"What's Next? Conversations with Boomers"

Barb Desmarais

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Later-life questions, answered out loud.

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What's Next? Conversations with Boomers treats aging as active terrain, not a closing chapter. Barb Desmarais leads warm, plainspoken conversations about strength training, dating after 70, nervous-system healing, AI, boundaries, and the comic oddities of modern life.

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About "What's Next? Conversations with Boomers"

What's Next? Conversations with Boomers treats aging as a series of live questions. The show is not nostalgic. Barb Desmarais centers the conversations on what people can still choose, adjust, try, protect, and learn. Some episodes are highly practical, especially when guests talk about walking, interval movement, strength training, and small exercises that can fit into an ordinary day. Others are more intimate. Dating after 70 becomes a candid look at independence, high standards, friendship, attraction, and the tradeoffs of living alone. Boundaries get handled in plain language, with attention to saying no, softening too much, and recognizing disrespect before it becomes a pattern. The wellness episodes lean into emotional repair. Somatic yin yoga, the vagus nerve, self-love, stored trauma, anxiety, and nervous-system resets are discussed with patience rather than quick-fix certainty. The show also keeps an eye on modern life. Its AI episode turns a generational topic into a practical conversation about editing, show notes, episode titles, audio levels, video, and social clips. Mella's presence gives many episodes a useful cross-generational rhythm, especially when her own experiences echo or challenge the boomer perspective. The result feels casual, but it is rarely lightweight. A funny aside about memory can sit beside a serious concern about health span. A conversation with Colleen Landry brings comedy into the season finale while still asking how creative ideas begin and grow. Recurring guests and returning themes make the show feel like an ongoing table conversation, not a lecture series. It is strongest when it turns a big topic into manageable details: one faster block of walking, one clearer boundary, one kinder way to talk to oneself. The pace is conversational and sometimes meandering. That looseness is part of the appeal for listeners who prefer lived experience over polished performance. What's Next? Conversations with Boomers is for people who want practical wisdom, emotional honesty, and a little humor around the work of staying engaged with life.

Made for: For boomers and adjacent generations who want candid talk about health, independence, relationships, emotional repair, and modern tools. It also suits younger listeners interested in cross-generational perspective.

What sets it apart: The show blends boomer life experience with Mella's younger perspective, making topics like dating, AI, boundaries, and fitness feel shared rather than age-segregated. Its best moments turn broad wellness ideas into ordinary, doable choices.

In their own words

What’s Next? Conversations with Boomers is a candid, cross-generational dialogue exploring life after the milestones—career shifts, retirement, relationships, family, reinvention, and everything in between. Hosted by Barb Desmarais, a retired family & parenting coach and public speaker, each episode dives into honest stories and lived wisdom from Boomers navigating their “what’s next?” moments, offering insights that resonate across generations. Thoughtful, curious, and sometimes funny, the show bridges perspectives and sparks conversations about how we age, adapt, and continue to dream.

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Barb makes room for the aging questions your group chat keeps politely changing the subject from.

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  • candid company while you weigh independence against dating again
  • practical ways to feel stronger without resurrecting your abandoned gym era
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Motion Is Lotion: Feel Stronger, Move Better, and Age with ConfidenceApr 1, 2026

A practical, low-friction guide to moving more, with walking treated as a starting point rather than the whole answer.

Barb Desmarais hosts Larry Wolf and David Kravitz in a conversation about exercise, with the guests doing most of the heavy lifting on the evidence. The episode keeps coming back to a plain point: walking helps, but it does not do the whole job.

Dating After 70: Independence, Dating Apps & Raising the BarMar 11, 2026

A candid look at later-life dating and the cost of being fully on your own.

Dating after 70 is framed as a question of autonomy as much as romance, and Barb Desmarais, Jackie Adams, and Milla keep the discussion grounded in ordinary life.

Somatic Yin Yoga & the Vagus Nerve: Healing Trauma and Anxiety with Annie AuFeb 4, 2026

A patient look at stored trauma, nervous-system safety, and the slow work of somatic healing.

Barb Desmarais frames somatic yin yoga through a late-career recognition that even after more than 30 years of yoga, stored trauma could still be present in the body.

