
IEP strategy for families under pressure.
The gist
Don't IEP Alone gives special needs parents a working vocabulary for IEP meetings, progress tracking, and home-to-classroom disconnects. Lisa keeps the tone direct and lived-in, moving from data logs to the emotional cost of advocacy.
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About Don't IEP Alone.
Don't IEP Alone approaches special education advocacy from the ground level: the home routine, the school report, the question to the team, the January reminder that spring meetings are closer than they look. Lisa's episodes are not polished lectures. They sound like working sessions for parents who are already carrying too much and still need to make a plan. The show spends real time on IEP data, because progress claims only matter when families can understand them, test them, and compare them across settings. A school may report that a child can put on a shirt independently. Home may tell a different story. Lisa uses that kind of mismatch to show why parents should ask for specifics, videos, presentation details, and context rather than defaulting to blame. The goal is evidence. The posture is firm but not automatically adversarial. That balance gives the show much of its value. It recognizes that collaboration is possible while also making clear that families cannot afford to drift through the process. Episodes push listeners toward logs, trend tracking, reevaluation preparation, ESY timing, and practical questions that can be brought back to the team. The show also acknowledges that advocacy does not happen in a vacuum. Family separation, grief, politics, gun violence, and the pressure to protect personal energy all appear as part of the terrain around special needs parenting. Those moments are more personal, but they still connect to the same central concern: parents need enough clarity and steadiness to keep advocating. The delivery is casual, direct, and occasionally messy in a human way, with references to Facebook Live recording, client meetings, academy sessions, and the realities of fitting advocacy work into a packed day. Several recent excerpts are subscription notices, so the public digest gives an incomplete picture of the full catalog. Even so, the available episodes make the show's lane clear. It is for families who want practical IEP help without pretending the emotional load is separate from the paperwork.
Made for: This show is for parents and caregivers navigating IEP meetings, school data, progress reports, reevaluations, and ESY decisions. It especially suits families who want practical advocacy guidance that acknowledges stress, conflict, and real home routines.
What sets it apart: Don't IEP Alone pairs concrete special education tactics with candid discussion of the emotional and family pressures surrounding advocacy. Its strongest moments turn everyday observations at home into usable data for school conversations.
In their own words
Inspired by her own son with disabilities, Lisa Lightner is an award-winning blogger and advocate. She has previously worked for her county's Arc and has served on the Boards of Directors for several disability organizations. Currently, she is her county's chairperson for the Right to Education Task Force, a federally decreed group set up in 1971 to ensure that all children in Pennsylvania had the opportunity to an education. When not attending IEP meetings with families or lobbying in Harrisburg and DC for disability rights, she can be found on the web at her IEP advice blog, A Day in our Sh...
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Lisa Leitner takes IEP advocacy past the meeting table, where school-board ballots and family boundaries suddenly count.
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- practical ways to track state rules, complaint options, and local power before your next IEP fight
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Episodes
- 1
Who Decides When an IEP Support Is Needed?
Sep 30, 2026·12m - 2
Placement Should Follow the IEP, Not Define It
Sep 23, 2026·11m - 3
Least Restrictive Environment Isn’t Always General Education
Sep 16, 2026·14m - 4
Training Parents to Ask Better IEP Questions
Sep 15, 2026·14m - 5
When Advocacy Isn’t Changing Your Child’s IEP
Sep 9, 2026·12m - 6
Building IEP Advocacy Momentum Without Feeling Overwhelmed
Sep 2, 2026·11m - 7
Responding to No at IEP Meetings: Questions Every Parent Should Ask
Aug 26, 2026·9m - 8
Breaking the Myth: IEP Meetings Aren’t Where Success Happens
Aug 19, 2026·10m - 9
A Parent’s Guide to Back to School IEP Readiness
Aug 13, 2026·12m - 10
Why "Gotcha!" is not an effective advocacy strategy.
Feb 13, 2026·12m - 11
What's the Most Imporant Part of the IEP?
