The Better Life Project™

Kelsey Van Kirk

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A personal growth podcast for women who want to live well. In each weekly episode you'll find loads of inspiration, encouragement, and practical ideas to help you change every area of your life for the better. For additional content and resources visit kelseyvankirk.com. Have a question or topic you'd love to see covered on the show? Email us at [email protected]!

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Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

The show connects Christian personal growth to the daily family decisions where boundaries, attention, and control become concrete.

Kelsey Vankirk turns personal growth into practical conversation, moving between guest interviews and solo teaching on the pressures that follow women into family life.

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Five unfolded laundry items, one school pickup: your to-do list can stand down for once.

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  • to stop treating an unfinished chore like an emergency
  • to hear someone admit that control can shrink to Fitbit steps when life gets scary
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How to Cultivate What Matters with Lara CaseyMar 3, 2020

A late-for-church moment becomes a practical look at which family values deserve real time.

Purpose comes into focus when a child needs help and a family is already late for church. Laura Casey turns that familiar parenting pinch point into a grounded question about priorities: what will still matter years from now, and what can be allowed to wait?

Healthy Boundaries in Relationships with Entrice RoweNov 25, 2019

Personal stories and biblical reflection make healthy boundaries feel grounded for parents balancing work, home, and family life.

Healthy boundaries take on a practical shape in Kelsey Vankirk's conversation with her guest, as relationship health is tied to a person's relationship with God, with themselves, and with other people.

How to Stop Being a Control Freak with Jennifer Dukes LeeNov 11, 2019

A candid conversation about how family health struggles reveal the small habits control can hide inside.

Control shows up here as a family-life struggle, not an abstract flaw. Host Kelsey Vankirk and Jennifer Dukes Lee trace it through burnout, restless nights, anxiety, panic attacks, and the urge to measure food or Fitbit steps, all tied to the fear of having to carry everything…

Rhythms to Restore Your Life with Rebekah LyonsNov 4, 2019

A warm, reflective conversation on restorative rhythms, stress, and practical tools for purposeful daily life.

Stress and anxiety are treated here as part of the ordinary pressure of a chaotic, fast-paced world, with the conversation turning toward restorative rhythms that can make daily life feel more purposeful.

Simple Ways to Turn a Bad Day AroundOct 29, 2019

A warm, practical reset for listeners trying to steady a hard day before it runs away with them.

A rough day can build from ordinary aggravations: running late, getting bad news, sitting in traffic, realizing a bill went overdue. Kelsey Vankirk turns that pileup into a simple, practical question about how to stop the slide before the whole day takes on that shape.

Practical Tips for a Better Prayer Life

A clear prayer reset for listeners who want structure, not spectacle.

Practical Tips for a Better Prayer Life stays with the problem most people actually face: turning prayer from a good intention into a daily habit.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    BEST OF: Effective, Compassionate Discipline in Parenting with Wendy Snyder

    This episode features a rebroadcast of a conversation with positive parenting educator Wendy Snyder about implementing effective and compassionate discipline strategies for children.

    ·47m
  2. 2

    How to Take Ownership of Your Life & Clear Out the Clutter with Allie Casazza

    This episode features a conversation with Allie Casazza about her new book 'Declutter Like a Mother' and her mission to help overwhelmed women simplify their lives through practical minimalism and taking ownership.

    ·37m
  3. 3

    Stop Judging Your Feelings

    This episode discusses the importance of not judging your feelings, exploring primary and secondary emotions to help listeners improve emotional awareness and self-acceptance.

    ·22m
  4. 4

    The Secret to Living a Balanced Life

    This episode introduces the Better Life Academy program, which helps busy women achieve a balanced, intentional life through mindset shifts and practical strategies.

    ·21m
  5. 5

    How I've Changed & Healed My Relationship with Myself

    In this 100th episode milestone, host Kelsey Vankirk reflects on her personal growth and healing journey to inspire listeners in their own self-improvement paths.

    ·55m
  6. 6

    How to Mindfully Deal with Difficult Emotions

    This episode explores practical strategies for mindfully navigating difficult emotions like anger, fear, and anxiety, especially in the context of everyday stressors and the global pandemic.

