The Good Enough Mother

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Motherhood, named without perfection.

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The Good Enough Mother treats motherhood as both intimate experience and social structure. Sophie speaks with practitioners, researchers, and writers about ambivalence, postpartum distress, infant mental health, body change, grief, and the pressure to perform “good” mothering.

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The Good Enough Mother is an expansive, emotionally precise show about motherhood as lived experience and cultural condition. It starts from mothers, not from idealized ideas about them. Sophie’s conversations often ask why ordinary maternal feelings become framed as personal failure when they are shaped by unsupported systems, inherited expectations, and the daily pressure to keep giving. The tone is calm and thoughtful. The subject matter is often heavy. Episodes make room for love and difficulty at the same time, especially in discussions of maternal ambivalence, postpartum distress, perimenopause, grief, attachment, and the changing self of early motherhood. Dr Margo Lowy’s episode frames ambivalence as a missing language for the loving moments and bitter truths of mothering. Dr Cristina Cavezza’s conversation links hunger, emotional regulation, unmet needs, and perimenopause to the work of caring for oneself while caring for children. Jessica Tomich Sorci brings internal family systems into maternal mental health, questioning how quickly struggling mothers can be pathologized when their reactions may also be protective responses to unsupported conditions. The show also turns toward infancy and attachment, with Dr Greer Kirshenbaum discussing nurturing practices, baby brain development, and intergenerational wellness. It does not stay only in theory. Sophie’s solo episodes sit with grief, Mother’s Day complexity, the death of her mum, and the difficulty of speaking authentically while still creating meaning from pain. The result is a show for mothers and mother-care professionals who want more than reassurance. It offers vocabulary for contradictions. It respects tenderness without demanding cheerfulness. It treats maternal identity as layered, relational, bodily, and political. Episodes can feel like a reflective supervision room as much as a parenting podcast. The through-line is clear: mothers are not problems to be fixed; they are people living inside conditions that deserve serious attention.

Made for: For mothers, parents-to-be, and professionals who support mothers and babies. It especially suits listeners drawn to reflective, feminist, therapy-informed conversations rather than quick parenting tactics.

What sets it apart: The show centers the mother’s inner life and social context before offering advice. It combines motherhood studies, clinical perspectives, personal grief, and cultural critique in a way that makes difficult maternal feelings discussable.

In their own words

The role of being a Mother offers us the potential for incredible expansion, growth, and power, while also being one of – if not THE – most challenging, undervalued, and taken for granted roles in the world. Motherhood Studies Sociologist, researcher, and single Mother, Dr Sophie Brock hosts The Good Enough Mother (TGEM) podcast with an aim to change how Motherhood is culturally defined and individually experienced. TGEM draws its name from a theorist and pediatrician Winnicott, who highlighted the ways ‘good enough’ parenting is actually what is best for our children – not perfectionism. The podcast centres the Mother as the starting point for conversations with experts and change-makers wh…

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Mother's Day cards meet Sophie Brock's fish tank, and you start questioning the water.

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  • to hear your mixed feelings about mothering treated as ordinary, even when the good-mother script says otherwise
  • to connect stress eating or sudden reactivity with unmet needs, without rushing to judge yourself
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126. The Loving Moments and Bitter Truths of Motherhood – Maternal Ambivalence with Dr Margo LowyApr 1, 2026

A clear-eyed conversation on maternal ambivalence and the relief that naming it can offer.

The episode gives shape to maternal ambivalence: the difficult feelings that can sit beside love in motherhood. Dr. Margot Lowy, a psychotherapist specializing in mothering and author of Maternal Ambivalence, The Loving Moments and Bitter Truths of Motherhood, explains why this…

125. Lessons From My Mum - Grief and LoveMar 19, 2026

A tender return in which a mother's lessons carry forward through grief, memory, and meaning.

After a long pause, The Good Enough Mother returns with an episode shaped by sudden loss and the difficult work of speaking from inside it. The host explains that her world changed in September 2025, then reads from "Lessons From Our Mother: Reflections From Professor Jacqueline…

124. When It All Comes Up: The Body, Hunger, Perimenopause and Mothering - with Dr Cristina CavezzaJul 13, 2025

A grounded conversation on perimenopause, emotional eating, and the needs that shape mothering.

This episode sits at the meeting point of perimenopause, emotional eating, and mothering, with a motherhood studies sociologist and a clinical psychologist unpacking why food can become a source of comfort.

