
Queer POC friendship with sharp edges.
The gist
Hey Curlfriend ™️ moves like a long voice note between close friends: music memories first, then whatever has been sitting heavy or hilarious that week. The show suits listeners who like queer POC perspective, blunt jokes, and conversations that can swing from buffet nostalgia to grief without sanding off the edges.
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About Hey Curlfriend ™️
Hey Curlfriend ™️ is built around the pleasure of overhearing friends who know each other’s timing. The episodes do not rush toward tidy conclusions. They wander through songs, jokes, private shorthand, weather, pet interruptions, old celebrity references, relationship memories, and the kind of social questions that stick around after the laugh. Music is often the ignition point. A lyric turns into talk about race and how people understand their own appearance. A celebrity moment gives way to a return after time away and a conversation about grief. A song opens the door to secrets, sexuality, old habits, and how much personal history friends keep for each other. The show is funny, but it is not afraid of emotional weather. It can sit with death, family pain, and the strange delay between knowing something happened and fully feeling it. It can also pivot, fast, into buffet strategy, sunscreen reminders, dating applications, or whether somebody is being loudly wrong on the internet. That elasticity is the point. Hey Curlfriend ™️ treats queer POC life as broad, ordinary, dramatic, silly, exhausted, flirtatious, and thoughtful all at once. Race and identity come up through lived examples rather than lecture format. Sex and relationships are handled with adult frankness, usually softened by teasing and mutual recognition. Pop culture functions like a shared archive, especially music references that carry memory as much as melody. The show’s rhythm is messy in a human way. Conversations overlap, detour, double back, and sometimes expose more than planned. That makes it feel less like produced commentary and more like a recurring check-in among people who trust the room. For listeners who prefer clean segments and formal interviews, the looseness may feel unruly. For listeners who want the texture of real friendship, that looseness is the draw. The strongest episodes leave the sense that identity, grief, desire, weather, food, and gossip are all part of the same week. Nothing has to become a thesis to matter.
Made for: For listeners who like candid queer POC conversation, music and pop-culture memory, adult relationship talk, and emotional honesty delivered through jokes. It especially suits people who prefer informal friend chemistry over polished interview structure.
What sets it apart: Hey Curlfriend ™️ stands out through its conversational elasticity: a song cue or throwaway joke can become a real exchange about race, grief, sex, misinformation, or self-perception. The show keeps its intimacy messy and specific rather than smoothing it into generic commentary.
In their own words
Hey Curlfriend is a weekly podcast brought to you by Tae and Charlie. They’re two queer POCs who got some shit to say! Daddy issues, relationship ups and downs, natural hair in the workplace, racism within the gay community (and in general), you name it. If it’s a wash day now would be the perfect time to listen to Hey Curlfriend.
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- Tae and Charlie getting candid about passing, identity, and what the mirror cannot settle
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Episodes
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It Aint So Black & White
Hey Curlfriend ™️'s It Aint So Black & White opens with Michael Jackson's Black or White and a joke about 'jam and toast,' then uses that setup to frame a race-and-identity conversation.
May 16, 2025·1h 26m·5 clips - 2
Mas Preguntas
Hidden gemHey Curlfriend ™️'s "Mas Preguntas" turns into a long Ask Reddit-style conversation about dog ownership, dating standards, and relationship hypotheticals.
May 8, 2025·1h 20m·5 clips - 3
What Had Happened Was
Hidden gemTay and Charlie return to Hey Curlfriend ™️ after several weeks away, and the break is tied directly to Tay's sister dying.
May 2, 2025·1h 3m·4 clips - 4
Somebody Got Some Secrets
Hidden gemHey Curlfriend ™️ centers on the question “is it okay to keep secrets from your partner?” after an opening hypothetical about finding out a dead partner cheated.
Apr 10, 2025·1h 16m·4 clips - 5
Break The Ice
Mar 27, 2025·1h 25m - 6
Dont Run Away Now!
