The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

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Behavioral science for everyday happiness.

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The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos treats happiness as a research problem with everyday consequences. Episodes connect psychology, behavioral economics, and candid human stories to questions like why habits stick, work spills over, grudges linger, and social media keeps its grip.

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About The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos treats well-being as a set of habits, choices, social pressures, and mental patterns that can be studied. It is not a show about pretending life is cheerful. It is more interested in why people do things that feel automatic, costly, or disappointing even when they know those things are not helping. Recent episodes use spring cleaning as a recurring frame, turning closets and clutter into a way of thinking about bad habits, busy schedules, negative thought patterns, and stale happiness strategies. The tone is accessible and lightly playful. The evidence is doing the real work. A conversation about habit change can move from someone sleeping in running gear to a doctor challenging assumptions about addiction and routine. A discussion of grudges can begin with renewal and move toward forgiveness as a practical well-being skill. Technology episodes look at social media through behavioral economics, product traps, adolescent mental health, and the gap between what people choose and what improves their lives. The show also spends time with relationships. John and Julie Gottman appear as realists about conflict, arguing that couples should pay close attention to how they fight, not only what they fight about. Dr. Paul Eastwick challenges harsh dating scripts that make rejection feel like a verdict on personal worth. Work-life balance gets similar treatment, with Guy describing burnout as stress that keeps ricocheting between the job and everything outside it. Generosity appears not as a vague virtue but as an action that can reshape attention, defenses, and daily contact with other people. Across these episodes, the show favors concrete behavioral changes over grand reinvention. It likes research findings, but it also likes messy examples. That combination makes it useful for listeners who want to understand their own choices without being scolded for having human ones.

Made for: For listeners who like psychology, self-improvement, and research-backed advice delivered through stories rather than lectures. It especially suits people rethinking habits, work boundaries, technology use, relationships, and generosity.

What sets it apart: The show pairs friendly, accessible narration with researchers and specific behavioral concepts, keeping happiness grounded in evidence and lived examples. Its strength is turning familiar frustrations into practical experiments in attention, choice, and routine.

In their own words

You might think you know what it takes to lead a happier life… more money, a better job, or Instagram-worthy vacations. You’re dead wrong. Yale professor Dr. Laurie Santos has studied the science of happiness and found that many of us do the exact opposite of what will truly make our lives better. Based on the psychology course she teaches at Yale -- the most popular class in the university’s 300-year history -- Laurie will take you through the latest scientific research and share some surprising and inspiring stories that will change the way you think about happiness.

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How to Experience the Joy of Giving Right NowDec 2, 2025

Laurie Santos turns a small giving habit into a clear, grounded reflection on openness, mistrust, and why generosity can feel costly but real.

Laurie Santos treats generosity as a small, ordinary habit: keep a few $10 bills on hand and hand one over when someone asks for money. That is where the episode feels strongest. It stays close to the act itself, so the point lands as something lived rather than theorized.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    How to Break Up with Your Bad Habits

    Dr.

    Apr 13, 2026·33m·2 clips
  2. 2

    Why It Hurts to Hold a Grudge — and How to Let Go with Dr. Fred Luskin

    Dr.

    Apr 6, 2026·39m·2 clips
  3. 3

    Why You're Still Using Social Media (Even If You Want to Stop) with Dr. Cass Sunstein

    People demand $100 to quit social media but pay only $5 to use it—a 20-to-1 gap that shocks economists.

    Mar 23, 2026·33m·3 clips
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    What is Social Media Doing to Kids? with Dr. Jean Twenge

    Jean Twenge, a San Diego State University psychologist and author of iGen, tells host Laurie Santos that teen clinical depression doubled between 2011 and 2019, a rise she links to smartphone ownership passing 50% around the end of 2012.

    Mar 20, 2026·35m·2 clips
  5. 5

    How to Stop Work From Taking Over Your Life

    Psychologist Guy discusses strategies to prevent work from dominating personal life and causing burnout.

    Mar 16, 2026·43m
  6. 6

    Inside the Love Lab with Drs. John & Julie Gottman (Part 2)

    In this episode, the Gottmans share science-backed advice on how couples can argue better and why the way you fight matters more than what you fight about.