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  1. 1

    Layers Of Pain: Secondary Losses with Denise Torgerson

    Oct 8, 2026·36m
  2. 2

    Is It Ever Too Late To Change? with Tim Wade

    Sep 24, 2026·38m
  3. 3

    Would You Re-Marry After 60? with Jackie Adams

    Sep 10, 2026·50m
  4. 4

    Your Guide to Super Aging with David Cravit & Larry Wolf

    Aug 27, 2026·39m
  5. 5

    The Homecoming: Rekindling Love After Divorce with Tim Wade

    Jul 30, 2026·30m
  6. 6

    "Strangers", Prenup Prep and Grey Divorce with Lisa Zeiderman

    Jul 16, 2026·34m
  7. 7

    Designing Your Slice of Heaven with Leo Santana

    Jul 2, 2026·42m
  8. 8

    Why Essentrics is Essential with Susan B.

    Jun 18, 2026·32m
  9. 9

    Summertime Sadness: Seasonal Depression in Warmer Weather with Jackie Adams

    Barb Desmarais interviews mental health therapist Jackie Adams about summer seasonal affective disorder and the social pressures that accompany warmer weather.

    Jun 3, 2026·37m·2 clips
  10. 10

    Life Reflections at 73

    May 21, 2026·9m
  11. 11

    Journaling: A Resurgence

    Apr 22, 2026·34m
  12. 12

    Breathe Better, Feel Better: How Conscious Breathing Calms Anxiety & Resets Your Nervous System

    Apr 8, 2026·35m
  13. 13

    Motion Is Lotion: Feel Stronger, Move Better, and Age with Confidence

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    Apr 1, 2026·35m·2 clips
  14. 14

    Dating After 70: Independence, Dating Apps & Raising the Bar

    Barb Desmarais (73, host and widow since 2017) and Jackie Adams (70, therapist and divorcée of 15 years) share candid accounts of dating in their 70s, including experiences with apps, scammers, and emotionally unavailable men.

    Mar 11, 2026·48m·3 clips
  15. 15

    Your True North, Strong & Free: Discovering Your Core Values After 60

    Mar 4, 2026·37m
  16. 16

    Somatic Yin Yoga & the Vagus Nerve: Healing Trauma and Anxiety with Annie Au

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    Barb Desmarais interviews Annie Au about somatic yin yoga, the vagus nerve, trauma, and anxiety.

    Feb 4, 2026·45m·3 clips
  17. 17

    Self-Love Is a Practice: Kindness, Boundaries, and Healing

    Host Barb Desmarais and guest Denise Torgerson discuss self-love and nervous system reset, with co-host Bella sharing her personal journey of healing from survival mode.

    Jan 28, 2026·41m
  18. 18

    The Good, the Bad, and the AI: Boomers and the New Digital Frontier

    Host Barb Desmarais and guest Mella discuss how boomers use AI tools like ChatGPT for work, podcast editing, and social media.

    Jan 14, 2026·44m
  19. 19

    A Year in Conversations: Friendships, Relationships, and Lessons Learned--2025 Recap!

    Dec 24, 2025·32m
  20. 20

    When It’s Not the “Most Wonderful Time of the Year”: Navigating Holiday Depression & SAD

    Dec 17, 2025·41m
  21. 21

    Don’t Ghost Yourself: Boundaries 101

    Host Barb Desmarais and relationship coach Tim Wade discuss the importance of setting boundaries, especially for women, and share personal experiences with enforcing them.

    Dec 10, 2025·49m
  22. 22

    The Space Between Us: Understanding Avoidant Attachment (Part 2)

    Nov 26, 2025·54m
  23. 23

    It's not you... it's my attachment style.

    Nov 12, 2025·48m
  24. 24

    “We’ll Always Have Paris (and Lyon… and Annecy)”

    Nov 5, 2025·37m
  25. 25

    Holding On and Letting Go: Sustaining Friendships in Your Golden Years

    Oct 16, 2025·46m
  26. 26

    The Senior Encore with Mike Dwyer of Emplana Career

    Oct 8, 2025·50m
  27. 27

    It’s Never Too Late to Follow the Music: John Michael Ferrari

    Oct 1, 2025·47m
  28. 28

    The Fine Line Between Self-Care and Selfishness with Denise Torgerson

    Sep 24, 2025·36m
  29. 29

    Follow the Goose Butt & the Universe's Little Nudges (with Comedy Influencer Colleen Landry)

    This season finale episode features an interview with comedy influencer Colleen Landry, discussing her career, creative process, and appeal to audiences over 40.

