Lori Metz talks LIFE: Love, Insight, Fertility, Experience

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From a first clinic visit to raising a donor-conceived child

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Lori Metz talks about fertility with people who work in the field. A fertility doctor explains first clinic visits, a registered dietitian covers food and weight, and social workers discuss clinic anxiety and parenting. Donor conception comes up from two sides: arranging a known donor, and raising a child conceived with donor help.

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'Lori Metz talks LIFE: Love, Insight, Fertility, Experience' is a conversation show about trying to conceive and the family questions that come once a child arrives. Lori Metz talks with one guest at a time. She says she has known some of them for a long while, and the talk is relaxed and familiar. The practical episodes work like an orientation for someone new to fertility care. Dr. Arielle Bayer of CCRM New York explains what a person should know when first walking into a clinic, from ovulation disorders to male-factor fertility. When the diagnosis is unexplained infertility, she keeps investigating: turn over every stone, look again with fresh eyes. Rena Gower, Director of Social Work at RMA of New York, is asked for the basics of the clinic experience itself: what to expect, how to cope, how to talk to the doctors. They settle on the word daunting. They also note that many people end up changing clinics. Registered dietitian Dara Godfrey, from RMA, comes back for a second session on how food affects fertility. That session points out that eating too little can matter as much as excess weight. Her method is gradual. She starts from current habits, looks at restaurant menus with the client and skips the full meal plan. Baby steps, in her words. Donor conception takes the show beyond the clinic. Justine Witzke, PhD, MPH, works with known donors, and she raises the questions people tend to skip at the start. How does a future partner fit in? What if the donor later has children of their own, who would be half siblings? Nobody will know the answers right away, she says, but the scenarios are worth thinking through. In 'More Than DNA', Brittany Kelly, an LCSW and the parent of a double donor-conceived child, talks about parenting. The conversation turns to donor-conceived people who learned of their origins late, and to parents who were once told to keep it quiet. They separate what belongs to the parent's story from what belongs to the child's. As one of them puts it, everybody takes their own path to the same place. Most conversations end the same way, with the guest's contact details and an invitation from Lori Metz to send questions or comments.

Made for: Suits a listener who is starting fertility treatment and wants plain explanations of clinics, diagnosis and nutrition. Also suits someone considering a known donor or raising a donor-conceived child.

What sets it apart: The guests include a fertility doctor and a dietitian alongside social workers and a parent of a donor-conceived child. That puts clinic basics and the long-term family questions of donor conception in the same show.

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Welcome to LIFE, bringing you insight and experiences into love, relationships and fertility, with a focus on enjoying life and moving forward. Hear a variety of experts from an array of backgrounds sharing their prospectives on topics that encompass the

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Lori Metz asks your nervous first-clinic questions and the harder ones about what makes a family.

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  • a fertility doctor to explain what your first clinic visit may involve
  • food advice that starts with your habits, not a fantasy meal plan
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More Than DNAMar 13, 2026

A clear, thoughtful episode on donor conception, parental history, and earning trust through openness.

Parenting a donor-conceived child means carrying adult history carefully, without handing that weight to the child. This episode keeps that distinction in view.

More Than DNAFeb 24, 2026

A warm, candid conversation about openness, belonging, and the emotional inheritance of donor conception.

Parenting after donor conception is handled here through Brittany Kelly's account of raising a double donor-conceived child. As both an LCSW social worker and a mother, Kelly brings personal and professional weight to a conversation that reaches into adoption, blended families,…

Building your family with a known donor, with Justine Witzke, PhD, MPHAug 13, 2025

A grounded look at the relationships, roles, and preparation behind known sperm donation.

Known sperm donation can seem simple at first, then get more complicated once real futures are involved. Laurie Metz and Justine Witzke look at the questions families may need to settle before moving ahead: how a donor understands their role, what might happen if that donor…

Fertility 101 with Dr. Arielle Bayer, MD, OBGYN, REJul 28, 2025

A calm first-visit orientation to fertility care, with particular care around unexplained infertility.