    Mar 9, 2026·36m
  7. 7

    Inside the Love Lab with Drs. John & Julie Gottman (Part 1)

    Mar 2, 2026·47m
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    Why Algorithms Can’t Predict Your Love Life with Dr. Paul Eastwick

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    Feb 23, 2026·41m
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    How to Find "The One": The Science of Dating with Tim Molnar

    Feb 16, 2026·45m
  10. 10

    How to Feel Truly Loved (with Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky and Dr. Harry Reis)

    Feb 9, 2026·42m
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    How to Design a More Meaningful Life (with Dave Evans and Bill Burnett)

    Feb 2, 2026·47m
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    The Surprising Science of Creativity (with Dr. George Newman)

    Jan 26, 2026·31m
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    Why Chasing Success Can Leave You Feeling Stuck (with David Brooks)

    Jan 19, 2026·37m
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    How to Bounce Back from Life’s Curveballs (with Dr. Maya Shankar)

    Jan 12, 2026·40m
  15. 15

    Stop Wasting Your Energy — Here’s What to Do Instead (with Dr. Diana Hill)

    Jan 5, 2026·47m
  16. 16

    From Decoding Women's Health: Decoding Happiness in Midlife

    Dec 30, 2025·51m
  17. 17

    Holiday Survival Guide II: Perfect Gifts and Fighting Fatigue (with Rainn Wilson)

    Dec 15, 2025·31m
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    Holiday Survival Guide I: Ending Family Arguments (with Rainn Wilson)

    Dec 8, 2025·48m
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    How to Experience the Joy of Giving Right Now

    A six-year-old girl kept a scientist's note for 20 years, and it changed her entire career path.

    Dec 2, 2025·48m·4 clips
  20. 20

    Why Being Grateful Makes Us Feel Great (A Thanksgiving Re-run)

    Nov 24, 2025·27m
  21. 21

    Reset Your Relationship with Stress (for National Stress Awareness Day)

    Nov 5, 2025·43m
  22. 22

    Listen Now: Decoding Women’s Health with Dr. Elizabeth Poynor

    Nov 3, 2025·54m
  23. 23

    How Horror Movies and True Crime Can Make You Happier

    Oct 27, 2025·45m
  24. 24

    Make Vulnerability Your Superpower (with NBA star Kevin Love)

    Oct 20, 2025·37m
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    #59 Etta from Heavyweight

    Oct 13, 2025·36m
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    How to Make Better Choices (with Barry Schwartz)

    Oct 6, 2025·41m
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    Take a Three-Day Weekend Without Losing Any Pay (with Juliet Schor)

    Sep 29, 2025·56m
  28. 28

    Presenting Heavyweight: Etta

    Sep 26, 2025·38m
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    How to Spend Your Time and Money Better (with Nobel Prize Winner Richard Thaler)

    Sep 22, 2025·49m
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    Eat Like the People Who Live Happily to 100 (with Dan Buettner)

    Laurie Santos interviews Dan Buettner about his cookbook 'One Pot Meals' which features recipes inspired by blue zones to promote health and longevity.

    Sep 15, 2025·39m
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    Why Having the Courage to Defy Makes us Happier (with Dr Sunita Sah)

    Dr Sunita Sah discusses how having the courage to defy authority and social pressure can lead to greater happiness and authenticity.

    Sep 8, 2025·40m
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    Stop Caring What Other People Think of You (Bruce Hood on 10% Happier with Dan Harris)

    Dan Harris interviews happiness expert Bruce Hood about reducing self-consciousness and toxic comparison to boost happiness.

    Aug 25, 2025·1h 8m
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    “Can You Train Your Mind to Be Happier?” (with Dr Tal Ben-Shahar)

    Laurie Santos cites national figures of more than 40% of college students too depressed to function most days, and says that crisis led her to create Yale's 'Psychology and the Good Life' course.

    Aug 18, 2025·1h 27m·2 clips
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    "Human Minds Are Stupid!" (with Rich Roll)

    Aug 11, 2025·2h 23m
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    The Joy of Not Being Dead (with Ryan Holiday on The Daily Stoic)

    Aug 4, 2025·1h 8m
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    Anyone Can Play, Anyone Can Win (Cornholing with Michelle Hastie Thompson)

    Jul 14, 2025·33m
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    The Jimi Hendrix of the Cello (with Joshua Roman)

    Jul 7, 2025·39m
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    "Birds Are Like My Afternoon Martini" (Birding with Lili Taylor)

    Jun 30, 2025·32m
  39. 39

    How Good Manners Made Me Happier (with Etiquette Expert William Hanson)

    Jun 23, 2025·42m
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    How Dogs Changed my Life (with The Dogist)

    Jun 16, 2025·35m
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    The Two Words That Saved Mel Robbins (From A Slight Change of Plans)

    Jun 6, 2025·38m
  42. 42

    How Smartphones Changed Childhood (And What to do About it)

    Jun 2, 2025·40m
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    How to Think Like a Child (with David Yeager)

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    May 26, 2025·35m
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    How to Tackle Bad Behaviour (with Dr Becky Kennedy)

    May 19, 2025·46m
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    Is a "Viking" Childhood a Happier Childhood (with Helen Russell)?

