Messy Thoughts

BJ Burgess & LeBron Huggins

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Queer chaos with excellent recall.

The gist

Messy Thoughts is a rapid, queer comedy hang where B.J. and LeBron let the tangent win. Pop divas, dating apps, group-trip bills, drag culture, Texas life, and family stories all become material for affectionate arguing.

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About Messy Thoughts

Messy Thoughts is built around the pleasure of watching B.J. and LeBron try, and usually fail, to keep one conversation in one lane. The show begins in banter and treats the tangent as the main road. A raspy voice becomes an allergy diagnosis. A dating-app topic wanders into Greek life, Texas A&M traditions, and the etiquette of paying for friendship. A live set in Boise turns into hometown recognition, audience callouts, queer nightlife jokes, and an extended test of whether Boise really shares Austin's social flavor. The rhythm is fast, loose, and very spoken. It sounds like friends who can interrupt each other because the interruption is often the joke. Pop culture is not decoration here; it is a shared filing system. Mariah Carey, Britney Spears, old CD stores, Drag Race, TikTok dances, Hocus Pocus, and reality-TV language all become shortcuts into taste, memory, and identity. The show is also deeply local. Austin is a reference point, Boise becomes a room to work, San Antonio appears through Jake and Kendrick, and Detroit shows up through a family wedding story. Guests widen the chaos rather than calming it down. Laganja Estranja brings stories about Thailand, drag performance, debt, family-like creative ties, and the reality behind polished stage glamour. Jake and Kendrick bring a sister-podcast crossover with real talk and big laughs from down the road. Messy Thoughts often turns inconvenience into a public hearing. Who owes for the table? Who is using the wrong term? Who left someone out of the travel update? Who gets to claim a diva? The reads are sharp, but the mood stays communal. Even the event plugs and health reminders arrive as part of the room's ongoing bit. The result is comedy talk for people who like their friendship podcasts noisy, queer, culturally fluent, and a little too honest about bodies, apps, money, and manners.

Made for: For listeners who like fast friendship comedy, queer pop-culture literacy, nightlife stories, dating mess, and blunt social observations. It especially fits fans of conversational shows where the tangent is often funnier than the topic.

What sets it apart: Messy Thoughts stands out because B.J. and LeBron make local detail feel theatrical: Boise crowd work, Austin references, San Antonio crossovers, family weddings, and mall-era nostalgia all become comedy scenes. The show keeps its rough edges instead of polishing them away.

In their own words

Messy Thoughts is a no-holds-barred talk show where Austin-based friends BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins catch up weekly to get into the mess—from pop culture deep dives to personal rabbit holes. Each episode explores life, sex, identity, and everything in between through a queer lens, as the duo trade off asking each other a mix of intrusive thoughts and premeditated questions that range from hilarious to heartfelt. Whether it’s unpacking bad behavior or dissecting viral drama, BJ and LeBron keep it honest, unpredictable, and unapologetically messy.

As heard by us

Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins turn pop culture, social etiquette, and personal memories into fast, corrective riffs with a distinctly shared comic language.

BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins turn catching up into a quick-switching comedy format, moving from pop culture and dating etiquette to old mall rituals and questionable group-dinner accounting.

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A Beyonce CD standoff becomes a Sam Goody time machine if you enjoy a glorious detour.

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  • BJ and LeBron to treat an unpaid dinner share like a grievance worth litigating
  • Laganja Estranja to talk about performing in Thailand and the money behind drag
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Best episodes of Messy Thoughts

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"Live From Boise! Treefort Music Fest" - Messy Thoughts 26Apr 15, 2026

Boise crowd energy keeps Messy Thoughts Live loose, loud, and filthy.

Messy Thoughts Live opens at the 2026 Tree Fort Music Festival in Boise, Idaho with B.J. Burgess and LeBron Huggins mixing hometown pride, Austin jokes, and call and response into a loose, messy set.

"Facebook Dating is a MESS" - Messy Thoughts 25Apr 8, 2026

Scratchy banter, Texas A&M lore, and a comfortably messy rhythm.