Fertility 101 gives the first fertility-clinic visit a calmer shape. The fertility doctor frames that initial appointment as a conversation first, then a way to understand what may be getting in the way and what care could look like next.

Nutrition 101 when Trying to Conceive with Dara Godfrey, MS, RDJul 7, 2025

A practical fertility conversation about food, realistic changes, and support without shame.

Weight and fertility are treated as everyday concerns in this practical conversation, with Lori Metz welcoming back registered dietitian Dara Godfrey for a second discussion on how food shapes life.

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Episodes

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    More Than DNA

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    Brittany Kelly, an LCSW and parent of a double donor-conceived child, talks with Lori Metz on Life, Love, Insight, Fertility Experiences about parenting, adoption, and disclosure.

    Mar 13, 2026·41m·4 clips
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    More Than DNA

    Hidden gem

    ["Brittany Kelly, an LCSW and parent of a double donor-conceived child, talks through a family life shaped by adoption, blended relatives, and donor conception.", "She connects that openness to painful adoption memories, including a baby returned to the birth mother and another pregnancy that ended in a stillbirth and funeral in Northern California.", "Her main advice is to keep a child's origin story separate from the parent's infertility grief, use privacy rather than secrecy, and let an eight-year-old choose what to disclose.", "Lori Metz closes by naming genetic grief, genetic bewilderment, and the lack of donor-conception research as reasons families have to build their own map with open communication."]

    Feb 24, 2026·41m·4 clips
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    Building your family with a known donor, with Justine Witzke, PhD, MPH

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    Justine Witzke, founder and CEO of Lineage Fertility in Midtown Manhattan, explains why known donor arrangements are different from ordering commercial sperm from a bank.

    Aug 13, 2025·29m·1 clip
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    Fertility 101 with Dr. Arielle Bayer, MD, OBGYN, RE

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    Lori Metz and Dr.

    Jul 28, 2025·25m·1 clip
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    Nutrition 101 when Trying to Conceive with Dara Godfrey, MS, RD

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    Lori Metz and Dara Godfrey, MS, RD, focus this episode on BMI, weight, and fertility at RMA of New York, starting with an ASRM statistic that more than 70% of women with weight-related infertility could conceive after reaching a healthier weight.

    Jul 7, 2025·39m·3 clips
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    Inside the Clinic: The Transition to Becoming an Intended Parent with Monica Benson, RN.

    Jun 11, 2025·16m
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    Legal Insights & Education: Donor Conception and Surrogacy for Intended Parents, with Jennifer Mass, ESQ

    Jun 11, 2025·34m
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    Male Infertility 101 with Dr. Lowell Ku, MD, RE

    Jun 11, 2025·13m
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    The Impact of Advocacy with Julie Eshelman, Founder of Building Military Families Network

    Dec 11, 2024·23m
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    All Things Donor Siblings with Hayley King, Recipient Parent and Donor-Conceived Adult

    Nov 19, 2024·37m
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    A Recipient Mom’s Perspective, Purpose, and Passion with Victoria Nino, Founder of Infertility Unfiltered

    Aug 29, 2024·30m
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    Donor Conception, from the medical perspective with Dr. Jesse Hade

    Jun 17, 2024·36m
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    PCOS Challenge with Sasha Ottey, MHA, MT (ASCP) Executive Director of PCOS Challenge: The National Polycystic Ovary Syndrome Association

    Apr 1, 2024·31m
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    Artificial Intelligence and Embryology with Alease Daniel Barnes, Senior Embryologist

    Feb 26, 2024·29m
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    Surrogacy - what you want to know with Lisa Stark Hughes, President of GSMoms & Host Moms Uganda, Officer & Education Chair of SEEDS (Society for Ethics is Egg Donation and Surrogacy)

    Aug 14, 2023·40m
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    The American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) with Jessie Losch, Government Affairs Manager

    Jul 9, 2023·22m
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    Sharon Leya, the author of the My Donor Storybook series, shares her inspiration and motivation for writing her series of 30 books.

