Feminist Wellness

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Somatic recovery with a feminist spine.

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Feminist Wellness treats anxiety, family triggers, work stress, and people-pleasing as body-level patterns, not personal defects. Bea Victoria Albina teaches listeners how to notice survival responses and build steadier access to choice, rest, boundaries, and interdependence.

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About Feminist Wellness

Feminist Wellness is a solo wellness and recovery show with a strong body-first thesis. Bea Victoria Albina treats codependency, perfectionism, people-pleasing, anxiety, family obligation, and chronic patterns as learned nervous-system patterns. The show is not detached. It is warm, insistent, and often funny in the middle of serious material. Episodes move quickly, but they keep returning to the same practical question: what can a person actually do when the body has already decided that conflict, rest, anger, or need is unsafe? A question about moving home to care for aging family becomes a lesson in staying internally present while old systems pull hard. A lesson on self-resourcing becomes a critique of the fantasy that mature people need nobody. Rest becomes a capacity problem, not a character flaw. Anger becomes information that may have been suppressed for a long time. The show is especially interested in the tiny intervention. Feet on the floor. One slow exhale. A small turn of the head. A hand on the chest, belly, thigh, or wherever contact feels okay. These are not presented as decorative mindfulness tips, but as ways to give the nervous system evidence that choice still exists. Feminist Wellness also keeps a political and cultural frame in view. It challenges bootstrap thinking, emotional shrinking, wellness isolation, and the idea that toughness is the same as capacity. Episodes about public grief and political reality ask how a person can stay caring without getting stuck at either numbness or overwhelm. The recurring Tenderoni Hotline format brings listener questions into the center, including anger, ADHD in mindfulness, paradoxical reactions, and workplace people-pleasing. The result is a show for people who want language for what happens inside them before they can explain it. It is tender without being vague, direct without becoming cold, and practical without pretending that a hard family lunch or a frightening news cycle can be solved by positive thinking.

Made for: For listeners working through codependency, perfectionism, people-pleasing, family triggers, unsafe-feeling rest, suppressed anger, or nervous-system shutdown. It especially suits people who want emotionally warm teaching with concrete body-based practices.

What sets it apart: The show links feminist critique to somatic micro-practices, making social conditioning and nervous-system survival feel part of the same map. Its strength is the move from big concepts to tiny, usable moments of choice.

In their own words

You weren't born anxious, depleted, and second-guessing yourself. You were taught to be.The Feminist Wellness podcast is where nervous system science meets the truth nobody wants to say out loud: most of what you think is "self-care" is just performing wellness while your body stays stuck in survival mode.Host Béa Victoria Albina - NP, life coach, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner - breaks down the codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits that keep you trapped in what she calls Emotional Outsourcing™: constantly looking outside yourself for permission, validation, and proof that you're enough.This isn't another show about bubble baths and boundaries. It's about understandin…

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Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026

It turns freeze responses, suppressed anger, and people-pleasing into recognizable nervous-system patterns paired with practical ways to regain choice.

Feminist Wellness makes the body's confusing reactions easier to recognize before turning toward change. In a solo teaching format, Bea Victoria Albina connects freezing, delayed emotional awareness, anger, people-pleasing, and difficulty tolerating conflict to patterns in the…

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A staticky brain in conflict gets a name here, and your blank moment gets room to breathe.

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  • Bea Victoria Albina to explain why your feelings sometimes arrive hours after the conversation
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Self-Resourcing: The Path to True Interdependence (Part 2)Apr 16, 2026

A steady, practical look at how self-resourcing can support more genuine connection.

Bea Victoria Albina turns self-resourcing into a practical way back toward interdependence, questioning the idea that maturity means never needing anyone.

What to Do When Family Triggers Old PatternsApr 14, 2026

A three-second practice for staying present when family caregiving pulls old codependent patterns back into the room.

Family caregiving is where nervous-system work meets the family system around codependency. Feminist Wellness takes a question about moving home to care for aging family and keeps the answer usefully physical: feet on the floor, one slow exhale, a slight turn of the head, or a…

Self-Resourcing: What It Is & Why It’s Key to Healing Emotional Outsourcing (Part 1)Apr 9, 2026

A grounded guide to meeting activation with bodily anchors, internal orientation, and the occasional hummingbird.

Self-resourcing gets a clear, tactile treatment in Feminist Wellness, as Bea Victoria Albina connects the blank, staticky feeling that can surface in conflict with a freeze response, then follows the nervous system toward steadier ground.

Paradoxical Nervous System Reactions + ADHD in MindfulnessMar 24, 2026

A grounded look at why the body can register unease before emotional clarity catches up.

Feminist Wellness takes a familiar mismatch, laughing, zoning out, going sleepy, or feeling blank in a tense moment, and treats it as a nervous-system pattern rather than a personal failing.

Caring for the Long Haul: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 4)Mar 19, 2026

A grounded somatic guide to meeting political grief, action, and rest without getting stuck in overwhelm.

Feminist Wellness frames a frayed political moment as something the body has to meet, not simply endure. Bea Victoria Albina rejects sheer toughness and moves instead toward orienting: feet on the floor, a room or window noticed, a hand on the body, and the phrase "I am safe…

How to Release Suppressed Anger + Stop People-Pleasing at Work

A steady, body-based guide to meeting suppressed anger in small steps.

Suppressed anger is framed here as something the body learned to hold, not as a character flaw. Bea Victoria Albina guides the work through small, physical steps: noticing where the charge lives, breathing with it, using an audible exhale, humming or making a low sound, moving…

Pet Names That Trigger

A warm case for pet names as feminist, somatic care rooted in safety and worthiness.

Feminist Wellness treats pet names as more than verbal softness, using them to open a question about safety, worthiness, and feminist care. Bea Victoria Albina makes the case that words like "sweetheart" and "dear one" can remind a listener that love does not have to be earned,…

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Pre-Holiday Prep for Your Nervous System

    ·19m
  2. 2

    Why Boundaries Feel So Hard + Why You Keep Procrastinating

    ·16m
  3. 3

    Self-Resourcing: What It Is & Why It’s Key to Healing Emotional Outsourcing (Part 1)

    ·25m
  4. 4

    Why You Get Triggered When Someone Says “Calm Down” + Why Your Body Feels Sick Before a Call

    ·17m
  5. 5

    Reclaim Rest: How to Rest When It Feels Unsafe (Part 2)

    ·29m
  6. 6

    Emotional Outsourcing in Relationships: When Both People Do It + Reaching For Food After Healing

    ·18m
  7. 7

    Reclaim Rest: The Link Between Rest and Emotional Outsourcing (Part 1)

    ·17m
  8. 8

    Paradoxical Nervous System Reactions + ADHD in Mindfulness

    ·31m
  9. 9

    Caring for the Long Haul: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 4)

    ·22m
  10. 10

    Grief Over Losing Objects + Injustice In The Workspace

    ·14m
  11. 11

    Reclaim Your Political Energy: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 3)

    ·15m
  12. 12

    How to Stop People Pleasing Habits + Nervous System Healing for CPTSD

    ·17m
  13. 13

    Channeling Rage for Liberation: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 2)

    ·23m
  14. 14

    Grounding vs. Orienting: What to Do When a Space Isn’t Actually Safe + Why High-Achieving Folks Still Seek Approval

    ·22m
  15. 15

    Unfreeze for Collective Liberation: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 1)

    ·28m
  16. 16

    Are Emotions Really Stored in the Hips?

