Resource Families Thrive

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Foster care explained by the people inside it.

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Resource Families Thrive is a foster care and adoption podcast from Stanford Sierra Youth and Families, where host Daniel Sederquist brings social workers, visitation staff and parents to the microphone. Sibling placement, implicit bias and the slow work of becoming a family come up in plain, practical terms.

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About Resource Families Thrive

Resource Families Thrive is a foster care and adoption podcast made by Stanford Sierra Youth and Families. The host is Daniel Sederquist, training and community outreach coordinator for Pathways to Permanency, the organization's foster and adopt program. He says his whole job is helping people figure out what foster care actually is, and the show works the same way. This is foster care explained from the inside. Social workers, a family visitation admin specialist named Asia, and parents who have taken placements share the microphone, and the talk tends toward the specific. In 'Keeping Together', the team works through a case involving a 13-year-old and a 4-year-old. The agency's position is stated plainly: siblings are placed together unless there is a deep-rooted therapeutic reason they cannot be. One staff member recalls sibling groups whose shared trauma made that impossible, and also raises a quieter worry, that the older child may already have been parentified. 'Adopt With Heart' opens with Karla Zaragoza, the organization's associate director of marketing, marking its 125th anniversary and a history that began with an orphanage in 1900. Then two parents take over. They describe explosive behavior, calls to a 24-hour support line at two or three in the morning, and a little over a year in placement before they could look at each other and know he was theirs. 'Behind the Care' puts the employees at the center. A staff member tells of a relative caregiver whose teenage niece needed inpatient alcohol treatment and calls this tension the paradox of foster care: teenagers will make mistakes, and the adults keep showing up. 'The Bias Inside Us' turns to implicit bias in systems of care, cultural competency trainings and the value of admitting when something could have been done better. 'Voices of Pride' sets aside the usual calls to action so the people behind the agency can simply be heard, including one speaker's account of coming out as gender fluid and later as trans. In 'Annual Update 2025', the host announces a move toward introducing the staff themselves. He also describes a change he has watched among prospective parents, away from wanting to save kids and toward wanting to help kids and their families. More of them now understand, he says, that foster care is not just free adoption and that sibling groups need homes too. The register is warm and unpolished. The host drops things during an introduction, and a guest jokes that the longer the job title, the more important the person. Recruitment is part of the purpose, so the agency's phone line and website come up near the close, along with a reminder that orientations carry no obligation. The sign-off does not change. Daniel always ends by hoping everyone keeps on thriving.

Made for: Suits a listener who is considering fostering or adopting, or is already caring for a child in care, and wants to hear how agency staff actually reason through placements, siblings and support.

What sets it apart: Made by a foster and adoption agency, it gives the microphone to that agency's own social workers, visitation staff and families, and pairs plain policy explanation, such as its rule of keeping siblings together, with candid talk about bias, missteps and personal identity.

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Podcast by Stanford Sierra Youth and Families

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That carefully decorated room? A blank canvas might give a child more room to arrive.

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  • to picture emotional safety as clearly as the home walkthrough
  • to replace the 'why aren't they grateful?' reflex with patience for a child's history
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Resource Families Thrive Ep. 39: Keeping TogetherJan 29, 2026

A grounded discussion of sibling bonds, parentification, trauma, and the support needed to keep a placement together.

This episode gives a difficult foster-care question a practical center: whether a 13-year-old and a 4-year-old should stay together when a placement is under strain.

Resource Families Thrive Ep. 38: Adopt With HeartNov 19, 2025

A candid account of adoption as something built through hard nights, uncertainty, and the slow arrival of belonging.

Adoption comes through as a slow recognition, not a single dramatic turn. Matt and Melissa describe accepting a placement shaped by explosive behavior, leaning on a 24-hour support line during difficult nights, and spending a little over a year asking whether they were right for…

Resource Families Thrive Ep. 37: Behind the CareSep 23, 2025

A candid staff-side look at foster care, hard expectations, and the work of staying present.

Behind foster care's public-facing work is a quieter layer of staff labor: calls, coordination, difficult judgment, and the effort to keep showing up.

Resource Families Thrive Ep. 36: Annual Update 2025Jul 30, 2025

A grounded update on foster care as sustained support for children, families, and sibling connections.

Resource Families Thrive shifts the format as Daniel, one of the podcast's main hosts, turns the focus toward people working inside Stanford Sierra Youth and Families.

Resource Families Thrive Ep. 35: Voices of PrideJul 2, 2025

A June collection of queer voices and allies connects identity, safety, family, and the freedom to exhale.

Resource Families Thrive centers queer voices and allies within Stanford Sierra Youth and Families, leaving the usual organizational framing in the background.

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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 39: Keeping Together

    Resource Families Thrive uses a Reddit foster-care case from California to examine a foster-to-adopt home with a 4-year-old and a 13-year-old sister.

    Jan 29, 2026·43m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 38: Adopt With Heart

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    Nov 19, 2025·48m·4 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 37: Behind the Care

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    Sep 23, 2025·40m·2 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 36: Annual Update 2025

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    Jul 30, 2025·44m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 35: Voices of Pride

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    Resource Families Thrive by Stanford Sierra Youth and Families turns its June Voices of Pride episode into a montage of queer staff, allies, conferences, and recorded statements from Pathways to Permanency.

