Relationsh!t Podcast

Marko & Steve

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Black queer dating talk, unfiltered and funny.

The gist

Relationsh!t Podcast is a brisk, bantering relationship show built around Black queer life and the mess of modern dating. Marco and Steve move from songs and side jokes into real talk about attraction, therapy, jealousy, apps, grief, and relationships.

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About Relationsh!t Podcast

Relationsh!t Podcast is a Black queer relationship show that prefers a messy living-room rhythm to a polished advice-column voice. Marco and Steve often begin with a song, a joke, a club memory, or a tiny disagreement before the episode settles into its subject. That looseness is part of the appeal. The show treats dating and relationships as social behavior, private anxiety, public performance, and comedy material all at once. Dating app episodes linger on types, matches, faceless profiles, couples, age gaps, shirtless photos, algorithmic nudges, and the addictive slot-machine feeling of swiping. The conversation is funny because it is specific. It also keeps asking what people are trying to communicate when they post, message, flirt, avoid, or seek validation. Work spouses become more than office shorthand here. Marco and Steve talk through lunch jealousy, emotional priority, workplace chemistry, personal disclosures, and the moment closeness starts to feel like dependency. Therapy is handled with surprising detail, especially when EMDR comes up as a structured trauma treatment rather than a vague wellness phrase. The show can be silly, then precise. It can pause on grief around public figures, then wander back into pop culture and relationship logistics without making a clean emotional border. That movement feels true to the format. Episodes also carry the texture of queer nightlife, body talk, attraction politics, and the way race can shape assumptions in social spaces. The hosts are comfortable teasing each other, losing the thread, and making the tangent part of the point. Their dynamic gives the show its shape: one thought gets tossed out, challenged, rephrased, and turned until it becomes either a punchline or an actual insight. The advice is not sterile. It comes wrapped in jokes, exasperation, affection, and the sense that the conversation could keep going after the microphones stop. The result is a relationship show for people who want honesty without clinical distance. It is candid, funny, community-minded, and willing to say the uncomfortable part in cleaner terms than the group chat probably would.

Made for: Best for listeners who like queer relationship conversations with jokes, music references, nightlife texture, and frank emotional honesty. It especially fits people interested in dating apps, attraction, therapy, and modern intimacy.

What sets it apart: Its strength is the Marco-and-Steve rhythm: affectionate teasing, quick detours, and real relationship analysis happening inside the banter. The show feels less like formal advice and more like overhearing friends turn a chaotic night out into a usable lesson.

In their own words

The weekly podcast, hosted by Marko and Steve is a vibrant and insightful exploration of dating and relationships through the lens of Black queer experiences. In each episode, they dive deep into the nuances of love, attraction, and intimacy while tackling the challenges and joys unique to the queer community. Marko and Steve bring their personal stories and lived experiences to the conversation, creating a safe, open space where listeners can relate, learn, laugh, and feel seen.

As heard by us

Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Marco and Steve make modern intimacy legible through candid disagreement, personal examples, cultural observation, and an alert sense of humor.

Relationsh!t Podcast lets Marco and Steve move from personal experience to larger questions about how intimacy works. Their conversations examine dating-app behavior, attraction, jealousy, emotional dependency, and the assumptions people make about Black queer men.

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Why you'd press play

Marco and Steve turn dating-app judgment into the group chat you wish had better follow-up questions.

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  • two best friends testing your app-era dating logic without sanding off the awkward parts
  • your work-spouse boundaries examined before emotional dependency gets an office badge
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EMDR TherapyApr 15, 2026

A Black queer relationship podcast turns EMDR into a clear, listenable conversation.

Marco and Steve start with teasing banter, then move into EMDR therapy and what it looks like from the therapist's side. The episode makes a specific trauma treatment easy to follow in plain language.

Work SpousesApr 8, 2026

A funny, frank take on when workplace chemistry starts to feel like a relationship.

Marco and Steve keep the tone loose and funny while circling a familiar office problem: when a work friend starts to feel a little too much like a work spouse.

The Swipe Life pt. 2Mar 25, 2026

Swipe culture framed through validation, algorithmic pull, and the comfort of judging from a distance.

