Hey Curlfriend ™️

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Queer POC friendship with sharp edges.

The gist

Hey Curlfriend ™️ moves like a long voice note between close friends: music memories first, then whatever has been sitting heavy or hilarious that week. The show suits listeners who like queer POC perspective, blunt jokes, and conversations that can swing from buffet nostalgia to grief without sanding off the edges.

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About Hey Curlfriend ™️

Hey Curlfriend ™️ is built around the pleasure of overhearing friends who know each other’s timing. The episodes do not rush toward tidy conclusions. They wander through songs, jokes, private shorthand, weather, pet interruptions, old celebrity references, relationship memories, and the kind of social questions that stick around after the laugh. Music is often the ignition point. A lyric turns into talk about race and how people understand their own appearance. A celebrity moment gives way to a return after time away and a conversation about grief. A song opens the door to secrets, sexuality, old habits, and how much personal history friends keep for each other. The show is funny, but it is not afraid of emotional weather. It can sit with death, family pain, and the strange delay between knowing something happened and fully feeling it. It can also pivot, fast, into buffet strategy, sunscreen reminders, dating applications, or whether somebody is being loudly wrong on the internet. That elasticity is the point. Hey Curlfriend ™️ treats queer POC life as broad, ordinary, dramatic, silly, exhausted, flirtatious, and thoughtful all at once. Race and identity come up through lived examples rather than lecture format. Sex and relationships are handled with adult frankness, usually softened by teasing and mutual recognition. Pop culture functions like a shared archive, especially music references that carry memory as much as melody. The show’s rhythm is messy in a human way. Conversations overlap, detour, double back, and sometimes expose more than planned. That makes it feel less like produced commentary and more like a recurring check-in among people who trust the room. For listeners who prefer clean segments and formal interviews, the looseness may feel unruly. For listeners who want the texture of real friendship, that looseness is the draw. The strongest episodes leave the sense that identity, grief, desire, weather, food, and gossip are all part of the same week. Nothing has to become a thesis to matter.

Made for: For listeners who like candid queer POC conversation, music and pop-culture memory, adult relationship talk, and emotional honesty delivered through jokes. It especially suits people who prefer informal friend chemistry over polished interview structure.

What sets it apart: Hey Curlfriend ™️ stands out through its conversational elasticity: a song cue or throwaway joke can become a real exchange about race, grief, sex, misinformation, or self-perception. The show keeps its intimacy messy and specific rather than smoothing it into generic commentary.

In their own words

Hey Curlfriend is a weekly podcast brought to you by Tae and Charlie. They’re two queer POCs who got some shit to say! Daddy issues, relationship ups and downs, natural hair in the workplace, racism within the gay community (and in general), you name it. If it’s a wash day now would be the perfect time to listen to Hey Curlfriend.

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Karaoke cold opens set you up for candid turns through race, grief, porn, and dating.

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  • Facebook-as-news logic dismissed with exactly the ceremony it deserves
  • Tae and Charlie getting candid about passing, identity, and what the mirror cannot settle
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Episodes

  1. 1

    It Aint So Black & White

    Hey Curlfriend ™️'s It Aint So Black & White opens with Michael Jackson's Black or White and a joke about 'jam and toast,' then uses that setup to frame a race-and-identity conversation.

    May 16, 2025·1h 26m·5 clips
  2. 2

    Mas Preguntas

    Hidden gem

    Hey Curlfriend ™️'s "Mas Preguntas" turns into a long Ask Reddit-style conversation about dog ownership, dating standards, and relationship hypotheticals.

    May 8, 2025·1h 20m·5 clips
  3. 3

    What Had Happened Was

    Hidden gem

    Tay and Charlie return to Hey Curlfriend ™️ after several weeks away, and the break is tied directly to Tay's sister dying.

    May 2, 2025·1h 3m·4 clips
  4. 4

    Somebody Got Some Secrets

    Hidden gem

    Hey Curlfriend ™️ centers on the question “is it okay to keep secrets from your partner?” after an opening hypothetical about finding out a dead partner cheated.

    Apr 10, 2025·1h 16m·4 clips
  5. 5

    Break The Ice

    Mar 27, 2025·1h 25m
  6. 6

    Dont Run Away Now!

    Mar 20, 2025·1h 10m
  7. 7

    Gone But Not Forgotten

    Hidden gem

    Hey Curlfriend ™️ opens with NSYNC's "Gone," then jokes through Justin Timberlake, JC, Lance Bass, Chris, and Joey before landing on the line that Justin is "dead to us" because of Janet.