    Jul 9, 2023·24m
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    IVF Babble, a resource for all those trying to conceive with founders Tracy Bambrough and Sara Marshall-Page

    Jun 1, 2023·41m
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    All things donor conception with Hayley King

    Mar 3, 2023·35m
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    Shelia Lamb, Author, Advocate. Share her fertility story and how she supports women on their fertility journeys.

    Jul 7, 2022·28m
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    Learn about Resolve’s National Advocacy Day, the Why, What, When, Where & How from this year’s Co-Chari Ryan C. Ferrante, Esq, specializing in Assistive Reproductive Technology Law.

    Apr 28, 2022·25m
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    Talking with your children about their donor-conception: A conversation with researchers Drs Patricia Hershberger & Kirby Adlam

    Feb 4, 2022·30m
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    The Fertility Clinic: The Experience Of Accessing Care With Rena Gower, LCSW

    Rena Gower, Director of Social Work at RMA of New York, discusses what to expect when accessing care at a fertility clinic and how to cope with the process.

    Dec 6, 2021·34m
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    GoStork with Eran Amir, Founder and Proud Father of Two

    Sep 2, 2021·29m
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    The Male Factor, Male Infertility—Part 2 with Dr. Lowell Ku, Reproductive Endocrinologist

    Dr.

    Aug 4, 2021·26m
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    Disparities in fertility treatment with Dr. Tia Jackson-Bey, Reproductive Endocrinologist

    Jul 21, 2021·28m
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    RESOLVE, The National Infertility Association with Barbara Collura, President and CEO

    May 25, 2021·30m
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    Resolve’s Federal Advocacy Day (AD) with Jesse Fiest, AD Committee Co-Chair

    May 19, 2021·20m
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    The COVID-19 Vaccine & Fertility—Part 2 with Dr. Serena H. Chen, MD, Director for the Division of Reproductive Medicine at IRMS

    Dr.

    Apr 28, 2021·38m
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    Solo parenthood with Mel Johnson, solo mom and coach

    Apr 22, 2021·31m
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    The Male Factor, Male Infertility with Dr. Lowell Ku, MD, Reproductive Endocrinologist, board certified in Reproductive Endocrinology and OBGY, the senior physician at Dallas IVF.

    Apr 9, 2021·28m
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    Integrative Healthcare, Conventional and Holistic Medicine to Optimize Your Health with Dr. Anna Barbieri, MD, OBGYN

    Mar 9, 2021·36m
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    Donor conception, the impact emotionally, and more with Dr. Lauren Berman, PHD, Founder of Fertility Psychology Center of Atlanta, American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM), Chair of the Mental Health Professional Group

    Dr.

    Feb 12, 2021·34m
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    Donor conception and the impact with Dr. Lauren Berman, PHD, Founder of Fertility Psychology Center of Atlanta, American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM), Chair of the Mental Health Professional Group

    Feb 12, 2021·34m
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    The COVID-19 Vaccine & Fertility with Dr. Serena Chen, MD, Director for the Division of Reproductive Medicine at IRMS

    Dr.

    Jan 22, 2021·31m
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    What Makes a Family with Susan Golombok, the Director of the Center for Family Research at Cambridge and author of "We Are Family, the Modern Transformation of Parents and Children"

    Dec 8, 2020·36m
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    Miscarriage; Three Women Share Their Journey

    Oct 8, 2020·33m
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    Miscarriage, The Fundamentals with Dr. Lora Shahine, MD, FACOG, Reproductive Endocrinologist, and Author

    Oct 6, 2020·32m
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    Miscarriage, The Fundamentals with Dr. Lora Shahine, MD, FACOG, Reproductive Endocrinologist, and Author of Not Broken

    Oct 6, 2020·32m
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    Happy Together Children’s Books with Julie Marie

    Sep 15, 2020·18m
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    Epigenetics and Parenting Through Third-Party Reproduction with Lisa Schuman, LCSW, Director of The Center for Family Building

    Jul 17, 2020·33m