Marco and Steve use the episode to examine swipe culture through validation, self-curation, and the pull of being watched. The conversation moves from shirtless profile photos to the app as a slot machine, then to the prompts that keep people returning and even push them to…

The Swipe Life pt. 1Mar 18, 2026

A loose, funny dating-app conversation about type, attention, and the assumptions people make.

Marco and Steve start with a Bieber aside, then settle into a loose talk about dating apps, type, and the assumptions that keep shaping queer dating.

Y'all Were BusyMar 11, 2026

A dumb-song bit opens into a loose, reflective chat that also turns sad.

Marco and Steve are at their best when they latch onto Tyler's "Put Me in Chanel," a song they first dismiss as stupid and then end up liking after hearing it out at Hush.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Rejection

    Sep 30, 2026·1h 30m
  2. 2

    Superficial Much?

    Sep 23, 2026·1h 33m
  3. 3

    Dating with Intention

    On Relationsh!t Podcast, Marco and Steve define dating with intention as knowing what you want and communicating it directly.

    Sep 16, 2026·1h 39m·2 clips
  4. 4

    Summertime Sadness

    Sep 9, 2026·1h 51m
  5. 5

    ENCORE: Pet Names

    Sep 2, 2026·1h 15m
  6. 6

    ENCORE: M@sturbation

    Aug 26, 2026·1h 16m
  7. 7

    ENCORE: Cheating

    Aug 19, 2026·1h 34m
  8. 8

    ENCORE: Flirting

    Aug 12, 2026·1h 25m
  9. 9

    ENCORE: Head First

    Aug 5, 2026·1h 15m
  10. 10

    ENCORE: Thr33somes

    Jul 29, 2026·1h 33m
  11. 11

    ENCORE: Doing the Work

    Jul 22, 2026·1h 42m
  12. 12

    ENCORE: Traveling While Gay

    Jul 15, 2026·1h 39m
  13. 13

    ENCORE: Same Argument Over & Over Again

    Jul 8, 2026·1h 18m
  14. 14

    Dating is a Drag

    Jul 1, 2026·1h 27m
  15. 15

    Stay Ready

    Jun 24, 2026·1h 51m
  16. 16

    Gay While Black

    Jun 17, 2026·1h 32m
  17. 17

    Love Me, Love My Interests

    Jun 10, 2026·1h 54m
  18. 18

    No Fats, No Fems

    Jun 3, 2026·1h 46m
  19. 19

    Cuddle Bug

    May 27, 2026·1h 28m
  20. 20

    Just Checking In pt. 2

    May 20, 2026·1h 27m
  21. 21

    Lavender Marriages

    May 13, 2026·1h 39m
  22. 22

    Please and Thank You's

    May 6, 2026·1h 32m
  23. 23

    Switching Up Positions

    Apr 29, 2026·1h 53m
  24. 24

    Value-based Dating

    Apr 22, 2026·1h 27m
  25. 25

    EMDR Therapy

    Hidden gem

    Marco and Steve open with playful banter, a little singing, and some gossip before moving into EMDR therapy.

    Apr 15, 2026·1h 35m·5 clips
  26. 26

    Work Spouses

    Hidden gem

    Marco and Steve open with a sing-along and some playful teasing.

    Apr 8, 2026·1h 13m·5 clips
  27. 27

    Breadcrumbing

    Apr 1, 2026·1h 28m
  28. 28

    The Swipe Life pt. 2

    Hidden gem

    Marco and Steve open with a playful music tease, then slide into a Black queer conversation about relationships, dating, and swipe culture.

    Mar 25, 2026·1h 45m·5 clips
  29. 29

    The Swipe Life pt. 1

    Marco and Steve open with flirtation and a Justin Bieber joke.

    Mar 18, 2026·1h 23m·5 clips
  30. 30

    Y'all Were Busy

    Marco and Steve start with a song.

    Mar 11, 2026·1h 40m·5 clips
  31. 31

    Did You Miss Us?

    Mar 8, 2026·3m
  32. 32

    ENCORE: Are You Annoying?

