We've Got To Talk

Nicole Fonarow and Jolene Conway

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Political disagreement without the escape hatch.

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We've Got To Talk turns the week’s political flashpoints into plain-spoken arguments between Nicole and Jolene. The show works best when a headline becomes a question about fear, fairness, power, parenting, speech, or whether public life has stopped making sense.

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About We've Got To Talk

We've Got To Talk is a political conversation show with a simple engine: two longtime friends disagreeing in public without pretending the disagreement is small. Nicole brings the liberal side. Jolene brings the conservative side. The show’s best moments come when neither one settles for the first tribal answer. A report on Trump’s 2024 voters turns into a discussion of immigration, backlash against wokeness, Kamala, reluctant voters, and what people think they were voting against. A protest in Washington Square Park becomes a wider argument about hate speech, free speech, anti-Muslim prejudice, antisemitism, religious extremism, and the limits of public protest. It gets blunt. It also keeps circling back to human motives. Episodes often start with three hot takes, then loosen into examples, memories, questions, and course corrections. The result feels more like a kitchen-table argument than a studio debate. That matters because the show is strongest when a policy issue gets dragged back into ordinary life. Australia’s under-16 social media ban and American school phone restrictions become a conversation about kids, parents, teachers, administrators, addiction, safety, and what children can handle without a device in their pocket. The SAVE Act becomes a dispute over voting rules, immigration rhetoric, paper trails, and whether election integrity language is being used honestly. The Iran conflict is handled with visible uncertainty, including the problem of acting quickly when information may be outdated within days. The Epstein files episode turns toward power, class, exploitation, and the way wealthy people avoid accountability. A decorum episode uses Pam Bondi, JD Vance, Marco Rubio, Munich speeches, and congressional hearings to ask why public performance now feels so exhausting. Guest conversations can shift the format, as with Brad Porteus explaining Bridgegrades.org and its attempt to score members of Congress on coalition building and divisive rhetoric. Still, the show’s center remains the same. It is a place for political tension, not political theater. It is for listeners who want a sharper conversation than polite consensus, but a more human one than cable-news shouting.

Made for: For listeners who follow politics closely but are tired of clean partisan scripts. It suits people interested in social division, public speech, voting fights, school technology rules, and accountability among powerful figures.

What sets it apart: The show’s edge is the conservative-liberal friendship at its center, where disagreement is personal, specific, and allowed to stay unresolved. Instead of flattening issues into team positions, it keeps asking what a reasonable person might actually believe and why.

In their own words

Our story begins in the halls of the University of Iowa, go Hawks! It was there that two seemingly different paths intersected and a friendship blossomed. Despite our different upbringings—Jolene in little Pleasantville, Iowa, and me, Nicole, just across the Golden Gate Bridge in the bustling Bay Area—we became fast friends. And here we are, almost 40 years later, living in a world that often seems intent on drawing lines in the sand and choosing sides. So why "We've Got To Talk"? Because we truly believe that in this deeply divided society, the power of conversation can unite us. Our...

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Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Nicole and Jolene make partisan disagreement useful by testing political assumptions against reports, policy proposals and each other's reactions.

Nicole and Jolene turn political disagreement into an open-ended conversation rather than a contest for the last word. Their liberal-conservative pairing shapes discussions of congressional cooperation, Trump voters, protest speech and political decorum, with each host pressing…

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Jolene and Nicole turn forty years of friendship into your escape hatch from partisan certainty.

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Republican vs Democrat Views of Trump: What the Beyond MAGA Report RevealsApr 15, 2026

A political friendship uses a report to make the Trump coalition easier to read.

Built on a decades-long friendship across political lines, this episode walks through More in Common's "Beyond MAGA: A Profile of the Trump Coalition" with real care.

This NYC Protest Shocked Us: “Death to America” and What It MeansApr 8, 2026

A Washington Square Park protest opens into a sharp talk about extremism and free speech.

The episode uses a Washington Square Park protest as a way into extremism, hate speech versus free speech, and the wider political strain around protest in American life.

Australia’s Under-16 Social Media Ban vs. US Bell-to-Bell Phone Bans in SchoolsApr 1, 2026

A grounded conversation about phones, schools, and what parents can actually enforce.

