Stand Firm Parents

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Raising kids whose faith lasts, one habit at a time

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Stand Firm Parents is built around one worry, voiced early in several episodes: children raised in the faith are leaving it. Jake McCandless answers with practical home habits, guest conversations about marriage, and a run of episodes on emotional health and anxious children.

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Stand Firm Parents is a Christian parenting podcast with one worry at its center: children raised in church are leaving the faith, and parents need a better response. A recurring intro asks how to raise kids who stand firm and keep a faith that lasts, adding that to turn a nation you have to take the next generation. Jake McCandless, who introduces it as his podcast, meets those high stakes with small, repeatable habits. Nothing here is elaborate. 'Set the Spiritual Tone for Your Family' makes the case for getting away around New Year's to read passages together, pray, and hear what everyone wants from the coming year. It also admits that an early attempt came with a written curriculum and no real plan for meals, and it offers a scaled-down version: a special night at home, pizza included. Laughing at the overbuilt version keeps the goal within reach. Another episode speaks to the parent too swamped to feel spiritual, suggesting church, a small group, a Bible study with a friend, Christian radio or simply a change of scenery. Emotional health gets sustained attention under the shared title 'Hello to Emotional Health'. In 'Hello to Emotional Health: How Emotional Awareness Can Go Too Far', the framing is theological first: the aim is to become more like Christ and to build Christ-like marriages and homes, so emotional health matters, though the pendulum should not swing too far. The same episode recalls hearing from older parents who raised their children in church and watched them walk away from the Lord, with the reminder that the story is not over. The two-part 'The Anxious Generation' conversation brings in a clinician who works with children and families. The clinician says suicidal thinking in young children was once an outlier and that every child who now comes in is assessed for it. The clinician also separates fear, a healthy response to danger in front of us, from anxiety, the anticipation of something bad that has not happened. The advice is concrete: connection is king, which means putting devices down, facing the child, or simply sitting nearby when a child does not want to talk. There is a clear marker for professional help, too: when everything has been tried and a child keeps growing more withdrawn or anxious. Marriage enters through 'Why Marriage Needs Purpose', a conversation with a couple who have mentored many couples. A guest named Lisa recalls a tearful conversation about another couple's marriage roughly a decade before that couple renewed their vows, and the husband turning to her mid-ceremony to ask if she remembered that night. The same conversation credits a summit the guests ran with introducing emotional intelligence, which led to the emotional health series. Personal stories do most of the teaching, in a warm, conversational register. It is a production of Stand Firm Ministries in partnership with LifeWord Studios, created by Jake McCandless and Brandon Harrington of Dime Collective, and its recent episodes all close on the same charge: stand firm.

Made for: Suits a Christian parent who wants simple ways to pass on faith at home and is open to hearing about marriage and children's mental health alongside prayer and Bible reading.

What sets it apart: Stand Firm Parents pairs its goal of lasting faith with a sustained run on emotional health, including a child clinician on anxiety, so spiritual habits are not presented as the whole answer. The practical advice stays small, from a pizza night at home to a Bible study with a friend.

In their own words

Christian parents do everything they can to help their children come to faith and follow in that faith, but statistically we are failing miserably—most children raised in church and Christian homes leave the faith by age twenty-two and often before that. It's time for a change. It's time to flip the script. Stand Firm Parents is doing just that. Pastor and author Jake McCandless has been on a unique journey of helping believers across the world stand firm in their faith for the past ten years. Before the radical changes to life and especially church in 2020, Jake had been encouraging believers to prepare so that they would just survive but strive in difficulty. This journey has led to relati…

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Jake's family faith retreat came with a lesson in logistics: you should bring dinner.

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  • permission to start a family faith conversation with one Bible passage instead of a homemade curriculum
  • a clinician's take on children's anxiety, including the simple art of facing your child when they talk
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Why Marriage Needs PurposeFeb 13, 2026

A hard conversation, a vow renewal, and a grounded case for giving marriage a shared mission.

