Outgoing Without Going Out

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Couch-party life updates with sister energy.

The gist

Outgoing Without Going Out turns everyday catch-ups into loose, funny life debriefs from the sisters' orbit. Episodes move from wedding timelines to roommate problems, holiday stress, cheer weekends, family banter, and the small domestic details that define this stage of life.

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About Outgoing Without Going Out

Outgoing Without Going Out is a personal-journal podcast shaped by sisterly conversation, messy calendars, and the comedy of trying to have a full life without losing the couch. The show follows Lexi, Gabi, and their close circle through weddings, holidays, cheer competitions, relationship updates, travel days, sick weeks, and the endless planning that comes with adulthood in progress. It has a loose rhythm. Life updates come first, then the conversation wanders wherever the week demands. Lexi's wedding episodes bring practical detail without turning into formal planning advice: legal paperwork in the U.S., a symbolic ceremony in Italy, boat rides, photos, aperitivo, family moments, and the financial relief of saving for the trip. Holiday episodes lean into the strange mix of magic and stress. There are airport runs, snowstorms, Christmas bars, gift-season expectations, relationship scheduling, and family members trying to keep everyone moving. The advice segments are more direct. Roommate conflict, finding a city, relationship trauma, and online comments are handled in a conversational way that sounds like a friend weighing what is fair, what is livable, and what might actually work. Cheerleading gives the show another recurring texture. Gabi and Momma Fuller talk from competition weekends, answer questions, and bring the intensity of cheer mode into the same informal family format. Guests and family members change the pace. Sean brings wedding stories, health routines, tacos, non-alcoholic drinks, and couple banter. Momma Fuller adds family history, weather commentary, and the kind of practical interruptions that make the show feel lived-in. The subject matter is often ordinary on paper, but the draw is the constant movement between logistics and emotion. A delayed flight, a Starbucks drink, a Bills game, or a noisy video game in the background can become part of the episode's texture. The show is best for listeners who like conversational podcasts where friendship, family, and twenty-something decision-making are the point. It is candid but not severe. It is playful without becoming a comedy sketch. Most of all, it captures the stretch of life when weddings, moves, roommates, holidays, fitness routines, work, and family all seem to be happening at once.

Made for: For listeners who like casual personal-journal podcasts about twenty-something life, family dynamics, weddings, holidays, relationships, cheer, and everyday advice. It especially fits anyone who wants conversational company that feels social without requiring nightlife energy.

What sets it apart: The show stands out through its family chemistry and its willingness to treat small logistics as real emotional material. Wedding planning, airport chaos, roommate trash, cheer weekends, holiday scheduling, and couple routines all become part of the same candid home-life diary.

In their own words

Hang out with two gals that love to party…. on the couch. Sisters Gabi and Lexi Fuller love to have a good time, as long as it doesn’t mean late nights away from the pets. Chatting about life, love, and all things twenty something gals deal with. Honest, real, and raw!

Why you'd press play

This is where your Lake Como questions meet the roommate-text crisis you've been postponing.

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  • candid sister chemistry that makes holiday logistics feel like your liveliest family group chat
  • practical reassurance before you send the overdue text about your roommates' overflowing trash
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Episodes

  1. 1

    Cheers, Chants, and Championships: Inside the World of Competitive Cheerleading with Gabi and Momma Fuller

    ·1h 2m
  2. 2

    Holiday Survival Guide 101

    ·43m
  3. 3

    Wicked snow storms

    ·40m
  4. 4

    Talking about crazy ex's :P

    ·45m
  5. 5

    Experience with toxic relationship + discussing the BFFs pod about ZB

    ·48m
  6. 6

    Hear me out....

    ·45m
  7. 7

    SpoOoky stories + bad days

    ·43m
  8. 8

    Eras tour + influencer TEA

    ·39m
  9. 9

    Answering questions Gabi's been avoiding....

    ·55m
  10. 10

    Wedding tea, having babies, new job + more // Lexi solo Q&A

    ·46m
  11. 11

    Sick + binging shows.. let's talk

    ·45m
  12. 12

    Save vs. Splurge

    ·58m
  13. 13

    Cheer Worlds 2024 + Gabi's 26th birthday

    ·48m
  14. 14

    Crazy in-laws with our mom

    ·53m
  15. 15

    The girls are fighting...

    ·42m
  16. 16

    European summer recap // part 2

    ·54m
  17. 17

    Unpacking our European summer trip // part 1

    ·50m
  18. 18

    Let's talk BABY NAMES!

    ·37m
  19. 19

    This is why traveling is a nightmare....

    ·34m
  20. 20

    Celebrity sightings + rudest celebs.....

