Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

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A therapist's eye on cults, reality TV and diagnosis.

The gist

Dr. Kirk Honda brings a therapist's view to a wide spread of subjects, from Cesar Chavez and the Synanon cult to Chris from Love is Blind Season 10. Some episodes are joking conversations with Humberto Castaneda, while others answer patron mail solo or bring in guests on autism and diagnosis.

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About Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Psychology In Seattle Podcast is the work of Dr. Kirk Honda, who introduces himself as a therapist and a professor and greets his audience as 'Deserving Listeners'. The approach is easy to describe. He picks a subject, whether it comes from history, reality television or his own life, and talks it through with clinical judgment and a ready joke. The two-part series 'The Psychology of Emotional Charisma - Cesar Chavez, Cults, and Classrooms' shows how far that approach can travel. Its second chapter turns to Synanon, which Honda calls a cult that Chavez became involved with and says was founded in California in 1958 by Charles Dederich. He is careful to add that it started with good intentions. Humberto Castaneda, known as Berto, joins him for both chapters. Their banter ranges from Berto introducing himself as a distributor of plutonium mud masks to Honda's fear that a remark will age badly between recording and release, a gap he puts at anywhere from the next day to two months. His clinical past supplies some of the most vivid material. He recalls a client whose drug screen came back positive, a treatment team that turned suspicious almost immediately, and his own case that the reading might be false. Reality TV gets the same scrutiny. 'Narcissistic Abuse (Chap 3)' is introduced as the third and final chapter on Chris from Love is Blind Season 10, with the opening on the free feed and the rest for patrons. Honda is also plain about where his expertise stops. In 'Autism Explained (2020 Rerun)', he says his experience with autism is limited and mostly from early in his career. He then brings in Megan Wildhood, who is working on an MSW, has a background in crisis work and says she has been diagnosed as on the spectrum. The first thing she sets out to clear up is the stereotype that people on the spectrum lack empathy. 'How To Diagnose' takes a different route. A counselor named Isaiah reads AI-generated fictional vignettes, written to be ambiguous, and the two weigh possibilities such as PTSD while noting that people don't always fit neatly into diagnostic categories. 'My Pivotal Moments (2018 Rerun)' is a solo reply to a patron who asked for the 20 most important episodes of his life. Honda admits he does not think about his life in turning points the way biographers do. The humor stays close, including a mock cult-leader pitch urging listeners to become patrons. More than one episode signs off the same way, with the line 'take care of yourself because you deserve it'.

Made for: Suits a listener who wants psychology taught through real cases, history and reality TV instead of textbook summaries, and who enjoys a clinician who jokes around on mic. It is a better fit for someone willing to follow a topic across multi-chapter episodes, some of them partly for patrons only.

What sets it apart: It pairs a therapist's own clinical stories and diagnostic reasoning with subjects as far apart as Synanon and a Love is Blind contestant. When a topic is beyond his expertise, the host says so openly and brings in a guest.

In their own words

A psychology podcast that is both educational and entertaining.

cults and emotional charismaaddiction treatment and relapsereality TV through a clinical lensnarcissistic abusediagnosing ambiguous casesautism misconceptionspatron questions and personal reflection

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Episodes

  1. 1

    The Psychology of Emotional Charisma - Cesar Chavez, Cults, and Classrooms - Chap 2

    Hidden gem

    Dr.

    Apr 17, 2026·1h 27m·5 clips
  2. 2

    My Pivotal Moments (2018 Rerun)

    Dr.

    Apr 16, 2026·5m
  3. 3

    The Psychology of Emotional Charisma - Cesar Chavez, Cults, and Classrooms - Chap 1

    Dr.

    Apr 15, 2026·1h 12m
  4. 4

    Autism Explained (2020 Rerun)

    A therapist and podcast host interviews a social worker on the autism spectrum to discuss common misconceptions about autism, particularly the myth that autistic people lack empathy.

    Apr 14, 2026·1h 34m
  5. 5

    Narcissistic Abuse (Chap 3)

    This episode analyzes narcissistic abuse through Chris from Love is Blind Season 10, with a sponsored segment on financial stress and therapy.

    Apr 13, 2026·14m
  6. 6

    Narcissistic Abuse (Chap 2)

    Apr 10, 2026·14m
  7. 7

    Sleep Deprivation (2015 Rerun)

    Apr 9, 2026·1h 13m
  8. 8

    Narcissistic Abuse (Chap 1)

    Apr 8, 2026·10m
  9. 9

    Chris Watts and the Seven Types of Family Annihilators (2020 Rerun)

    Apr 7, 2026·2h 8m
  10. 10

    Manosphere Deep Dive (Chap 3)

    Apr 6, 2026·13m
  11. 11

    Manosphere Deep Dive (Chap 2)

    Apr 3, 2026·11m
  12. 12

    Borderline vs Complex PTSD (Deep Dive) (2017 Rerun)

    Apr 2, 2026·3m
  13. 13

    Manosphere Deep Dive (Chap 1)

    Apr 1, 2026·17m
  14. 14

    A Client Kisses Her Therapist (2017 Rerun)

    Mar 31, 2026·4m
  15. 15

    How To Diagnose

    Hidden gem

    Psychology In Seattle's "How To Diagnose" features Dr.

