The Influence Exchange

J.V.

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Courage, consistency, and real-life growth.

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The Influence Exchange mixes reflective solo episodes with warm, question-led interviews about growth under pressure. It favors plainspoken lessons on discipline, memory, pain, purpose, relationships, and the small choices that shape influence.

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About The Influence Exchange

The Influence Exchange sits in the discipline-and-mindset lane, but its best moments are less about hacks than honest self-examination. JV approaches growth as a daily practice. The show often begins with a plain question and then circles it until a useful distinction appears. Sometimes the question is emotional, as in the episode about missing people and realizing the ache may belong to an older version of oneself. Sometimes it is practical, as in the episode that argues experiences change a life more deeply than vacations. The tone is warm and deliberate. Ideas are stated simply, repeated from a few angles, and brought back to a takeaway that can be used after the episode ends. Solo episodes have a reflective, almost workshop-like structure, with sections on talent versus discipline, reconnecting with the past, intentional living, and building consistency when motivation disappears. Interview episodes add lived texture. Kristen Crabtree discusses identity, the Paramore Paradox, survival patterns, divorce coaching, and the possibility of rebuilding after years of losing sight of the self. Her conversation gives the show space for psychology-adjacent language while staying grounded in everyday examples, like the brain noticing the orange Subaru Crosstrek once it has been primed to see it. Jay Setchel brings a different kind of intensity. His story moves through farm work, the Marine Corps, entrepreneurship, corporate life, paralysis, near-death experiences, many surgeries, faith, and the insistence that it is always too soon to quit. The host tends to meet these stories with gratitude, curiosity, and personal examples rather than confrontation. That makes the show approachable, even when the material is heavy. It is not a polished seminar. It feels more like a steady conversation with someone trying to make growth feel possible and concrete. The recurring idea is influence without performance: courage over comfort, consistency over talent, presence over escape, and identity over old survival habits. Listeners looking for dense research may want more rigor. Listeners who want earnest encouragement, relatable framing, and patient reflection will find a clear home here.

Made for: For listeners drawn to practical motivation, reflective self-help, and conversations about resilience without a flashy performance style. It especially suits people working through discipline, identity, relationships, purpose, or rebuilding after difficult seasons.

What sets it apart: The show stands apart through its slow, explanatory cadence and its mix of solo mindset teaching with personal guest stories. It turns broad motivational ideas into everyday images, repeated questions, and concrete choices.

In their own words

Hosted by J.V.The Influence Exchange is a leadership driven motivational podcast designed to help you grow personally, professionally, and intentionally. Each episode breaks down the mindset, habits, and real-life stories that shape true influence, not the kind measured by titles or followers, but the kind built through character, consistency, and impact.Through authentic conversations, personal experiences, and research-backed insights, J.V. explores topics like mindset, legacy, showing up daily, emotional resilience, and becoming the person others can rely on. Whether you're leading a team, raising a family, building a career, or working on becoming the best version of y...

discipline and consistencycourage over comfortidentity and self-reconnectionresilience after hardshiprelationships and memoryintentional experiencesfaith and purposeemotional survival patterns

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Best episodes of The Influence Exchange

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Kristen Crabtree: Remembering Who You Really AreApr 15, 2026

A calm, practical conversation about identity, survival patterns, and reconnecting with who you truly are.

Kristen Crabtree's story follows the slow work of rediscovering who she is after years of being the reliable one who kept putting herself last.

If It Is to Be, It Is Up to Me: Jay Setchell’s StoryApr 8, 2026

An earnest reminder that endurance comes from faith, duty, and follow-through.

Jay Setchel's story rests on a plain idea: keep answering life with work. Raised on a working farm, shaped by the Marine Corps, and later pulled through entrepreneurship and corporate life, he treats resilience as a habit, not a pose. The facts are hard to miss.

Vacations Don’t Change Your Life, Experiences DoMar 18, 2026

A steady case for why experiences can matter more than vacations in how people live afterward.