    ·21m
  17. 17

    How Projection Is Quietly Destroying Your Relationships (And What to Do About It)

    ·21m
  18. 18

    From Emotional Outsourcing to Embodied Healing: Rose’s Anchored Journey

    ·32m
  19. 19

    A Life with Default “Sorry”

    ·21m
  20. 20

    How to Respond When Someone Ignores Your Boundaries + Why Crying Is Good for Your Nervous System

    ·18m
  21. 21

    Anchored: Healing Emotional Outsourcing in Community with Susan Klunder

    ·35m
  22. 22

    Are You Ready for Real Love If You're Still Healing + Why focusing on yourself is not selfishness

    ·14m
  23. 23

    Emotional Outsourcing: What It Is, Why It Formed, and Why It’s So Hard to Change

    ·35m
  24. 24

    From Overfunctioning to Freedom: Healing in Anchored with Busayo Ayodele

    ·31m
  25. 25

    Why Nervous System Healing Isn’t Meant to Be Done Alone

    ·23m
  26. 26

    Why does healing emotional outsourcing matter + How to actually make space for rest

    ·21m
  27. 27

    Join Nervous System Healing to End Codependency!

    ·6m
  28. 28

    You Don’t Need Trauma to Have Codependent, Perfectionist, or People-Pleasing Habits

    ·20m
  29. 29

    Join Somatics to Reclaim Your Authentic Self!

    ·5m
  30. 30

    Why You Feel Off After Talking to Your Mom + Why You Pull Your Hair Without Realizing + Why You Can’t Stay Present

    ·16m
  31. 31

    Values-Based Living: The Alternative to New Year’s Resolutions

    ·30m
  32. 32

    My New Year's Wish For You

    ·6m
  33. 33

    The Best of Feminist Wellness: Emotional Liberation, Somatic Wisdom, and Collective Care

    ·27m
  34. 34

    The Truth About Perimenopause No One Told You With Mariza Snyder

    ·58m
  35. 35

    Returning to Ritual: Reclaiming Ourselves on the Winter Solstice

    ·25m
  36. 36

    Why Saying No Feels So Hard + Why You Overexplain + How to Protect Your Energy This Holiday Season

    ·18m
  37. 37

    Questions Not to Ask at the Holiday Table

    ·29m
  38. 38

    Unlearn the Good Girl Script: A Tool for Taking Up Space with Sara Fisk

    ·39m
  39. 39

    Burnout and Chronic Self-Abandonment

    ·18m
  40. 40

    Why Do I Over-Apologize + Why Does My Body Twitch Out of Nowhere? Explained

    ·17m
  41. 41

    The Third Arrow: When Self-Shame Makes Everything Worse

    ·25m
  42. 42

    From Self-Abandonment to Self-Love: Ending Emotional Outsourcing with Mary Jelkovsky

    ·49m
  43. 43

    Why You Keep Wanting Closure from Your Ex + Why You Constantly Ask for Reassurance in Your Relationship

    ·14m
  44. 44

    Why We Celebrate Our Emotional Outsourcing Habits

    ·22m
  45. 45

    How to Recognize and Release the Grip of Overfunctioning

    ·23m
  46. 46

    Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): What It Is, How to Recognize It, and What Actually Helps

    ·25m
  47. 47

    Your ‘No’ Is Final: Stop the Boundary-Pushers

    ·26m
  48. 48

    Why People Get Defensive About Your Feelings + What Emotional Outsourcing Really Means

    ·22m
  49. 49

    Emotionally Immature Partners Part 1

    ·17m
  50. 50

    Why You Freeze When Asked What You Need + How to Say No Without Feeling Guilt

    ·15m
  51. 51

    Healing Unmet Needs and Attachment Patterns

    ·24m
  52. 52

    Nervous System Regulation Tips + How to Stop Losing Yourself in Others’ Needs

    ·18m
  53. 53

    The Cost of Emotional Outsourcing

    ·21m
  54. 54

    Today Is the Day: End Emotional Outsourcing Is Here!

    ·9m
  55. 55

    Why I Wrote My Book

    ·25m
  56. 56

    Your Invitation: Tacos, Connection, and a Big Thank You

    ·2m
  57. 57

    The Thing You Do That You Don't Even Know You Do: The Book Series #8

    ·11m
  58. 58

    Sneak Peek: Chapter One of End Emotional Outsourcing (Out Sept 30!)

    ·46m
  59. 59

    The Resentment Equation: A Deep Dive Into Emotional Labor Debt

    ·17m
  60. 60

    You Don't Have to Earn Your Worth Anymore: The Book Series #7

    ·14m
  61. 61

    The 2AM Mental Hamster Wheel: The Book Series #6

    ·12m
  62. 62

    Why I Don’t Use the Term “Codependency"

    ·21m
  63. 63

    Don't Miss Out: Get 25% Off Your Emotional Outsourcing Pre-Order!

    ·1m
  64. 64

    Did I Make It All Up or Am I Actually Hurt?: The Book Series #5

    ·11m
  65. 65

    Your Brilliant Nervous System: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing

    ·35m
  66. 66

    You're Not Loving Them, You're Managing Them: The Book Series #4

    ·14m
  67. 67

    Recognizing Functional Freeze: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing

    ·45m
  68. 68

    You're Not Too Much. You're Not Not Enough.: The Book Series #3

    ·11m
  69. 69

    Stop Hating Who You Used to Be: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing

    ·28m
  70. 70

    You Can Stop Performing. Really.: The Book Series #2

    ·6m
  71. 71

    Is Shame Running Your Life?: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing

    ·25m
  72. 72

    You Were Never Meant to Live for Everyone Else: The Book Series #1

    ·9m
  73. 73

    It’s My Birthday, but the Presents Are for You 🎁

    ·2m
  74. 74

    Money is Emotional: The Link Between Finances and Well-Being with Aja Evans

    ·37m
  75. 75

    My book, End Emotional Outsourcing, is available for pre-order!

    ·4m
  76. 76

    Why We're Lonely: Unpacking Modern Friendship Dynamics with Anna Goldfarb

    ·43m
  77. 77

    Human Design Made Simple: Decode Your Authentic Self with Emma Dunwoody

    ·40m
  78. 78

    Break Free from Your Gilded Cage with Keren Eldad

    ·39m
  79. 79

    “No One Is Coming to Save You” Is Baloney

    ·22m
  80. 80

    You Don’t Need a Crisis to Grow

    ·13m
  81. 81

    Getting Anchored with Busayo Ayodele

    ·55m
  82. 82

    The Real Reasons You're Not Joining (And Why They're Exactly Why You Should)

    ·24m
  83. 83

    Emotional Outsourcing 101

    ·31m
  84. 84

    Getting Anchored with Carey Cramer

    ·50m
  85. 85

    Knowing What You Want vs. What Others Expect

    ·24m
  86. 86

    Find the Path Back to YOU

    ·3m
  87. 87

    The Secret to Sustainable Change

    ·1m
  88. 88

    327: Consent and Requests in Conversation

    ·19m
  89. 89

    Stress Reduction That Works: Somatic Regulation Tools

    ·1m
  90. 90

    326: Doing the Opposite: How Childhood Pain Shapes the Patterns We Can’t See

    ·24m
  91. 91

    Why Self-Trust Feels Out of Reach (& How to Rebuild It)

    ·2m
  92. 92

    325: The Antidote to Emotional Outsourcing with Abbie Attwood

    ·53m
  93. 93

    Stuck in Indecision & People-Pleasing? Break Free THIS WEEK!

    ·1m
  94. 94

    324: Getting Anchored with Paula Greenwood

    ·35m
  95. 95

    How to Shift Your Nervous System to Get UNSTUCK!