The episode starts in a scratchy, allergy-hit register and stays loose from there. BJ and LeBron turn a simple check-in into quick banter about being the host, the co-hosts, and the awkward pull of fitting in, which gives the conversation an easy swing.

"Let's Get Sickening" Feat. Laganja Estranja - Messy Thoughts 24Mar 25, 2026

A lively drag hangout that keeps its heart as it wanders.

The episode turns Laganja Estranja into a quick, affectionate drag hangout, moving from Sanderson sisters jokes to Thailand stories without losing momentum.

"Fast & Messy: The Wigatry" - Messy Thoughts 23Mar 18, 2026

A chaotic money rant that turns fairness, credit, and friendship bills into the real punchline.

Messy Thoughts turns a pop-culture money gripe into a brisk, sideways look at credit and compensation. Dr. Pepper, the Savage dance, and Addison Rae all end up in the same conversation, and the hosts keep coming back to a simple complaint: when one person gets paid for a jingle…

“Wig Names and DL Men in Review" - Messy Thoughts 16Nov 19, 2025

A messy, fast-moving hangout where mall nostalgia and pop gossip keep turning into bigger laughs.

Messy Thoughts settles into a lively middle ground between lounge-room gossip and a comic sprint, with dangling feet, recurring names, and a stray Reno joke helping the conversation stay in motion.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    "That Never Happened" feat. Christie Hoffman - Messy Thoughts 44

    Sep 30, 2026·53m
  2. 2

    "The Family You Were Born Into" - Messy Thoughts 43

    Sep 23, 2026·46m
  3. 3

    "Everything is Changing And We're Not Okay" - Messy Thoughts 42

    Sep 16, 2026·54m
  4. 4

    "We Were NOT Prepared for These Questions" - Messy Thoughts 41

    Sep 2, 2026·46m
  5. 5

    "Can You Be In a Relationship Without Losing Yourself?" - Messy Thoughts 40

    Aug 26, 2026·47m
  6. 6

    "The Anatomy of a Hater" - Messy Thoughts 39

    Aug 19, 2026·48m
  7. 7

    "Are The Gays Loving Themselves?" - Messy Thoughts 38

    Aug 12, 2026·47m
  8. 8

    "I Used to Dance!! (with Colton Dowling)" - Messy Thoughts 37

    Jul 15, 2026·58m
  9. 9

    "The Bald & The Beautiful (Dillion's Back!)" - Messy Thoughts 36

    Jul 8, 2026·55m
  10. 10

    "Diamonds Are Forever with Diamond Dior Davenport" - Messy Thoughts 35

    Jun 24, 2026·45m
  11. 11

    "Food Talk (DO YOU WANT A REVOLUTION) with Rell Rugely" - Messy Thoughts 34

    Jun 17, 2026·59m
  12. 12

    "Glass Closets & Coming Out Stories" - Messy Thoughts 33

    Jun 10, 2026·57m
  13. 13

    "Church Ladies at the Function with Jeremy A. Teel" - Messy Thoughts 32

    Jun 3, 2026·1h 1m
  14. 14

    "Cancellation (A Messy Review)" - Messy Thoughts 31

    May 20, 2026·52m
  15. 15

    "Legs, Hips, and Body-Ody-Ody (Hantavirus?!?)" - Messy Thoughts 30

    May 13, 2026·47m
  16. 16

    "Respect Your Elders? Absolutely Not" - Messy Thoughts 29

    May 6, 2026·43m
  17. 17

    "Y'all remember masks, protest, and 2020?" - Messy Thoughts 28

    Apr 29, 2026·52m
  18. 18

    "Coachella: Beauty & the BBC?!?!" - Messy Thoughts 27

    Apr 22, 2026·43m
  19. 19

    "Live From Boise! Treefort Music Fest" - Messy Thoughts 26

    B.J.

    Apr 15, 2026·1h 2m·4 clips
  20. 20

    "Facebook Dating is a MESS" - Messy Thoughts 25

    BJ and LeBron open Messy Thoughts with a beat, a Cardi B jab, and a joke about being a "ho-coast" instead of a co-host.