Jan 28, 2026·7m - 12
Avoiding the February IEP Freakout: Proactive Tips for Parents
Jan 13, 2026·15m - 13
New Year, Fresh IEP Data: How to Track Progress and Advocate Effectively
Jan 6, 2026·15m - 14
They Used a REED to Skip Testing? Yeah, Let’s Talk About That…
Dec 2, 2025·10m - 15
They Don’t Have to Train You...Unless You Ask. 🙄
This episode appears to be a subscription-only episode, but the show generally provides guidance on navigating IEP meetings and advocating for children with disabilities.
Nov 19, 2025·9m - 16
The School Suspended Your Child. Now What?
Nov 18, 2025·13m - 17
12 Tips for Special Education Parent-Teacher Conferences
Oct 28, 2025·40m - 18
As Jerry Springer would say-- take care of yourselves, and each other.
This episode appears to be a subscription-only episode of a podcast about IEP advocacy for parents of children with disabilities.
Oct 22, 2025·16m - 19
ADHD Month means Executive Functioning Chats
Oct 15, 2025·13m - 20
OSEP and OSERS Staff Elimination
Lisa Leitner examines the announced elimination of most OSEP and OSERS employees after an OMB director's post said that RIFs had begun.
Oct 14, 2025·21m·1 clip - 21
Buzzword: Trust Recession
Hidden gemLisa Leitner examines the “trust recession” through parents, schools, advocates, and a publishing error involving Wiley.
Oct 7, 2025·20m·1 clip - 22
What is Explicit Instruction?
This episode requires a subscription, but the show is about helping parents navigate IEP meetings and advocate for children with disabilities.
Sep 17, 2025·12m - 23
Accommodations vs Modifications on an IEP
Sep 9, 2025·6m - 24
Most important part of an IEP.
Sep 4, 2025·7m - 25
Have you been asked to come pick up your child at school?
Sep 3, 2025·8m - 26
Can you show me where it says.....
Sep 2, 2025·6m - 27
Good news, bad news.
Aug 13, 2025·11m - 28
Don’t IEP Alone: Essential Advocacy Tips for Today’s Unstable Education Landscape
Aug 12, 2025·14m - 29
Good News and Bad News: Navigating What to Request at Your IEP Meeting
Aug 5, 2025·10m - 30
Sustained Advocacy: The Real Secret Behind IEP Progress
Jul 29, 2025·10m - 31
From Phone Calls to Handwritten Letters: Tips to Make Legislators Listen on Issues
Jul 16, 2025·10m - 32
Reviving Parent Groups: The Old and New of Special Ed Advocacy
Jul 15, 2025·14m - 33
Medical Records and the IEP
This episode appears to be a subscription-only episode of a podcast about IEP advocacy for parents of children with disabilities.
Jul 10, 2025·22m - 34
Is ESY starting this week? And, yeah, the Medicaid thing.
Jul 9, 2025·10m - 35
Our advocacy is not enough.
Jul 8, 2025·10m - 36
IEE-Independent Education Evaluations
Jul 2, 2025·22m - 37
Should you hire an IEP Advocate?
Jul 1, 2025·19m - 38
A 13th and 14th year?
Jun 25, 2025·22m - 39
🚨 Medicaid Cuts, Advocacy, and Why We Can’t Stay Silent 🚨
Jun 24, 2025·18m - 40
Do this now. Thank me later.
Jun 10, 2025·7m - 41
From Entitlement to Eligibility: The Wake-Up Call Special Needs Parents Usually Aren't Expecting.
Jun 4, 2025·15m - 42
One last bit of ESY advice before summer starts
Jun 3, 2025·7m - 43
You'd know if your child was having seizures, right? Maybe not!
May 27, 2025·21m - 44
Congress Meets at 1 AM--what are they hiding?