    Mar 30, 2026·43m·2 clips
  16. 16

    Fat Shaming, Self-Esteem & Late Pregnancies

    Mar 27, 2026·1h 32m
  17. 17

    Donald Winnicott (Deep Dive) (2017 Rerun)

    Mar 26, 2026·4m
  18. 18

    Abusive Gynecologist

    Mar 25, 2026·43m
  19. 19

    Negative Therapeutic Reaction (2013 Rerun)

    Mar 24, 2026·2m
  20. 20

    Am I A Pedophile, Oscars, and Child Existential Dread

    Mar 23, 2026·1h 29m
  21. 21

    Oral Dealbreaker and MAGA Projective Identification

    Mar 20, 2026·1h 15m
  22. 22

    Surviving Sex Trafficking (2019 Rerun)

    Mar 19, 2026·2h 2m
  23. 23

    Oscar Movies Review

    Mar 18, 2026·2h 41m
  24. 24

    Movie Diversity Test (2021 Rerun)

    Mar 17, 2026·1h 15m
  25. 25

    Shut Up Therapist & How to Destroy a Relationship

    Kirk and Bob discuss a listener's email about a therapist who over-shares and how to address it.

    Mar 16, 2026·58m
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    Psychodynamic Therapy (Deep Dive) (2015 Rerun)

    Mar 13, 2026·5m
  27. 27

    Diagnosing Game of Thrones (2017 Rerun)

    Mar 12, 2026·2h 36m
  28. 28

    The Psychology of Columbine (Ch 6 - Manifesto)

    Mar 11, 2026·30m
  29. 29

    The Psychology of Columbine (Ch 5 - Parenting)

    Mar 10, 2026·27m
  30. 30

    The Psychology of Columbine (Ch 4 - Dylan Personality)

    Mar 9, 2026·35m
  31. 31

    Minecraft Therapy (2015 Rerun)

    Mar 6, 2026·44m
  32. 32

    The Psychology of Columbine (Ch 3 - Eric Personality)

    Mar 5, 2026·30m
  33. 33

    The Psychology of Columbine (Ch 2 - Eric Behavior)

    Mar 4, 2026·26m
  34. 34

    Light Triad vs Dark Triad (2020 Rerun)

    The host discusses the light triad personality traits as a contrast to the dark triad, explaining the components of each and responding to a patron email.

    Mar 3, 2026·1h 19m
  35. 35

    The Psychology of Columbine (Ch 1 - Shooting)

    Mar 2, 2026·20m
  36. 36

    Breastfeeding, Fascism & Self-Diagnosis

    Feb 27, 2026·1h 23m
  37. 37

    Personality Tests for Hiring (2017 Rerun)

    Feb 26, 2026·1h 28m
  38. 38

    Parentified Good Kids

    Feb 25, 2026·1h 20m
  39. 39

    Bad Therapists (2021 Rerun)

    Feb 24, 2026·1h 6m
  40. 40

    Unresponsive Therapists and Harassing Clients

    Feb 23, 2026·46m
  41. 41

    Weaponized Social Justice and Causes of Divorce

    Feb 20, 2026·1h 1m
  42. 42

    The Psychology of One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest (2020 Rerun)

    Feb 19, 2026·1h 32m
  43. 43

    Cultural Appropriation Drag Queens, Cheating, and Age Kink

    Feb 18, 2026·1h 8m
  44. 44

    Paraphilias and Sexual Fetishes (2017 Rerun)

    Feb 17, 2026·4m
  45. 45

    Therapist Convinces Client To Divorce

    Feb 16, 2026·1h 35m
  46. 46

    Gooning Communities

    Feb 13, 2026·1h 19m
  47. 47

    7 Tips for Long Distance Relationships (2020 Rerun)

    Feb 12, 2026·50m
  48. 48

    Nuremberg, Fascism, and Psychiatry

    A podcast interview with author Jack L.

    Feb 11, 2026·42m
  49. 49

    Scientific Matchmaking (2020 Rerun)

    Feb 10, 2026·1h 35m
  50. 50

    Body Image, Perfectionism, and Metaphors

    The host answers listener emails about body image and perfectionism in relationships, then interviews Dr.

    Feb 9, 2026·1h 17m