
Survivor stories after religious exile.
The gist
shunned centers firsthand accounts from people connected to Jehovah's Witnesses and other high-control groups, with careful attention to family pressure, fear, and exile. Its tone moves between blunt critique, dry humor, and steady compassion for people sorting through the aftermath.
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About shunned
shunned is built around stories from people who have been cut off by the religious communities that once shaped their daily lives. The show spends much of its recent run with Jehovah's Witnesses, but its frame reaches across Scientology, FLDS, Amish, the Moonies, the Unification Church, Two by Two, and other high-control groups named in the episodes. It is not polite institutional analysis from a distance. It is personal testimony, often beginning with childhood, parents, congregation life, baptism pressure, service expectations, and the social rewards attached to obedience. The tone can turn satirical fast. A commentary episode on blood transfusion policy uses irreverent religious shorthand to expose how confusing and frightening doctrinal changes can feel to people raised inside them. Then the show slows down. Interviews linger on family dynamics, absent or controlling parents, emotional distance, domestic abuse, medical fear, and the difficulty of naming harm when the whole culture says endurance is virtue. The strongest episodes are patient. Hannah connects Star Trek, family instability, and being only partly shunned. Bernie describes the relentless pace of growing up with expectations that made baptism feel less like choice than compliance. Micah speaks about terror, invisibility, internet friendships, writing, and the fragile evidence of being alive. Denise's story turns childhood religious performance into a portrait of survival, illness, pregnancy, and finally softer emotion. Mikey brings autism, bipolar disorder, ADHD, comedy, addiction, and religious replacement into the conversation. The show is blunt about abuse. It is also interested in recovery as a practical process, not a slogan. Recurring closings point toward telling one's own story, extra guest material, coaching resources, and related work around ex-Jehovah's Witness life. That ecosystem gives the podcast a lived-in feeling. shunned is best suited to listeners who can sit with long, detailed accounts of coercion and loss. It rewards attention to ordinary details: a service bag as a childhood gift, a forbidden vacation, a public baptism, a private fear. Its editorial force comes from those specifics. The result is survivor radio with a sharp edge and a steady belief that leaving is only the first step.
Made for: For listeners interested in cult recovery, religious deconstruction, Jehovah's Witness experiences, and the family cost of leaving closed communities.
What sets it apart: shunned pairs survivor interviews with blunt doctrinal critique, moving from satirical takedowns to careful emotional processing without smoothing over the damage.
In their own words
Religious and cult ideologies often use the practice of shunning to silence their critics and to control their members through fear. This podcast sheds light on shunning through real life stories as told by the people that have lived through it. Learn what their lives were like and where they have ended up in life after being shunned. Featuring stories from Jehovah's Witnesses, Scientology, Amish, Mennonite, FLDS, the Moonies, and more, you will learn about the real lives of former members that have been shut out by their former communities. The host is an exJW himself, a professional cult recovery coach, and provides insight into the psychology of coercive control and the impacts on those s…
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Episodes
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217 – How Jehovah's Witnesses Pushed Me and My Non-JW Husband Away From Their Religion
Apr 6, 2026·2h 21m - 2
Jehovah's Witnesses Will Still Die Refusing Blood Transfusions After The Update Allowing Blood
Hidden gemA satirical monologue from a fictional Governing Body member mocking Jehovah's Witnesses' updated blood transfusion policy.
Mar 21, 2026·21m·1 clip - 3
216 – How Star Trek Helped Me Leave A Cult – For The World Is Hollow And I Have Touched The Sky
Hidden gemA Star Trek episode helped Hannah, a former Jehovah's Witness, name the control she grew up inside.
Mar 9, 2026·1h 13m·2 clips - 4
215 – All Gas, No Brakes – The Relentless Expectations Forced Upon Young Jehovah's Witnesses
Bernie shares his story of being born into Jehovah's Witnesses after his parents converted through a high school friend.
Feb 23, 2026·1h 54m·2 clips - 5
214 – A Harrowing Midnight Escape – Danny Checks Out Of The Hotel California – Leaving "The Move"
Feb 9, 2026·2h 6m - 6
213 - Do Jehovah's Witnesses Fail To Protect Children From CSA & Shun Those That Report It?
Jan 26, 2026·2h 25m - 7
212 – What I DIDN'T Say On Jubilee – Ex-Scientologists & Ex-Jehovah's Witnesses – Behind The Scenes
Hidden gemThe host discusses the behind-the-scenes of a Jubilee episode featuring ex-Scientologists and ex-Jehovah's Witnesses, reflecting on its impact and views.
Jan 7, 2026·1h·2 clips - 8
211 – "They Would Track Me": Why I Had to Run Away at 21 and Leave a Note on the Basement Door
Dec 15, 2025·2h 11m - 9
210 – "I Was Petrified": Ex-Jehovah's Witness Experienced "Constant White Knuckle Paralytic Terror"
An ex-Jehovah's Witness shares his story of being born into the religion and the trauma of being shunned.
Nov 17, 2025·1h 41m·2 clips - 10
The Shunned Podcast Meets Jubilee To Discuss Jehovah's Witnesses and Scientology
The host of The Shunned Podcast explains a missed episode and promotes a Jubilee video featuring a conversation between ex-Jehovah's Witnesses and ex-Scientologists.
Nov 9, 2025·8m - 11
209 – Rising Above The Narcissistic Darkness Of Jehovah's Witnesses
Oct 20, 2025·3h 5m - 12
208 - They Promised To Break Me Like A Horse; Turning "One More Day" Into Decades Of Breaking Cycles
Oct 6, 2025·2h 26m - 13
What Did I Do??? - A quick announcement, something of interest, and a little update.