Australia's social media ban and the push for bell-to-bell phone bans in the U.S. give this episode a current, slightly combative frame. The hosts stay with school policy, addiction worries, and the practical limits on what parents can enforce, and they keep returning to…

The Death of Political Decorum: Pam Bondi, JD Vance, and Why We're All ExhaustedMar 4, 2026

A blunt conversation about public manners, political theater, and decorum.

This episode keeps coming back to the gap between public manners and public performance, using Pam Bondi, the Epstein hearings, the Munich speeches, and Marco Rubio versus J.D. Vance to make that point.

Bridge Grades: The ‘Rotten Tomatoes’ Scorecard for CongressFeb 25, 2026

A practical civics discussion about rewarding Congress for governing and building coalitions.

What could have been a gimmick gets treated here as a practical question: how Congress should be judged on coalition building, bridge making, and actual governing.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    "Bridgers vs. Dividers: The Report Card That Could Change the Midterms "

    BridgeGrades gives House and Senate members scores from zero to 100 based on collaboration and divisive behavior, not ideology.

    Sep 30, 2026·49m·2 clips
  2. 2

    What If We Replaced Politicians With Regular People Picked by Lottery?

    Sep 23, 2026·40m
  3. 3

    How to Talk to “The Enemy” with Larry Rosen

    Sep 16, 2026·57m
  4. 4

    Liberal and Conservative: 5 Questions We've Always Wanted to Ask

    Sep 9, 2026·54m
  5. 5

    Liberal and Conservative Compare: Fox News vs MSNOW

    Sep 2, 2026·36m
  6. 6

    Will Social Security run out in 2032?

    Aug 26, 2026·54m
  7. 7

    How Future Caucus Gets Republicans and Democrats to Work Together

    Aug 19, 2026·1h 4m
  8. 8

    The problem with my political party is.....

    Aug 12, 2026·37m
  9. 9

    What an Australian Really Thinks of America

    Aug 5, 2026·46m
  10. 10

    We Answered Your Political Questions

    Jul 29, 2026·47m
  11. 11

    Why is there no accountability on Capitol Hill?

    Jul 22, 2026·44m
  12. 12

    The Conservative Solution to Climate Change

    Jul 15, 2026·52m
  13. 13

    Gen X: The Greatest Generation

    Jul 8, 2026·48m
  14. 14

    Can you be Liberal and Patriotic?

    Jul 1, 2026·44m
  15. 15

    David French: How America Will Recover

    Jun 24, 2026·1h 6m
  16. 16

    Who actually votes for Donald Trump?

    Jun 17, 2026·1h 2m
  17. 17

    Is Minimum Wage the Real Problem with Tipping Culture?

    Jun 10, 2026·49m
  18. 18

    Trump’s Tax Letter & The 1776 Fund: Republican vs Democrat

    Jun 3, 2026·38m
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    “Bashing Trump” vs “Sanewashing Trump”: An Interview with Issac Saul of Tangle News

    May 27, 2026·43m
  20. 20

    How Postpartum Medicaid Went From 60 Days to a Year in Wisconsin

    May 20, 2026·46m
  21. 21

    Builders, Not Dividers: Voting for Character Over Party

    May 13, 2026·56m
  22. 22

    “Us vs Them” Has Taken Over American Politics

    May 6, 2026·33m
  23. 23

    What is a Sanctuary City and how do they work?

    Apr 29, 2026·46m
  24. 24

    Is AI Progress or Poison?

    Apr 22, 2026·45m
  25. 25

    Republican vs Democrat Views of Trump: What the Beyond MAGA Report Reveals

    Hidden gem

    Jolene and Nicole dig into More in Common's Beyond MAGA report.

    Apr 15, 2026·36m·2 clips
  26. 26

    This NYC Protest Shocked Us: “Death to America” and What It Means

    Hidden gem

    Nicole and Jolene start with a Washington Square Park protest in New York City and the shock it set off.

    Apr 8, 2026·39m·2 clips
  27. 27

    Australia’s Under-16 Social Media Ban vs. US Bell-to-Bell Phone Bans in Schools

    Hidden gem

    Jolene and Nicole open by noting the episode was recorded several weeks before release.

