Marriage Works If You Work It Podcast

Gerald and Yvette Benton

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Fiery Christian marriage counsel from lived restoration.

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Marriage Works If You Work It Podcast is a frank, faith-centered conversation about staying, healing, submitting, forgiving, and rebuilding after deep marital damage. Gerald and Yvette Benton bring their own separation, reconciliation, ministry language, and coaching concerns into emotionally direct teaching sessions.

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About Marriage Works If You Work It Podcast

Marriage Works If You Work It Podcast is a Christian marriage show centered on restoration after real relational damage. Gerald and Yvette Benton do not treat marriage as a light self-help project. Their conversations move through separation, reconciliation, betrayal, abandonment, role reversal, submission, leadership, prayer, repentance, and the long process of healing after trust has been broken. The tone is warm, but it carries weight. Episodes often start with a painful question: why God would want someone to stay, what to do when a spouse wants out, how to submit when leadership is weak, or how to make marriage a priority after restoration has already begun. The answers come through testimony and ministry teaching. Personal history matters here, because the Bentons repeatedly use their own difficult seasons as evidence that restoration takes time, structure, humility, and spiritual discipline. The show is especially focused on what happens after the crisis point. It asks what changes when a couple is back under one roof but still healing, still triggered, still learning how to speak, plan, trust, and lead differently. Some episodes sit with the wounded spouse’s fear. Others press the offending spouse toward accountability, protection, and daily work. The show can be blunt. It also leaves room for tenderness, humor, and the small back-and-forth of a couple who has survived hard things together. Its Christian frame is not decorative; every major topic is interpreted through God’s instruction, covenant, obedience, deliverance, and the belief that healing can happen God’s way. The pacing is loose and conversational. Points are repeated until they land. Stories circle back on themselves. One speaker may lead the teaching while the other affirms, corrects, or grounds it in another memory. That rhythm gives the show a ministry feel rather than a polished studio format. It is best for listeners who want marriage counsel that is spiritually forceful, emotionally candid, and rooted in lived reconciliation rather than distant theory.

Made for: For Christian couples, separated spouses, and marriage-focused believers who want direct counsel on restoration, healing, covenant, and obedience. It especially suits listeners who prefer testimony-driven ministry conversation over polished relationship coaching.

What sets it apart: The show’s force comes from Gerald and Yvette Benton using their own repaired marriage as the teaching ground. Practical marriage struggles are consistently reframed through prayer, deliverance, covenant, and day-by-day spiritual work.

In their own words

Tackling difficult topics in marriage. Honest conversation, genuine love and having fun while you WORK on your marriage. Visit Geraldandyvette.com for more information and resources.

As heard by us

Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Gerald and Yvette Benton make Christian marriage counsel concrete by tracing restoration, responsibility, and forgiveness through their own continuing relationship work.

Gerald and Yvette Benton turn Christian marriage teaching into a candid conversation between two people still examining their own choices. Their back-and-forth moves between scripture, prayer, coaching experience, and memories of separation and reconciliation.

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A surprise date plan meets an old fear of uncertainty; you get both sides with Gerald and Yvette.

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  • to hear how hard it can be to hand over the household finances when trust is still healing
  • to think about staying when your spouse wants out and you believe God is asking you to keep trying
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My Spouse doesn’t want this marriage, but God doesApr 16, 2026

A blunt, prayerful call to keep doing the work when quitting feels easier.

Gerald and Yvette Benton keep the focus on a hard marriage question without pretending there is an easy answer. Their point is plain: when a marriage has gone off course, it did not happen in a day, and repair will not happen in a day either.

Healing Our Marriage Gods Way Part 1Mar 18, 2026

A candid marriage talk that ties healing to obedience and trust.

Marriage is treated here as a place where hurt, repentance, obedience, and healing all overlap, and the discussion keeps coming back to that center without trying to make it neat.

Making Marriage A Priority In Restoration Mar 5, 2026

A grounded conversation about rebuilding marriage with faith, effort, and daily attention.

This episode keeps its focus on marriage after separation, reconciliation, and the slow work of rebuilding. The hosts return to a plain point: life gets loud, routines shift, and a couple can drift farther than they realize before it shows.

Identifying Role Reversal In MarriageMar 4, 2026

A frank marriage testimony about role reversal, obedience, and the cost of rebuilding.

