In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

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In It is a practical, candid archive for families raising kids who learn and think differently. Across conversations with parents, caregivers, kids, and experts, it turns school struggles, morning chaos, confidence dips, and service questions into clearer next steps.

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About In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

In It is a family-centered podcast about raising kids whose brains do not always fit neatly into school systems, morning routines, or ordinary parenting scripts. It is calm, but not glossy. The show spends real time with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, executive function, confidence, therapy, and special education supports. Its strongest episodes begin with a familiar worry. A child cannot get out the door. A teacher says a struggling student is too smart for services. A kid says, "I'm stupid." A parent wonders whether therapy is needed, what a therapist actually does, and how caregivers fit into the process. From there, the conversations move toward practical language and next steps rather than easy reassurance. The archive balances expert explanation with parent reality. Dr. Kristen Carruthers talks about replacing vague frustration with specific coaching. Dr. Andy Kahn connects learning and thinking differences with risks like anxiety, depression, and behavior challenges when support is delayed. Cara Ball reframes STEM and STEAM as inquiry-based learning, not just memorizing answers and getting them right. Karis and Kevin bring the perspective of a teen with dyslexia and a family learning what that journey feels like from the inside. The show is also honest about the grown-up side of the work. Episodes touch on burnout, overwhelm, birthday-party dread, partner division of labor, and the need for a village around neurodivergent families. Its advice is not abstract. It lands in timers, transitions, eligibility criteria, classroom observations, therapy questions, and the words parents reach for when patience is already thin. The final episodes acknowledge that the show has ended, while pointing listeners back to a six-season archive that remains available through Understood.org. That gives In It the feel of a resource shelf rather than a news feed. Families can come to it when a specific problem appears, or when they simply need to hear that the hard parts have names. It suits listeners who want expertise, but also want someone to admit that the morning routine can be brutal. The show's lasting value is its mix of plainspoken compassion and concrete educational guidance.

Made for: Parents and caregivers of kids with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, executive function challenges, or other learning and thinking differences. It also fits teachers and family members who want practical context without clinical distance.

What sets it apart: In It pairs parent-level candor with expert explanation, moving from emotionally familiar problems to concrete tools, school language, and support options. Its six-season archive covers both the child's experience and the caregiver stress around it.

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Discover In It, a podcast that explores the joys and frustrations of supporting kids with learning disabilities and ADHD. Join hosts Rachel Bozek and Gretchen Vierstra as they talk with parents, caregivers, teachers, and sometimes kids. They offer perspective, advice, and stories for and from people who have challenges with reading, math, focus, and other learning differences. Get tips on parenting kids with learning disabilities like dyslexia.

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School says "too smart." Your kid says "I'm stupid." In It asks what you do next.

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  • to hear Rachel Bozek and Gretchen Wierstra ask what to say after "why can't you focus?"
  • a clearer way to question the "too smart" objection when you ask a school for support
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Introducing “Everyone Gets a Juice Box”Feb 12, 2026

A candid, grounded look at mom rage, burnout, and the slow work of widening a parent's window of tolerance.

Mom rage surfaces through a rushed car-seat moment, after a parent recalls sweating, crying, yelling, and kicking a small play kitchen once the children were buckled in and unable to see.

Building a village for neurodivergent families (with Jessica Shaw of the “Everyone Gets A Juice Box” podcast)Oct 23, 2025

A final In It conversation about the relief of finding parents who understand what school drop-off often leaves unsaid.

In It closes with community in view, as Gretchen Wierstra and Rachel Bozek talk with Jessica Shaw about Everyone Gets a Juice Box, Understood.org's podcast for parents raising neurodivergent kids.

When teachers say your child is “too smart” for special ed servicesOct 9, 2025

A practical guide to IEP barriers for children whose school struggles are easy to overlook.

When a child is struggling in school but the school says they are too smart for an IEP, the hard part can become proving why support is still needed.

How to make mornings easier for ADHD brainsSep 25, 2025

A clear, practical reframing of why ADHD can make mornings so hard to move through.

Morning routines make a sharp, everyday test case for ADHD executive functions here, as attention, task switching, working memory, organization, and time management all have to line up before the day has really started.

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    Introducing “Everyone Gets a Juice Box”

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    Gretchen introduces Understood's new podcast, "Everyone Gets a Juice Box," hosted by Jessica Shaw, and says Jessica is shifting her long journalism and podcast career toward parenting neurodivergent kids.

    Feb 12, 2026·31m·2 clips
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    Building a village for neurodivergent families (with Jessica Shaw of the “Everyone Gets A Juice Box” podcast)

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    The final episode of In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently centers on why Jessica Shaw is launching Everyone Gets A Juice Box, a new Understood.org show for parents of neurodivergent kids.

    Oct 23, 2025·31m·2 clips
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    When teachers say your child is “too smart” for special ed services

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    Gretchen Fierstra and Rachel Bozek talk with Danielle Ward, a parent advocate with Encompass Parent Solutions, about children who are told they are “way too smart” to qualify for an IEP.