    Mar 4, 2026·1h 32m
  33. 33

    ENCORE: Or@l Sex

    Feb 25, 2026·1h 35m
  34. 34

    ENCORE: Exes

    Feb 18, 2026·1h 24m
  35. 35

    ENCORE: Making Out

    Feb 11, 2026·2h 3m
  36. 36

    ENCORE: Size Queens

    Feb 4, 2026·1h 36m
  37. 37

    ENCORE: S3xuality

    Jan 28, 2026·1h 44m
  38. 38

    ENCORE: Moving for Love

    Jan 21, 2026·1h 33m
  39. 39

    ENCORE: Nitpicking

    Jan 14, 2026·1h 33m
  40. 40

    ENCORE: Lvbe

    Jan 7, 2026·1h 17m
  41. 41

    Circle Back

    Dec 31, 2025·1h 4m
  42. 42

    Be Our Guest

    Dec 24, 2025·1h 40m
  43. 43

    Losing My Religion

    Dec 17, 2025·1h 47m
  44. 44

    Body Count

    Dec 10, 2025·1h 50m
  45. 45

    ENCORE: M@sturbation

    Dec 3, 2025·1h 18m
  46. 46

    Are You Annoying?

    Nov 26, 2025·1h 32m
  47. 47

    Or@l Sex

    Nov 19, 2025·1h 35m
  48. 48

    Exes

    Nov 12, 2025·1h 24m
  49. 49

    ENCORE: Pet Names

    Nov 5, 2025·1h 16m
  50. 50

    Just Checking In pt. 1

    Oct 29, 2025·1h 18m
  51. 51

    Making Out

    Oct 22, 2025·2h 3m
  52. 52

    Size Queens

    Oct 15, 2025·1h 36m
  53. 53

    S3xuality

    Oct 8, 2025·1h 44m
  54. 54

    Moving for Love

    Oct 1, 2025·1h 33m
  55. 55

    Nitpicking

    Sep 24, 2025·1h 33m
  56. 56

    Lvbe

    Sep 17, 2025·1h 17m
  57. 57

    Summer Renaissance

    Sep 10, 2025·1h 20m
  58. 58

    ENCORE: Are You Gay Enough?

    Sep 3, 2025·1h 34m
  59. 59

    ENCORE: Outside Influences

    Aug 27, 2025·1h 27m
  60. 60

    ENCORE: Moving at Different Speeds

    Aug 20, 2025·1h 37m
  61. 61

    ENCORE: Unrealistic Expectations

    Aug 13, 2025·1h 34m
  62. 62

    ENCORE: S3x Toys

    Aug 6, 2025·1h 58m
  63. 63

    ENCORE: Parent vs. Partner

    Jul 30, 2025·1h 31m
  64. 64

    ENCORE: Complacency

    Jul 23, 2025·1h 27m
  65. 65

    ENCORE: Social Media Relationships

    Jul 16, 2025·1h 25m
  66. 66

    ENCORE: In These Streets

    Jul 9, 2025·1h 34m
  67. 67

    Cheating

    Jul 2, 2025·1h 36m
  68. 68

    Flirting

    Jun 25, 2025·1h 28m
  69. 69

    Head First

    Jun 18, 2025·1h 18m
  70. 70

    Thr33somes

    Jun 11, 2025·1h 35m
  71. 71

    Doing the Work

    Jun 4, 2025·1h 44m
  72. 72

    Traveling While Gay

    May 28, 2025·1h 41m
  73. 73

    Same Argument Over & Over Again

    May 21, 2025·1h 20m
  74. 74

    M@sturbation

    Marko and Steve discuss dating and relationships from a Black queer perspective, blending personal anecdotes with cultural commentary.

    May 14, 2025·1h 18m
  75. 75

    Pet Names

    May 7, 2025·1h 16m
  76. 76

    Are You Gay Enough?

    Apr 30, 2025·1h 34m
  77. 77

    Outside Influences

    Apr 23, 2025·1h 27m
  78. 78

    Moving at Different Speeds

    Apr 16, 2025·1h 37m
  79. 79

    Unrealistic Expectations

    Apr 9, 2025·1h 34m
  80. 80

    S3x Toys

    Apr 2, 2025·1h 58m
  81. 81

    Parent vs. Partner

    Mar 26, 2025·1h 31m
  82. 82

    Complacency

    Mar 19, 2025·1h 27m
  83. 83

    Social Media Relationships

    Mar 12, 2025·1h 25m
  84. 84

    In These Streets

    Mar 5, 2025·1h 34m
  85. 85

    Can I Please Talk to You for a Minute?

    Feb 26, 2025·10m
  86. 86

    May I Have Your Attention, Please?

    Feb 19, 2025·18m