    ·36m
  21. 21

    Am I the A**hole?....

    ·48m
  22. 22

    Yikes..that's embarrassing

    ·43m
  23. 23

    European summer bucket list

    ·46m
  24. 24

    Trend predictions: fashion, beauty, + more for summer 2024

    ·53m
  25. 25

    Top 3 Favorites (makeup, shows, podcasts, artists + more)

    ·48m
  26. 26

    Book Club with the Fuller Sisters: our fave books + recommendations for summer reading!

    ·43m
  27. 27

    Where have we been + catching up on reality tv thoughts

    ·24m
  28. 28

    What we've been up to + Bravo chat (VPR finale, the valley, housewives + more)

    ·45m
  29. 29

    It's beginning to look a lot like....

    ·44m
  30. 30

    Mixed signals, hate comments, + moving far from family // ADVICE PART 2

    ·41m
  31. 31

    My fiancé is texting other girls, crushing finals week, harassed at work // ADVICE EPISODE

    ·51m
  32. 32

    Trip Tips: Blueprint for Planning the Perfect Trip + Our Budget Secrets

    ·43m
  33. 33

    Sad Updates, Yoga Burglar, + More stories

    ·46m
  34. 34

    DRAMA: where is Kate Middleton?! Love is Blind, Iron Flame Recap, + more drama in today's world

    ·59m
  35. 35

    Pizza Hut Murder, finding love in the office, + more work stories // part 2

    ·17m
  36. 36

    Crazy Co-workers, office affairs, + more work stories

    ·46m
  37. 37

    Wedding in Italy: how planning went, budget, vendors + more

    ·34m
  38. 38

    Horrible Hinge Date, Disappearing Men, Love at first sight + other V-day stories

    ·42m
  39. 39

    We've had enough! Let's complain.....

    ·1h 2m
  40. 40

    Q&A with Sean: wedding details, fitness, finances, living together + more

    ·45m
  41. 41

    Pop Culture Thoughts: NFL Popstar GFs, Vanderpump returns, + more

    ·1h 3m
  42. 42

    Ins and Outs for 2024

    ·54m
  43. 43

    2023 Reflection + Our 2024 Plans

    ·41m
  44. 44

    Where has Gabi been? Free cruise, big cheer competition, + more holiday fun

    ·42m
  45. 45

    Mom guesses Gen Z slang words....

    ·42m
  46. 46

    Wild Family Thanksgiving Stories

    ·42m
  47. 47

    Getting out of a rut + beating daylight savings depression

    ·38m
  48. 48

    Deep dive with our dad + preparing to be parents

    ·37m
  49. 49

    Halloween Special: Spooky Stories

    ·43m
  50. 50

    True crime: Idaho 4, College student kills parents, 1989 kidnapping solved

    ·54m
  51. 51

    Gabi's advice: becoming a cheer star, hooking up vs. dating, + more

    ·45m
  52. 52

    Are we right for each other? Relationship test

    ·41m
  53. 53

    Fall favorites + trends that we love.. and hate

    ·48m
  54. 54

    September chit chat: wisdom tooth surgery, influencer babies, fall haul

    ·44m
  55. 55

    Going back to your ex, becoming an influencer, and moving to pursue your dreams! // ADVICE EPISODE

    ·50m
  56. 56

    Mexico + Magicians ... recent life recap

    ·48m
  57. 57

    School SCANDALS

    ·49m
  58. 58

    Just two Barbie girls

    ·36m
  59. 59

    Current true crime obsessions

    ·1h 10m
  60. 60

    Found out he cheated early in our relationship.... + more unhinged questions

    ·37m
  61. 61

    Questions you want to ask your dad.. but are too scared + Fatherly advice from our dad

    ·35m
  62. 62

    I went through his phone... Unprofessional advice pt. 2

    ·49m
  63. 63

    Crazy mother-in-law Facebook posts, LDR, and more advice

    ·55m
  64. 64

    Let's poll the crowd: dating your friends ex, Facetuning photos, prenups and more

    ·44m
  65. 65

    Wedding updates + disaster stories with Mom

    ·46m
  66. 66

    Me at 25 vs. Mom at 25 years old...

    ·49m
  67. 67

    SUMMERTIME: plans, trends, exciting news

    ·52m
  68. 68

    Crazy travel stories part 2

    ·44m
  69. 69

    You asked, we answered // Q+A

    ·49m
  70. 70

    Insane travel stories // your stories + our experiences

    ·55m
  71. 71

    Was Cheer Worlds rigged?... Gabi and Justin spill the tea on Worlds 2023

    ·1h 3m
  72. 72

    Festival Season! Austin, TX recap + Coachella thoughts

    ·33m
  73. 73

    Everyone is pregnant!? + we are stressed

    ·40m
  74. 74

    Gabi and Alix Earle are now bffs?