JV frames a simple contrast with clarity: vacations can feel restorative, but experiences are what tend to reshape how someone lives. The episode makes the case that a trip can end with the same habits, stress, doubts, and routine, while a real experience can leave a person more…

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Episodes

  1. 1

    The Battle Within: Rebuilding Yourself After Life Changes You | TJ Baird

    The Influence Exchange features retired U.S.

    Sep 30, 2026·50m·2 clips
  2. 2

    Small Decisions, Big Shifts: How Everyday Choices Change Your Life | Chip Scholz

    Hidden gem

    Chip Scholz connects a 2012 stroke, a 110-pound weight loss, and fourteen years of recovery to his emphasis on daily choices.

    Sep 25, 2026·53m·2 clips
  3. 3

    How to Handle Rejection in Sales and Turn Every “No” Into Growth | Bryan Charleau

    Sep 23, 2026·48m
  4. 4

    Why Choosing Yourself Isn’t Selfish | Catherine Cristani

    Sep 16, 2026·1h 2m
  5. 5

    You Are Enough: How to Break Free From Self-Doubt & Fear | Steve Barton

    Sep 9, 2026·44m
  6. 6

    Life Knocked Her Down Again and Again - She Refused to Quit | Sue Paulson

    Sep 4, 2026·58m
  7. 7

    Success Shouldn’t Cost You Your Health: How to Beat Burnout & Lead Better | Rachael Edmondson-Clarke

    Sep 2, 2026·53m
  8. 8

    Stop Saying “I Can’t”: The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything | Diane Lampe

    Aug 26, 2026·52m
  9. 9

    When Life Goes Dark: Finding Grit, Gratitude & Purpose After Losing Sight | Laura Bratton

    Aug 19, 2026·34m
  10. 10

    From Surviving to Thriving: How Gratitude Can Change Your Life | Pamela Cass

    Aug 14, 2026·41m
  11. 11

    Success Isn’t Freedom Until You Learn to Lead Yourself | Regina Huber

    Aug 12, 2026·35m
  12. 12

    From Lost to Purpose: How Faith, Discipline & Mindset Can Change Your Life | with CJ Moneyway

    Aug 5, 2026·36m
  13. 13

    Why Mindset Matters More Than Strategy in Business | Carly Pepin

    Jul 31, 2026·43m
  14. 14

    Your Biggest Career Obstacle Isn’t Your Skills, It’s Self-Doubt | Courtney Intersimone

    Jul 29, 2026·42m
  15. 15

    Bonus Episode: The Question That Could Change Your Life Forever, with Chris Woods

    Jul 24, 2026·46m
  16. 16

    The Side Hustle Mindset: Opportunities Are Everywhere, with Bart Merrell

    Jul 22, 2026·51m
  17. 17

    Why Most People Never Reach Their Full Potential, with Alan Lazaros

    Jul 15, 2026·39m
  18. 18

    Fired at 63 and Nearly Broke, How David Nassief Became a Millionaire by 69

    Jul 8, 2026·43m
  19. 19

    Bonus Episode: From Coma to Comeback: How Dan MacQueen Rebuilt His Life After Brain Surgery

    Jul 3, 2026·32m
  20. 20

    The Hidden Reason You Feel Stuck in Life and Business with Joanna Zhang

    Jul 1, 2026·41m
  21. 21

    How NLP Can Rewire Your Mind and Break the Patterns Holding You Back, with Dr. Heidi Heron

