
Men’s dating advice with sharper edges.
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School Of Attraction Podcast is a direct, advice-driven show about dating, attraction, masculinity, sexuality, and life philosophy. Its episodes move between practical coaching, guest conversations, and arguments about how modern relationships are shaped by apps, gender politics, and changing social expectations.
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About School Of Attraction Podcast
School Of Attraction Podcast presents dating as a learned craft, not a mystery to be solved by luck or slogans. Its center of gravity is men’s dating and attraction coaching, but the conversations often widen into masculinity, sexuality, life philosophy, politics, and the uneasy rules of modern relationships. The show is direct. It is also comfortable arguing. In one episode, Damian Deeker tests ChatGPT against the kind of feedback a human dating coach might give, using online conversation examples and rating where the tool succeeds or falls short. That episode is practical and surprisingly specific, focusing on message tone, playful teasing, and the common panic of not knowing what a romantic situation means. In another, Michelle Hoffman discusses finding a lasting partner through clarity, intention, and emotional availability. The emphasis there is slower and more relationship-minded. It is less about pickup and more about choosing who belongs in a future life. Other episodes turn sharper. Marc Defant appears in a discussion about evolutionary psychology, feminist critiques, patriarchy, discrimination, and the biological explanations people accept or reject when talking about sex and power. The show does not treat dating as separate from culture. It repeatedly frames attraction as something shaped by technology, history, social pressure, and the stories men and women tell about each other. A conversation with Chris moves through Thailand, Chiang Mai, dating apps, cold approaching, and the dating-coach scene, with a more casual feel and some skepticism about the industry. Across these excerpts, the show’s rhythm is loose but purposeful. There are monologues, interviews, thought experiments, and examples from client-style scenarios. The copy is not polished into neutral wellness language. It has opinions, contradictions, and a willingness to say when something feels ineffective, overhyped, or socially confused. Listeners looking for gentle relationship reassurance may find it too pointed. Listeners who want a candid men’s dating show that connects tactics to larger arguments about gender and society will understand its appeal quickly.
Made for: The show is for men interested in improving dating skills, understanding attraction, and thinking through modern relationship dynamics. It especially suits listeners who want practical coaching mixed with debate about masculinity, technology, and sexual politics.
What sets it apart: Unlike narrower dating-tip shows, School Of Attraction Podcast moves between applied coaching and broader arguments about culture, science, ideology, and relationship expectations. It is as interested in why dating feels difficult as in what to say next.
In their own words
A place for men to learn about everything from approaching and attracting beautiful women, to men's personal development, the politics of sex and much much more. There's no topic Damien won't discuss as we dive down the rabbit hole of learned seduction and men's health. https://schoolofattraction.com https://www.youtube.com/schoolofattraction https://www.tiktok.com/@schoolofattaction
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Episodes
- 1
What 100,000+ Personality Test Results Taught Me About My Clients
·17m - 2
When Science Meets Ideology: A Geochemist Dismantles Feminist Critiques of Evolutionary Psychology
·1h 1m - 3
Deconstructing the Red Pill: A Nuanced Take on Hypergamy, Dating Markets, and Modern Masculinity
·1h 2m - 4
Dating in Thailand, Apps vs. Cold Approaching, and the Future of Modern Relationships
·1h 1m - 5
Inside the Sugar Dating World: Myths, Money & Modern Relationships
·49m - 6
Modern Masculinity: Healthy Strength vs. Toxic Myths With Tim Wienecke
·1h 1m - 7
Taking Back Our Masculinity - Andre Paradis
·1h 4m - 8
Dating in the Digital Age: Why Modern Men Are Struggling (and How to Break Free)
·45m - 9
How Modern Victim Mentality Is Destroy Men's Sucess In Dating - Ryan Dixon
·51m - 10
The Curse Of Social Media On Modern Dating - Hayley Quinn
·39m - 11
Developing Healthy Masculinity And Recovering From Dating Trauma - Timothy Wienecke
·1h - 12
The Best Dating Coach You Haven’t Used (Yet) | ChatGPT vs Human Coach
·35m - 13
Complete Roadmap To Attracting Women - From Start To Finish
·21m - 14
Flip Her Attraction Switch: The Underrated Power of Rapport
·25m - 15
From 1 Date A Year To 4 Dates A Week (With No Cold Approaching)
·21m - 16
How To Level Up With Women Fast - Starting Today
·20m - 17
Stop Getting Instantly Rejected By Women
·17m - 18
The Toxic Side Of Feminism - Ruining It For Everyone
·24m - 19
Why Do Women Cheat? Here Are The Biggest Red Flags
·25m - 20
Iron John & the Wild Man Within: What Modern Men Are Missing
·15m - 21
A Female Dating Coach's Perspective - How To Approach Women?
