The Girlfriends

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True crime with women at the center.

The gist

The Girlfriends follows women whose private alarm bells become collective evidence. Across fraud stories and Spotlight episodes, it treats testimony as the center of the case, moving from intimate memory to public accountability without sanding off grief, anger, or humor.

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About The Girlfriends

The Girlfriends is a true-crime and testimony series about women who stop being isolated by the stories they were told. It begins in small moments. A date in Hawaii. A real estate website that looks impressive until the links do not work. An address that does not match the business it claims to house. From there, season five builds a story around Derek Alldred and the women who realize that their separate relationships may have been part of a much larger pattern. The show understands that suspicion often arrives quietly before it becomes proof. Wendy’s story gives the season its emotional doorway, while Lori’s search turns doubt into something practical, methodical, and hard to ignore. Pat, an old college friend turned private investigator, gives the investigation another push. The warning that comes back is blunt: run. That kind of moment could be played for shock, but The Girlfriends usually lets it land slowly. It is more interested in how women talk to one another afterward. It follows the phone calls, the comparisons, the anger, and the relief of discovering that the thing that felt like personal failure may have been engineered. The Spotlight episodes broaden the show’s purpose beyond one romance fraud case. Rosamund’s story follows a mother trying to understand what killed Ella, pressing past an inquest that cannot give her the answer she needs. Lejla’s episode begins with a devastating false story of birth and an identity crisis. Other Spotlight subjects named in the feed include Antonia, Tooba, Hélène, and Jacquie. The tone is warm, but never flimsy. It can sit beside grief, coercive control, deception, and institutional indifference without turning them into a lurid performance. The reporting leans on interviews, scene-setting, and the slow accumulation of detail. Its best quality is the way it treats women’s informal networks as serious intelligence. A friend’s bad feeling, a sister’s late-night search, and a group of warnings become forms of care. For listeners tired of true crime that flattens victims into plot points, The Girlfriends offers something more human: women naming what happened, finding one another, and pushing back.

Made for: For listeners who like intimate, interview-driven true crime where emotional memory and practical investigation carry equal weight. It especially suits anyone drawn to stories about fraud, coercive control, women’s solidarity, and accountability after official systems fail to act.

What sets it apart: The show’s strength is its refusal to treat gossip, gut instinct, or friendship as background noise. It turns those informal warning systems into the engine of the investigation, while keeping the women’s own words close to the surface.

In their own words

When a group of women from all over the country realise they all dated the same prolific romance scammer they vow to bring him to justice. In this brand new season of global number 1 hit podcast, The Girlfriends, Anna Sinfield meets a group of funny, feisty, determined women who all had the misfortune of dating a mysterious man named Derek Alldred. Trust Me Babe is a story about the protective forces of gossip, gut instinct, and trusting your besties and the group of women who took matters into their own hands to take down a fraudster when no one else wo...

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Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026

The Girlfriends traces how personal suspicion becomes shared investigation, practical action, and sustained demands for accountability.

The Girlfriends follows the work that begins when private alarm becomes collective action. In "Shark Bait," Wendy's new relationship prompts Lori to test the man's business claims, inspect an address online, and enlist a private investigator.

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A dead-link company website becomes the moment your scam radar starts screaming.

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  • your true crime served through women comparing notes instead of lone-genius theatrics
  • your red flags traced from suspicious testimonials to a private investigator's warning
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Best episodes of The Girlfriends

Short reviews from the PlayNext desk, based on the episodes we processed.

The Girlfriends S5/E1: Shark BaitApr 13, 2026

A sunlit date turns into a slow, unnerving search for the truth.

Wendy's Hawaii date with Derek starts in a soft, flattering glow, then slowly exposes the first cracks in something bigger. The tension comes from that uneasy gap between being charmed and not quite trusting it, which gives the story a tight, intimate pull.

The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E20: Rosamund Clears the AirMar 30, 2026

A mother's grief turns into a careful search for what was in the air around her daughter.

Rosamund's story follows a parent's search for what killed Ella, and the episode stays close to the slow, painful work of turning grief into evidence.

The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E19: Lejla Fights for the InvisibleMar 23, 2026

A 19-year-old's discovery that her birth story is false becomes a determined search for answers.

At the center is 19-year-old Leila, who learns that the story she has been told about her birth is false and is suddenly pulled into an identity crisis.

The Girlfriends S4/Bonus Ep 4: A Girlfriends Guide to Making a ChangeJan 19, 2026

A sober look at what justice requires beyond the case itself.

The episode follows Lamar McIntyre's exoneration and Mark Dupree's view of what fairness should mean inside a justice system that has not always earned trust. Dupree comes across plainly and without theater, which helps the moral point land.