    ·3m
  96. 96

    How to Release Suppressed Anger + Stop People-Pleasing at Work

    Host Bea Victoria Albina answers two listener questions on the Feminist Wellness podcast.

    ·21m·2 clips
  97. 97

    Who Are You Without Emotional Outsourcing Habits?

    This episode introduces the concept of emotional outsourcing and encourages listeners to leave reviews for the host's new book.

    ·36m
  98. 98

    Breaking Free from People-Pleasing Habits: Monica Silva’s Journey with Anchored

    Bea Victoria Albina interviews Monica Silva about her experience overcoming people-pleasing and codependency through the Anchored program.

    ·30m
  99. 99

    Pet Names That Trigger

    Host Béa Victoria Albina addresses listener discomfort with her use of pet names like 'my tender ravioli' on her podcast and in her new book 'End Emotional Outsourcing.' She explains that such tenderness can trigger nervous systems conditioned on conditional love or emotional scarcity.

    ·20m·1 clip
  100. 100

    Healing from Emotionally Immature Partners Part 2

    ·25m
  101. 101

    My Book Is Here in Paperback: Why I Wrote End Emotional Outsourcing

    Oct 1, 2026·25m
  102. 102

    Why Boundaries Feel So Hard + Why You Keep Procrastinating

    Sep 29, 2026·13m
  103. 103

    Catharsis Is Cute. Integration Changes Your Life.

    Sep 24, 2026·22m
  104. 104

    Nervous System Regulation Tips + How to Stop Losing Yourself in Others’ Needs

    Sep 22, 2026·17m
  105. 105

    How to Stop Running From Your Feelings

    Sep 17, 2026·33m
  106. 106

    Why You Get Triggered When Someone Says “Calm Down” + Why Your Body Feels Sick Before a Call

    Sep 15, 2026·19m
  107. 107

    Suffering: The Second Arrow You Don’t Have to Shoot

    Sep 10, 2026·28m
  108. 108

    Why People Get Defensive About Your Feelings + What Emotional Outsourcing Really Means

    Sep 8, 2026·23m
  109. 109

    Self-Compassion: How to Stop Beating Up Your Past Self

    Sep 3, 2026·27m
  110. 110

    What To Do If Someone Ignores Your Boundary + How To Get Out Of The Victim Mindset

    Sep 1, 2026·27m
  111. 111

    People Pleasing: What Keeping Others Happy Costs You

    Aug 27, 2026·33m
  112. 112

    How to Stop People Pleasing Habits + Nervous System Healing for CPTSD

    Aug 25, 2026·18m
  113. 113

    Ritual vs. Routine: Why Meaning Matters More Than Productivity

    Aug 20, 2026·24m
  114. 114

    How to Stop Self-Abandoning Without Becoming a Jerk

    Aug 13, 2026·32m
  115. 115

    Are You Ready for Real Love If You're Still Healing + Why focusing on yourself is not selfishness

    Aug 11, 2026·14m
  116. 116

    When Helping Hurts: Codependent Habits in the Healing Professions

    Aug 6, 2026·24m
  117. 117

    Failure Is Your Best Friend: How to Learn, Grow, and Keep Going

    Jul 30, 2026·32m
  118. 118

    Why You Feel Off After Talking to Your Mom + Why You Pull Your Hair Without Realizing + Why You Can’t Stay Present

    Jul 28, 2026·16m
  119. 119

    A Guide to Healthier Self-Talk & the Power of Your Mind

    Jul 23, 2026·41m
  120. 120

    Perfectionism: From A+ Pressure to B+ Energy

    Jul 16, 2026·32m
  121. 121

    The Hidden Link Between Chronic Pain, Trauma & People Pleasing with Nicole Sachs

    Jul 14, 2026·51m
  122. 122

    Wants and Needs: How to Know What Matters Most to You

    Jul 9, 2026·26m
  123. 123

    The Shifting Sands of Confidence

    Jul 2, 2026·23m
  124. 124

    Why You Keep Wanting Closure from Your Ex + Why You Constantly Ask for Reassurance in Your Relationship

    Jun 30, 2026·15m
  125. 125

    The Truth About Nervous System Reset

    Jun 25, 2026·21m
  126. 126

    Role Confusion: The Overwhelm You Didn't Know You Signed Up For

    Jun 18, 2026·18m
  127. 127

    Why I Call You “My Love” (And Why I'm Not Stopping)

    Jun 16, 2026·24m
  128. 128

    Self-Compassion: Radical Kindness for Your Nervous System

    Jun 11, 2026·32m
  129. 129

    The People-Pleasing Trap: Keeping Everyone Happy but You

    Jun 4, 2026·21m
  130. 130

    The Hidden Connection Between Food & Nervous System Healing with Ali Shapiro

    Jun 2, 2026·42m
  131. 131

    How to Know If You’re Ready for Coaching and Real Change

    May 28, 2026·35m
  132. 132

    How Do You Deal With Someone Who Always Plays the Victim?

    May 26, 2026·34m
  133. 133

    How to Apologize Without Shame, Blame, or Guilt

    May 21, 2026·37m
  134. 134

    Why Am I Always in Fight Mode? + Learning to Love Safely After Trauma

    May 19, 2026·20m
  135. 135

    Anger Catharsis BS: Why Your Rage Room Visit Isn't Healing You

    May 14, 2026·28m
  136. 136

    What Somatic Work Did to Our Anxiety, Boundaries & Self-Worth

    May 12, 2026·47m
  137. 137

    The Story of Overwhelm

    May 7, 2026·20m
  138. 138

    How to Release Suppressed Anger + Stop People-Pleasing at Work

    May 5, 2026·21m
  139. 139

    How to Assess if Your Relationships Truly Serve You

    Apr 30, 2026·30m
  140. 140

    Emotional Guardedness Explained + How to Feel Safe Without Safe People

    Apr 28, 2026·19m
  141. 141

    Reclaim Rest: The 5 Hidden Types of Rest You Need (Part 3)

    Apr 23, 2026·34m
  142. 142

    Can You Be Codependent Without Trauma? + Why Noise Triggers Your Nervous System

    Apr 21, 2026·27m
  143. 143

    Self-Resourcing: The Path to True Interdependence (Part 2)

    Hidden gem

    Bea Victoria Albina explores the concept of self-resourcing as a path to true interdependence, addressing the fear that it leads to isolation.

    Apr 16, 2026·18m·1 clip
  144. 144

    What to Do When Family Triggers Old Patterns

    Hidden gem

    Bea Victoria Albina addresses a listener's question about maintaining nervous system regulation and boundaries when returning to a family environment that originally fostered codependency.

    Apr 14, 2026·18m·1 clip
  145. 145

    Self-Resourcing: What It Is & Why It’s Key to Healing Emotional Outsourcing (Part 1)

    Hidden gem

    Bea Victoria Albina introduces the concept of self-resourcing and addresses the fear that focusing on self-care leads to isolation, promising to explain how it actually fosters closeness.

    Apr 9, 2026·25m·1 clip
  146. 146

    Why You Get Triggered When Someone Says “Calm Down” + Why Your Body Feels Sick Before a Call

    A nurse practitioner and life coach explains why being told to 'calm down' triggers anger, linking it to a history of being told your emotions are too much.

    Apr 7, 2026·17m
  147. 147

    Reclaim Rest: How to Rest When It Feels Unsafe (Part 2)

    Beatrice Albina addresses listeners' questions about how to actually rest when their nervous system perceives stillness as a threat, building on the previous episode's explanation of why rest feels unsafe.