    ·41m
  7. 7

    How to Eat Healthy with Kids

    This episode provides practical advice and personal experience on how to implement healthy eating habits with children, covering both parenting strategies and meal preparation tips.

    ·40m
  8. 8

    What Can You Let Go Of?

    This episode offers a pep talk about letting go of overwhelming holiday stress, especially during the pandemic, to help listeners feel more calm and purposeful.

    ·21m
  9. 9

    The Secret to Making the Most of Your Time

    This episode explores practical approaches to time management and productivity, focusing on how women with busy lives can align their time usage with their deeper purpose rather than societal pressures.

    ·32m
  10. 10

    Simple Daily Practices That Will Change Your Life

    The host shares several daily practices she has incorporated over the years that have profoundly impacted her mindset, productivity, and overall life.

    ·39m
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    The Motherhood Pep Talk You NEED to Hear with Val Woerner

    This episode features a motherhood pep talk with Val Woerner, focusing on encouragement and renewal for moms, especially around Mother's Day.

    ·50m
  12. 12

    Simple Tips to Support Your Mental Health with Jennifer Blossom

    This episode features a conversation with occupational therapist Jennifer Blossom about practical, holistic strategies for supporting mental health in mothers and families during stressful times.

    ·48m
  13. 13

    How to Quickly Get Your Life Back on Track

    The host shares personal experiences and strategies for regaining balance and returning to normal routines after life disruptions.

    ·23m
  14. 14

    How to Create a Weekly Self Care Ritual

    This episode discusses how to create and implement a weekly self-care ritual that has been a game-changer for the host and other women, offering practical benefits for personal well-being.

    ·15m
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    Cycle Syncing for Better Health, Relationships & Productivity with Leisha Drews, RN, FDNP

    This episode explores how women can optimize their health, relationships, and productivity by aligning activities with their menstrual cycle phases through cycle syncing.

    ·1h 14m
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    The Power of Making a JOY List

    This episode discusses creating a joy list as a tool to improve mental well-being during the COVID-19 quarantine, addressing the emotional challenges of pandemic life.

    ·18m
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    How to Get Unstuck & Change Your Life for the Better

    This episode explores practical strategies for overcoming feelings of being stuck in life, particularly in the context of post-pandemic challenges, by encouraging self-reflection and purposeful living.

    ·24m
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    Self-Soothing Strategies for Dealing with Stress & Anxiety

    This episode explores practical self-soothing strategies to help listeners manage stress and anxiety more effectively in their daily lives.

    ·38m
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    An Invitation to Slow Down & Simplify This Season

    This episode invites listeners to intentionally slow down and simplify their lives during the stressful holiday season to reduce overwhelm and find more peace.

    ·20m
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    How to Have Better Periods with Leisha Drews, FDN-P

    This episode features health coach Leisha Drews discussing practical strategies for women to improve their menstrual cycles by addressing underlying causes, understanding normal vs.

    ·45m
  21. 21

    A Mid-Year Check In: Let's Revisit Your 2021 Goals & Intentions

    This episode guides listeners through a mid-year self-reflection process to review their 2021 goals and intentions, encouraging purposeful living and progress assessment.

    ·27m
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    Things That Have Changed My Life in 2021

    The host discusses her year-end reflection process for 2021, emphasizing intentionality, fresh starts, and personal growth through journaling and reviewing accomplishments and areas for improvement.

    ·32m
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    How to Dig Deeper in Your Faith with Phylicia Masonheimer

    This episode features an interview with author Phylicia Masonheimer about her book 'Stop Calling Me Beautiful,' focusing on helping Christian women deepen their faith by discerning truth in a confusing culture.

    ·34m
  24. 24

    Effective, Compassionate Discipline in Parenting with Wendy Snyder

    This episode features an interview with positive parenting educator Wendy Snyder about implementing effective and compassionate discipline strategies to build healthy family relationships.