    Sep 3, 2025·47m
  30. 30

    Love or Lies? Spotting Online Dating Scammers

    Aug 20, 2025·37m
  31. 31

    What's next....after betrayal? The Journey of Healing with Jackie Adams

    Aug 13, 2025·43m
  32. 32

    Buy yourself flowers! Finding Joy in 2025

    Jul 30, 2025·49m
  33. 33

    From Betrayal to Breakthrough: Trust, Trauma, and the Long Road Back with Jackie Adams

    Jul 16, 2025·51m
  34. 34

    Stronger with Age: Strength Training for Boomers with Caylee Alzner

    Host Barb Desmarais discusses the importance of strength training for boomers with personal trainer Kaylee Alsner.

    Jul 9, 2025·45m
  35. 35

    Longevity with Purpose: Dr. Gillian Lockitch’s Top Tips for Healthy Aging

    This episode features an interview with Dr.

    Jul 2, 2025·39m
  36. 36

    The Art of Letting Go... A Supreme Act of Love (Pt. 3)

    Jun 25, 2025·50m
  37. 37

    The Art of Letting Go… or Letting In? With Denise Torgerson (Pt. 2)

    Jun 18, 2025·36m
  38. 38

    The Art of Letting Go… or Letting In? With Denise Torgerson

    Jun 18, 2025·36m
  39. 39

    Pride Special: Coming Out, Coming Through – A Conversation with Candace Macpherson

    A boomer host interviews a gay neighbor about the evolution of LGBTQ+ experiences and pride.

    Jun 11, 2025·45m
  40. 40

    Social Media & Boomers: The Good, The Bad and the Misinformation

    May 28, 2025·34m
  41. 41

    A Tale of Two Barbs: The Changing Roles of Women – From Tradition to Transformation

    May 22, 2025·40m
  42. 42

    The Art of Letting Go: Downsizing Edition

    May 14, 2025·45m
  43. 43

    Second Chances & A Remarkable Reconnection with Barb & Tim Wade

    Apr 9, 2025·43m
  44. 44

    Solo, Not Sorry: Kelley Riley on the Liberating Art of Traveling Alone

    Mar 26, 2025·30m
  45. 45

    The Trouble With Online Dating: Rejections & the Online Culture of Incivility

    Mar 12, 2025·56m
  46. 46

    Retiring & Re-Designing Your Space: The Art of Light, Color, and Balance with Leo Santana

    A boomer host and an interior designer discuss easy home decor updates for retirees looking to revitalize their living spaces.

    Feb 26, 2025·53m
  47. 47

    Friendships in the Golden Era (Part 2): Online Friends, Siblings & Awkward Goodbyes (with Tim Wade)

    Feb 19, 2025·46m
  48. 48

    Love Rekindled: A Valentine's Day Episode

    Feb 12, 2025·28m
  49. 49

    Preserving Memories in the Digital Age: An Introduction to KinCapsule

    Feb 5, 2025·37m
  50. 50

    Friendships in the Golden Era (Season Finale)

    Jan 16, 2025·57m
  51. 51

    Memoirs of a Boomer: A Master Class in Storytelling with Cea Person

    Jan 1, 2025·40m
  52. 52

    [Not] Married...With [No] Children

    Host Barb Desmarais and relationship coach Tim Wiggins discuss whether being never-married and childless is a deal breaker for boomers in relationships.

    Dec 11, 2024·39m
  53. 53

    What's Next?! It's Our 100th Episode!

    Dec 4, 2024·41m
  54. 54

    Relationships Must-Haves & The 5x5s

    Nov 6, 2024·42m
  55. 55

    What's Draining You? Tolerations & What's Zapping Your Success Cup

    Oct 30, 2024·42m
  56. 56

    The Power of Gratitude: Insights from the SuperAgers with David Cravit & Larry Wolf

    Oct 23, 2024·42m
  57. 57

    Mr. Wade, We Have a Problem (Re-Release)

    Oct 9, 2024·39m
  58. 58

    Redefining Manhood: The Changing Roles of Men with Tim Wade

    Oct 2, 2024·45m
  59. 59

    To Gift Or Not To Gift? That Is The Question.