    Apr 2, 2026·29m
  148. 148

    Emotional Outsourcing in Relationships: When Both People Do It + Reaching For Food After Healing

    Mar 31, 2026·18m
  149. 149

    Reclaim Rest: The Link Between Rest and Emotional Outsourcing (Part 1)

    Mar 26, 2026·17m
  150. 150

    Paradoxical Nervous System Reactions + ADHD in Mindfulness

    Hidden gem

    Bea Victoria Albina opens Feminist Wellness with two listener questions: paradoxical nervous system reactions and delayed emotional clarity.

    Mar 24, 2026·31m·2 clips
  151. 151

    Caring for the Long Haul: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 4)

    Hidden gem

    Bea Victoria Albina uses Feminist Wellness to close a political series on "the long haul," arguing that month four, year two, and decade two require nervous-system care.

    Mar 19, 2026·22m·1 clip
  152. 152

    Grief Over Losing Objects + Injustice In The Workspace

    Mar 17, 2026·14m
  153. 153

    Reclaim Your Political Energy: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 3)

    Mar 12, 2026·15m
  154. 154

    How to Stop People Pleasing Habits + Nervous System Healing for CPTSD

    Mar 10, 2026·17m
  155. 155

    Channeling Rage for Liberation: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 2)

    Mar 5, 2026·23m
  156. 156

    Grounding vs. Orienting: What to Do When a Space Isn’t Actually Safe + Why High-Achieving Folks Still Seek Approval

    Mar 3, 2026·22m
  157. 157

    Unfreeze for Collective Liberation: End Emotional Outsourcing to Live Your Values (Part 1)

    Feb 26, 2026·28m
  158. 158

    Are Emotions Really Stored in the Hips?

    Feb 24, 2026·21m
  159. 159

    How Projection Is Quietly Destroying Your Relationships (And What to Do About It)

    Feb 19, 2026·21m
  160. 160

    From Emotional Outsourcing to Embodied Healing: Rose’s Anchored Journey

    Feb 17, 2026·32m
  161. 161

    A Life with Default “Sorry”

    Feb 12, 2026·21m
  162. 162

    How to Respond When Someone Ignores Your Boundaries + Why Crying Is Good for Your Nervous System

    Feb 10, 2026·18m
  163. 163

    Anchored: Healing Emotional Outsourcing in Community with Susan Klunder

    Feb 5, 2026·35m
  164. 164

    Are You Ready for Real Love If You're Still Healing + Why focusing on yourself is not selfishness

    Feb 3, 2026·14m
  165. 165

    Emotional Outsourcing: What It Is, Why It Formed, and Why It’s So Hard to Change

    Jan 29, 2026·35m
  166. 166

    From Overfunctioning to Freedom: Healing in Anchored with Busayo Ayodele

    Jan 27, 2026·31m
  167. 167

    Why Nervous System Healing Isn’t Meant to Be Done Alone

    Jan 22, 2026·23m
  168. 168

    Why does healing emotional outsourcing matter + How to actually make space for rest

    Jan 20, 2026·21m
  169. 169

    Join Nervous System Healing to End Codependency!

    Jan 19, 2026·6m
  170. 170

    You Don’t Need Trauma to Have Codependent, Perfectionist, or People-Pleasing Habits

    Jan 15, 2026·20m
  171. 171

    Breaking Free from People-Pleasing Habits: Monica Silva’s Journey with Anchored

    Jan 13, 2026·30m
  172. 172

    Who Are You Without Emotional Outsourcing Habits?

    Jan 8, 2026·36m
  173. 173

    Join Somatics to Reclaim Your Authentic Self!

    Jan 7, 2026·5m
  174. 174

    Why You Feel Off After Talking to Your Mom + Why You Pull Your Hair Without Realizing + Why You Can’t Stay Present

    Jan 6, 2026·16m
  175. 175

    Values-Based Living: The Alternative to New Year’s Resolutions

    Jan 1, 2026·30m
  176. 176

    My New Year's Wish For You

    Dec 30, 2025·6m
  177. 177

    The Best of Feminist Wellness: Emotional Liberation, Somatic Wisdom, and Collective Care

    Dec 25, 2025·27m
  178. 178

    The Truth About Perimenopause No One Told You With Mariza Snyder

    Dec 23, 2025·58m
  179. 179

    Returning to Ritual: Reclaiming Ourselves on the Winter Solstice

    Dec 18, 2025·25m
  180. 180

    Why Saying No Feels So Hard + Why You Overexplain + How to Protect Your Energy This Holiday Season

    Dec 16, 2025·18m
  181. 181

    Questions Not to Ask at the Holiday Table

    Dec 11, 2025·29m
  182. 182

    Unlearn the Good Girl Script: A Tool for Taking Up Space with Sara Fisk

    Dec 9, 2025·39m
  183. 183

    Burnout and Chronic Self-Abandonment

    Dec 4, 2025·18m
  184. 184

    Why Do I Over-Apologize + Why Does My Body Twitch Out of Nowhere? Explained

    Dec 2, 2025·17m
  185. 185

    The Third Arrow: When Self-Shame Makes Everything Worse

    Nov 27, 2025·25m
  186. 186

    From Self-Abandonment to Self-Love: Ending Emotional Outsourcing with Mary Jelkovsky

    Nov 24, 2025·49m
  187. 187

    Pre-Holiday Prep for Your Nervous System

    Nov 20, 2025·19m
  188. 188

    Why You Keep Wanting Closure from Your Ex + Why You Constantly Ask for Reassurance in Your Relationship

    Nov 17, 2025·14m
  189. 189

    Why We Celebrate Our Emotional Outsourcing Habits

    Nov 13, 2025·22m
  190. 190

    How to Release Suppressed Anger + Stop People-Pleasing at Work

    Bea Victoria Albina answers a listener's question about releasing a lifetime of suppressed anger and stopping people-pleasing at work using somatics and nervous system tools.

    Nov 11, 2025·21m
  191. 191

    How to Recognize and Release the Grip of Overfunctioning

    Bea Victoria Albina explains how to recognize and release the pattern of overfunctioning, where you feel responsible for managing others' feelings and fixing problems.

    Nov 6, 2025·23m
  192. 192

    Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): What It Is, How to Recognize It, and What Actually Helps

    Nurse practitioner and life coach Bea Victoria Albina introduces seasonal affective disorder, its recognition, and helpful strategies on the Feminist Wellness podcast.

    Nov 4, 2025·25m
  193. 193

    323: Relationship Magical Realism

    Apr 24, 2025·24m
  194. 194

    Why You’re Stuck (And How to Set Yourself Free)

    Apr 17, 2025·1m
  195. 195

    322: Why You Keep Fighting the Same Fights (And How to Actually Shift Them)

    Apr 17, 2025·22m
  196. 196

    321: What Is Embodiment?