    Mar 13, 2025·1h 8m·5 clips
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    Children? In This Economy?

    Mar 6, 2025·1h 20m
  9. 9

    Getting Yall Caught Up

    Feb 27, 2025·1h 4m
  10. 10

    Girl Code

    Feb 13, 2025·1h 19m
  11. 11

    Thank You For Being A Friend

    Feb 6, 2025·1h 18m
  12. 12

    What Do You Need?

    Feb 1, 2025·1h 25m
  13. 13

    Dont Be Selfish

    Jan 16, 2025·1h 13m
  14. 14

    Certified Yappers

    Jan 9, 2025·1h 13m
  15. 15

    Bye 2024, Hello 2025

    Jan 1, 2025·1h 16m
  16. 16

    Happy Hoe-lidays

    Dec 27, 2024·56m
  17. 17

    We Cool But We Aint THAT Cool

    Dec 19, 2024·1h
  18. 18

    Love In All Its Forms

    Dec 11, 2024·1h 2m
  19. 19

    Fallin Out (For Good)

    Dec 5, 2024·1h 7m
  20. 20

    Its Giving Thanks

    Nov 28, 2024·1h 8m
  21. 21

    Doom & Gloom

    Nov 21, 2024·1h 6m
  22. 22

    Dating Matrix

    Nov 8, 2024·1h 11m
  23. 23

    Memory Lane Pt 3

    Oct 23, 2024·1h 19m
  24. 24

    Memory Lane Pt. 2

    Oct 17, 2024·1h 15m
  25. 25

    Memory Lane Pt. 1

    Two queer POC hosts discuss pop culture, personal experiences, and social issues in a casual, humorous conversation.

    Oct 10, 2024·1h 6m
  26. 26

    Barbie Girl

    Oct 3, 2024·55m
  27. 27

    Caucasian Overload

    Sep 26, 2024·58m
  28. 28

    Girl F**k Yolanda

    Sep 19, 2024·1h 6m
  29. 29

    We Gettin Old Yall

    Sep 12, 2024·1h 11m
  30. 30

    We Dont Ever Shutup

    Aug 29, 2024·59m
  31. 31

    Seriously Unserious

    Aug 22, 2024·1h 7m
  32. 32

    Pop Pop

    Aug 15, 2024·1h 15m
  33. 33

    Our Personal Hells

    Aug 1, 2024·1h 12m
  34. 34

    Blabbin At The Mouf

    Jul 25, 2024·1h 4m
  35. 35

    Yall Too Grown

    Jul 18, 2024·1h 7m
  36. 36

    Friends & Family

    Jul 11, 2024·1h 14m
  37. 37

    Petty Peaves pt. Fiftylevun

    Jul 3, 2024·1h 22m
  38. 38

    We Are(nt) All Beautiful

    Jun 27, 2024·1h 7m
  39. 39

    #ThatsSoGay

    Hosts chat about hot Chicago weather, dog care, and segue into personal anecdotes, setting a casual tone for discussing queer POC life.

    Jun 20, 2024·1h 3m
  40. 40

    Earth Is Ghetto

    Jun 13, 2024·1h 1m
  41. 41

    Right Person Wrong Time (Feat. Jada)

    Jun 6, 2024·1h 9m
  42. 42

    Its A Family Affair

    May 30, 2024·56m
  43. 43

    May Your Delulu Come Trulu

    May 23, 2024·43m
  44. 44

    What We Not Gone Do

    May 9, 2024·56m
  45. 45

    Just Talking Yet Again

    May 2, 2024·1h
  46. 46

    Give It To Me Straight (Feat. Dylan)

    Two queer POC hosts engage in casual banter before introducing a special NSFW episode with a guest.

    Apr 18, 2024·1h 10m
  47. 47

    Come One Come All

    The hosts sing a song and then welcome listeners back to their weekly podcast about queer POC life and issues.

    Apr 11, 2024·49m
  48. 48

    Whats Yo Flava? ft. Kobe

    Two queer POC hosts discuss attachment styles, pop culture, and personal experiences with humor and social commentary.

    Apr 4, 2024·1h 8m
  49. 49

    This Thing Called Life

    The hosts discuss a Tamar Braxton song and introduce their podcast about queer POC experiences.

    Mar 28, 2024·59m
  50. 50

    Lifestyle Livin

    Two queer POC hosts banter about their week and introduce their podcast's focus on personal and social issues.

    Mar 21, 2024·55m