    ·46m
  25. 25

    The BEST Way to Start a New Year

    This episode discusses how to purposefully start a new year by reflecting on past challenges, learning from experiences, and focusing on personal growth and adaptation.

    ·35m
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    A Simple Trick for Staying Healthy Through the Holidays (& Beyond!)

    This episode offers a simple approach to maintaining health and well-being during the busy holiday season without overwhelming yourself.

    ·27m
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    Practical Tips to Prepare for a Purposeful & Productive Week

    This episode introduces practical strategies for preparing a purposeful and productive week through mindset shifts, clarity on priorities, and creating effective routines.

    ·30m
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    BEST OF: Why You Need to Press Pause in Your Life

    This episode revisits an early show episode about the importance of taking pauses in life for rest and reflection, as the host announces a summer break from new content to focus on family and business while rebroadcasting favorite past episodes.

    ·52m
  29. 29

    BEST OF: What to Do When You Feel Overwhelmed

    This episode revisits a popular conversation offering practical advice and insights on understanding and overcoming feelings of overwhelm in daily life.

    ·42m
  30. 30

    How to Fight for Your Marriage When You Feel Like Giving Up

    This episode introduces a podcast focused on providing tools and encouragement for personal growth, with a specific upcoming program for women seeking to live more intentionally and improve various aspects of their lives.

    ·1h 2m
  31. 31

    Things That Make My Life Easier & Better (Part I)

    This episode introduces the Better Life Academy program, which helps busy women simplify their lives, overcome self-sabotage, and live more intentionally through mindset shifts and practical strategies.

    ·44m
  32. 32

    How to Deal with Times of Uncertainty

    This episode explores practical and emotional strategies for navigating heightened uncertainty during the COVID-19 pandemic, focusing on personal growth and resilience.

    ·31m
  33. 33

    What You REALLY Need to Know About Hormone Health with Leisha Drews, RN, FDN

    This episode features an interview with Leisha Drews, an RN and functional diagnostic nutrition practitioner, discussing essential insights into hormone health, including identifying imbalances, symptoms, and practical steps for support.

    ·52m
  34. 34

    Lessons Learned Living Through a Pandemic

    The host shares personal lessons and reflections on living purposefully and building resilience during the pandemic to help listeners navigate challenging times.

    ·25m
  35. 35

    A Guide to Setting Healthy Boundaries During the Holidays

    This episode provides guidance on setting healthy boundaries during the holiday season to manage stress and family dynamics.

    ·52m
  36. 36

    How to Keep the Holidays Simple & Stress-Free

    This episode provides practical tips and strategies to simplify and reduce stress during the holiday season, focusing on preparing your mind, heart, schedule, and home.

    ·32m
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    Cultivating an Intentional Weekly Sabbath Practice

    This episode introduces the concept of cultivating an intentional weekly Sabbath practice as a tool for living a simpler, healthier, and more purposeful life.

    ·39m
  38. 38

    Things That Make My Life Easier & Better (Part II)

    This episode continues a series where host Kelsey Vankirk shares practical, non-technological tools and resources that make her life easier and better, focusing on everyday improvements.

    ·41m
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    5 Ways to Start the New Year Well

    This episode offers practical tips to start the new year well by encouraging listeners to reduce pressure and approach goals with a relaxed, purposeful mindset.

    ·24m
  40. 40

    How to Start (& Stick) to New Rhythms & Routines

    This episode explores how to establish and maintain new rhythms and routines to simplify life and consistently achieve what matters, especially relevant at the start of a new year.

    ·31m
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    BEST OF: Dealing with Anger as a Wife & Mom with Natalie Hixson

    This episode features an interview with certified life coach Natalie Hickson discussing practical strategies for managing anger specifically within the roles of wife and mother, sharing personal stories and insights for emotional healing.

    ·1h 4m
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    How to Recognize, Overcome & Prevent Burnout

    This episode explores the definition, recognition, recovery, and prevention of burnout, based on psychological concepts and practical advice.

    ·44m
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    How to Stay Present During the Holidays

    This episode discusses practical strategies for staying present and fully engaged during the holiday season, drawing on wisdom from experts like Jim Elliot and Joshua Becker.

