How We Get Thru Podcast: Wellness, Healing & Spiritual Tools for Growth in Real Life · Jen Hershey

S2 Ep 72: How To Embody Your Sensuality with Feral Grace

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This episode features host Jen, a licensed therapist, in conversation with Chloe, a love and intimacy coach known as Feral Grace. Chloe shares her journey from heartbreak to becoming a guide who helps others reconnect with their bodies and sensuality. She explains that her expertise stems from personal experience with trauma and her professional background as a dance movement psychotherapist. Chloe describes using dance to transform frozen trauma patterns stored in the nervous system, moving beyond talk therapy. She details a somatic practice where she tunes into clients' bodies, feeling sensations like deep sadness or tightness in her own solar plexus as clues to their emotional states. Her work addresses the "orgasm gap" and educates on various orgasms beyond the clitoral, including G-spot, cervical, breast, and even emotional releases like anger or shame orgasms. Chloe connects dance and intimacy, stating that surrendering on the dance floor is similar to the surrender in lovemaking. A surprising insight is her reframe of parenting tasks, like wiping a child, as sacred acts that teach future bodily expectations. She discusses helping clients reprogram their nervous systems to attract healthy relationships by changing unconscious templates. Chloe reveals that many men carry immense stress and shame in their pelvic area, and gentle, non-sexual massage there often leads to emotional release. She advocates "seducing" a depleted libido back through small sensual acts, like feeling the warmth of a mug, rather than pressure. The tone is deeply conversational, intimate, and educational, blending personal storytelling with practical somatic tools. Listeners interested in embodiment, healing trauma through movement, and expanding their understanding of pleasure and relationships will find this episode transformative. Those uncomfortable with explicit discussions of sexuality or somatic emotional release may want to skip it.

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