123. 'When Good Moms Feel Bad': IFS, Motherhood, and the Healing Power of Parts Work with Jessica Tomich SorciJun 15, 2025

A measured conversation about maternal reactivity, unsupported motherhood, and language that can help mothers keep hold of self-trust.

The Good Enough Mother looks at maternal mental health through a more textured lens, treating intense reactions not only as symptoms, but as possible signs of a system trying to cope with unsupported motherhood.

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    126. The Loving Moments and Bitter Truths of Motherhood – Maternal Ambivalence with Dr Margo Lowy

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    Apr 1, 2026·40m·2 clips
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    125. Lessons From My Mum - Grief and Love

    Hidden gem

    Sophie Brock returns to The Good Enough Mother after her mother died in September 2025, and she says the loss has changed how she thinks about authenticity, grief, and public work.

    Mar 19, 2026·46m·3 clips
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    124. When It All Comes Up: The Body, Hunger, Perimenopause and Mothering - with Dr Cristina Cavezza

    Hidden gem

    Sophie Brock speaks with Dr Christina Cavezza, a clinical psychologist in Melbourne, about perimenopause, body shame, and eating habits in mothers.

    Jul 13, 2025·38m·2 clips
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    123. 'When Good Moms Feel Bad': IFS, Motherhood, and the Healing Power of Parts Work with Jessica Tomich Sorci

    Hidden gem

    Sophie Brock speaks with Jessica Tomich Sorci, a level three certified IFS therapist, perinatal mental health professional, and creator of “Mum Parts,” about how Internal Family Systems can be applied to motherhood.

    Jun 15, 2025·37m·2 clips
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    122. When Motherhood Feels Like Too Much AND Not Enough

    The host reflects on the complexities of Mother's Day, including performative motherhood, cultural expectations, and the emotional experiences of mothers and those missing their mothers.

    May 12, 2025·18m·1 clip
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    121. A Free Training + A Final Invitation: The Next Wave of Motherhood Studies

    May 12, 2025·14m
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    120. In Conversation with Prof Andrea O’Reilly: The Revolutionary Emergence of Motherhood Studies

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    Andrea O'Reilly says that after becoming pregnant in 1984 she realized motherhood had been absent from her 20 women's studies courses, and that her 2016 study found under 3% of intro courses and journals addressed it.

    Apr 27, 2025·43m·2 clips
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    119. Perinatal Suicidality: A Conversation with PANDA CEO Julie Borninkhof and Dr Laura Biggs

    Hidden gem

    Julie Borninkhof reports that suicidal thoughts among PANDA helpline callers rose from roughly 8–12% to about 20% during COVID.

    Apr 15, 2025·57m·2 clips
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    118. My Matrescence Festival Talk & Some Motherhood Studies News

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    Sophie, a motherhood studies sociologist, uses a fish tank to distinguish mothers, mothering, and motherhood.

    Apr 5, 2025·24m·2 clips
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    117. When a Mother Reclaims her Space: Tehla's Story and a Permission to Pause

    Feb 27, 2025·39m
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    116. Motherhood as Leadership: Transforming Through Matrescence with Babette Lockefeer

    Jan 27, 2025·31m
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    115. Shaping the Future of Postpartum Care: A Conversation with Julia Jones on Postpartum Education

    Jan 10, 2025·36m
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    How a Footnote Changed Everything: Last Call for The Motherhood Studies Certification, Legacy Edition

    Dec 10, 2024·30m
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    113. When Everything Changes: Motherhood, Grief, and Self-Care with Suzy Reading

    Nov 18, 2024·37m
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    112. The Rebellion and Refuge of Motherhood: Bodies, Boundaries and Power with Amanda Montei

    Sep 17, 2024·43m
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    111. The Care Career Conundrum (checklist): The Sociological Roots of Our Struggle

    Aug 21, 2024·40m
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    110. Redefining Motherhood: A Conversation with Libby Ward from Diary of an Honest Mom

    Aug 1, 2024·43m
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    109. What Play Therapy Can Teach us About Ourselves and Our Children, with Dr Sam Casey

    Jun 26, 2024·56m
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    108. Harnessing Neuroplasticity to Transform Our Mothering, with Dr. Jennifer Hacker Pearson

    May 15, 2024·39m
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    107. Liberation from Patriarchal Motherhood? Reflections On Power, Agency & Motherhood Studies 2024