May 21, 2025·12m - 45
Atlantic City Observations: Why Early Support for Kids With IEPs Matters
May 20, 2025·21m - 46
From ESY Struggles to Graduation Emotions: Holding Space for Special Needs Parents
May 13, 2025·17m - 47
Breaking Down RFK, Dr. Oz, Executive Orders, and the Supreme Court: Big IEP Headlines Explained
This episode appears to be a subscription-only resource for parents navigating IEP meetings, likely providing advocacy tips and legal guidance.
May 6, 2025·23m - 48
Challenging Stigma: Autism, Family Life, and Confronting Harmful Narratives
Apr 30, 2025·18m - 49
Stop calling me to come pick up my kid.
This episode is a subscription prompt, but the show provides guidance on navigating IEP meetings for children with disabilities.
Apr 29, 2025·19m - 50
It's no joke, sometimes kids with disabilities are excluded from field trips.
Apr 24, 2025·20m - 51
PWN-If you don't know it, you should!
This episode likely provides guidance on navigating IEP meetings for children with disabilities, but the transcript only shows a subscription prompt.
Apr 23, 2025·17m - 52
Parents' Right-Procedural Safeguards
This episode appears to be a subscription prompt, but the show is about helping parents navigate Individualized Education Programs (IEPs) for children with disabilities.
Apr 22, 2025·12m - 53
Can I ask for "this" on my IEP?
Apr 17, 2025·11m - 54
How to Not Cry at your IEP Meeting
This episode likely provides guidance on navigating IEP meetings for children with disabilities, but the transcript only shows a subscription prompt.
Apr 16, 2025·16m - 55
Adapting to Change: IEP and 504 Plans in a Shifting Landscape
Apr 15, 2025·22m - 56
Actually, it is brain surgery.
Apr 11, 2025·4m - 57
Stressed out about IEP meetings? Let's change that.
Apr 10, 2025·10m - 58
Who can I bring to my IEP Meeting?
Apr 9, 2025·12m - 59
Navigating Social Skills and IEP Challenges in Special Education
Apr 8, 2025·19m - 60
Gawd I hate April.
Apr 4, 2025·29m - 61
"What's the one piece of advice you have?"
Apr 3, 2025·13m - 62
It's April-ACL, flash sale and more
Apr 2, 2025·15m - 63
Let's Rethink Autism Advocacy: Beyond the Puzzle Piece Debate
Apr 1, 2025·8m - 64
Responding to RFK Jr's Plan to Eliminate the Administration for Community Living
Mar 31, 2025·15m - 65
How to Advocate for IEPs Amid Political Shifts
Mar 25, 2025·22m - 66
Why Dismantling the Department of Education Actually Weakens State Rights
Mar 19, 2025·18m - 67
Understanding GEPA: How Federal Overreach in Education Funding Violates a 50-Year-Old Law
Mar 11, 2025·11m - 68
The Parent Concerns Letter for your IEP
Mar 4, 2025·15m - 69
Why did they do that?
Feb 27, 2025·19m - 70
ESY-Extended School Year and IEPs
Feb 26, 2025·14m - 71
504s are being overused.
Feb 25, 2025·9m - 72
Can I uninvite someone from my IEP meeting?
Feb 25, 2025·9m - 73
Why Public Education Isn't a Customer Service Model Explained
Feb 18, 2025·20m - 74
Super Bowl Joy and Political Turmoil: A Balancing Act
Feb 7, 2025·19m - 75
Understanding the Impact of Potential Changes to Department of Education on Special Needs
Feb 5, 2025·46m - 76
IEP Data Collection
Feb 5, 2025·27m - 77
Breaking Down Barriers: Janice Lloyd Discusses Remediation and Support for Dyslexic Students
Feb 4, 2025·26m - 78
Standing Up for Special Education Amidst Political Changes
Feb 3, 2025·18m - 79
How Federal Spending Freeze Affects Disabled Kids' Health Care
Jan 29, 2025·18m - 80
Bonus Episode: IEP Goal Banks and Parent-Teacher Conferences with an IEP
Jan 23, 2025·22m - 81
Speaking Up for My Son's Needs Amid Controversial Autism Narratives
Jan 22, 2025·28m - 82
How many IEP meetings is too many?