    Oct 9, 2025·26m·1 clip
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    How to make mornings easier for ADHD brains

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    John Zeitlin, co-founder of Habit Coach and an ADHD coach in Palo Alto, says morning routines fail when kids have to manage seven or eight steps before school.

    Sep 25, 2025·24m·1 clip
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    When kids say “I’m stupid”: How to rebuild confidence and self-esteem

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    Gretchen Wierstra and Rachel Bozek talk with Dr.

    Sep 11, 2025·23m·1 clip
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    How a teen with dyslexia found her voice

    A 15-year-old girl with dyslexia and her father share her journey of diagnosis, self-discovery, and finding her voice through dance.

    Aug 28, 2025·20m
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    Child psychologist explains how kids' therapy works - and if your child needs it

    Hidden gem

    Andy Kahn recommends considering therapy when difficulties repeatedly prevent a child from attending school or managing everyday activities.

    Aug 14, 2025·33m·2 clips
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    From the archives: Back-to-school action plan

    Jul 31, 2025·20m
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    From the archives: Summer survival guide

    Jul 17, 2025·27m
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    Parenting Behavior: Is melatonin safe to give to kids?

    Jul 3, 2025·15m
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    From fidget to focus: Why movement matters for kids with ADHD

    Jun 19, 2025·31m
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    When your child is labeled the “bad kid”

    Jun 5, 2025·24m
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    Where do I start? Talking about sex to your kid with ADHD

    May 22, 2025·33m
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    Hyperfocus: Did my ADHD make me more likely to have postpartum depression?

    May 8, 2025·31m
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    Sorry not sorry: Why you shouldn’t apologize for your kid

    Apr 24, 2025·28m
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    Clean up this mess! Or don’t? Advice from an expert

    Apr 10, 2025·27m
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    Need help advocating for your kid at school? We talk to a pro

    Mar 27, 2025·27m
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    Parenting’s a lot. Especially when you’re a lot

    Mar 13, 2025·30m
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    Trouble with skill-building for ADHD? Here’s help

    Feb 27, 2025·27m
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    Have a struggling reader? Try these tips

    Feb 13, 2025·27m
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    Feeling socially isolated as a parent? You’re not alone

    Jan 30, 2025·14m
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    Signs of dyscalculia and other tips from a math expert

    Jan 16, 2025·24m
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    What were they thinking? An expert on teenage brains explains

    Jan 2, 2025·25m
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    Another lost sneaker? How to cover the unexpected costs of raising a kid

    Dec 19, 2024·26m
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    Candy or money as a reward? The answer might surprise you

    Dec 5, 2024·29m
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    Parental burnout? What to do before you lose it

    Nov 21, 2024·25m
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    Do parenting podcast hosts always take their own advice?

    Nov 7, 2024·19m
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    Is the news stressing your kids out? Tips for getting through it

    Oct 24, 2024·28m
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    ADHD and addiction: Knowledge is power

    Oct 10, 2024·29m
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    The “more” kids (from the “Good Inside with Dr. Becky” podcast)

    Sep 26, 2024·36m
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    Nonverbal learning disabilities in the national spotlight

    Sep 17, 2024·18m
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    Why kids with learning differences can thrive in STEM

    STEM expert Cara Ball debunks the myth that kids with learning differences can't excel in STEM, explaining the inquiry-based approach.

    Sep 12, 2024·26m
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    Hygiene battles: Tips from an ADHD expert

    Aug 29, 2024·25m
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    Back-to-school checklist: Everything but the books

    Aug 15, 2024·21m
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    Bedtime battles (from “Parenting Behavior” podcast)

    Aug 1, 2024·9m
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    Summertime and friendship

    Jul 18, 2024·14m
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    Stopping summer slide (from “The Opportunity Gap” podcast)

    Jul 4, 2024·21m
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    Let’s talk podcasts: Suggestions for kids with learning and thinking differences

    Jun 20, 2024·12m
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    Talking about neurodivergence and gender identity

    Jun 6, 2024·25m
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    An expert’s guide to summer screen time

    An expert offers guidance on managing children's screen time during summer break, addressing parental concerns about addiction, mental health, and device use.

    May 23, 2024·32m
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    Social media and parenting: How much is too much?

    May 9, 2024·17m
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    An attorney’s advice on special education disputes

    Apr 25, 2024·30m
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    Busting IEP myths with Understood Explains

    Apr 18, 2024·10m
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    Advocating for your special ed child

    Apr 11, 2024·24m
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    Olympian Michelle Carter talks ADHD and dyslexia

    Mar 28, 2024·29m
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    Bringing sensory differences into kids’ books with Lindsey Rowe Parker

    Children's book author Lindsey Rowe Parker discusses her new book about a girl with sensory differences and the importance of representation in children's literature.

    Mar 14, 2024·22m
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    All about language disorders

    Feb 29, 2024·26m
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    After the diagnosis: How kids feel about their learning and thinking differences

    Feb 15, 2024·30m
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    ADHD and siblings: Tips from an expert

    Feb 1, 2024·23m