    May 12, 2025·39m
  46. 46

    How Not to Repeat Your Parents' Mistakes (with Glennon Doyle and Abby Wambach)

    May 5, 2025·38m
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    Reducing the Stress of Parenting with Dr Vivek Murthy

    May 1, 2025·35m
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    How to Build Resilience (with Ben Walter from The Unshakeables)

    Apr 29, 2025·35m
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    Can You Become a "Practical" Optimist?

    Apr 21, 2025·45m
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    How to Confront the Things that Suck (Live with John Green)

    John Green argues that tuberculosis deaths are preventable, citing 1.25 million deaths last year despite decades of effective treatment.

    Apr 18, 2025·1h 12m·2 clips
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    Happiness Lessons of The Ancients: Epictetus

    Sep 28, 2020·29m
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    Happiness Lessons of The Ancients: Plato

    Sep 21, 2020·27m
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    Happiness Lessons of The Ancients: Aristotle

    Sep 14, 2020·28m
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    How to Be a Better Ally

    Jun 29, 2020·37m
  55. 55

    The War For Kindness

    Jun 22, 2020·35m
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    Why Experiences Make You Happier Than Things

    Jun 15, 2020·25m
  57. 57

    How to Kick Bad Habits (and Start Good Ones)

    Jun 8, 2020·32m
  58. 58

    The Science of Attention and Distraction

    Jun 1, 2020·30m
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    For Whom the Alarm Clock Tolls

    May 25, 2020·34m
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    Working Your Way to Happiness

    May 18, 2020·34m
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    PJ and Alex Love to Gripe

    May 4, 2020·30m
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    Psychopaths and Superheroes

    Apr 27, 2020·30m
  63. 63

    New Season: The Happiness Lab Returns April 27

    Apr 23, 2020·1m
  64. 64

    How Our Screen Habits Impact Our Stress Levels

    Apr 20, 2020·23m
  65. 65

    Helping the Helpers

    Apr 16, 2020·39m
  66. 66

    Laurie's Personal Tips

    Apr 9, 2020·36m
  67. 67

    Keep Your Relationship Healthy

    Apr 2, 2020·26m
  68. 68

    Help Others to Help Yourself

    Mar 30, 2020·29m
  69. 69

    Calm Can Be Contagious

    Mar 26, 2020·39m
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    Rising to a Challenge

    Mar 23, 2020·26m
  71. 71

    Coach Yourself Through a Crisis

    Mar 19, 2020·26m
  72. 72

    Beat Your Isolation Loneliness

    Mar 16, 2020·22m
  73. 73

    Sleep When You're Dead Tired (LIVE with Arianna Huffington)

    Jan 27, 2020·28m
  74. 74

    Think Yourself Happy (LIVE from Yale)

    Jan 20, 2020·30m
  75. 75

    Grateful Expectations

    Jan 13, 2020·27m
  76. 76

    A New Hope

    Jan 6, 2020·23m
  77. 77

    BONUS: A Happier Christmas

    Dec 16, 2019·9m
  78. 78

    Making the Grade

    Nov 19, 2019·33m
  79. 79

    Is Happiness Contagious? How Other People's Emotions Affect Us

    Nov 15, 2019·35m
  80. 80

    Decision Fatigue: The Psychology of Choice Overload

    Nov 5, 2019·35m
  81. 81

    Don't Accentuate the Positive

    Oct 29, 2019·41m
  82. 82

    Why It's So Hard to Stop Intrusive Thoughts—And What Actually Helps

    Oct 22, 2019·39m
  83. 83

    Caring What You're Sharing

    Oct 15, 2019·38m
  84. 84

    Mistakenly Seeking Solitude

    Oct 8, 2019·34m
  85. 85

    A Silver Lining

    Oct 1, 2019·41m
  86. 86

    The Unhappy Millionaire

    Sep 24, 2019·38m
  87. 87

    You Can Change

    Sep 13, 2019·38m
  88. 88

    Coming Soon: The Happiness Lab Season One

    Aug 27, 2019·4m
  89. 89

    Introducing: The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

    Jul 24, 2019·1m