our Lives Ep. 4

    Mar 28, 2023·23m
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    The BIGGEST Mindset Game Changer Ep. 3

    Mar 21, 2023·15m
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    Frustration Tolerance Ep. 2

    Mar 14, 2023·20m
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    My Life Story (Abridged) Excuses or Reasons Ep.1

    Mar 6, 2023·22m