    Apr 14, 2024·57m
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    106. Understanding Ourselves & Our Children as Mapmakers: Parenting for Humans with Dr Emma Svanberg

    Mar 31, 2024·54m
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    105. When Community Sparks Creativity: 'The Mum Who Found Her Sparkle' with Jessie & Mary

    Mar 22, 2024·46m
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    A little update from Sophie

    Mar 21, 2024·7m
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    104. The Science of Baby Brain: Social & Biological Influences on Mothers with Dr Sarah McKay

    Nov 7, 2023·58m
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    103. How to Dismantle Patriarchal Motherhood? 8 Reflections

    Oct 17, 2023·35m
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    102. Using Compassion To Navigate Challenges In Motherhood With Zoe Blaskey

    Oct 5, 2023·44m
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    101. Breaking the Rules, Living in Our Values: A Conversation with Tracy Gillett of Raised Good

    Sep 19, 2023·50m
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    Invitation into Free Training - Private Podcast Episode

    Sep 11, 2023·3m
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    100. What is the Essence of 'Good Enough'? Bridging Child and Adult Psychology with Dr Tanya Cotler

    Sep 6, 2023·51m
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    99. Embracing Challenges Beyond The ‘Early Years’ of Motherhood with Amy Taylor Kabbaz

    Aug 25, 2023·37m
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    98. Birth, Trauma, and Maternity Reform: Alecia Staines on Her Decade of Advocacy

    Aug 3, 2023·54m
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    97. Nurturing the Next Generation: A Revolution in Infant Mental Health with Dr Greer Kirshenbaum

    A neuroscientist and doula discusses how nurturing care in pregnancy, birth, and infancy shapes lifelong mental health.

    Jul 18, 2023·52m
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    96. The Economy of Motherhood and Being Played the ‘Fool’ with Tess Wilkinson-Ryan

    May 29, 2023·41m
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    95. Decoding Cultural Messages of Motherhood and The Good vs Bad Mother

    May 14, 2023·42m
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    94. Undoing & Recreating: A Mother's Journey from 1 to 2 Children with Emily Adler Mosqueda

    Emily Adler Mosqueda discusses her journey from one to two children, exploring postpartum depression, anxiety, and the challenges of motherhood.

    May 2, 2023·47m
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    93. The Gift of Maternal Ambivalence: Embracing Complexity to Build Connection with Dr Margo Lowy

    Apr 17, 2023·57m
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    92. When you feel like you’re drowning in Motherhood - with Amanda Connell

    Mar 6, 2023·50m
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    91. The Importance of ‘Failing’ Our Children

    Feb 7, 2023·35m
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    90. Getting to know our new babies, and our new selves with Julianne Boutaleb

    A perinatal psychologist discusses understanding the attachment relationship, self-regulation, and co-regulation in early motherhood.

    Feb 7, 2023·37m
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    89. Moving Beyond The Perfect Mother Myth – what next? (re-release)

    Jan 26, 2023·23m
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    88. How culture 'creates' Motherhood and why it matters (The Fish Tank Model)

    Jan 8, 2023·37m
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    87. For Mothers During The Festive Season (re-release)

    Dec 24, 2022·34m
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    86. Reclaiming our Motherhood from the ‘shoulds’ this holiday season with Anna Mathur

    Dec 21, 2022·34m
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    85. Somatic Tools for Congruent Parenting with Yara Heary

    Dec 13, 2022·43m
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    Ep 84. Mothering ourselves through shame and perfectionism with Catherine Counihan

    Nov 21, 2022·43m
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    Our movement towards Motherhood Liberation... can we 'jump out' of the tank?

    Nov 7, 2022·9m
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    83. Creative Community Making for Mothers with Rachael Rose

    Nov 6, 2022·44m
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    82. Identity shifts in motherhood with Jessie Harrold

    Sophie interviews Jessie Harrold about identity shifts in motherhood, exploring themes of liminality, self-discovery, and the co-creation of self through mothering.

    Oct 24, 2022·41m
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    81. The innate wisdom of childhood with Zoe Haack

    A conversation with child activist Zoe Haack about recognizing the innate wisdom of childhood and prioritizing trust, freedom, and autonomy for children within societal structures.

    Oct 12, 2022·40m
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    80. The Perfect Mother Myth and Social Construct of Motherhood

    Sep 7, 2022·44m