·1h - 22
How To Approach A Woman In A Bar - All Scenarios Covered
·17m - 23
CONFIDENCE FAIL! 5 Myths You Need to Stop Believing
·15m - 24
Self-Perception vs Reality: What Holds Men Back
·14m - 25
11 Signs A Girl Likes You
·13m - 26
Why Men Rage Quit Dating: The 3 Barriers Holding You Back
·16m - 27
How To Stop Getting Instantly Rejected By Women
·17m - 28
The Ultimate Tinder Strategy for 2025: 3 Steps to Win Big
·12m - 29
The Ugly Truth - Dating And Attraction For Men
·27m - 30
Should Men Avoid Marriage? The Statistical Evidence
·17m - 31
How To Sexually Flirt With Women (With Examples)
·13m - 32
How I Beat Panic And Anxiety When Nothing Else Worked
·21m - 33
5 Steps To Build Confidence As An Introvert
·21m - 34
The Dark Side of Seeking Empowerment: Men, Red Pill, and Mental Health
·18m - 35
The Surprising Reason Smart Men Struggle With Women
·16m - 36
Style Hacks from a Nobel Laureate: Heuristic Attraction 🔥
·15m - 37
Healing Sexual Shame and Becoming A Better Lover
·1h 6m - 38
The Quiet Charm: How To Be Introverted and Successful with Women
·16m - 39
Women’s Sexual Liberation - Empowerment Or Social Erosion?
·16m - 40
6 Red Flags When Meeting Women In Bars/Clubs
·16m - 41
Flake-Proofing Your Profile: Client's Tinder Hack Revealed
·11m - 42
Reframe Your Mindset: How to Be More Attractive to Women
·11m - 43
Passport Bros: A Valid Solution To A Real Problem?
·15m - 44
Why 90% Of Men Struggle To Build Attraction
·13m - 45
Tinder VS ChatGPT: Testing AI-Powered Openers
·19m - 46
Long Term Partner Green Flags - Choosing The Perfect Mate
·13m - 47
Should Men Care About Women's Body Count? - Let's Analyse The Data
·18m - 48
Is Dating Easier For Men Or Women?
·19m - 49
I Did A Tantra Workshop - Things Got Spicy 🌶 🌶
·20m - 50
Do Age Gap Relationships Work?
·28m - 51
4 Truths To Leading An Uncommon and Extraordinary Life - Terry Tucker
·44m - 52
How To Build Powerful Banter Skills - Interview With Comedienne Kristen Carney
·1h 4m - 53
Man's Need For Intimate Connection For Mental Health - Simon Rinne
·49m - 54
A Female Dating Coach Perspective - Biggest Mistakes Men And Women Make - Laurie Gerber
·54m - 55
Attachment Styles And The Power Of Psychedelic Assisted Therapy - Thomas Westenholz
·55m - 56
3 Steps For Men To Enter Their Masculine - GS Youngblood
·55m - 57
The Importance of Deep Social Connections To Mental Health - Florance Ann Romano
·41m - 58
How To Make Her First Time In Bed With You Amazing - With Leah Piper
·56m - 59
How To Increase Your Testosterone - Interview With Nick Soulias
·36m - 60
Do Women Hold All The Power When You Approach Them?
·14m - 61
7 Ways To Build Sexual Tension With A Woman
·23m - 62
Sexual Esclation Vs Sexual Tension - A Mistake Many Guys Make
·12m - 63
How Bad Are Racial Dating Preferences? - A Critique Of The ‘OK Cupid’ Statistics
·15m - 64
No Luck Online Dating? Here’s A Completely Novel Approach
·11m - 65
Why One Night Stands Are A BAD Casual Sex Strategy
·12m - 66
Should You Be More Masculine To Attract Women?
·10m - 67
My Funniest Dating Failures - Best Ways I've Crashed And Burned
·15m - 68
What's The Best Way To Meet Women These Days?