Sep 22, 2025·5m - 14
207 – How One Bullsh*t Comment Freed A Young Man From A Cult & The Extreme Response From Family
Sep 8, 2025·1h 41m - 15
206 - Hidden From Her Father, Coerced To Let Her Own Son Die, Vicki Escapes Jehovah's Witnesses
Aug 25, 2025·1h 48m - 16
205 - Jehovah's Witnesses Want Your Child - Dennise survives pregnancy, a brain tumor & the cult
Hidden gemShunned opens with a roll call of names and 'I am shunned' before Denise, 42, says she was once one of Jehovah's Witnesses and now is shunned.
Jun 16, 2025·1h 47m·5 clips - 17
204 – A Shocking Tragedy & Ultimate Freedom As Dianna Claims Life Outside Of Jehovah's Witnesses
May 30, 2025·1h 50m - 18
203 – Sometimes You Do Your Best And Your Best Still Hurts – Even The Best JW Families End The Same
May 16, 2025·3h 18m - 19
202 – Breaking The Cycle Of Abuse – Proud To Be 1st Generation Out Instead Of 4th Generation In
May 2, 2025·2h 28m - 20
201 – Secret Abuse, Dangerous Dad, & Shocking Marriage – Johanna is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
Apr 18, 2025·2h 29m - 21
200 – Hey ExJWs We Need To Talk … About Relationships, Moving Forward, & What Gets In The Way
Mar 31, 2025·1h 41m - 22
199 – Let's Fix Chelynn – Overcoming Loss, Substance Abuse, & Jehovah's Witnesses
Mar 7, 2025·2h 4m - 23
198 – God Wouldn't Let A Demon Get Baptized – Growing Up Ostracized In Jehovah's Witnesses
Feb 21, 2025·2h 20m - 24
197 – The Shadiest People Rise At Bethel – Former Bethelite Shares His Story Of Moving On
Feb 7, 2025·2h 33m - 25
196 – A Need-Greater's Coming Out Story – With A Surprise Ending
Jan 24, 2025·2h 3m - 26
195 – Seventh Day Adventists & Jehovah's Witnesses – Looking In The Mirror With Cass, A Former SDA
Jan 10, 2025·2h 5m - 27
194 – Everyone Knew But Me – What Else Is A Lie? – Waking Up Through Family Secrets
Dec 20, 2024·2h 18m - 28
193 – Sam Survives Jehovah's Witnesses With Only Moments To Spare
Dec 13, 2024·2h 2m - 29
192 – Unconventional Convention Activism – Dino's DIY Activism – Anyone Can Do This
Nov 28, 2024·33m - 30
191 – ExJWs Helping ExJWs – ExJwHelp Day 2024 & Garden of the Gods, Rim Rock, Cave In Rock Illinois
Nov 14, 2024·15m - 31
190 – Stalked by Elders – Running away from Jehovah's Witnesses
Nov 1, 2024·3h 51m - 32
189 – But I'm The Good One – An ExJW Attorney Tells Her Story – Jehovah's Witnesses Shun Kenesha
Oct 18, 2024·3h 36m - 33
188 – An Autistic Bipolar ADHD ExJW Comedian Tells His Story – Shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
An autistic, bipolar, ADHD former Jehovah's Witness comedian shares his story of being shunned after leaving the religion.
Oct 4, 2024·1h 23m - 34
187 – The Strength To Take A Stand – Kelsi is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
Sep 20, 2024·2h 46m - 35
186 – I Did Something Good – Megan is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
Megan shares her story of being born into and later shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses, starting with her father's conversion through a chance encounter.
Sep 7, 2024·1h 53m - 36
Would You Like To Help Others? – Announcing ExJwHelp Day 2024
Aug 27, 2024·16m - 37
Episode 185 – It's Too Bad, So Wrong, So Long – Jason is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
Aug 23, 2024·2h 57m - 38
Episode 184 – Announcing Becoming Jehovah – A NEW Free ExJW Book
Aug 19, 2024·15m - 39
183 – Black Sheep – The Worst Judicial Committee Ever? – NOBODY Should Be Treated Like This
Aug 9, 2024·2h 29m - 40
182 – Layers Of Shame – Hali is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
Hali shares her experience of being shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses after being born into the religion.
Jul 26, 2024·1h 51m - 41
181 – Trojan Horse ExJW Activism – Engaging Active Jehovah's Witnesses
Jul 19, 2024·16m - 42
180 – How DARE You Make Me Look Bad – Daisy and Jehovah's Witnesses
Jul 11, 2024·2h 54m - 43
Takeaways & Tips From My 2024 One Man Protest – Evansville Indiana Convention Of Jehovah's Witnesses
The host discusses his experience protesting the Jehovah's Witnesses convention in Evansville, Indiana, including motivations, reactions, and tips for others.
Jul 7, 2024·53m - 44
178 – A Cult Blind To Abuse – Felicity is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
Jun 24, 2024·2h 44m - 45
177 – Hypocrisy – Greg is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
May 30, 2024·2h 47m - 46
176 – How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control – Controlling Your Relationships
May 24, 2024·17m - 47
175 – An Overseer Found Dead, Secret Memos, CSA Exposed, & A Brave Couple – Meet The 2x2s
May 16, 2024·2h 53m - 48
174 – How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control Part 5 – Patterns, Positivity & Projection
May 10, 2024·13m - 49
173 – Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places – Catherine is shunned by Jehovah's Witnesses
May 3, 2024·3h 7m - 50
172 – How Jehovah's Witnesses Use Gaslighting For Control – Part 4 – "The Truth" Creates Liars
Apr 27, 2024·19m