Jan 21, 2025·23m - 83
Three Essential IEP Tasks for Parents Right Now
Jan 21, 2025·25m - 84
Tough Love and IEPs: Why Change Starts with You
Jan 15, 2025·20m - 85
Welcome to 2025!
Jan 8, 2025·15m - 86
Parents are the IEP Police
Jan 7, 2025·23m - 87
Talking IEP Unilateral Placements with Attorney Steve Jacobson
Jan 2, 2025·43m - 88
The Emotional Disturbance Classification on IEPs
Dec 18, 2024·10m - 89
Living with ADHD with Dr. Sarah Cheyette, Pediatric Neurologist
Dec 17, 2024·52m - 90
How to Write IEP Goals (and who writes them?)
Dec 12, 2024·35m - 91
What Lies Ahead for IDEA and ACA in 2025: A Conversation with Michael Gamel-McCormick
Dec 11, 2024·30m - 92
Stepping Up for Disabled Kids: Announcing Our 2025 Action Plan
Dec 10, 2024·21m - 93
The Importance of Being Proactive in Your Child's IEP Process This Summer
May 7, 2024·15m - 94
IEP Process Flowchart: Understanding Timelines and Effective Advocacy Strategies
Apr 30, 2024·21m - 95
Red Flags in IEP and 504 Plans
Apr 23, 2024·17m - 96
Autism Awareness: A Parent's Journey and Advocacy Efforts for Their Child's Needs
Apr 18, 2024·29m - 97
Managing Challenging Behaviors in Kids: Tips for Parents and Educators
Apr 16, 2024·17m - 98
Behavior
Apr 9, 2024·20m - 99
Things to Know About FAPE
Apr 2, 2024·13m - 100
What is an IEP?
Mar 26, 2024·12m - 101
School Field Trips: Advocacy Tips for Challenging Exclusions Based on Disability
Feb 28, 2024·27m - 102
How to Organize your IEP Work
Feb 22, 2024·14m - 103
The Power of Words: Dyslexia Writing Solutions with Russell Van Brocklen
Feb 20, 2024·37m - 104
Supporting Your Child's Education: Navigating Regression in Challenging Times
Feb 15, 2024·1h - 105
Understanding & Supporting Kids with ADHD: A Pediatric Neurologist's Insights w/ Dr. Sarah Cheyette
Feb 13, 2024·53m - 106
The Role of Executive Functioning in Learning: Unveiling Strategies with Tera Sumpter, SLP
Feb 8, 2024·1h 2m - 107
Supporting Families with Disabilities with Julie Walters
Feb 6, 2024·14m - 108
Empowering Young Entrepreneurs: Rachel Solomon's Success Story
Jan 30, 2024·19m - 109
Empowering Parents: Understanding IEPs and Securing Support for Disabled Children with Kelley Coleman Part 2
Jan 25, 2024·28m - 110
Empowering Parents: Understanding IEPs and Securing Support for Disabled Children with Kelley Coleman Part 1
Jan 23, 2024·27m - 111
Don't Panic: February IEP Survival Guide
Jan 23, 2024·29m - 112
The Power of Connection: Supporting Children with Social and Emotional Needs with Maria Slavin Part 2
Jan 18, 2024·17m - 113
The Power of Connection: Supporting Children with Social and Emotional Needs with Maria Slavin Part 1
Jan 16, 2024·26m - 114
Chasing the Intact Mind with Dr. Amy S.F. Lutz
Jan 9, 2024·53m - 115
Women's Relationship with Alcohol: Uncovering the Truth and Seeking Support
Dec 14, 2023·23m - 116
Women and Alcohol: Navigating the Myths and Realities of Drinking Culture
Dec 13, 2023·26m - 117
Raising Awareness: Women, Alcohol, and the Path to Healing and Empowerment