    ·46m
  75. 75

    Confessional Hour.. getting freaky in the ICU, maid of honor drama, + more // reading your secrets

    ·44m
  76. 76

    #Scandoval thoughts, Hailey vs. Selena, + more chit chat/ questions

    ·46m
  77. 77

    Worst phase of our life... // get to know us deeper

    ·45m
  78. 78

    Worst phase of our life... // get to know us deeper

    ·0m
  79. 79

    Gabi's team was sued by Louis Vuitton ?! + more cheer tea

    ·54m
  80. 80

    Fitness journey, gut health, social media failure + more thoughts w/ Lexi

    ·46m
  81. 81

    Am I the drama??

    ·54m
  82. 82

    It's a love story baby just say yes

    ·47m
  83. 83

    Caught in a bad romance....

    ·38m
  84. 84

    Hot girl life tips // successful mindset in 2023 part 2

    ·44m
  85. 85

    Recipe for success + how to live your best life // Inspiration for 2023

    ·54m
  86. 86

    DEEP DIVE pt 2: who is Lexi Fuller?

    ·56m
  87. 87

    Deep Dive: WHO IS GABI FULLER?

    ·50m
  88. 88

    Is instagram dead? Are we quitting social media? + Other thoughts on social media platforms

    ·52m
  89. 89

    2023 goals and what we learned in 2022

    ·48m
  90. 90

    The 2022 Draft: Fuller sister style

    ·46m
  91. 91

    Gift Guide 2022: gift ideas for her, him, parents + our list

    ·57m
  92. 92

    Fuller gals night in: holiday catch up, this or that, our wishlists

    ·49m
  93. 93

    Traveling home for the holidays: tips, tricks, and rules

    ·47m
  94. 94

    Chit Chatting with Momma Fuller

    ·42m
  95. 95

    BFFR: assumptions about us, calling us out + speaking the truth

    ·51m
  96. 96

    Halloween SpoOoktacular 2022

    ·45m
  97. 97

    Pizza Hut murder, finding love in the office, + more work stories // part 2

    ·35m
  98. 98

    Living with roommates, finding your dream city, + relationship trauma // ADVICE WITH LEXI

    Lexi does a solo advice episode while her sister Gabby is away, discussing her lack of motivation to study for boards and sharing personal anecdotes.

    ·38m
  99. 99

    Are we doing enough with our life?

    Sisters Gabi and Lexi discuss weekly life updates and whether they are doing enough in their 20s, based on a list of recommended activities.

    ·39m
  100. 100

    Wedding drama with my fiancé Sean....

    Lexi and guest Sean share funny wedding disaster stories and chat about their healthy lifestyle changes.

    ·52m
  101. 101

    Wedding in Italy: how planning went, budget, vendors + more

    Hidden gem

    Lake Como, the boat-only ceremony, and a Michelin-star restaurant made the wedding cheaper than a U.S. version.

    Dec 16, 2024·34m·2 clips
  102. 102

    Holiday Survival Guide 101

    Hidden gem

    Outgoing Without Going Out's "Holiday Survival Guide 101" examines holiday gift obligations, family scheduling, divorced parents, and the pressure to fit every tradition into a short season.

    Dec 9, 2024·43m·3 clips
  103. 103

    Wicked snow storms

    Hidden gem

    Gabby and her mother Shelly recount a holiday week disrupted by Erie’s first snowfall, which brought roughly two feet initially and nearly four feet overall.

    Dec 2, 2024·40m·2 clips
  104. 104

    Talking about crazy ex's :P

    Gabby and Sean of Outgoing Without Going Out read anonymous stories about controlling, dishonest, and abusive ex-partners.

    Nov 25, 2024·45m·3 clips
  105. 105

    Experience with toxic relationship + discussing the BFFs pod about ZB

    Nov 11, 2024·48m
  106. 106

    Hear me out....

    Nov 4, 2024·45m
  107. 107

    SpoOoky stories + bad days

    Oct 28, 2024·43m
  108. 108

    Eras tour + influencer TEA

    Oct 21, 2024·39m
  109. 109

    Answering questions Gabi's been avoiding....

    Oct 14, 2024·55m
  110. 110

    Wedding tea, having babies, new job + more // Lexi solo Q&A

    Oct 7, 2024·46m
  111. 111

    Sick + binging shows.. let's talk

    Sep 30, 2024·45m
  112. 112

    Save vs. Splurge

    Sep 23, 2024·58m
  113. 113

    Crazy in-laws with our mom

    Sep 16, 2024·53m
  114. 114

    The girls are fighting...