    Apr 10, 2025·22m
  197. 197

    320: What’s Wrong with “Wellness”

    Apr 3, 2025·24m
  198. 198

    319: Getting Anchored with Dr. Ashley Albers, DO

    Mar 27, 2025·48m
  199. 199

    318: Reclaiming Emotional Space for Yourself and Others

    Mar 20, 2025·32m
  200. 200

    317: How Systems of Oppression and Burnout Shape Emotional Suppression

    Mar 13, 2025·33m
  201. 201

    316: Why We Shut Down Others’ Feelings (And How It Starts in Us)

    Mar 6, 2025·28m
  202. 202

    315: Allowing vs. Wallowing

    Feb 27, 2025·33m
  203. 203

    314: Why It’s Hard to Let Yourself Feel Your Feelings (Part 3)

    Feb 20, 2025·24m
  204. 204

    313: Essential Relationship Tools for Stronger Connections with Billey Albina

    Feb 13, 2025·32m
  205. 205

    312: Why It’s Hard to Let Yourself Feel Your Feelings (Part 2)

    Feb 6, 2025·28m
  206. 206

    311: Why It’s Hard to Let Yourself Feel Your Feelings (Part 1)

    Jan 30, 2025·31m
  207. 207

    310: Allow Your Feelings: Tools for Sitting with Big Emotions

    Jan 23, 2025·34m
  208. 208

    309: The Art of Quitting: How to Craft a Life You Love with Goli Kalkhoran

    Jan 16, 2025·47m
  209. 209

    308: Somatics and Self-Trust

    Jan 9, 2025·24m
  210. 210

    307: Reclaiming Our Values for the New Year: The Ultimate Shift Beyond Resolutions

    Jan 2, 2025·29m
  211. 211

    306: Healing the Wounds of Calladita Culture with Pam Covarrubias

    Dec 26, 2024·36m
  212. 212

    305: Emotional Outsourcing at the Holiday Table: Staying Grounded and Setting Boundaries

    Dec 19, 2024·57m
  213. 213

    304: Why Somatic Education Matters

    Dec 12, 2024·25m
  214. 214

    303: Does This Relationship Serve Me?

    Dec 5, 2024·29m
  215. 215

    302: How Emotional Outsourcing Leads to Financial Self-Sabotage with Paige Pritchard

    Nov 28, 2024·1h
  216. 216

    301: Stronger Together - Post-Election Musings

    Nov 21, 2024·30m
  217. 217

    300: 10 Keys to a Fully Embodied Life: Lessons from 300 Episodes

    Nov 14, 2024·41m
  218. 218

    299: Sneaky Codependent, People-Pleasing, and Perfectionist Thoughts

    Nov 7, 2024·36m
  219. 219

    298: The Difference Between Being Considerate and Codependent

    Oct 31, 2024·31m
  220. 220

    297: Nervous System Reset

    Oct 24, 2024·23m
  221. 221

    296: All About Anchored with Ali Zamora

    Oct 17, 2024·33m
  222. 222

    296: All About Anchored with Ali Zamora

    Oct 17, 2024·35m
  223. 223

    295: Ultimatums vs. Boundaries & Challenging Conversations: Listener Q&A

    Oct 10, 2024·48m
  224. 224

    Stop Overfunctioning Webinar October 15th, 2024 @ 8pm ET

    Oct 8, 2024·4m
  225. 225

    294: Getting Anchored with Hedy

    Oct 3, 2024·42m
  226. 226

    293: Bracing Tolerance vs. Intentional Tolerance

    Sep 26, 2024·20m
  227. 227

    292: How to Break the Self-Abandonment Cycle

    Sep 19, 2024·29m
  228. 228

    291: Break the Self-Abandonment Cycle and Reclaim Your Authentic Self

    Sep 12, 2024·32m
  229. 229

    290: Getting Anchored with Mary Angione

    Sep 5, 2024·38m
  230. 230

    289: Embracing the Grey Area: Breaking Free from the All-or-Nothing Trap

    Aug 29, 2024·38m
  231. 231

    288: Remedies for Shame

    Aug 22, 2024·28m
  232. 232

    287: Shame, the Nervous System, and Emotional Outsourcing: Exploring the Interconnections

    Aug 15, 2024·24m
  233. 233

    286: How to Optimize Your Genes to Transform Your Health with Dr. Tyler Panzner

    Aug 8, 2024·1h
  234. 234

    Mega-Super-Awesome Birthday Giveaway!

    Aug 3, 2024·4m
  235. 235

    285: How to Overcome the Habit of Catastrophizing

    Aug 1, 2024·26m
  236. 236

    284: The Relationship Between Conflict Avoidance and Emotional Outsourcing

    Jul 25, 2024·35m
  237. 237

    283: A Protocol for Becoming Securely Attached with Thais Gibson

    Jul 18, 2024·50m
  238. 238

    282: Stepping Out of the Rescuer Role

    Jul 11, 2024·38m
  239. 239

    281: Interdependence with Billey Albina

    Jul 4, 2024·38m
  240. 240

    280: Can Somatic Practices Help If I Don’t Have Trauma?

    Jun 27, 2024·28m
  241. 241

    279: The Somatic Studio: Coming Home to Yourself with Kyra Sutherland

    Jun 20, 2024·41m
  242. 242

    278: Embodiment (Part 3)

    Jun 13, 2024·25m
  243. 243

    277: Embodiment (Part 2)

    Jun 6, 2024·32m
  244. 244

    276: Embodiment (Part 1)

    May 30, 2024·25m
  245. 245

    275: Embracing Safety

    May 23, 2024·30m
  246. 246

    274: The Cost of Being Defensive

    May 16, 2024·42m
  247. 247

    273: The Regret Trap: Why You Dwell on the Past and How to Stop

    May 9, 2024·41m
  248. 248

    272: Misguided Compassion

    May 2, 2024·32m
  249. 249

    271: Befriending Rest

    Apr 24, 2024·33m
  250. 250

    270: Interdependence: The Healthy Power of Needing Each Other

    Apr 18, 2024·29m
  251. 251

    269: Support Your Nervous System During Worrying Times

    Apr 11, 2024·34m
  252. 252

    268: When Thought Work Becomes Self-Criticism: How to Escape the Spiral

    Apr 4, 2024·41m
  253. 253

    267: The False Protective Mechanism of Taking Things Personally

    Mar 28, 2024·46m
  254. 254

    266: Real-Life Coaching from Anchored: Overcoming Codependency

    Mar 21, 2024·51m
  255. 255

    265: When Emotional Outsourcing Becomes a Habit in Relationship

    Mar 14, 2024·40m
  256. 256

    264: Coregulation and the Keys to Relating Well in Love and Life with Maggie Reyes

    Mar 7, 2024·53m
  257. 257

    263: The Role of Platonic Love in Our Wellness with My Friends Suneye, Jules, and Juana

    Feb 29, 2024·1h
  258. 258

    262: The First Step in Healing: Choosing Self-Love with Lashonda Payne

    Feb 22, 2024·37m
  259. 259

    261: The 6 Rules of Fair Fighting with Billey Albina

    Feb 15, 2024·59m
  260. 260

    260: Receiving Compliments, Giving Consent, and Being Seen with Danielle Savory

    Feb 8, 2024·1h
  261. 261

    259: How to Create an Epic, Settle-Proof Love Life with Lily Womble

    Feb 1, 2024·41m
  262. 262

    258: Needing to Be Needed

    Jan 25, 2024·39m
  263. 263

    257: Unearthing the Buried: Understanding and Healing from a ‘Sweep-It-Under-The-Rug’ Upbringing

    Jan 18, 2024·39m
  264. 264

    256: Somatics, Sex, and Embodiment with Honeydew Me

    Jan 11, 2024·1h 4m
  265. 265

    255: Embracing Your Values: A Journey Beyond Codependency, Perfectionism, and People Pleasing

    Jan 4, 2024·39m
  266. 266

    254: Reframing New Year’s Resolutions for More Self-Love, Connection, and Healing in 2024