Jake McCandless frames the idea of a marriage mission statement through a story with real weight behind it. Lisa remembers a hard conversation with a couple whose marriage was under strain, then the later 20th-anniversary vow renewal where the husband admitted he had once been…

Set the Spiritual Tone for Your FamilyFeb 1, 2026

A practical nudge toward making family faith part of the new year's shared rhythm.

Jake McCandless turns a family spiritual retreat into a practical prompt for beginning the new year with intention. He starts with lived-in memories of cold late-December and early-January nights, a hot tub, and an underplanned hunt for food, then brings the focus back to simple…

When You Feel Too Overwhelmed to Be Spiritual — 3 Simple StepsDec 9, 2025

A gentle, practical reset for parents whose spiritual routines have been crowded out by a busy season.

Jake McCandless takes up a familiar tension for parents: the desire to draw closer to God while a hectic season keeps pushing spiritual time to the margins. His counsel is modest and usable.

Hello to Emotional Health: How Emotional Awareness Can Go Too FarNov 7, 2025

A Christian parenting episode on emotional health, family strain, and the limits of therapeutic language.

Stand Firm Parents centers intentional Christian parenting on emotional and mental health, then presses into what can happen when therapeutic language becomes the main way families explain pain, distance, and conflict.

Hello to Emotional Health: The Anxious Generation (Part 2)Oct 28, 2025

A practical, connection-first conversation about presence, warning signs, and when a child's struggles may need professional help.

Stand Firm Parents frames a child's well-being as something parents notice and nurture in everyday connection. Jake McCandless and therapist Temple Carson keep the focus on steady presence, with Carson's "toes and nose" reminder making attention feel concrete rather than…

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Why Marriage Needs Purpose

    Hidden gem

    Jake McCandless uses Stand Firm Parents to frame marriage as the foundation for a faith that lasts, then interviews Lisa and Jamie Castro from Sarasota, Florida.

    Feb 13, 2026·36m·2 clips
  2. 2

    Set the Spiritual Tone for Your Family

    Hidden gem

    Jake McCandless of Stand Firm Parents explains how his family used two New Year's retreats to discuss spiritual life, future plans, Bible passages, and family habits.

    Feb 1, 2026·17m·1 clip
  3. 3

    When You Feel Too Overwhelmed to Be Spiritual — 3 Simple Steps

    Hidden gem

    Jake McCandless of Stand Firm Parents gives three responses to spiritual dryness during overwhelming seasons: change the routine, simplify the practice, and focus on God’s attributes.

    Dec 9, 2025·20m·1 clip
  4. 4

    Hello to Emotional Health: How Emotional Awareness Can Go Too Far

    Hidden gem

    Jake McCandless closes a Stand Firm Parents series called “Hello to emotional health” by warning Christian parents not to let the “pendulum swing too far.” He says older children and 20-somethings are using terms like “non-contact,” “toxic,” “protect my peace,” “narcissistic,” and “trauma bonded” to cut off parents.

    Nov 7, 2025·21m·2 clips
  5. 5

    Hello to Emotional Health: The Anxious Generation (Part 2)

    Stand Firm Parents host Jake McCandless continues his conversation with therapist Temple Carson about child emotional health and The Anxious Generation.

    Oct 28, 2025·19m·1 clip
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    Hello to Emotional Health: The Anxious Generation (Part 1)

    Hidden gem

    Jake McCandless and licensed clinician Temple Carson examine child and teen emotional health through Jonathan Haidt's The Anxious Generation and Carson's clinical experience since 2009.

    Oct 20, 2025·19m·1 clip
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    Hello to Emotional Health: Beyond Therapy, Counseling, & Medication – Part 2

    Oct 1, 2025·11m
  8. 8

    Hello to Emotional Health: Beyond Therapy, Counseling, & Medication (Part 1)

    Stand Firm Parents' “Hello to Emotional Health” argues that parents need everyday emotional skills alongside therapy, counseling, and medication.

    Sep 24, 2025·16m·1 clip
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    Hello to Emotional Health: Can Christians Even Talk About It?

    Dr. Mark Dance says self-care according to scripture "is not selfish, it's strategic," citing Paul's twin charges to Timothy.

