The HR Misfits

Ami Graves

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Real talk for people leadership misfits.

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The HR Misfits treats people leadership as practical, political, and deeply human. Its conversations push past polished corporate language into hybrid work tensions, performance review rituals, bias, power, burnout, and the awkward phrases offices keep pretending are useful.

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About The HR Misfits

The HR Misfits is a workplace conversation with the polish sanded off in the best way. It sounds like people talking after the meeting, when the official language has run out and the real consequences are finally on the table. The show sits in human resources, leadership, and performance management, but it is allergic to tidy corporate theater. Its favorite move is simple: take a familiar workplace practice and ask what it is actually doing to people. Return-to-office debates become less about collaboration slogans and more about blurry boundaries, global schedules, emotional reactions, and hybrid policies that started as experiments before becoming norms. Annual reviews and nine box exercises get treated as inherited machinery, not neutral truth. The conversation keeps circling back to pay, because that is where many supposedly developmental systems quietly become hard to change. Culture talk also gets a hard look. When leaders ask for innovation, strategy, agility, or culture fit, the show wants the plain-English version: what behavior is being requested, who benefits, and what gets hidden by the phrase. There is humor in the room. There is also frustration. Pop-culture references and headline stories are not used as decoration; they become entry points into bias, power, working motherhood, leadership conduct, and what HR is expected to model. The show can be loose and chatty, with digressions that double back into real advice. That informality is part of the appeal. It feels closer to experienced practitioners comparing notes than a scripted leadership seminar. The result is useful for listeners who care about better people systems but have limited patience for recycled playbooks. It does not flatten HR into compliance or cheerleading. It treats the function as a place where business needs, legal risk, human fallout, and leadership courage all show up at once.

Made for: Built for HR practitioners, people leaders, managers, founders, and workplace skeptics who want blunt but useful conversations about how organizations actually behave. It especially suits listeners tired of buzzwords standing in for decisions.

What sets it apart: The show stands out by pairing HR experience with casual roundtable candor. It critiques familiar frameworks and workplace phrases through concrete stories, not abstract leadership theory.

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Welcome to The HR Misfits — the podcast for people who care about work, leadership, and humans… but are tired of the corporate script. This is where HR, leadership, and workplace culture get real. Every episode dives into the messy, meaningful, and often unspoken side of work — from people leaders and founders to operators, creatives, and career rebels who don’t fit neatly in a box. We talk about the moments that shape leaders, the systems that need rethinking, and the stories behind policies, power, burnout, belonging, and growth. No buzzwords. No performative culture talk. Just honest conversations about what it actually...

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Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

The HR Misfits turns workplace policy into candid discussion about leadership judgment, organizational tradeoffs, and the human consequences of management decisions.

The HR Misfits treats workplace policy as a set of consequential business decisions, then follows those decisions down to the people who live with them.

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Why you'd press play

The nine-box gets burned, and your next "be more strategic" meeting becomes considerably harder to fake.

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  • plain-English challenges to performance reviews and pay decisions
  • company-culture cliches tested against layoffs and other messy realities
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hybrid work and return-to-office tensionperformance reviews and nine box frameworkscompensation and pay differentiationcorporate language and workplace buzzwordsbias, power, and working motherhoodHR accountability and leadership behaviorburnout and nervous system regulationfounder and career stories

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Pandemic to Present: How Work Changed and Why We’re Still Arguing About ItApr 8, 2026

A clear look at why hybrid work still leaves the workplace unsettled.

Pandemic to Present: How Work Changed and Why We're Still Arguing About It takes the return-to-office debate and treats it as a basic question of how work was suddenly reshaped.

The Anti-Framework: Burn the 9 Box (and the Annual Review with It)Mar 25, 2026

A pointed case for questioning performance-review rituals when they mainly prop up pay decisions.

The HR Misfits frames the conversation as a challenge to unquestioned people-management habits, especially the way performance reviews can become the default route for tying pay to performance.

Corporate Cringe - The Workplace Phrases We’re All Tired of Pretending We LikeMar 18, 2026

Corporate jargon is pulled back into plain business terms, with attention on what leaders mean and what people are expected to do next.

The HR Misfits works through the empty reach of corporate phrases that drain meaning on contact, from culture fit to be more strategic, more innovative, and more agile.

Aligning Mind, Body, and Soul for Lasting Career SuccessJan 7, 2026

A calm, practical take on clearer thinking and better decisions.

Amy Gray and Marci Coppola come off as two HR misfits who have found a useful shared language. The conversation moves from Marci's corporate background into her coaching work, with a simple idea at the center: when people feel less crowded inside, they tend to think more…

Finding Complete Peace in the Chaos of Life and WorkDec 3, 2025

A practical, personal look at leaving security to build a private practice.