    Dec 28, 2023·27m
  267. 267

    253: Of Course They Did: A Tool for Dropping Judgment and Finding Acceptance

    Dec 21, 2023·16m
  268. 268

    252: What to Expect When You Come Out of Functional Freeze

    Dec 14, 2023·46m
  269. 269

    251: Thought Work & Somatics: Taking Back Your Brain with Kara Loewentheil

    Dec 7, 2023·39m
  270. 270

    250: The Beauty/Power of Ritual with Jaguar Mary X

    Nov 30, 2023·34m
  271. 271

    249: Food, Weight & Diet Talk: How to Find Greater Peace and Joy During the Holidays with Dana Monsees

    Nov 23, 2023·52m
  272. 272

    248: Functional Freeze (Part 3): The Remedies

    Nov 16, 2023·40m
  273. 273

    247: Functional Freeze (Part 2): Real-Life Stories of How It Came to Be This Way

    Nov 9, 2023·40m
  274. 274

    246: Functional Freeze (Part 1)

    Nov 2, 2023·44m
  275. 275

    245: Why We Regret & How to Stop

    Oct 26, 2023·35m
  276. 276

    244: Polyvagal Theory: The Secret to Understanding Yourself

    Oct 19, 2023·46m
  277. 277

    243: Overfunctioning

    Oct 12, 2023·45m
  278. 278

    242: Feeling Your Feelings Somatically (Part 2)

    Oct 5, 2023·32m
  279. 279

    241: Feeling Your Feelings Somatically (Part 1)

    Sep 28, 2023·30m
  280. 280

    241: Feeling Your Feelings Somatically (Part 1)

    Sep 28, 2023·34m
  281. 281

    240: Overexplaining

    Sep 21, 2023·38m
  282. 282

    239: Shame Work: The “Armor” of Emotional Outsourcing with Andrea Owen

    Sep 14, 2023·51m
  283. 283

    238: How to Be the Cake & Let Everyone Else Be the Icing

    Sep 7, 2023·34m
  284. 284

    237: Grief and Grieving: It’s Okay to Not Be Okay with Krista St-Germain, Charlene Lam, and Briana Simmons

    Aug 31, 2023·47m
  285. 285

    236: Unraveling the Threads of Unsolicited Advice: Nurturing Authentic Connections

    Aug 24, 2023·32m
  286. 286

    235: Were You Raised by Emotionally Immature Parents?

    Aug 17, 2023·37m
  287. 287

    234: The Anatomy of Anxiety with Ellen Vora, MD

    Aug 10, 2023·50m
  288. 288

    233: Astrocartography with The Spirit Sis, Steffi

    Aug 3, 2023·48m
  289. 289

    232: Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion with Trudi Lebrón

    Jul 27, 2023·44m
  290. 290

    231: Needs: Strategies for Healthy Self-Expression (Part 2)

    Jul 20, 2023·28m
  291. 291

    230: Needs: How to Recognize & Voice Them (Part 1)

    Jul 13, 2023·24m
  292. 292

    229: Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby with Danielle Savory and Sonia Wright, MD

    Jul 6, 2023·46m
  293. 293

    228: How to Build Unshakeable Confidence in Your Needs with Mara Glatzel

    Jun 29, 2023·46m
  294. 294

    227: Getting Anchored: Healing the Self-Abandonment Cycle

    Jun 22, 2023·32m
  295. 295

    226: Getting Anchored: The Self-Abandonment Cycle

    Jun 15, 2023·32m
  296. 296

    225: Live Coaching in Anchored

    Jun 8, 2023·48m
  297. 297

    224: Receiving and the Trap of Independence

    Jun 1, 2023·36m
  298. 298

    223: Getting Anchored with Ruth Duren

    May 25, 2023·41m
  299. 299

    222: When Your Partner is Chronically Dissatisfied

    May 18, 2023·34m
  300. 300

    221: Finding Satisfaction from Chronic Dissatisfaction

    May 11, 2023·36m
  301. 301

    220: Chosen Family and Somatic Healing with Sara Bybee Fisk

    May 4, 2023·50m
  302. 302

    219: Allowing Life's Ebbs and Flows

    Apr 27, 2023·25m
  303. 303

    218: Somatics and Interdependence

    Apr 20, 2023·32m
  304. 304

    217: You Are Not Your Thoughts

    Apr 13, 2023·34m
  305. 305

    216: Getting Anchored with Lisa Candera

    Apr 6, 2023·40m
  306. 306

    215: Making Intergenerational Change with Genie Albina

    Mar 30, 2023·39m
  307. 307

    214: Understanding and Reframing Your Attachment Style with Honeydew Me

    Mar 23, 2023·54m
  308. 308

    213: Your Nervous System and Substances

    Mar 16, 2023·32m
  309. 309

    212: Meditating with Your Eyes Open

    Mar 9, 2023·27m
  310. 310

    211: Belonging and Connection

    Mar 2, 2023·36m
  311. 311

    210: Getting Anchored with Charlene Lam

    Feb 23, 2023·39m
  312. 312

    209: Overcoming Fawning

    Feb 16, 2023·30m
  313. 313

    208: Fawn Response and Healthy Anger

    Feb 9, 2023·27m
  314. 314

    207: Healthy Anger (Part 2)

    Feb 2, 2023·33m
  315. 315

    206: Healthy Anger (Part 1)

    Jan 26, 2023·35m
  316. 316

    205: Holding On To What Doesn’t Serve Us

    Jan 19, 2023·35m
  317. 317

    204: Getting Anchored: Margot’s Experience

    Jan 12, 2023·49m
  318. 318

    203: Getting Anchored: Inner Child Science

    Jan 5, 2023·38m
  319. 319

    202: The Ritual of New Year’s Resolutions

    Dec 29, 2022·27m
  320. 320

    201: Your Intuition vs. Trauma

    Dec 22, 2022·37m
  321. 321

    200: How to Trust and Reclaim Your Intuition

    Dec 15, 2022·39m
  322. 322

    Mega-Super-Awesome 200th Episode Podcast Giveaway!

    Dec 9, 2022·3m
  323. 323

    199: Trauma: What It Is & How It Shapes Our Lives

    Dec 8, 2022·43m
  324. 324

    198: Getting Anchored with Dr. Maylin Gonzalez, OD

    Dec 1, 2022·55m
  325. 325

    197: When You Get Unstuck and Others Don’t Like It

    Nov 24, 2022·34m
  326. 326

    196: Interdependence

    Nov 17, 2022·26m
  327. 327

    195: Nerding Out on Codependency, Nervous System, Somatics, and Feminism with Kara Loewentheil

    Nov 10, 2022·39m
  328. 328

    194: Getting Anchored: Codependency, Perfectionism and All-or-Nothing Thinking

    Nov 3, 2022·33m
  329. 329

    193: Codependency vs. Interdependence

    Oct 27, 2022·34m
  330. 330

    192: Why Overcoming Codependency is VITAL for Coaches

    Oct 20, 2022·1h 5m
  331. 331

    191: Getting to Neutral

    Oct 13, 2022·32m
  332. 332

    190: We’re All Just Taller Toddlers aka When It’s Not Just Your Thoughts

    Oct 6, 2022·37m
  333. 333

    189: For When Your Brain and Body Say No

    Sep 29, 2022·31m
  334. 334

    188: Stop Taking Things Personally

    Sep 22, 2022·41m
  335. 335

    187: Drama, Drama, Drama

    Sep 15, 2022·38m
  336. 336

    186: Getting Anchored: Natalie’s Experience

    Sep 8, 2022·33m
  337. 337

    185: Disorganized Attachment

    Sep 1, 2022·33m
  338. 338

    184: Avoidant Attachment

    Aug 25, 2022·35m
  339. 339

    183: Getting Anchored: Attachment Styles

    Aug 18, 2022·51m
  340. 340

    182: Using Magic For Healing, Connection, And Making Heart-Centered Decisions With Sarah Gottesdiener