    Sep 16, 2025·38m·2 clips
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    Hello to Emotional Health: I Have a Therapist

    Sep 11, 2025·27m
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    50th Episode Celebration: The Top Lesson So Far

    Sep 5, 2025·25m
  12. 12

    Persecution is Coming

    Aug 29, 2025·22m
  13. 13

    Real Life Standing Firm

    Aug 22, 2025·25m
  14. 14

    Fully Integrated Faith: Conclusion

    Aug 6, 2025·21m
  15. 15

    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from My Journey

    Aug 1, 2025·19m
  16. 16

    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from Maturity

    Jul 24, 2025·32m
  17. 17

    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from Brain Science

    Mar 19, 2025·26m
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    Fully Integrated Faith: Parenting from the Other Half of Church

    Mar 5, 2025·23m
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    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from the Other Half of Church

    Feb 18, 2025·30m
  20. 20

    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from Being the Church

    Feb 11, 2025·37m
  21. 21

    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from the Released Church

    Feb 4, 2025·41m
  22. 22

    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from the Underground Church

    Jan 28, 2025·31m
  23. 23

    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from the First Century

    Jan 21, 2025·31m
  24. 24

    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from a Hebraic Mindset

    Jan 14, 2025·39m
  25. 25

    Fully Integrated Faith: Lessons from the Global Church

    Jan 6, 2025·31m
  26. 26

    Fully Integrated Faith: Tools vs End Game

    Jake McCandless discusses the importance of fully integrating faith into all aspects of family life to help children develop a lasting faith.

    Dec 16, 2024·23m
  27. 27

    Marriage & The Social Media Algorithm

    Dec 9, 2024·26m
  28. 28

    Keep Them Safe on Their Devices - Tech and Our Children

    Dec 2, 2024·38m
  29. 29

    When Should They Get a Phone? - Tech and Our Children

    Nov 25, 2024·36m
  30. 30

    Marriage: There is Hope

    Nov 18, 2024·37m
  31. 31

    What Should I Believe about Israel

    Nov 11, 2024·34m
  32. 32

    Israel and Our Children: Children's Perspective of Israel

    Nov 4, 2024·15m
  33. 33

    Lessons from the Persecuted Church

    Oct 28, 2024·37m
  34. 34

    Israel and Our Children: Antisemitism and the Next Generation

    Oct 21, 2024·33m
  35. 35

    Israel and Our Children: On the Ground in Israel

    Oct 14, 2024·21m
  36. 36

    Israel and Our Children: Israel Impacts Their Faith

    Oct 7, 2024·24m
  37. 37

    Parents as Disciplemakers: Just Start Somewhere

    Oct 1, 2024·24m
  38. 38

    Parents as Disciplemakers: Parents, We Are Important

    Sep 23, 2024·30m
  39. 39

    Parents as Disciplemakers: Discipleship Isn't Hard

    Sep 16, 2024·26m
  40. 40

    Parents as Disciplemakers: Lessons from Noah & Lot

    Sep 4, 2024·22m
  41. 41

    Why They Stay

    Jan 23, 2023·27m
  42. 42

    Two Steps In One

    Jan 9, 2023·24m
  43. 43

    Tell Them the Whole Story

    Jake McCandless discusses raising children with lasting faith and continues his series on spiritual prepper steps, while acknowledging the Christmas season.

    Dec 19, 2022·25m
  44. 44

    More than a Guardrail

    Dec 5, 2022·26m
  45. 45

    Give Them Guard Rails

    Jake McCandless uses the analogy of a guardrail on a dangerous road to discuss the importance of setting boundaries for children to protect their faith.

    Nov 21, 2022·22m
  46. 46

    Teach Them to Walk Again

    Jake McCandless discusses practical steps for raising children with a lasting faith, focusing on the first 'W' (Warning) from biblical principles.

    Nov 7, 2022·25m
  47. 47

    Warn Them Because This

    Oct 24, 2022·23m
  48. 48

    We Must Warn

    Jake McCandless discusses how parents can help their children develop a lasting, striving faith in God that continues after they leave home.

    Oct 10, 2022·26m
  49. 49

    Let's Get Practical

    Sep 26, 2022·27m
  50. 50

    Stages for a Lasting Faith

    Sep 12, 2022·27m