·16m - 69
Feeling Stuck With Women - Use This Checklist To Get To The Next Level
·20m - 70
How To Set Boundaries Witih Women - And Be Respected
·13m - 71
How To Approach A Girl At A Bar - Without Being A D-Bag
·13m - 72
Being Needy Vs Confidently Expressing Desire - A Crucial Distinction
·11m - 73
How To Exploit The Tinder Algorithm In 2022 - Niching, Netflix, And Venn Diagrams
·10m - 74
Is It Worth Turning To Tantra To Build Our Sexual Self Esteem? Interview With Marcin - Kinky Guru
·51m - 75
Why All Men Need To Learn How To Connect Deeply To Others
·50m - 76
Learning To Overcome The Grief Of Breakup
·47m - 77
Using Online Video Chat To Safely Explore Our Kinks - Interview With Femme Fatale From Arousr
·36m - 78
How To Stop NEEDING Things From Women - Divya Darling Makes Me Squirm In Very Personal Interview
·54m - 79
A Scientific Look At The Red Pill Ideology - Interview With Author Cynthia Payne
·46m - 80
How Has Dating Changed The Last Few Years? - Interview With Lloyd From The Single Guy
·1h 20m - 81
Being Present And In Your Masculine Around Women - Interview With A Mentor
·53m - 82
What Top Salesmen Can Teach Us About Attracting Women?
·13m - 83
New Hinge Dating Statistics - What Photos Get The Most Matches?
·17m - 84
Dating Preferences And Race - Is Racial Fetishization Bad? Not Necessarily....
·18m - 85
How To Get Lucky With Women - Choosing Your Relationship To Luck And Loss
·13m - 86
To Attract Beautiful Women - You Must First Walk Away From Them
·11m - 87
Women Aren't That Complicated - You Are!
·9m - 88
Why Can I Break Dating "Rules" - And Still Be Successful
·12m - 89
Want To Be Successful At Life? - Consider A Therapist
·7m - 90
Evolutionary Theory Of Attraction - Fact Or Fiction?
·15m - 91
Do You Flirt With Women From The Wrong Tribes - And Always Fail?
·12m - 92
How To Have Fun With Girls - Accessing Your Inner Child
·12m - 93
Dating Younger Women - A Complex Morality
·14m - 94
Stop Being Shy With Girls | Overcome Social Anxiety The Easy Way
·9m - 95
When To Sexually Escalate - Many Guys Get This Wrong
·10m - 96
3 Radical Strategies to Become More Confident With Girls
·13m - 97
How To Make Her Chase You - Without Being Manipulative
·18m - 98
How To Discover Your Kink - And Become Amazing In Bed - Interview With Priestess Ava
·47m - 99
Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?
·13m - 100
How To Become Grokking Successful At Everything
·11m - 101
The Misunderstood Art of Finding The Right Long Term Partner
Hidden gemDamien Deeker interviews Michelle Hoffman on the School of Attraction podcast about how to identify a long-term partner instead of settling for chemistry alone.
Apr 15, 2026·51m·3 clips - 102
Healing Sexual Shame and Becoming A Better Lover
Apr 2, 2026·1h 6m - 103
When Science Meets Ideology: A Geochemist Dismantles Feminist Critiques of Evolutionary Psychology
Marc Defant, a geochemist and professor at the University of South Florida, joins host Damian Deeker on the School of Attraction podcast to argue that feminist critiques of evolutionary psychology lack empirical grounding and that patriarchal social structures are an emergent product of human evolution rather than a male conspiracy.
Jan 28, 2026·1h 1m·3 clips - 104
Deconstructing the Red Pill: A Nuanced Take on Hypergamy, Dating Markets, and Modern Masculinity
Jan 22, 2026·1h 2m - 105
Dating in Thailand, Apps vs. Cold Approaching, and the Future of Modern Relationships
Damien Deeker introduces a guest, Chris, a fellow dating coach, and discusses their long-standing acquaintance and Chris's reputation as a decent person in the dating coaching industry.
Sep 29, 2025·1h 1m - 106
Inside the Sugar Dating World: Myths, Money & Modern Relationships
Marcus's six-hour date ended with a soulmate disappearing, a prison discovery, and a U.S. Marshal returning her dog.
Sep 22, 2025·49m·2 clips - 107
Modern Masculinity: Healthy Strength vs. Toxic Myths With Tim Wienecke
Sep 15, 2025·1h 1m - 108
Dating in the Digital Age: Why Modern Men Are Struggling (and How to Break Free)
Denny Jones tells Damian Deeker that young men now face higher social anxiety, online pressure, and fewer face-to-face interactions.