    Aug 11, 2022·50m
  341. 341

    181: How to Shift Your Experience of Resistance (Part 2)

    Aug 4, 2022·29m
  342. 342

    180: Understanding the Energy of Resistance (Part 1)

    Jul 28, 2022·28m
  343. 343

    179: Getting Anchored with Roxanne Darrow

    Jul 21, 2022·44m
  344. 344

    178: Your Future Self

    Jul 14, 2022·38m
  345. 345

    177: Getting Anchored with Monica Schrock

    Jul 7, 2022·55m
  346. 346

    Bonus: Roe v. Wade and What You Can Do NOW

    Jul 1, 2022·20m
  347. 347

    176: Loving Your Past Self, Living with Compassion

    Jun 30, 2022·25m
  348. 348

    175: Getting Anchored with Coach Molly Goodman

    Jun 23, 2022·52m
  349. 349

    174: Polyvagal 101

    Jun 16, 2022·41m
  350. 350

    173: Getting Anchored with Ali Zamora, NP

    Jun 9, 2022·45m
  351. 351

    172: Showing Up For You And Your Nervous System In Tragedy

    Jun 2, 2022·35m
  352. 352

    171: Rescuing vs Supporting

    May 26, 2022·34m
  353. 353

    170: Do I Stay or Do I Go? (Part 2)

    May 19, 2022·25m
  354. 354

    169: Do I Stay or Do I Go? (Part 1)

    May 12, 2022·39m
  355. 355

    168: Regret is Self-Abandonment

    May 5, 2022·32m
  356. 356

    167: Emotionally Immature Parents

    Apr 28, 2022·35m
  357. 357

    166: Be The Cake

    Apr 21, 2022·32m
  358. 358

    165: Style, Confidence, and Feminism with Judith Gaton

    Apr 14, 2022·49m
  359. 359

    164: Healing the Self-Abandonment Cycle

    Apr 7, 2022·31m
  360. 360

    163: The Self-Abandonment Cycle

    Mar 31, 2022·30m
  361. 361

    162: Clean Fight Club Rules

    Mar 24, 2022·21m
  362. 362

    161: Conflict Doesn’t Have to Be the Worst

    Mar 17, 2022·19m
  363. 363

    160: Conflict & Codependent Thinking

    Mar 10, 2022·34m
  364. 364

    159: Getting Anchored: False Positivity

    Mar 3, 2022·32m
  365. 365

    158: Why Friendship Matters

    Feb 24, 2022·36m
  366. 366

    157: Relationship Red Flags are Gifts Not to Be Ignored

    Feb 17, 2022·29m
  367. 367

    156: The Intersection of Astrology and Feminism with the AstroTwins

    Feb 10, 2022·1h 2m
  368. 368

    155: Why Privacy Matters

    Feb 3, 2022·27m
  369. 369

    154: Secrecy

    Jan 27, 2022·32m
  370. 370

    153: Inner Child Science

    Jan 20, 2022·37m
  371. 371

    152: The Gift of Wintering

    Jan 13, 2022·12m
  372. 372

    151: Resolutions, Regret and Commitment to You

    Jan 6, 2022·32m
  373. 373

    150: Your Wants & Needs in Relationships

    Dec 30, 2021·35m
  374. 374

    149: Building Trust & Letting Your Wants Guide You

    Dec 23, 2021·24m
  375. 375

    148: The Emotional World of Wants and Needs

    Dec 16, 2021·27m
  376. 376

    147: How to Overcome All-or-Nothing Thinking

    Dec 9, 2021·37m
  377. 377

    146: Codependency, Perfectionism and All-or-Nothing Thinking

    Dec 2, 2021·31m
  378. 378

    145: Navigating Food, Boundaries, and Your Nervous System During the Holidays with Dana Monsees

    Nov 25, 2021·55m
  379. 379

    144: The 5 Love Languages & Thought Work

    Nov 18, 2021·34m
  380. 380

    143: Letting Other People Be Wrong About You

    Nov 11, 2021·31m
  381. 381

    142: Relationship Green Flags

    Nov 4, 2021·37m
  382. 382

    141: Raising Interdependent Children with My Sister Genie Albina

    Oct 28, 2021·52m
  383. 383

    140: Honoring Your No

    Oct 21, 2021·33m
  384. 384

    139: Top 5 Codependent Dating Challenges

    Oct 14, 2021·40m
  385. 385

    138: Healing the Spirit of Perfectionism with Alea Lovely

    Oct 7, 2021·1h 10m
  386. 386

    137: The Inner Critic: 3 Steps to Manage Your Gremlins

    Sep 30, 2021·27m
  387. 387

    136: Getting Anchored: Living with Intention

    Sep 23, 2021·33m
  388. 388

    135: Attachment and Nervous System Resourcing

    Sep 16, 2021·34m
  389. 389

    134: Catastrophizing and Reparenting

    Sep 9, 2021·41m
  390. 390

    133: Of Course You Did

    Sep 2, 2021·27m
  391. 391

    132: Are You Being Nice or Kind?

    Aug 26, 2021·28m
  392. 392

    131: Inside Anchored

    Aug 19, 2021·55m
  393. 393

    130: Anxious Relationship Rushing

    Aug 12, 2021·27m
  394. 394

    129: Attachment Styles

    Aug 5, 2021·48m
  395. 395

    128: Are You Ready for Coaching?

    Jul 29, 2021·35m
  396. 396

    127: The Art of Reclaiming Our Empowerment with Mara Glatzel

    Jul 22, 2021·51m
  397. 397

    126: Getting Anchored: Letting Go of Resentment

    Jul 15, 2021·42m
  398. 398

    125: Client Coaching Q&A

    Jul 8, 2021·31m
  399. 399

    124: Getting Anchored: Healing Codependent Habits

    Jul 1, 2021·40m
  400. 400

    123: Getting Anchored: Codependent Thinking

    Jun 24, 2021·46m
  401. 401

    122: Unlocking Codependency with Kylie McBeath

    Jun 17, 2021·52m
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    121: Getting Anchored: Negative Self-Talk

    Jun 10, 2021·28m
  403. 403

    120: Trauma Therapy and Somatic Practices with Andrea Glik, LCSW

    Jun 3, 2021·57m
  404. 404

    119: Hurt Feelings: Why You Don’t Need a Thicker Skin

    May 27, 2021·17m
  405. 405

    118: Getting Anchored: Boundaries

    May 20, 2021·36m
  406. 406

    UPDATED: 117: Saying Yes from Obligation: How to Say No from Love

    May 13, 2021·21m
  407. 407

    Saying Yes from Obligation: How to Say No from Love

    May 13, 2021·25m
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    116: Getting Anchored: Be Your Own Watcher

    May 6, 2021·27m
  409. 409

    115: Understanding Beyond Mindset with Lauren Cash

    Apr 29, 2021·52m
  410. 410

    114: Choosing the Wrong People

    Apr 22, 2021·14m
  411. 411

    113: Of Course They Did!

    Apr 15, 2021·13m
  412. 412

    112: Listener Q&A Volume 2

    Apr 8, 2021·30m
  413. 413

    111: Curiosity

    Apr 1, 2021·24m
  414. 414

    110: Codependent Friendships

    Mar 25, 2021·29m
  415. 415

    109: Somatics: Living From Your Neck Down

    Mar 18, 2021·37m
  416. 416

    108: Wanting a Goal vs. Wanting a Feeling

    Mar 11, 2021·23m
  417. 417

    107: Thought Work 101

    Mar 4, 2021·22m
  418. 418

    Overcoming Codependency Webinar March 1, 2021 @8pm ET!