    Apr 1, 2026·41m·2 clips
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    The Epstein Files and the elite with no accountability

    Two friends with differing political views discuss the Epstein Files, highlighting the involvement of the elite, exploitation of young women, and lack of accountability.

    Mar 25, 2026·41m
  29. 29

    Trump’s SAVE Act Explained: Election Integrity or Voter Suppression

    Two friends with opposing political views discuss the SAVE Act, a bill pushed by Trump that aims to safeguard voter eligibility, debating whether it promotes election integrity or suppresses votes.

    Mar 18, 2026·44m
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    Iran Conflict: What Happens When "You Break It, You Buy It" Applies to War?

    Two friends with opposing political views discuss the Iran conflict, sharing their perspectives on the justification for military action and the need for a short-term engagement.

    Mar 11, 2026·44m
  31. 31

    The Death of Political Decorum: Pam Bondi, JD Vance, and Why We're All Exhausted

    Two longtime friends, one conservative and one liberal, use Pam Bondi, the Epstein hearings, and the Munich speeches as a starting point for a larger talk about decorum.

    Mar 4, 2026·32m·3 clips
  32. 32

    Bridge Grades: The ‘Rotten Tomatoes’ Scorecard for Congress

    Hidden gem

    Brad Porteus walks the hosts through Bridgegrades.org and the idea behind scoring lawmakers on bridge building.

    Feb 25, 2026·59m·4 clips
  33. 33

    The Last Republican Documentary: Our Review

    Two friends with opposing political views review the documentary 'The Last Republican' by Steve Pink, discussing its themes and their perspectives.

    Feb 18, 2026·50m
  34. 34

    Trump One Year Later: Reaction to Ezra Klein & Yuval Levin Conversation

    Feb 11, 2026·41m
  35. 35

    ICE Shooting in Minneapolis: Facts, Fear, and What We Owe Each Other

    Feb 4, 2026·1h 6m
  36. 36

    Is America buying Greenland or not?

    Jan 28, 2026·47m
  37. 37

    U.S. Surrogacy and Birthright Citizenship: When Money Writes the Rules

    Jan 21, 2026·52m
  38. 38

    2026 Is Already a Lot: Venezuela, ICE Shootings, Minnesota Fraud and Iran Uprising

    Jan 14, 2026·1h 20m
  39. 39

    Death and Dying: How Faith and Spirituality Shape Our Views on the Afterlife

    Jan 7, 2026·54m
  40. 40

    Reflecting on the year that was

    Dec 31, 2025·37m
  41. 41

    Christmas & Hanukkah: How We Celebrate the Holidays

    Dec 24, 2025·57m
  42. 42

    5 Pet Peeves & 5 Things That Bring Us Joy

    Dec 17, 2025·57m
  43. 43

    Monica Guzman: Why Talking Politics With Family Isn't Just Okay - It's Essential

    Dec 10, 2025·46m
  44. 44

    Working Full-Time But Still Poor: The 55 Million American Households We Need To Talk About

    Dec 3, 2025·48m
  45. 45

    Our Thanksgiving Traditions: How Food and Family Unite Us Across Political Lines

    Nov 26, 2025·54m
  46. 46

    Prayer vs Meditation: Your Brain Can't Tell the Difference

    Nov 19, 2025·55m
  47. 47

    What Every Woman Needs to Know About Menopause and HRT

    Nov 12, 2025·55m
  48. 48

    Gavin Newsom 2028: Can California's Governor Win a National Election? Liberal vs Conservative

    Two friends with opposing political views discuss Gavin Newsom's potential 2028 presidential run and his approach to politics and governorship.

    Nov 5, 2025·44m
  49. 49

    Trump's White House Ballroom: Why Everyone's Fighting Over a Building Project

    Oct 29, 2025·54m
  50. 50

    Trump Gets Hostages Home: The Middle East Peace Deal We Weren't Expecting

    Oct 22, 2025·52m
  51. 51

    Government Shutdown 2025: Congress Gets Paid While Federal Workers Starve

    Oct 12, 2025·44m
  52. 52

    What IS the role of Government in America? Our personal takes

    Oct 8, 2025·1h 4m
  53. 53

    Jimmy Kimmel Censored: Is Free Speech Dead in America?