The Girlfriends S4/Bonus Ep 3: A Girlfriends Guide to Navigating Police MisconductJan 12, 2026

A steady, practical guide to documenting misconduct without pretending the process is easy.

The episode stays close to the hard part: what a person does after harm, when fear, shock, or plain exhaustion make action feel out of reach. It makes the case for writing things down, not as a grand gesture, but as a way to keep a record that may matter later.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    The Girlfriends S6/E6: What’s at Steak

    Sep 28, 2026·43m
  2. 2

    The Girlfriends S6/E5: Wed to the Wings

    Sep 21, 2026·45m
  3. 3

    The Girlfriends S6/E4: Wings of Change

    Sep 14, 2026·45m
  4. 4

    The Girlfriends S6/E3: The Golden Age

    Sep 7, 2026·47m
  5. 5

    The Girlfriends S6/E2: Losing It

    Aug 31, 2026·42m
  6. 6

    The Girlfriends S6/E1: On Air

    Aug 24, 2026·44m
  7. 7

    Introducing The Girlfriends: Flight or Fight

    Aug 17, 2026·3m
  8. 8

    Relisten to The Girlfriends: Spotlight: Nadya & Pussy Riot Punk the President

    Aug 10, 2026·42m
  9. 9

    Relisten to The Girlfriends: Spotlight: Hélène Outwits the Nazis

    Aug 3, 2026·43m
  10. 10

    Relisten to The Girlfriends: Spotlight: Lu Ann Escapes the Order

    Jul 27, 2026·49m
  11. 11

    Relisten to The Girlfriends: Spotlight: Rose Solves, At Least, 86 Cold Cases

    Jul 20, 2026·41m
  12. 12

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E24: Sucheta Exposes the Big Bull

    Jul 13, 2026·39m
  13. 13

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E23: Anna Catches a Catfish

    Jul 6, 2026·39m
  14. 14

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E22: Carolyn Builds a Wisterhood

    Jun 29, 2026·37m
  15. 15

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight Is Back...

    Jun 22, 2026·1m
  16. 16

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E21: Morrell Breaks the Ban

    Jun 22, 2026·32m
  17. 17

    The Girlfriends S5/Bonus Ep 4: How to Catch a Con-artist

    Jun 15, 2026·26m
  18. 18

    The Girlfriends S5/Bonus Ep 3: Blazing Lies

    Jun 8, 2026·26m
  19. 19

    The Girlfriends S5/Bonus Ep 2: Help! My Bestie’s Dating a Scam Artist

    Jun 1, 2026·29m
  20. 20

    The Girlfriends S5/Bonus Ep 1: Get Back Down Here Off Your High Horse

    May 25, 2026·29m
  21. 21

    The Girlfriends S5/E6: The Gold Bracelet

    May 18, 2026·44m
  22. 22

    Introducing: Kingdom of Fraud

    May 16, 2026·2m
  23. 23

    The Girlfriends S5/E5: Don’t Mess With Texas

    May 11, 2026·33m
  24. 24

    The Girlfriends S5/E4: Stolen Valor

    May 4, 2026·31m
  25. 25

    The Girlfriends S5/E3: The Sting

    Apr 27, 2026·35m
  26. 26

    The Girlfriends S5/E2: The Busted Nut

    Apr 20, 2026·36m
  27. 27

    The Girlfriends S5/E1: Shark Bait

    Hidden gem

    Wendy meets Derek in Maui in 2013, and his story about seeing a whale shark on a scuba dive starts to wobble when he insists it involved Pacific Whale Foundation and a decompression chamber.

    Apr 13, 2026·40m·2 clips
  28. 28

    Introducing Season 5 of The Girlfriends: Trust Me Babe

    Season five of The Girlfriends tells the story of women who discover they've all dated the same prolific con artist and band together to take matters into their own hands.

    Apr 6, 2026·2m
  29. 29

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E20: Rosamund Clears the Air

    Hidden gem

    A nine-year-old's lungs should not look like that.

    Mar 30, 2026·42m·3 clips
  30. 30

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E19: Lejla Fights for the Invisible

    Hidden gem

    Leila is nineteen, and shaken.

    Mar 23, 2026·40m·3 clips
  31. 31

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E18: Antonia Pickets the Lusty Lady

    This transcript consists entirely of advertisements for various podcasts, including Two Percent, Thanks Dad, and Love Trapped, with no substantive content from the titled episode.

    Mar 16, 2026·40m
  32. 32

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E17: Tooba Stumps the Taliban

    This episode of The Girlfriends features Tooba, who is challenging the Taliban's oppressive regime in Afghanistan.