Sep 8, 2025·45m·2 clips - 109
How Modern Victim Mentality Is Destroy Men's Sucess In Dating - Ryan Dixon
Sep 1, 2025·51m - 110
The Curse Of Social Media On Modern Dating - Hayley Quinn
Aug 25, 2025·39m - 111
Developing Healthy Masculinity And Recovering From Dating Trauma - Timothy Wienecke
Aug 18, 2025·1h - 112
The Best Dating Coach You Haven’t Used (Yet) | ChatGPT vs Human Coach
Hidden gemDamian Deeker of the School Of Attraction podcast tests whether ChatGPT can do the work of a dating coach after 17 years in the field.
Aug 11, 2025·35m·2 clips - 113
Complete Roadmap To Attracting Women - From Start To Finish
Aug 4, 2025·21m - 114
Flip Her Attraction Switch: The Underrated Power of Rapport
Jul 28, 2025·25m - 115
From 1 Date A Year To 4 Dates A Week (With No Cold Approaching)
Jul 21, 2025·21m - 116
How To Level Up With Women Fast - Starting Today
Jul 14, 2025·20m - 117
Stop Getting Instantly Rejected By Women
Jul 7, 2025·17m - 118
The Toxic Side Of Feminism - Ruining It For Everyone
Jun 30, 2025·24m - 119
Why Do Women Cheat? Here Are The Biggest Red Flags
Jun 23, 2025·25m - 120
Iron John & the Wild Man Within: What Modern Men Are Missing
May 7, 2025·15m - 121
A Female Dating Coach's Perspective - How To Approach Women?
Apr 27, 2025·1h - 122
How To Approach A Woman In A Bar - All Scenarios Covered
Apr 20, 2025·17m - 123
CONFIDENCE FAIL! 5 Myths You Need to Stop Believing
Apr 16, 2025·15m - 124
Self-Perception vs Reality: What Holds Men Back
Apr 13, 2025·14m - 125
Why Men Rage Quit Dating: The 3 Barriers Holding You Back
Apr 9, 2025·16m - 126
How To Stop Getting Instantly Rejected By Women
Apr 6, 2025·17m - 127
The Ultimate Tinder Strategy for 2025: 3 Steps to Win Big
Apr 2, 2025·12m - 128
The Ugly Truth - Dating And Attraction For Men
Mar 30, 2025·27m - 129
Should Men Avoid Marriage? The Statistical Evidence
Mar 26, 2025·17m - 130
How To Sexually Flirt With Women (With Examples)
Mar 23, 2025·13m - 131
How I Beat Panic And Anxiety When Nothing Else Worked
Mar 19, 2025·21m - 132
5 Steps To Build Confidence As An Introvert
Mar 16, 2025·21m - 133
The Dark Side of Seeking Empowerment: Men, Red Pill, and Mental Health
Mar 12, 2025·18m - 134
The Surprising Reason Smart Men Struggle With Women
Mar 9, 2025·16m - 135
Style Hacks from a Nobel Laureate: Heuristic Attraction 🔥
Mar 5, 2025·15m - 136
What 100,000+ Personality Test Results Taught Me About My Clients
Mar 2, 2025·17m - 137
The Quiet Charm: How To Be Introverted and Successful with Women
Feb 26, 2025·16m - 138
Women’s Sexual Liberation - Empowerment Or Social Erosion?
Feb 23, 2025·16m - 139
6 Red Flags When Meeting Women In Bars/Clubs
Feb 19, 2025·16m - 140
Flake-Proofing Your Profile: Client's Tinder Hack Revealed
Feb 12, 2025·11m - 141
11 Signs A Girl Likes You
Feb 9, 2025·13m - 142
Reframe Your Mindset: How to Be More Attractive to Women
Feb 5, 2025·11m - 143
Passport Bros: A Valid Solution To A Real Problem?
Feb 2, 2025·15m - 144
Why 90% Of Men Struggle To Build Attraction
Jan 29, 2025·13m - 145
Tinder VS ChatGPT: Testing AI-Powered Openers
Jan 26, 2025·19m - 146
Long Term Partner Green Flags - Choosing The Perfect Mate
Jan 22, 2025·13m - 147
Should Men Care About Women's Body Count? - Let's Analyse The Data
Jan 19, 2025·18m - 148
Is Dating Easier For Men Or Women?
Jan 15, 2025·19m - 149
I Did A Tantra Workshop - Things Got Spicy 🌶 🌶
Jan 12, 2025·20m - 150
Do Age Gap Relationships Work?
Jan 9, 2025·28m