The marriage story turns on a hard role reversal, and the speakers treat it as something lived, not abstract. They move through financial strain, a relocation away from familiar people and places, and the painful recognition that one partner could no longer keep rescuing the…

Do You Know Your RoleFeb 19, 2026

A steady look at roles, responsibility, and the work of realigning a marriage.

Marriage Works If You Work It stays close to the hard part of marriage: getting the roles wrong, then trying to live with the correction. The episode gives that tension a plain, practical shape.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Lord, you want me to do what for my marriage

    Jul 29, 2026·57m
  2. 2

    Binding Generational Curses

    May 21, 2026·32m
  3. 3

    My Spouse doesn’t want this marriage, but God does

    Hidden gem

    Gerald and Yvette Benton talk about the spouse who is ready to leave while God is not done.

    Apr 16, 2026·32m·2 clips
  4. 4

    Why would God want me in this marriage? Part 2

    A personal testimony about struggling with forgiveness, depression, and suicidal thoughts in a marriage, and finding guidance from God to walk through darkness towards spiritual growth and protection.

    Apr 15, 2026·32m
  5. 5

    Why would God want me in this marriage? Part 1

    This episode explores the spiritual question of why God would want someone to stay in a difficult marriage, emphasizing the work required for marital success.

    Apr 9, 2026·33m
  6. 6

    Submitting To A Husband Who Is Not Ready To Lead

    This episode discusses the concept of willful submission in marriage, particularly when a husband is not ready to lead, emphasizing submission as a spiritual duty rather than based on feelings or circumstances.

    Apr 8, 2026·36m
  7. 7

    Healing Our Marriage God's Way Part 2

    This episode explores the challenges of healing from betrayal and abandonment in marriage, discussing how trust issues linger even during recovery.

    Mar 19, 2026·31m
  8. 8

    Healing Our Marriage Gods Way Part 1

    Hidden gem

    Gerald and Yvette Benton open a fiery conversation about what healing looks like in marriage.

    Mar 18, 2026·31m·2 clips
  9. 9

    Making Marriage A Priority In Restoration

    Hidden gem

    Marriage Works If You Work It keeps coming back to one question: how do you keep marriage a priority after reconciliation?

    Mar 5, 2026·34m·2 clips
  10. 10

    Identifying Role Reversal In Marriage

    Hidden gem

    The episode opens on a fiery topic.

    Mar 4, 2026·1h·2 clips
  11. 11

    Do You Know Your Role

    Hidden gem

    Gerald and Yvette open by framing marriage as a workout, not a slogan.

    Feb 19, 2026·47m·2 clips
  12. 12

    Don't Offend Your Spouse

    Feb 12, 2026·32m
  13. 13

    Someone Has Your back!

    Feb 11, 2026·11m
  14. 14

    Out of the Bitter Pool

    Feb 5, 2026·33m
  15. 15

    Binding Generational Curses

    Feb 4, 2026·32m
  16. 16

    Let God Shift You To Your Big!!

    Jan 29, 2026·36m
  17. 17

    Breaking Marriage Barriers

    Jan 28, 2026·30m
  18. 18

    Breaking the Spirit of Rejection

    Jan 21, 2026·30m
  19. 19

    How We Rebuilt Our Marriage Part 2

    Jan 15, 2026·28m
  20. 20

    How We Rebuilt Our Marriage Part 1

    Jan 14, 2026·30m
  21. 21

    Why Is It So Hard To Commuicate Part 2

    Jan 8, 2026·30m
  22. 22

    Why Is It So Hard To Commuicate Part 1

    Jan 7, 2026·33m
  23. 23

    Learning How to Enjoy One Another Part 2

    The couple behind Marriage Works If You Work It describe how the wife's changed behavior, which they call being a "living epistle," led her then-separated husband to reconsider his faith and the marriage.

    Jan 1, 2026·26m·2 clips
  24. 24

    Learning How To Enjoy One Another (Part 1)

    This episode discusses how to enjoy relationships and marriages by being prepared for blessings from God through prayer and readiness.

    Dec 31, 2025·26m
  25. 25

    Don't stop before the breakthrough part 2

    Dec 18, 2025·14m
  26. 26

    Declare Like It’s Already Done

    Dec 16, 2025·17m
  27. 27

    Don’t Talk at Me Talk to Me

    Dec 12, 2025·25m
  28. 28

    Dont Stop Before The Breakthrough

    This episode encourages listeners not to give up before achieving a breakthrough, using the metaphor of a second win in running to inspire perseverance in various life areas like marriage, finances, and business.