    ·16m
  44. 44

    How to Make Your Home a Peaceful Haven

    This episode provides practical tips for transforming your home into a peaceful haven for you and your family.

    ·39m
  45. 45

    Practical Tips for a Better Prayer Life

    Kelsey Vankirk provides practical guidance for developing a more intentional prayer life, explaining why prayer matters, sharing Jesus' prayer model, and offering concrete tips like using a prayer journal and establishing regular prayer times.

    ·29m·2 clips
  46. 46

    Choosing Peace in the Midst of Chaos

    This episode discusses using Bible verses to combat fear and anxiety, particularly in the context of the COVID-19 pandemic, as part of a personal practice for mental and spiritual renewal.

    ·12m
  47. 47

    Redefining What it Means to Live Your Best Life

    The host discusses redefining what it means to live your best life, challenging common New Year's messages about self-improvement and emphasizing purposeful rather than perfect living.

    ·16m
  48. 48

    The Secret to Staying Motivated is Simpler Than You Think

    This episode explores the common challenge of losing motivation when pursuing goals and habits, offering insights on how to maintain it for personal growth.

    ·29m
  49. 49

    How to Manage Life, Kids & Work from Home (Without Going Crazy!)

    Kelsey Vankirk hosts an episode focused on managing life, kids, and work from home during the COVID-19 pandemic, sharing personal experiences and practical tips to help listeners navigate chaos without losing control.

    ·41m·4 clips
  50. 50

    How Understanding the Enneagram Can Change Your Life with Beth McCord

    This episode explores how understanding the Enneagram through a gospel lens can transform personal growth and relationships, featuring expert Beth McCord who shares insights from over 15 years of coaching experience.

    ·50m·5 clips
  51. 51

    How to Cultivate What Matters with Lara Casey

    Hidden gem

    Kelsey Vankirk and Laura Casey discuss whether intentional living fits biblical wisdom, and Laura Casey says it does when it becomes stewardship for God’s glory instead of comfort-seeking.

    Mar 3, 2020·33m·2 clips
  52. 52

    Healthy Boundaries in Relationships with Entrice Rowe

    Hidden gem

    Kelsey Vankirk opens The Better Life Project™ on healthy boundaries in relationships with Antris Rowe, described as an author, speaker, podcast host, and certified life coach.

    Nov 25, 2019·40m·2 clips
  53. 53

    How to Stop Being a Control Freak with Jennifer Dukes Lee

    Hidden gem

    Jennifer Dukes Lee connects her control issues to a daughter’s health problems, a father’s amputation, and the pressure of trying to manage everything at once.

    Nov 11, 2019·42m·2 clips
  54. 54

    Rhythms to Restore Your Life with Rebekah Lyons

    Hidden gem

    Kelsey Vankirk talks with Rebecca Lyons about Rhythms of Renewal, the book she wrote about trading stress and anxiety for peace and purpose.

    Nov 4, 2019·43m·2 clips
  55. 55

    Simple Ways to Turn a Bad Day Around

    Hidden gem

    Kelsey Vankirk uses The Better Life Project™ to walk through "simple ways to turn a bad day around," and she frames the advice around prayer, unplugging, and gratitude.