    Feb 26, 2021·2m
  419. 419

    106: Self-Sacrifice

    Feb 25, 2021·28m
  420. 420

    105: Buffering vs. Conscious Distraction

    Feb 18, 2021·35m
  421. 421

    104: Pressured Perfectionist Procrastination

    Feb 11, 2021·22m
  422. 422

    103: Meditation Doesn’t Work for Everyone

    Feb 4, 2021·27m
  423. 423

    102: What if It’s Not a Problem?

    Jan 28, 2021·25m
  424. 424

    101: Managing Other People’s Emotions

    Jan 21, 2021·27m
  425. 425

    100: My Biggest Takeaways

    Jan 14, 2021·28m
  426. 426

    99: The Perfect Time for Your Dreams is Now

    Jan 7, 2021·22m
  427. 427

    98: The Power of Yet

    Dec 31, 2020·23m
  428. 428

    97: Believing in Your Goals, Believing in Yourself

    Dec 24, 2020·40m
  429. 429

    96: Why Celebrating Matters

    Dec 17, 2020·33m
  430. 430

    95: Getting Real About How You Feel

    Dec 10, 2020·31m
  431. 431

    94: Empaths and Other People’s Emotions

    Dec 3, 2020·25m
  432. 432

    93: Pleasure

    Nov 26, 2020·34m
  433. 433

    92: Radical Self-Responsibility

    Nov 19, 2020·36m
  434. 434

    91: Listener Q&A Volume 1

    Nov 12, 2020·46m
  435. 435

    90: Overthinking Doesn’t Make You More Prepared

    Nov 5, 2020·26m
  436. 436

    89: Why Complaining Never Helps

    Oct 29, 2020·31m
  437. 437

    88: False Positivity

    Oct 22, 2020·30m
  438. 438

    87: Saying What You Mean & Believing Other People

    Oct 15, 2020·22m
  439. 439

    86: Rejection Has Nothing to Do with Your Worth

    Oct 8, 2020·31m
  440. 440

    85: Guilt Guilt Guilt!

    Oct 1, 2020·23m
  441. 441

    84: Living with Intention

    Sep 24, 2020·35m
  442. 442

    83: Constraint of Thought

    Sep 17, 2020·36m
  443. 443

    82: Urges: Restricting vs. Allowing

    Sep 10, 2020·36m
  444. 444

    81: The Science Behind Feeling Stuck

    Sep 3, 2020·42m
  445. 445

    80: Healing Isn’t Linear

    Aug 27, 2020·30m
  446. 446

    79: Conflict Avoidance

    Aug 20, 2020·30m
  447. 447

    78: Minimum Baseline Thinking

    Aug 13, 2020·27m
  448. 448

    77: Self-Care: Have Your Dinner Before Dessert

    Aug 6, 2020·25m
  449. 449

    76: Acceptance and Closure

    Jul 30, 2020·46m
  450. 450

    75: Mastering the Language of Apologies

    Jul 23, 2020·40m
  451. 451

    74: The Dangers of False Pre-Apologies

    Jul 16, 2020·38m
  452. 452

    73: 6 Steps to a Healthy and Meaningful Apology

    Jul 9, 2020·49m
  453. 453

    72: Anatomy of an Apology

    Jul 2, 2020·31m
  454. 454

    71: The Fixer Thought Fantasy

    Jun 25, 2020·43m
  455. 455

    70: When You Stop People Pleasing and People Aren’t Pleased

    Jun 18, 2020·23m
  456. 456

    69: The Power of Thought Work in Becoming an Anti-Racist Ally and Accomplice

    Jun 11, 2020·41m
  457. 457

    68: How to Interrupt the People-Pleasing Cycle

    Jun 4, 2020·29m
  458. 458

    67: Why We People Please

    May 28, 2020·35m
  459. 459

    66: Compare and Despair

    May 21, 2020·34m
  460. 460

    65: Self-Confidence

    May 14, 2020·48m
  461. 461

    64: Letting Go of Resentment

    May 7, 2020·43m
  462. 462

    63: How to Make the Right Decision

    Apr 30, 2020·51m
  463. 463

    62: Glimmers

    Apr 23, 2020·25m
  464. 464

    COVID-19 Bonus Episode: Feel All Your Feels - Give It All Equal Air Time

    Apr 18, 2020·26m
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    61: The Nervous System & Your Health and Wellness

    Apr 16, 2020·51m
  466. 466

    60: Antidotes to Control

    Apr 9, 2020·41m
  467. 467

    59: Understanding Your Desire to Control

    Apr 2, 2020·41m
  468. 468

    58: Uncertainty

    Mar 26, 2020·51m
  469. 469

    57: Perfectionism: Keeping Your Enemy Close

    Mar 19, 2020·40m
  470. 470

    COVID-19: Anxiety, Stress & Thought Work for Healing

    Mar 16, 2020·21m
  471. 471

    COVID-19: Regulating Your Stress Response

    Mar 15, 2020·37m
  472. 472

    Perfectionism

    Mar 12, 2020·32m
  473. 473

    1 Year Anniversary Giveaway

    Mar 8, 2020·7m
  474. 474

    55: Intergenerational Codependency

    Mar 5, 2020·46m
  475. 475

    54: 6 Surprising Codependent Habits

    Feb 27, 2020·48m
  476. 476

    53: The Secret Sauce to Healthy Relationships

    Feb 20, 2020·40m
  477. 477

    52: Unconditional Love

    Feb 13, 2020·42m
  478. 478

    51: Self-Compassion, Dead-End Thinking and the Emotional U-Turn

    Feb 6, 2020·33m
  479. 479

    50: Positive Self-Regard

    Jan 30, 2020·42m
  480. 480

    49: Being Okay with Being Wrong

    Jan 23, 2020·38m
  481. 481

    48: Your Why and Polyvagal Theory

    Jan 16, 2020·49m
  482. 482

    47: Goals and New Year's Resolutions

    Jan 9, 2020·33m
  483. 483

    46: My New Year's Vision for You

    Jan 2, 2020·21m
  484. 484

    45: Why Wishing Is Not Enough

    Dec 26, 2019·25m
  485. 485

    44: How to Stop Worrying for Good

    Dec 19, 2019·38m
  486. 486

    43: Worry and Your Nervous System

    Dec 12, 2019·32m
  487. 487

    42: The Next Right Thing

    Dec 5, 2019·27m
  488. 488

    41: Boundaries and the Holidays

    Nov 28, 2019·31m
  489. 489

    40: Failing on Purpose

    Nov 21, 2019·25m
  490. 490

    39: Failure

    Nov 14, 2019·36m
  491. 491

    38: Courageous Action

    Nov 7, 2019·36m
  492. 492

    37: Action

    Oct 31, 2019·39m
  493. 493

    36: Feeling

    Oct 24, 2019·42m
  494. 494

    35: Thinking

    Oct 17, 2019·34m
  495. 495

    34: Self-Care

    Oct 10, 2019·24m
  496. 496

    33: Direct and Indirect Communication

    Oct 3, 2019·38m
  497. 497

    32: How We Communicate with Ourselves

    Sep 26, 2019·46m
  498. 498

    31: Communication

    Sep 19, 2019·28m
  499. 499

    30: Healing Codependent Habits

    Sep 12, 2019·38m
  500. 500

    29: Codependent Thinking

    Sep 5, 2019·43m