    Sep 25, 2024·34m
  60. 60

    Q&A With A Couple of Boomers (Pt.2)

    Aug 28, 2024·33m
  61. 61

    What's Next?! Q&A with a Boomer

    Aug 21, 2024·38m
  62. 62

    All That Glitters Is Not Bucket Lists

    Aug 14, 2024·38m
  63. 63

    On Platonicism and Beyond!

    Aug 8, 2024·40m
  64. 64

    The Modern Elder

    Jul 31, 2024·36m
  65. 65

    Yoga for Boomers: Namaste Active. Namaste in Shape.

    Jul 17, 2024·31m
  66. 66

    Green Flags vs. Limerence

    May 22, 2024·41m
  67. 67

    Resilience: The Muscle of Survival

    May 8, 2024·32m
  68. 68

    Navigating Relationships: A Boomer's Guide to Secure Attachment

    May 1, 2024·48m
  69. 69

    Nutrition and Super Aging

    Apr 10, 2024·41m
  70. 70

    Attachment Styles with Tim Wade

    Mar 13, 2024·32m
  71. 71

    Communication And Our Adult Kids

    Mar 6, 2024·45m
  72. 72

    Parental Estrangement (Part 2) with Tim Wade

    Feb 28, 2024·40m
  73. 73

    Healing Parental Estrangement with Crystal Allon

    Feb 21, 2024·54m
  74. 74

    The Many Faces of Retirement (Part 2): Kevin Never Moved Out

    Feb 14, 2024·39m
  75. 75

    The Many Faces of Retirement

    Feb 7, 2024·39m
  76. 76

    The Golden Bachelor

    Jan 17, 2024·57m
  77. 77

    Downsizing (Part 2)

    Dec 27, 2023·32m
  78. 78

    What's Next? Possibilities.

    Dec 20, 2023·34m
  79. 79

    Dating In Your 60s (Part 4)

    Dec 13, 2023·39m
  80. 80

    The Sweetest Taboo: More on Intimacy w/ Tim Wade

    Nov 8, 2023·38m
  81. 81

    Boomers & Intimacy

    Oct 18, 2023·40m
  82. 82

    What's Next? Downsizing.

    Oct 11, 2023·36m
  83. 83

    Success at Boomer's Door

    Sep 20, 2023·37m
  84. 84

    A Happiness Review

    Sep 13, 2023·40m
  85. 85

    Super Aging Part 3: Creating Connections

    Aug 30, 2023·36m
  86. 86

    Super Aging Part 2: Attachment

    Aug 16, 2023·38m
  87. 87

    Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

    Jul 12, 2023·35m
  88. 88

    Come And Knock On Our Door...

    Jul 5, 2023·32m
  89. 89

    Grandmahood Update with Lorna

    Jun 28, 2023·23m
  90. 90

    Fatherhood with Tim Wade

    Jun 21, 2023·40m
  91. 91

    A Very Special Episode: Here's to you, Deb!

    May 17, 2023·43m
  92. 92

    What's Next? Super Aging

    May 10, 2023·28m
  93. 93

    Positively Toxic

    May 3, 2023·31m
  94. 94

    Wine with Dinner? Wine not?!

    Apr 5, 2023·32m
  95. 95

    Dating in your 60s (Part 3)

    Mar 29, 2023·44m
  96. 96

    Dating in your 60s (Part 2)

    Mar 15, 2023·41m
  97. 97

    Dating in your 60s

    Mar 1, 2023·46m
  98. 98

    For the Love of DOG

    Feb 15, 2023·27m
  99. 99

    From "We" to "Me"

    Feb 8, 2023·47m
  100. 100

    Vino, Vino, Vino! Wine 101 with Eden Buss

    Feb 1, 2023·36m
  101. 101

    New Year's Intention is the New 'Black'

    Jan 18, 2023·32m
  102. 102

    Red, Green, and the Blues for the Holidays

    Dec 21, 2022·27m
  103. 103

    The Big 50!

    Dec 7, 2022·27m
  104. 104

    Sleepless in Retirement

    Nov 23, 2022·30m
  105. 105

    Buddy Coaching: The Best Sunday Ritual

    Nov 16, 2022·27m
  106. 106

    A Negroni. Sbagliato...with Prosecco in it.