Sarah's shift from social work into her own private therapy practice, Complete Peace, gives the conversation its center of gravity. Amy Graves keeps the attention on what it takes to leave behind a regular paycheck, benefits, and PTO while trying to build income from scratch as…

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Episodes

  1. 1

    LinkedIn: Facebook in a Blazer?

    Marcy, Latoya, Amy and Marcela argue LinkedIn has drifted from a professional networking site into "Facebook in a blazer," with selfies, memes and political fights in the comments.

    Sep 23, 2026·39m·2 clips
  2. 2

    Gen Z Isn’t the Problem - Your Assumptions Might Be

    Sep 9, 2026·41m
  3. 3

    Work-Life Unbalance: The Misfit's Guide to Boundaries

    Aug 26, 2026·46m
  4. 4

    Why Employees Are No Longer Leaving Nicely

    Jul 30, 2026·49m
  5. 5

    Your Best People Are Leaving (Because You Promoted Them Out the Door)

    Jul 15, 2026·48m
  6. 6

    Culture Starts at the Top - So Does the Damage

    Jun 17, 2026·42m
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    From Star Player to People Leader: What Could Go Wrong?

    Jun 3, 2026·49m
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    Reimagining HR: The Case for Licensure and Accountability

    May 20, 2026·47m
  9. 9

    The AI Throwdown: Heart vs. Algorithm

    Apr 22, 2026·48m
  10. 10

    Pandemic to Present: How Work Changed and Why We’re Still Arguing About It

    Hidden gem

    Remote work landed messily.

    Apr 8, 2026·1h 1m·5 clips
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    The Anti-Framework: Burn the 9 Box (and the Annual Review with It)

    Hidden gem

    The hosts take aim at the nine-box and the performance review as one bundled habit.

    Mar 25, 2026·52m·3 clips
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    Corporate Cringe - The Workplace Phrases We’re All Tired of Pretending We Like

    This episode takes aim at the workplace phrases people keep repeating because they sound safe.

    Mar 18, 2026·53m·3 clips
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    What Could Possibly Go Wrong? (Spoiler: Everything)

    HR leaders discuss the importance of HR and leadership modeling the behaviors they promote for organizational culture.

    Feb 25, 2026·52m
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    Breaking Biases in HR: Lessons from All Her Fault

    Three HR practitioners discuss the TV show 'All Her Fault' and its themes of power, bias, and working motherhood in the workplace.

    Feb 11, 2026·45m
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    Welcome to The HR Misfits: The Anti Handbook

    Introduction to the HR Misfits podcast series, where HR leaders discuss the unsaid truths about human resources and challenge outdated people systems.

    Jan 29, 2026·34m
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    Aligning Mind, Body, and Soul for Lasting Career Success

    Hidden gem

    Marci Coppola joins Amy Gray for a loose, candid talk about work, calm, and how people make better decisions.

    Jan 7, 2026·1h·2 clips
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    Lighting the Way: A Founder’s Path to Purpose

    Founder Brittany Whitenack discusses her journey building a candle company with a small team, emphasizing purpose and faith.

    Dec 17, 2025·40m
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    Finding Complete Peace in the Chaos of Life and Work

    Hidden gem

    Amy Graves talks with Sarah, her friend since seventh grade, about the move from social work into private practice.

    Dec 3, 2025·53m·2 clips
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    From Burpees to Business: Building Strength Inside and Out

    Nov 20, 2025·41m
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    Finding Rhythm and Redemption: A Pastor’s Unconventional Path

    Nov 5, 2025·46m
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    More Than Blueprints: Finding a Voice in a Male Dominated Field

    Oct 22, 2025·38m
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    The Bloom Effect: Planting Seeds of Opportunity Through Connection

    Oct 8, 2025·32m
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    A Career Without Ladders: Climbing the Jungle Gym of Work

    Holland Hart discusses her career in marketing communications at Cummins, her work journey, and balancing motherhood with her professional life.

    Sep 24, 2025·39m
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    More Than a Side Hustle: The Making of a Culture Consultant

    Sep 10, 2025·39m
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    Making Waves: The Career Journey of a Mermaid

    Aug 27, 2025·33m
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    She is Her Ancestors’ Wildest Dreams: An HR Leader’s Journey

    Aug 13, 2025·52m
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    From Frozen Yogurt to Fine Dining: The Evolution of a Restaurant Leader

    Mike Cunningham, owner of Cunningham Restaurant Group, discusses his journey from frozen yogurt to fine dining and his philosophy on leadership and customer feedback.

    Jul 30, 2025·37m
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    From Law to Leadership: A Career Reinvented

    Raphael Sanchez discusses his career journey from attorney to executive, emphasizing the value of varied experiences and storytelling.

    Jul 16, 2025·37m
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    Introducing The People of Work

    Jul 7, 2025·1m