219. Jag blir sex-bakis av alla superorgasmer - kan man få det mer lagom?

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Hanna reveals she gets super-orgasms from a whisper but feels wrecked for days after sex.

The episode features a coaching session between host Marika Smith and guest Hanna. Hanna is a 50-year-old woman whose sexuality opened up dramatically about five years ago, leading to powerful, frequent orgasms triggered by subtle stimuli like whispers. However, she experiences a severe physical and emotional crash for days afterward, feeling fragile, lonely, and prone to developing intense attachments to partners. Hanna describes feeling stuck at a crossroads between indulging fully and paying the price or shutting down her sexuality entirely. Marika reframes Hanna's intense sexuality as a 'magical force' or 'superpower' that needs mastering, not suppressing. They discuss parallels to BDSM 'subspace' and the chemical drop afterward, similar to a shamanic journey or drug comedown. Marika suggests Hanna might be highly sensitive and needs to apply strategies she likely uses in other areas of life. Practical ideas include breaking down intimacy into steps using a 'shelf' metaphor, setting pre-date rules like a 'heart condom,' and seeking non-sexual cuddling for aftercare. Hanna reveals she hasn't had sex for six months due to fear of the aftermath. They explore how Hanna's body wisdom, which she locates in her 'fitta' (vagina), can guide her in choosing partners and pacing connection. The episode concludes with Marika encouraging Hanna to view her sexuality as a guiding intuition and to stand still rather than feel forced into binary choices.

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