Mar 20, 2025·1h 10m - 7
Gone But Not Forgotten
Hidden gemHey Curlfriend ™️ opens with NSYNC's "Gone," then jokes through Justin Timberlake, JC, Lance Bass, Chris, and Joey before landing on the line that Justin is "dead to us" because of Janet.
Mar 13, 2025·1h 8m·5 clips - 8
Children? In This Economy?
Mar 6, 2025·1h 20m - 9
Getting Yall Caught Up
Feb 27, 2025·1h 4m - 10
Girl Code
Feb 13, 2025·1h 19m - 11
Thank You For Being A Friend
Feb 6, 2025·1h 18m - 12
What Do You Need?
Feb 1, 2025·1h 25m - 13
Dont Be Selfish
Jan 16, 2025·1h 13m - 14
Certified Yappers
Jan 9, 2025·1h 13m - 15
Bye 2024, Hello 2025
Jan 1, 2025·1h 16m - 16
Happy Hoe-lidays
Dec 27, 2024·56m - 17
We Cool But We Aint THAT Cool
Dec 19, 2024·1h - 18
Love In All Its Forms
Dec 11, 2024·1h 2m - 19
Fallin Out (For Good)
Dec 5, 2024·1h 7m - 20
Its Giving Thanks
Nov 28, 2024·1h 8m - 21
Doom & Gloom
Nov 21, 2024·1h 6m - 22
Dating Matrix
Nov 8, 2024·1h 11m - 23
Memory Lane Pt 3
Oct 23, 2024·1h 19m - 24
Memory Lane Pt. 2
Oct 17, 2024·1h 15m - 25
Memory Lane Pt. 1
Two queer POC hosts discuss pop culture, personal experiences, and social issues in a casual, humorous conversation.
Oct 10, 2024·1h 6m - 26
Barbie Girl
Oct 3, 2024·55m - 27
Caucasian Overload
Sep 26, 2024·58m - 28
Girl F**k Yolanda
Sep 19, 2024·1h 6m - 29
We Gettin Old Yall
Sep 12, 2024·1h 11m - 30
We Dont Ever Shutup
Aug 29, 2024·59m - 31
Seriously Unserious
Aug 22, 2024·1h 7m - 32
Pop Pop
Aug 15, 2024·1h 15m - 33
Our Personal Hells
Aug 1, 2024·1h 12m - 34
Blabbin At The Mouf
Jul 25, 2024·1h 4m - 35
Yall Too Grown
Jul 18, 2024·1h 7m - 36
Friends & Family
Jul 11, 2024·1h 14m - 37
Petty Peaves pt. Fiftylevun
Jul 3, 2024·1h 22m - 38
We Are(nt) All Beautiful
Jun 27, 2024·1h 7m - 39
#ThatsSoGay
Hosts chat about hot Chicago weather, dog care, and segue into personal anecdotes, setting a casual tone for discussing queer POC life.
Jun 20, 2024·1h 3m - 40
Earth Is Ghetto
Jun 13, 2024·1h 1m - 41
Right Person Wrong Time (Feat. Jada)
Jun 6, 2024·1h 9m - 42
Its A Family Affair
May 30, 2024·56m - 43
May Your Delulu Come Trulu
May 23, 2024·43m - 44
What We Not Gone Do
May 9, 2024·56m - 45
Just Talking Yet Again
May 2, 2024·1h - 46
Give It To Me Straight (Feat. Dylan)
Two queer POC hosts engage in casual banter before introducing a special NSFW episode with a guest.
Apr 18, 2024·1h 10m - 47
Come One Come All
The hosts sing a song and then welcome listeners back to their weekly podcast about queer POC life and issues.
Apr 11, 2024·49m - 48
Whats Yo Flava? ft. Kobe
Two queer POC hosts discuss attachment styles, pop culture, and personal experiences with humor and social commentary.
Apr 4, 2024·1h 8m - 49
This Thing Called Life
The hosts discuss a Tamar Braxton song and introduce their podcast about queer POC experiences.
Mar 28, 2024·59m - 50
Lifestyle Livin
Two queer POC hosts banter about their week and introduce their podcast's focus on personal and social issues.
Mar 21, 2024·55m