    Mar 9, 2026·33m
  33. 33

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E16: Hélène Outwits the Nazis

    This episode of The Girlfriends: Spotlight features Hélène's story of outwitting the Nazis during World War II, highlighting her courage and strategic resistance.

    Mar 2, 2026·43m
  34. 34

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E15: Jacquie Saves a Hostage

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Feb 23, 2026·43m
  35. 35

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E14: Visaka Sparks a Ceasefire

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Feb 16, 2026·35m
  36. 36

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E13: Silvia Climbs to the Top of the World

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Feb 9, 2026·40m
  37. 37

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight Is Back...

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Feb 9, 2026·1m
  38. 38

    The Girlfriends S4/Bonus Ep 6: How to Put a Spotlight on Your Story

    This bonus episode from The Girlfriends podcast focuses on techniques to highlight and effectively share personal stories.

    Feb 2, 2026·35m
  39. 39

    The Girlfriends S4/Bonus Ep 5: Sparking A Movement

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Jan 26, 2026·26m
  40. 40

    The Girlfriends S4/Bonus Ep 4: A Girlfriends Guide to Making a Change

    "I got you, I got you, I got you." After the promos, the episode lands on Lamar McIntyre's 2017 exoneration and Mark Dupree's work in Wyandotte County.

    Jan 19, 2026·29m·2 clips
  41. 41

    The Girlfriends S4/Bonus Ep 3: A Girlfriends Guide to Navigating Police Misconduct

    No one should be forced.

    Jan 12, 2026·35m·3 clips
  42. 42

    The Girlfriends S4/Bonus Ep 1: The Freedom Seekers of Kansas City

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Jan 5, 2026·29m
  43. 43

    The Girlfriends S4/Bonus Ep 2: A Girlfriends Guide to Healing in The Aftermath of Trauma

    Myesha Hill joins the hosts.

    Jan 5, 2026·35m·3 clips
  44. 44

    The Girlfriends S4/E8: It Could Have Been Us

    This episode features advertisements for Point S tires, the Two Percent podcast on mental toughness, and the Thanks, Dad podcast with Will Ferrell, followed by a brief mention of a Bachelor star paternity hoax case.

    Dec 29, 2025·37m
  45. 45

    The Girlfriends S4/E7: The Reckoning

    This transcript features multiple podcast advertisements and promotions, including for Point S tires, the 2% podcast on mental toughness, and the Thanks Dad podcast with Will Ferrell, along with a brief mention of a Bachelor scandal.

    Dec 22, 2025·34m
  46. 46

    The Girlfriends S4/E6: What Would You Have Done?

    This episode features promotional segments for multiple podcasts including Two Percent, Thanks Dad, and Love Trapped, focusing on themes of mental toughness, parental advice, and a true crime story about a pregnancy hoax.

    Dec 15, 2025·37m
  47. 47

    The Girlfriends S4/E5: I Smell A Rat

    This episode features multiple podcast advertisements and a brief mention of a Bachelor star paternity scandal.

    Dec 8, 2025·36m
  48. 48

    The Girlfriends S4/E4: Three Sisters

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Dec 1, 2025·39m
  49. 49

    The Girlfriends S4/E3: The Two Day Trial

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Nov 24, 2025·32m
  50. 50

    The Girlfriends S4/E1: No Place Like Home

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Nov 17, 2025·32m
  51. 51

    The Girlfriends S4/E2: So Help Me God

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Nov 17, 2025·35m
  52. 52

    Introducing Season 4 of The Girlfriends: Untouchable

    Nov 10, 2025·3m
  53. 53

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E12: Lois Captures Criminals

    Nov 3, 2025·37m
  54. 54

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E11: Miss saHHara Crowns Queens

    Oct 27, 2025·43m
  55. 55

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E10: Phyllis Saves the People from Poisoning

    Oct 20, 2025·33m
  56. 56

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E9: Jasvinder Redefines Honour

    Oct 13, 2025·46m
  57. 57

    The Girlfriends S3/Bonus Ep 4: Live from Wilderness with Kate Summerscale

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Sep 29, 2025·28m
  58. 58

    Introducing: Sacred Scandal: The Many Secrets of Marcial Maciel

    Sep 25, 2025·1m
  59. 59

    The Girlfriends S3/Bonus Ep 3: Is Abolition the Answer?