    Jul 2, 2025·38m·2 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep 34: The Bias Inside Us

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    Daniel Sederquist and Erin Reynolds explain implicit bias as unconscious attitudes and stereotypes that influence foster care, mental health, juvenile justice, and other systems of care.

    Mar 3, 2025·38m·2 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 33: Seasons of Giving

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    Nov 24, 2024·24m·1 clip
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 1: Foster Permanency

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    Nov 19, 2024·59m·4 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 32: Putting Kin First

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    Resource Families Thrive, hosted by Daniel Sederquist, examines kinship care through Risha Hinton’s experience taking in a 13-year-old relative on emergency notice.

    Sep 25, 2024·23m·1 clip
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 31: Director's Update 2024

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    Resource Families Thrive host Daniel Sederquist interviews program director Danielle about Stanford Sierra Youth and Families’ five-year merger anniversary, foster-care reform, and support for resource families.

    Aug 4, 2024·45m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 30: Breaking Cycles

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    Resource Families Thrive host Daniel interviews Stanford Sierra Youth and Families board member Will Gabry, who experienced foster care as an infant, adoption at about 20 months, and later became a foster and adoptive parent.

    Jun 26, 2024·55m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 29: Nothing About Us Without Us

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    May 1, 2024·49m·4 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 28- Diversity. Equity. Inclusion

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    Resource Families Thrive host Daniel and Erin Reynolds, Stanford Sierra Youth and Families’ Associate Director of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion, examine how child-welfare systems affect marginalized families.

    Jun 21, 2023·47m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 27: The Garden Of Families

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    Resource Families Thrive host Daniel interviews former resource parent Eric Edens about six to seven years of fostering, adoption, and raising six children.

    May 31, 2023·39m·2 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 26: What's In A Home

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    Apr 11, 2023·28m·1 clip
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 25: The Meaning Of Behavior

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    Resource Families Thrive host Daniel interviews Michelle, an adoptive and foster parent whose household includes a teenager and a nine-year-old being fostered to adopt, about interpreting behavior in foster care.

    Nov 8, 2022·28m·1 clip
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 24: The Direction Of Foster Care

    Aug 25, 2022·28m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 23: It's The Destination

    Jul 27, 2022·22m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 22: Our Youth In Care

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    Feb 22, 2022·36m·2 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 21: Be Wonderful, Part 2

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    Feb 2, 2022·36m·2 clips
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    Resource Parents Thrive Ep. 20: At The Next Level

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    Daniel, Karen, and Natalie explain Stanford Sierra Youth and Families' next level parenting programs for children with complex needs, including therapeutic foster care, home-based shelter care, and intensive services foster care.

    Dec 29, 2021·33m·2 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 19: Checking In

    Nov 3, 2021·9m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 18: Inspire Pride

    Jun 29, 2021·19m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 17: Foster Care Awareness Part 2

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    Resource Families Thrive hosts Daniel from Pathways to Permanency and Imani Myers discuss Micaiah Bryant’s death, her experience in foster care, and how racial disparities and trauma shaped the conversation.

    May 27, 2021·28m·2 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 16: Frequently Asked Questions

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    May 4, 2021·43m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 15: By Listening

    Mar 16, 2021·18m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 14: You Can Relate

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    Feb 9, 2021·40m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 13: Finding Why

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    Daniel of Resource Families Thrive marks the show's first year with a highlight reel about why adults should support children and teens in foster care.

    Jan 12, 2021·27m·1 clip
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 12: A Home In The Holidays

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    Imani Myers, a Resource Family Trainer Specialist who grew up in foster care, explains how holidays can combine church, food, gifts, sibling separation, and uncertainty about first families.

    Dec 8, 2020·41m·2 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 11: Adopt Experiences

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    Resource Families Thrive: Adopt Experiences features Daniel from Pathways to Permanency speaking with Whitney, Bill, Christina, and Darren about adopting children from foster care.

    Nov 24, 2020·50m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 10: Adopt Understanding

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    Resource Families Thrive’s “Adopt Understanding” features Daniel, Sandy Certain of Destination Family, and Laura Monheim of Stanford Sierra Youth and Families’ FIT program discussing adoption competency, trauma, attachment, and permanency.

    Nov 10, 2020·54m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 9: Justice For All

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    Oct 13, 2020·51m·3 clips
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 8: Be WonderFul

    Sep 8, 2020·44m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 7: At the Intersections of Identity

    Jul 7, 2020·37m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 6: Directors' Care

    A podcast about foster care and adoption, featuring an interview with a program director discussing services and experiences.

    Jun 2, 2020·24m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 5: It's A Parent Thing

    May 12, 2020·14m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 4: Taking Moments

    Apr 28, 2020·16m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 3: In Times Of Uncertainty

    Apr 14, 2020·14m
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    Resource Families Thrive Ep. 2: Families Helping Families

    This episode features family partners sharing their stories and discussing how they support families involved in the child welfare system, focusing on foster care and reunification.

    Mar 3, 2020·38m