    Oct 29, 2019·15m
  56. 56

    A Self Care Pep Talk with Jaime MacLaughlin

    Oct 21, 2019·41m
  57. 57

    How to Survive When Your Life Falls Apart

    Oct 14, 2019·35m
  58. 58

    5 Things I've Done to Change My Health

    Jan 22, 2019·45m
  59. 59

    Living with an Eternal Perspective with Natalie Lewis

    Jan 15, 2019·32m
  60. 60

    Effective Teamwork in Marriage with Andrew Van Kirk

    Jan 8, 2019·40m
  61. 61

    The REAL Secret to Living a Better Life

    Jan 1, 2019·28m
  62. 62

    Becoming Minimalist with Joshua Becker

    Dec 18, 2018·42m
  63. 63

    Learning to Walk by the Spirit with Rebekah Hargraves

    Dec 11, 2018·45m
  64. 64

    Our Best Family Travel Tips with Andrew Van Kirk

    Dec 4, 2018·53m
  65. 65

    The Keys to Living a Happy Life with Alli Worthington

    Nov 21, 2018·32m
  66. 66

    How to Simplify & Savor the Holiday Season

    Nov 13, 2018·41m
  67. 67

    How to Navigate Change & Transition with Brooke Sailer

    Nov 6, 2018·46m
  68. 68

    How to Divide Roles & Responsibilities in Marriage

    Oct 30, 2018·37m
  69. 69

    Becoming a Better Mom with Ruth Schwenk

    Oct 23, 2018·34m
  70. 70

    Why I Switched to Using Safer Products (& You Should Too!)

    Oct 16, 2018·41m
  71. 71

    How to Create Your Life Plan

    Oct 9, 2018·38m
  72. 72

    The Keys to a Great Evening Routine

    Oct 2, 2018·23m
  73. 73

    The Story of Us (Part 2)

    Sep 27, 2018·1h 14m
  74. 74

    The Story of Us (Part 1)

    Sep 25, 2018·52m
  75. 75

    The Keys to a Great Morning Routine

    Sep 18, 2018·32m
  76. 76

    Becoming a Positive, Purposeful Parent with Wendy Snyder

    Sep 11, 2018·1h 2m
  77. 77

    10 Simple Habits to Make Your Life Easier

    Sep 4, 2018·38m
  78. 78

    Learn How to Eat with Confidence with Stephanie Webb

    Aug 28, 2018·48m
  79. 79

    How to Create Systems to Simplify Your Life

    Aug 21, 2018·37m
  80. 80

    Preparing for Back to School with NJ Rongner

    Aug 14, 2018·40m
  81. 81

    The Sex Talk You Never Had with Phylicia Masonheimer

    Aug 7, 2018·57m
  82. 82

    How to Make Self Care Happen

    Jul 31, 2018·52m
  83. 83

    Time Management Tips for an Intentional Life

    Jul 24, 2018·39m
  84. 84

    How to Simplify Meal Planning with Natasha Red

    Jul 17, 2018·38m
  85. 85

    10 Ways I've Simplified My Life

    Jul 10, 2018·49m
  86. 86

    Dealing with Anger as a Wife & Mom with Natalie Hixson

    Jun 26, 2018·1h 4m
  87. 87

    Technology Boundaries for an Intentional Life with Bethany Baker

    Jun 19, 2018·55m
  88. 88

    How to Encourage Your Kids' Dad with Andrew Van Kirk

    Jun 12, 2018·49m
  89. 89

    How to Make the Most of Your Summer

    Jun 5, 2018·31m
  90. 90

    Learning to Cultivate Kindness with The Ruth Experience

    May 30, 2018·45m
  91. 91

    Why You Need to Press Pause in Your Life

    May 22, 2018·49m
  92. 92

    Embracing the Process of Living Transformed with Elisa Pulliam

    May 15, 2018·40m
  93. 93

    Finding Freedom & Joy in Motherhood

    May 8, 2018·43m
  94. 94

    Practical Tips for Intentional Living with NJ Rongner

    Apr 24, 2018·45m
  95. 95

    How to Make the Most of Your Season

    Apr 17, 2018·45m
  96. 96

    You Were Created for This with Danielle Roberts

    Apr 10, 2018·48m
  97. 97

    What to Do When You Feel Overwhelmed

    Apr 3, 2018·40m
  98. 98

    Becoming Faith Chasers in an American Dream Culture with Ariel Tyson

    Mar 29, 2018·32m
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    A Practical Guide to Purposeful Prayer with Valerie Woerner

    Mar 22, 2018·44m
  100. 100

    Everything You Need to Know About Life Coaching with Diana Kerr

    Mar 16, 2018·30m
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    Using Books to Parent with Purpose with Samantha Munoz

    Mar 8, 2018·28m
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    How to Live a Bold Life with Lilah Higgins

    Mar 1, 2018·41m
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    How to Positively Affirm Your Children

    Feb 27, 2018·38m