    Nov 9, 2022·43m
  107. 107

    Food Club aka Book Club

    Oct 26, 2022·28m
  108. 108

    What's Next...After Death?

    Oct 12, 2022·33m
  109. 109

    Soup Day with Deb Pedersen

    Oct 5, 2022·42m
  110. 110

    Guess Who's Back?!

    Sep 28, 2022·26m
  111. 111

    There's Something About Lorna

    Aug 31, 2022·33m
  112. 112

    A Canadian Boomer in Paris

    Aug 24, 2022·33m
  113. 113

    Follow Your Gut!

    Aug 17, 2022·36m
  114. 114

    Rated RRR - Reduce, Reuse, Recycle

    Aug 10, 2022·37m
  115. 115

    Mr. Wade, We Have a Problem

    Jul 6, 2022·38m
  116. 116

    Nature v. Nurture: The Chicken or the Egg?

    Jun 29, 2022·51m
  117. 117

    Step-Kids + Step-Grandkids = A Whole Lotta Love

    Jun 22, 2022·37m
  118. 118

    An Inconvenient Episode

    Jun 15, 2022·32m
  119. 119

    Too Legit To Quit (Part 2)

    Jun 8, 2022·28m
  120. 120

    Too Legit To Quit (Part 2) [TEASER]

    Jun 7, 2022·0m
  121. 121

    Live From New York...Too Legit To Quit!

    Jun 1, 2022·29m
  122. 122

    The Way We Were (Re-release)

    Apr 20, 2022·26m
  123. 123

    Season 3: The Finale

    Apr 13, 2022·29m
  124. 124

    Friendship Deposits And Its Return On Investments

    Apr 6, 2022·39m
  125. 125

    Oooh, Bop! FA-FA-FASHION!

    Mar 30, 2022·44m
  126. 126

    The One About LOBs and Other Hair Styles

    Mar 16, 2022·28m
  127. 127

    Make Me GLOW!

    Mar 9, 2022·44m
  128. 128

    Single and [somewhat] Ready to Mingle

    Feb 23, 2022·36m
  129. 129

    What's Next in Finances? Conversation with a Financial Advisor

    Feb 16, 2022·45m
  130. 130

    Pack Your Patience, Let's Go Travelling!

    Feb 2, 2022·37m
  131. 131

    Mommy's baby had a baby!

    Jan 26, 2022·35m
  132. 132

    75 Is The New 55: The Upside of Aging

    Jan 19, 2022·31m
  133. 133

    TECH: A Useful Servant, But A Dangerous Master

    Dec 22, 2021·43m
  134. 134

    "I am a woman. Phenomenally." (A Reprise)

    Dec 15, 2021·35m
  135. 135

    "I am a woman. Phenomenally."

    Dec 8, 2021·53m
  136. 136

    "Masculine Toxicity"

    Nov 24, 2021·51m
  137. 137

    The Evolution of Food

    Nov 10, 2021·45m
  138. 138

    Tales of Adoptions' Past

    Oct 13, 2021·38m
  139. 139

    Grey hair, don't care!

    Oct 6, 2021·29m
  140. 140

    I Am My Mother's Daughter

    Sep 29, 2021·27m
  141. 141

    En Français!

    Sep 22, 2021·36m
  142. 142

    The Beatles, Baby Duck, and Porphyry Pearl--A Groovy Adolescence

    Sep 15, 2021·44m
  143. 143

    Boomers and Boomerangs

    Aug 11, 2021·35m
  144. 144

    Grandma and Grand-Derek

    Aug 4, 2021·33m
  145. 145

    "Good friends, good books...the ideal life."

    Jul 28, 2021·37m
  146. 146

    "...I'll be there for you!"

    Jul 21, 2021·40m
  147. 147

    Keeping Up With The Zibins

    Jul 14, 2021·28m
  148. 148

    INDY

    Jul 7, 2021·32m
  149. 149

    Anticipating Our First Grandchild

    Jun 30, 2021·35m
  150. 150

    Our Son Became Our Daughter

    Jun 23, 2021·34m
  151. 151

    Exercise!

    Jun 16, 2021·28m
  152. 152

    Learning to Thrive After the Death of Your Spouse

    Jun 9, 2021·24m
  153. 153

    The Way We Were

    Jun 2, 2021·27m
  154. 154

    What's Next? Conversations with Boomers.

    May 26, 2021·3m