    Sep 9, 2024·42m
  115. 115

    European summer recap // part 2

    Aug 26, 2024·54m
  116. 116

    Unpacking our European summer trip // part 1

    Aug 19, 2024·50m
  117. 117

    Let's talk BABY NAMES!

    Aug 5, 2024·37m
  118. 118

    This is why traveling is a nightmare....

    Jul 29, 2024·34m
  119. 119

    Celebrity sightings + rudest celebs.....

    Jul 22, 2024·36m
  120. 120

    Am I the A**hole?....

    Jul 15, 2024·48m
  121. 121

    Yikes..that's embarrassing

    Jul 8, 2024·43m
  122. 122

    European summer bucket list

    Jul 1, 2024·46m
  123. 123

    Trend predictions: fashion, beauty, + more for summer 2024

    Jun 24, 2024·53m
  124. 124

    Top 3 Favorites (makeup, shows, podcasts, artists + more)

    Jun 17, 2024·48m
  125. 125

    Book Club with the Fuller Sisters: our fave books + recommendations for summer reading!

    Sisters Gabi and Lexi catch up on their week and discuss their plans for upcoming podcast episodes.

    Jun 10, 2024·43m
  126. 126

    Where have we been + catching up on reality tv thoughts

    Jun 3, 2024·24m
  127. 127

    Wedding drama with my fiancé Sean....

    Lexi and guest Sean share wedding disaster stories and chat about their healthy lifestyle changes.

    May 20, 2024·52m
  128. 128

    What we've been up to + Bravo chat (VPR finale, the valley, housewives + more)

    May 13, 2024·45m
  129. 129

    Cheer Worlds 2024 + Gabi's 26th birthday

    May 6, 2024·48m
  130. 130

    Living with roommates, finding your dream city, + relationship trauma // ADVICE WITH LEXI

    Hidden gem

    Lexi does a solo advice episode while her sister Gabby is away, discussing her lack of motivation to study for boards and sharing personal anecdotes.

    Apr 29, 2024·38m·2 clips
  131. 131

    Mixed signals, hate comments, + moving far from family // ADVICE PART 2

    Apr 22, 2024·41m
  132. 132

    My fiancé is texting other girls, crushing finals week, harassed at work // ADVICE EPISODE

    Apr 15, 2024·51m
  133. 133

    Trip Tips: Blueprint for Planning the Perfect Trip + Our Budget Secrets

    Apr 8, 2024·43m
  134. 134

    Sad Updates, Yoga Burglar, + More stories

    Mar 25, 2024·46m
  135. 135

    DRAMA: where is Kate Middleton?! Love is Blind, Iron Flame Recap, + more drama in today's world

    Mar 18, 2024·59m
  136. 136

    Pizza Hut Murder, finding love in the office, + more work stories // part 2

    Mar 4, 2024·17m
  137. 137

    Pizza Hut murder, finding love in the office, + more work stories // part 2

    Mar 4, 2024·35m
  138. 138

    Crazy Co-workers, office affairs, + more work stories

    Feb 26, 2024·46m
  139. 139

    Cheers, Chants, and Championships: Inside the World of Competitive Cheerleading with Gabi and Momma Fuller

    Sisters Gabi and Lexi Fuller, joined by their mom, answer cheerleading-related questions while preparing for a competition in Atlanta.

    Feb 19, 2024·1h 2m
  140. 140

    Horrible Hinge Date, Disappearing Men, Love at first sight + other V-day stories

    Feb 12, 2024·42m
  141. 141

    We've had enough! Let's complain.....

    Feb 5, 2024·1h 2m
  142. 142

    Q&A with Sean: wedding details, fitness, finances, living together + more

    Lexi and guest Sean do a couples Q&A and recap their week, including an upcoming concert.

    Jan 29, 2024·45m
  143. 143

    Pop Culture Thoughts: NFL Popstar GFs, Vanderpump returns, + more

    Jan 22, 2024·1h 3m
  144. 144

    Ins and Outs for 2024

    Jan 15, 2024·54m
  145. 145

    2023 Reflection + Our 2024 Plans

    Jan 8, 2024·41m
  146. 146

    Where has Gabi been? Free cruise, big cheer competition, + more holiday fun

    Dec 18, 2023·42m
  147. 147

    Mom guesses Gen Z slang words....

    Dec 11, 2023·42m
  148. 148

    It's beginning to look a lot like....

    Dec 4, 2023·44m
  149. 149

    Wild Family Thanksgiving Stories

    Nov 27, 2023·42m
  150. 150

    Getting out of a rut + beating daylight savings depression

    Nov 13, 2023·38m