    Dec 10, 2025·25m
  29. 29

    How can 2 people in love fall out of love? Part t 2

    This episode explores how negative thoughts and unforgiveness can harden the heart, leading to the breakdown of love in relationships through a spiritual lens.

    Dec 5, 2025·31m
  30. 30

    How can 2 people in love fall out of love? Part 1

    Dec 3, 2025·28m
  31. 31

    You're Not Fighting Your Spouse (Part 2).

    Nov 27, 2025·29m
  32. 32

    You're Not Fighting Your Spouse (Part 1)

    Nov 26, 2025·24m
  33. 33

    Does Your Lifestyle Lead Your Spouse Away From Sin?

    Oct 17, 2025·39m
  34. 34

    Recover All The Devil Stole

    Oct 17, 2025·44m
  35. 35

    The Fight is not Against Who You Think

    Oct 17, 2025·50m
  36. 36

    Two Become One

    Sep 25, 2025·31m
  37. 37

    Ask A Former Prodigal

    Sep 25, 2025·43m
  38. 38

    Pulling Down Strongholds

    Sep 22, 2025·28m
  39. 39

    Do You Know Your Role?

    Sep 22, 2025·48m
  40. 40

    Relationships are Worth Fighting For

    Sep 22, 2025·22m
  41. 41

    God’s Divine instructions (Part 1)

    Sep 6, 2025·38m
  42. 42

    If We Made It, You Can Too!!

    Sep 6, 2025·20m
  43. 43

    God’s Instructions (Part 2)

    Sep 6, 2025·40m
  44. 44

    Winning The Battle Of Offense

    Sep 6, 2025·27m
  45. 45

    Bind The Spirit Of Pride

    Sep 6, 2025·33m
  46. 46

    Bent Not Broken Communication

    Sep 6, 2025·32m
  47. 47

    Recover All The Devil Stole From Your Marriage

    Sep 6, 2025·45m
  48. 48

    Why is Marriage So Hard (Part 1)

    Jul 26, 2025·26m
  49. 49

    Why is Marriage So Hard (Part 2)

    Jul 26, 2025·30m
  50. 50

    One Flesh

    Jul 21, 2025·23m
  51. 51

    Couple Goals With My King

    A Christian marriage podcast episode where host Yvette Benton discusses couple goals with her husband, focusing on how to be and remain suitable help meets while exploring practical relationship objectives beyond just staying married.

    Jul 17, 2025·58m
  52. 52

    Quitting Is Not An Option

    Jul 17, 2025·25m
  53. 53

    Falling In Love Again

    Jun 27, 2025·25m
  54. 54

    Why Should I Stay In This Marriage?

    Jun 19, 2025·53m
  55. 55

    Lord my marriage is not working

    Jun 13, 2025·54m
  56. 56

    Working Through Disagreement

    Jun 5, 2025·33m
  57. 57

    Do You Know Your Role?

    Jun 5, 2025·47m
  58. 58

    Secrets to Staying Happily Married

    May 29, 2025·42m
  59. 59

    This Marriage Hurts (Part 2)

    May 29, 2025·34m
  60. 60

    Shut Down the Enemy Against the Marriage

    May 21, 2025·36m
  61. 61

    I Don't Want To Talk To My Spouse!

    May 15, 2025·30m
  62. 62

    Rebuilding Communication in Restoration

    May 15, 2025·27m
  63. 63

    This Marriage Hurts (Part 1)

    May 1, 2025·33m
  64. 64

    Overflow in Your Marriage

    May 1, 2025·30m
  65. 65

    I'm Getting Tired Oof Praying For My Spouse

    Apr 28, 2025·37m
  66. 66

    Hearing God Is One Thing Obeying God Is Another

    Apr 28, 2025·30m
  67. 67

    God Said it! But ... My Spouse Didn't Hear it

    Apr 17, 2025·31m
  68. 68

    Why should I stay in this marriage (part 1)

    Apr 16, 2025·53m
  69. 69

    Remember The Promises Of God

    Apr 14, 2025·27m
  70. 70

    I Will Surely Go

    Apr 10, 2025·40m
  71. 71

    Unconditional Love Means No Conditions (Part 2)