    Oct 1, 2025·57m
  54. 54

    Gun Control: When Both Sides Are Right (And Wrong)

    Sep 24, 2025·1h 7m
  55. 55

    The Aftermath of the Assassination of Charlie Kirk

    Sep 17, 2025·52m
  56. 56

    Why Americans are So Mean to Each Other

    Sep 10, 2025·46m
  57. 57

    Trump, Putin, and Zelensky Meetings: What Really Happened Behind Closed Doors?

    Sep 3, 2025·54m
  58. 58

    What It's Really Like Being a Woman in 2025

    Aug 27, 2025·53m
  59. 59

    Making Friends as Adults - special episode live from the Ozarks

    Aug 20, 2025·35m
  60. 60

    Climate Change: When Liberals and Conservatives Actually Agree

    Aug 13, 2025·48m
  61. 61

    We Swapped News Sources for 10 Days - Liberal vs Conservative Media

    Two friends with opposing political views discuss their 10-day experiment of swapping news sources, including the New York Times and Fox News, to explore media consumption differences.

    Aug 6, 2025·43m
  62. 62

    Epstein Files Conspiracy + Political Questions You're Afraid to Ask

    Jul 30, 2025·50m
  63. 63

    Trump's Meme Coin Made Millions While You Got Played

    Jul 23, 2025·51m
  64. 64

    Why Everything Is Political Now And How It's Breaking America

    Jul 16, 2025·50m
  65. 65

    What does Mamdani's Primary win say about the future of the Democratic party?

    Jul 9, 2025·1h 5m
  66. 66

    Big Food Is Poisoning America - And The Government Is Helping Them Do It

    Jul 2, 2025·52m
  67. 67

    Army Parades vs. Anti-Government Protests: When Patriotism Gets Complicated

    Two friends with opposing political views discuss the recent Army Parade celebrating its 250th anniversary and the coinciding No Kings Marches, exploring the complexities of patriotism, government spending, and information accuracy.

    Jun 25, 2025·36m
  68. 68

    We Got DESTROYED on TikTok- The Social Media Backlash Nobody Warned Us About

    Jun 22, 2025·8m
  69. 69

    Pro-Life vs Pro-Choice: What Happens When Best Friends Disagree on Abortion

    Jun 18, 2025·51m
  70. 70

    Assumption vs Reality: How Democrats and Republicans Misunderstand Each Other

    Jun 11, 2025·33m
  71. 71

    First Kisses, Underage Sorority Parties and Our Deepest Fears

    Jun 4, 2025·27m
  72. 72

    Biden's Cancer Bombshell: Coincidence or Calculated?

    May 24, 2025·33m
  73. 73

    Religion, Identity & Social Media: Having IMPOSSIBLE Conversations in 2025

    May 21, 2025·30m
  74. 74

    Is Ozempic the wonder drug we need?

    May 14, 2025·38m
  75. 75

    Why would a Christian woman vote for Trump? - your questions answered

    May 7, 2025·55m
  76. 76

    Are we getting canceled?

    Apr 30, 2025·30m
  77. 77

    Disruption in DC: Elon Musk and the DOGE

    Apr 23, 2025·42m
  78. 78

    10% on EVERYTHING? Trump's Latest Tariff Bombshell

    Apr 16, 2025·43m
  79. 79

    Our take on DEI Rollbacks

    Apr 9, 2025·40m
  80. 80

    Debating RFK’s Role as Secretary of HSS

    Apr 2, 2025·41m
  81. 81

    Presidential Pardoning Power: A Necessary Tool or Ethical Dilemma?

    Mar 26, 2025·36m
  82. 82

    What does it mean to be a liberal vs a conservative?

    Mar 19, 2025·35m
  83. 83

    Do We Need A Wall At the Border?

    Mar 12, 2025·39m
  84. 84

    Why Republicans and Democrats Need to Talk Now

    Mar 5, 2025·25m
  85. 85

    What Happened on January 6th?

    Feb 28, 2025·21m
  86. 86

    Democrat vs Republican: Reaction to Trump's Re-Election

    Feb 26, 2025·26m
  87. 87

    Welcome to We've Got To Talk

    Feb 17, 2025·3m