Dec 12, 2023·24m - 118
Chatting with Nicole Santiago from Family ADDventures
Dec 7, 2023·26m - 119
Gotcha
Dec 5, 2023·19m - 120
Parents are the IEP Police
Nov 30, 2023·16m - 121
Social Skills
Nov 28, 2023·17m - 122
No Meet Addendum
Nov 21, 2023·14m - 123
Let's Talk About Behavior (Part 2)
Nov 16, 2023·15m - 124
Let's Talk About Behavior (Part 1)
Nov 15, 2023·17m - 125
Understanding IEEs: Part 4-What You Need to Know About Requesting an Independent Education Evaluation
Nov 8, 2023·24m - 126
The Wait Time: What to Expect During IEP Evaluations - Part 3
Nov 1, 2023·24m - 127
Navigating the IEP Evaluation Process: Part 2 - Permission to Evaluate Form Explained
Oct 25, 2023·22m - 128
Understanding the IEP Evaluation Process: Part 1
Oct 18, 2023·26m - 129
Finding Practical Solutions for Disabled Professionals: A Discussion with Ariadne Wolf
Oct 11, 2023·29m - 130
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): A Closer Look with Dr. Jessica Myszak
Oct 11, 2023·20m - 131
Uncovering the Hidden Link: How Speech and Language Disorders Connect to Juvenile Confinement with Dr. Shameka Stewart, Juvenile Forensic SLP
Oct 4, 2023·22m - 132
Nurturing Executive Functioning Skills: A Deep Dive with Tera Sumpter, SLP
Sep 28, 2023·1h 6m - 133
Conversations with Child Psychologist Elliott Jaffa: Navigating Teen Behavior and Building People Skills
Sep 27, 2023·30m - 134
The Impact of Socialization in the Digital Age: FaceTime vs. In-Person Interaction, Dr. Stephanie Fields
Sep 13, 2023·29m - 135
We're back with Back to School Tips for 2023
Sep 6, 2023·21m - 136
IEPs in the Post Covid Era
Mar 8, 2022·19m - 137
Talking with Kids about Race
Jun 3, 2020·16m - 138
OT Skills and Distance Learning
Jun 2, 2020·1h 1m - 139
Attorney-Advocate chat about Distance Learning and IEPs
Jun 1, 2020·1h 35m - 140
Q&A about Distance Learning with an IEP
May 29, 2020·58m - 141
Understanding PWN
Apr 23, 2020·40m - 142
Working on Social Skills at Home
Apr 22, 2020·39m - 143
Dealing with Challenging Behaviors
Apr 21, 2020·1h - 144
PWNs, Assessments and FAPE during school shutdown
Apr 20, 2020·31m - 145
Unpopular Opinions-I'm not expecting FAPE.
Mar 16, 2020·14m - 146
Attorney-Advocate Chat, Part 2
Mar 5, 2020·50m - 147
The Brain Recovery Project
Mar 3, 2020·33m - 148
I'll be the wet blanket
Feb 11, 2020·19m - 149
Talking about the Good Things in Life
Feb 6, 2020·1h 10m - 150
Part 2 of Advocate Chat with Jackie Waldie
Feb 4, 2020·40m - 151
Advocate Chat with Jackie Waldie
Jan 30, 2020·27m - 152
Top College Consultants, Part 2
Jan 28, 2020·20m - 153
Interview with Eric Endlich, Ph.D.
Jan 23, 2020·24m - 154
Special Education Advocate Chat, Volume 1
Jan 16, 2020·31m - 155
Should your child attend the IEP meeting? At what age?
Jan 14, 2020·24m - 156
More talk about Grades and IEPs
Nov 19, 2019·6m - 157
Disability and Placement
Nov 14, 2019·10m - 158
Parent Teacher Conferences
Nov 12, 2019·14m - 159
Discipline
Nov 7, 2019·15m - 160
"Respect my authoritah!"