    Apr 3, 2025·32m
  72. 72

    Unconditional Love Means No Condition (Part 1)

    Apr 2, 2025·36m
  73. 73

    When I Wanted To Leave But God Said No

    Mar 31, 2025·1h 11m
  74. 74

    Learning To Like Each Other (Part 2)

    Mar 27, 2025·39m
  75. 75

    Learning To Like Each Other (Part 1)

    Mar 26, 2025·45m
  76. 76

    Praying For Strong Marriages

    Mar 20, 2025·55m
  77. 77

    What Are You Doing So Your Spouse Doesn't Get The Leftovers

    Mar 13, 2025·33m
  78. 78

    Speaking Life Into Your Marriage

    Mar 13, 2025·29m
  79. 79

    Reconciliation Is An Emotional Rollercoaster

    Mar 6, 2025·57m
  80. 80

    Building Trust In Marriage

    Mar 6, 2025·23m
  81. 81

    Stratagies To Hold On

    Mar 3, 2025·1h
  82. 82

    God's Plan Is Worth The Wait

    Feb 25, 2025·55m
  83. 83

    Lord Is My Shepherd

    Feb 24, 2025·45m
  84. 84

    Wow! Don't You See All I Do For You?

    Feb 24, 2025·33m
  85. 85

    The Power Of Intercession In Marriage

    Feb 13, 2025·37m
  86. 86

    Loving Your Spouse When You Don't Like Them

    Feb 12, 2025·1h 1m
  87. 87

    Can This Marriage Be Saved?

    Feb 6, 2025·1h 7m
  88. 88

    Dating In Marriage Pt2

    Feb 5, 2025·29m
  89. 89

    Dating In Marriage Pt1

    Jan 30, 2025·30m
  90. 90

    Overcoming Obstacles In Your Marriage

    Jan 29, 2025·39m
  91. 91

    Be Consistent

    Jan 23, 2025·32m
  92. 92

    Your Prayers Will Work

    Jan 23, 2025·32m
  93. 93

    Are You Helping Your Spouse Or Hurting Them?

    Jan 16, 2025·42m
  94. 94

    How Much Should I Sacrifice For This Marriage?

    Jan 15, 2025·1h 1m
  95. 95

    Be Angry But Sin Not

    Jan 9, 2025·39m
  96. 96

    Understanding Your Spouse's Gifts

    Jan 8, 2025·31m
  97. 97

    Dry Bones Arise

    Jan 6, 2025·54m
  98. 98

    Watch Your Words

    Jan 1, 2025·1h 6m
  99. 99

    Building Trust In Marriage

    Dec 26, 2024·27m
  100. 100

    Trusting God In The Wait

    Dec 18, 2024·28m
  101. 101

    Saving Marriages

    Dec 11, 2024·50m
  102. 102

    Marriage Effects The Children

    Dec 4, 2024·1h 1m
  103. 103

    Marriage Agreement

    Nov 20, 2024·50m
  104. 104

    Communicating Effectively With Your Spouse

    Nov 13, 2024·54m
  105. 105

    There Is A Time For Everything

    Oct 23, 2024·36m
  106. 106

    When You Want To Say No

    Oct 16, 2024·26m
  107. 107

    Submitting & Honoring In Hard Seasons

    Oct 9, 2024·54m
  108. 108

    Marriage Works! Interview with The Wilsons

    Oct 2, 2024·57m
  109. 109

    The Heart Of Reconciliation

    Oct 2, 2024·30m
  110. 110

    I Need Peace

    Sep 25, 2024·41m
  111. 111

    Married To A Strong Women Part 2

    Sep 16, 2024·1h 2m
  112. 112

    Married To A Strong Women Part 1

    Sep 16, 2024·1h 5m
  113. 113

    New Love

    Sep 11, 2024·30m
  114. 114

    Dealing With Separation

    Aug 28, 2024·56m
  115. 115

    Peace In The Midst Of A Conflict

    Aug 22, 2024·57m
  116. 116

    Is There Hope For This Marriage.

    Aug 14, 2024·44m
  117. 117

    Word Curses

    Aug 7, 2024·42m
  118. 118

    Doing it for God

    Jul 31, 2024·33m
  119. 119

    Getting past disappointment

    Dec 20, 2023·36m