    Sep 22, 2025·42m
  60. 60

    The Girlfriends S3/Bonus Ep 2: Tina’s story

    Sep 15, 2025·37m
  61. 61

    The Girlfriends S3/Bonus Ep 1: Lisa and Bruna

    Sep 8, 2025·29m
  62. 62

    The Girlfriends S3/E8: No Regrets

    Sep 1, 2025·46m
  63. 63

    The Girlfriends S3/E7: Going Underground

    Aug 25, 2025·39m
  64. 64

    The Girlfriends S3/E6: Guilty Schmilty

    Aug 18, 2025·43m
  65. 65

    The Girlfriends S3/E5: Is He Dead Yet?

    Aug 11, 2025·38m
  66. 66

    The Girlfriends S3/E4: The Shawties

    Aug 4, 2025·32m
  67. 67

    The Girlfriends S3/E3: He Said, She Said

    Jul 28, 2025·36m
  68. 68

    The Girlfriends S3/E2: The Good, The Bad and The Kelly

    Jul 21, 2025·39m
  69. 69

    The Girlfriends S3/E1: Hell's Gate

    Jul 14, 2025·38m
  70. 70

    Introducing Season 3 of The Girlfriends: Jailhouse Lawyer

    Jul 7, 2025·5m
  71. 71

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E8: Nadya & Pussy Riot Punk the President

    May 26, 2025·42m
  72. 72

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E7: Eilís Runs the Ball Barn

    May 19, 2025·42m
  73. 73

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E6: Madison and Christine Become Digital Detectives

    May 5, 2025·46m
  74. 74

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E5: Rose Solves, At Least, 86 Cold Cases

    Apr 28, 2025·41m
  75. 75

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E4: June Rocks America

    Apr 21, 2025·46m
  76. 76

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E3: Nelly Goes Undercover

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Apr 14, 2025·41m
  77. 77

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E2: Lu Ann Escapes the Order

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Apr 7, 2025·49m
  78. 78

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E1: Tracy Hits the Bullseye

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Apr 7, 2025·48m
  79. 79

    Introducing The Girlfriends: Spotlight

    Mar 31, 2025·3m
  80. 80

    The Girlfriends: Spotlight... Coming Soon

    Mar 26, 2025·9m
  81. 81

    The Girlfriends S2/Bonus 2 - The Girlfriends’ Guide to: Tackling Intimate Partner Violence

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Aug 19, 2024·25m
  82. 82

    The Girlfriends S2/Bonus 1 - The Girlfriends’ Guide to: Identifying a Doe

    The host introduces a miniseries offering tips on solving crimes and keeping friends safe, based on their experience covering a romance scam case.

    Aug 19, 2024·33m
  83. 83

    The Girlfriends S2/Bonus 3 - The Girlfriends’ Guide to: Finding a Missing Person

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Aug 19, 2024·21m
  84. 84

    The Girlfriends S2/E5: Her Legacy

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    Jun 3, 2024·48m
  85. 85

    The Girlfriends S2/E4: Desperately Seeking Susie

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    May 27, 2024·27m
  86. 86

    The Girlfriends S2/E3: Lost and Found

    A group of women who all dated the same prolific romance scammer team up to bring him to justice.

    May 20, 2024·33m
  87. 87

    The Girlfriends S2/E2: Mindy Goes Undercover

    May 13, 2024·30m
  88. 88

    The Girlfriends S2/E1: A Double Mitzvah

    May 6, 2024·30m
  89. 89

    Introducing Season 2 of The Girlfriends: Our Lost Sister

    Apr 29, 2024·1m
  90. 90

    The Girlfriends: Our Lost Sister... Coming Soon

    Mar 7, 2024·9m
  91. 91

    The Girlfriends S1/E9: A Sisterhood

    Aug 28, 2023·43m
  92. 92

    The Girlfriends S1/E8: The Girlfriends Vs Bierenbaum

    Aug 21, 2023·36m
  93. 93

    The Girlfriends S1/E7: Cowabunga

    Aug 14, 2023·38m
  94. 94

    The Girlfriends S1/E6: Women Who Like to Gab

    Aug 7, 2023·29m
  95. 95

    The Girlfriends S1/E5: The Best Job a Lawyer Could Have

    Jul 31, 2023·30m
  96. 96

    The Girlfriends S1/E4: Phone Calls from Manhattan

    Jul 24, 2023·39m
  97. 97

    The Girlfriends S1/E3: Bubbly, Bouncy and Very Alive

    Jul 17, 2023·44m
  98. 98

    The Girlfriends S1/E2: Lobsters for Dinner

    Jul 10, 2023·30m
  99. 99

    The Girlfriends S1/E1: The Good Jewish Doctor

    Jul 10, 2023·31m
  100. 100

    Introducing: The Girlfriends

    Jun 28, 2023·3m