    Jun 24, 2026·51m
  22. 22

    From Coma to Comeback: Shannon Michelle’s Story of Resilience

    Jun 17, 2026·47m
  23. 23

    A Black Belt Mindset, Why Success Comes Down to Never Quitting with Chris Natzke

    Jun 10, 2026·51m
  24. 24

    Bonus Episode: Red Flag or Green Flag, Part 2, Real Life, Real Decisions

    Jun 5, 2026·25m
  25. 25

    From Heartbreak to Healing, How Nikki Allen Turned Pain Into Purpose

    Jun 3, 2026·42m
  26. 26

    From Ministry to the FBI, Eric Robinson on Faith, Pressure, and Purpose

    May 27, 2026·49m
  27. 27

    Bonus Episode: Wealth Isn’t Just Money, It’s How You Think, Live, and Decide

    May 22, 2026·30m
  28. 28

    Rock Bottom to Purpose, How One Moment Can Change Everything, with Steve Gamlin

    May 20, 2026·49m
  29. 29

    You’re Not Broken, You’re Carrying Unhealed Trauma, with Malisa Hepner

    May 13, 2026·47m
  30. 30

    You’re Not Stuck, You’re Afraid of Being Judged, with Robin Clare

    May 6, 2026·50m
  31. 31

    Bonus Episode: Spending to Feel Better and What It’s Really Costing You.

    May 1, 2026·22m
  32. 32

    From Loss to Reinvention: How You Rebuild When Life Breaks You, with Chanoa Inez

    Apr 29, 2026·34m
  33. 33

    Danny Brassell: Why Storytelling Is the Secret to Leadership, Influence, and Growth

    Apr 22, 2026·40m
  34. 34

    Kristen Crabtree: Remembering Who You Really Are

    Hidden gem

    Kristen Crabtree joins The Influence Exchange to talk about what it takes to remember who you really are.

    Apr 15, 2026·42m·2 clips
  35. 35

    If It Is to Be, It Is Up to Me: Jay Setchell’s Story

    Hidden gem

    Jay Setchel's story is one of stubborn forward motion.

    Apr 8, 2026·46m·3 clips
  36. 36

    Listener Confessions: Let’s Talk About It

    Apr 1, 2026·19m
  37. 37

    You Don’t Miss People, You Miss Who You Were With Them

    Mar 25, 2026·22m
  38. 38

    Vacations Don’t Change Your Life, Experiences Do

    The host welcomes listeners, introduces the show as a place for real conversations and honest perspective, and says vacations can be good but do not automatically change who you are.

    Mar 18, 2026·29m·2 clips
  39. 39

    Stop Saying No to Yourself Before Life Does

    Mar 11, 2026·26m
  40. 40

    Red Flag or Green Flag? The Game That Exposes Everything

    Mar 4, 2026·30m
  41. 41

    Hard Conversations Made Simple: What to Say When You Don’t Want Conflict

    Feb 25, 2026·23m
  42. 42

    The Respect Reset: Why People Treat You Based on What You Tolerate

    Feb 18, 2026·30m
  43. 43

    The Way You Love Is the Way You Show Up

    Feb 11, 2026·28m
  44. 44

    Why You Feel Stuck Even When You’re Doing Everything Right

    Feb 4, 2026·36m
  45. 45

    The Follow-Through Formula Why Plans Fail & Systems Win

    Jan 28, 2026·36m
  46. 46

    Emotional Fitness Training Your Mind Like a Muscle

    Jan 21, 2026·37m
  47. 47

    The Self-Trust Crisis: Why Most People Don’t Follow Through

    Jan 14, 2026·35m
  48. 48

    The Influence Code: The 10 Principles That Shape Every Leader

    Jan 7, 2026·1h 3m
  49. 49

    New Year, New Standard: Leading Yourself into 2026

    Dec 31, 2025·31m
  50. 50

    The Discipline Advantage: Why Consistency Beats Talent Every Time

    JB argues that discipline, not talent, is the key to long-term success and provides a blueprint for building it.

    Dec 24, 2025·29m
  51. 51

    The Gift of Influence: What You’re Really Giving This Season

    Dec 17, 2025·31m
  52. 52

    The Power of Self-Belief: Becoming Your Own Source of Confidence

    Dec 10, 2025·31m
  53. 53

    The Energy You Bring: How Your Presence Influences Every Room

    Dec 3, 2025·28m
  54. 54

    The Power of Consistency: Showing Up When It’s Hard

    Nov 26, 2025·18m
  55. 55

    The Legacy Mindset: Building Influence That Outlasts You

    Nov 19, 2025·13m
  56. 56

    Mindset Matters: Staying Positive When It Counts

    Nov 14, 2025·10m
  57. 57

    The Influence Exchange

    Nov 14, 2025·9m