Nov 5, 2019·15m - 161
How to get something added to an IEP
Oct 31, 2019·12m - 162
Senate Education Committee hearing testimony
Oct 29, 2019·22m - 163
Advocate-Attorney Chat with Jennifer Price, part 2.
Oct 24, 2019·34m - 164
Advocate-Attorney Chat with Jennifer Price
Oct 22, 2019·26m - 165
Listener Question from Washington State
Oct 17, 2019·14m - 166
You're standing too close to the elephant.
Oct 15, 2019·27m - 167
Hello to Tricia in Florida
Oct 10, 2019·10m - 168
FERPA questions
Oct 8, 2019·25m - 169
State regs vs IDEA
Oct 3, 2019·23m - 170
IEPs and Aides/Paraprofessional
Oct 1, 2019·25m - 171
The Educational World is different.
Sep 24, 2019·27m - 172
Son Refusing Services
Sep 18, 2019·16m - 173
Participating in the Evaluation process
Sep 17, 2019·13m - 174
How can I be a better advocate?
Sep 12, 2019·27m - 175
My child is 15 and cannot read.
Sep 10, 2019·16m - 176
Dear Desperate Southwest Mom
Sep 5, 2019·14m - 177
You won't believe why I was gone all summer :/
Sep 4, 2019·21m - 178
Ask an Advocate- IEP or RTI
Jul 24, 2019·12m - 179
Ask An Advocate-Presume Competence
Jul 22, 2019·17m - 180
What's New? I'm back with some changes!
Jul 17, 2019·12m - 181
Parts of the IEP: Wrapup
Jun 26, 2019·15m - 182
Location, location, location
Jun 24, 2019·15m - 183
Disability Classification on the IEP
Jun 19, 2019·22m - 184
IEP Special Education Placement
Jun 17, 2019·23m - 185
ESY
Jun 12, 2019·21m - 186
Related Services
Jun 10, 2019·15m - 187
SDIs on your IEP
Jun 5, 2019·23m - 188
The Parts of the IEP: Goals and Objectives
Jun 3, 2019·25m - 189
The Parts of the IEP: State and Local Assessments
May 29, 2019·19m - 190
"Meet them where they're at"
May 28, 2019·21m - 191
The Parts of the IEP: Transition
May 22, 2019·26m - 192
The Parts of the IEP: Present Levels
May 20, 2019·14m - 193
The Parts of the IEP: Special Considerations/ Special Factors
May 17, 2019·22m - 194
The Parts of the IEP: Procedural Safeguards and Medicaid sheet
May 15, 2019·14m - 195
The Parts of the IEP: Attendance Sheet
May 13, 2019·12m - 196
The Parts of the IEP: Cover Page
May 10, 2019·15m - 197
Truancy and your IEP
May 8, 2019·17m - 198
Can I 'walk' if not graduating?
May 6, 2019·10m - 199
Travel Tips when your child has disabilities.
May 3, 2019·19m - 200
Where can I find a Special Education Advocate?
May 1, 2019·21m - 201
Reading Programs
Apr 29, 2019·19m - 202
IEP Meeting Q&A
Apr 26, 2019·22m - 203
Parents need to fully engage in the IEP process.
Apr 24, 2019·25m - 204
Llama llama so much drama
Apr 24, 2019·33m - 205
IEP Related Services
Apr 22, 2019·16m - 206
Special Factors in the IEP
Apr 19, 2019·21m - 207
IEP Transition-Part 2
Apr 17, 2019·12m - 208
IEP Transition-Part 1
Apr 15, 2019·29m - 209
Manifestation Determination Hearings
Apr 12, 2019·31m - 210
IEPs and Discipline, Suspensions.
Apr 10, 2019·23m - 211
Our Insurance Appeals and Drama
Mar 25, 2019·22m - 212
Getting your IEP team to YES
Mar 20, 2019·18m - 213
Don't IEP Alone
Feb 21, 2019·8m