    Apr 8, 2026·47m·3 clips
  21. 21

    "Let's Get Sickening" Feat. Laganja Estranja - Messy Thoughts 24

    Hidden gem

    The show opens with pure banter, moving from Hocus Pocus jokes into drag-name confusion before Laganja settles into the conversation.

    Mar 25, 2026·55m·4 clips
  22. 22

    "Fast & Messy: The Wigatry" - Messy Thoughts 23

    They open on Dr.

    Mar 18, 2026·59m·4 clips
  23. 23

    "JK But Messy" Feat. Jake & Kendrick - Messy Thoughts 22

    A crossover episode between Messy Thoughts and JK But Gay podcast, featuring hosts Jake and Kendrick discussing their shared mission to fill a gap in Latino podcasting.

    Mar 11, 2026·1h 17m
  24. 24

    "The Slurry Episode!" - Messy Thoughts 21

    Feb 25, 2026·57m
  25. 25

    "Two Williams, One Bad Bunny Bowl" - Messy Thoughts 20

    Feb 18, 2026·1h 2m
  26. 26

    “Fetishes at the Cookout" - Messy Thoughts 19

    Feb 11, 2026·52m
  27. 27

    “From the Locker Room to the Dance Floor" - Messy Thoughts 18

    Feb 4, 2026·54m
  28. 28

    "A Messy Thoughts Christmas Special Feat. Celia Light" - Messy Thoughts 17

    Dec 11, 2025·1h 15m
  29. 29

    “Wig Names and DL Men in Review" - Messy Thoughts 16

    Messy Thoughts opens loose and loud, with the hosts checking in, joking about who is present, and setting up Larry's dangling-feet perch.

    Nov 19, 2025·1h·4 clips
  30. 30

    "A New Cut! A New Colour!" - Messy Thoughts Episode 15

    Nov 12, 2025·56m
  31. 31

    "The Messy (Mean?!) Gays of ATX" - Messy Thoughts 14

    Nov 5, 2025·43m
  32. 32

    "Halloween Nostalgia, Candy & Cartoons" - Messy Thoughts 13

    Oct 22, 2025·47m
  33. 33

    "BLACK?!" - Messy Thoughts 12

    Oct 15, 2025·52m
  34. 34

    "Upside Down Pineapple, But Queer" - Messy Thoughts 11

    Oct 1, 2025·53m
  35. 35

    "Stop Bullying, Start Living" - Messy Thoughts 10

    Sep 24, 2025·48m
  36. 36

    "Bucket Naked & Robbed Blind!" - Messy Thoughts 9

    Sep 17, 2025·55m
  37. 37

    "Not My Business, Baby" - Messy Thoughts 8

    BJ and Lebron discuss BJ's weekend attending a cousin's wedding in Detroit, including family drama and location tracking.

    Sep 10, 2025·51m
  38. 38

    "Diva Worship & Black Card Revoked" - Messy Thoughts 7

    The hosts discuss Mariah Carey's upcoming album and her cultural impact, touching on her mixed race identity and a fan's comparison.

    Sep 3, 2025·50m
  39. 39

    "Treat Companies Like F-Boys" - Messy Thoughts 6

    Two friends chat about staying out of the news, ordering Domino's, and their obsession with The View.

    Aug 27, 2025·49m
  40. 40

    "Flown Out, Called Out, Sweated Out" - Messy Thoughts 5

    The host recounts a night of drinking and partying with friends, including playing Jenga and Street Fighter, and dealing with the aftermath of a long nap.

    Aug 20, 2025·46m
  41. 41

    "Labubu Unboxing & Biracial Superpower" - Messy Thoughts 4

    Aug 13, 2025·48m
  42. 42

    "Calories, Crumbl, and the Gen Z Stare" - Messy Thoughts 3

    Aug 6, 2025·39m
  43. 43

    "I Think I F*ed a Homeless Person" - Messy Thoughts 2

    Jul 31, 2025·41m
  44. 44

    "Sidewalk Showdowns & Twink Debates" - Messy Thoughts 1

    Jul 23, 2025·41m