Embodied ambition without the burnout mask.
Feminine as F*ck mixes intimate solo coaching with guest conversations on wealth, desire, relationships, and nervous-system strain. Its recent episodes speak especially to high-performing women trying to stop living from control, resentment, burnout, or constant self-management.
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Feminine as F*ck is a self-improvement and manifestation show with a strong emotional charge and a coaching-room intimacy. It speaks most directly to women who are successful, responsible, and exhausted by being the person who manages everything. Recent episodes return again and again to the cost of control. The show connects over-functioning in relationships, business, motherhood, and health to a deeper refusal or inability to receive support. Its relationship material often uses the contrast between mother energy and lover energy. That frame becomes a way to talk about correction, micromanaging, resentment, softness, apology, polarity, and the desire to feel held rather than constantly lead. The career and money episodes take a similar route. Wealth is treated less as a spreadsheet problem and more as a body-level sense of safety, standards, self-worth, and permission to have more without suffering for it. Motherhood gets especially frank treatment. The show separates generic business advice from the lived reality of being a mother, naming the invisible time, attention, feeding, bedtime, household work, and emotional load that shape a different kind of day. It does not romanticize doing it all. It argues for help, a village, paid support where possible, and less attachment to external validation. The trauma-focused episodes lean into physical symptoms, nervous-system regulation, coping mechanisms, and the body's signals when something beneath the surface is unresolved. The manifestation material keeps the same energetic vocabulary, with ideas like quantum leaping, becoming a future self, and making aligned choices before the old environment feels too small. Guest conversations, including the episode with Shamina Taylor, broaden the show into wealth consciousness and feminine-masculine dynamics without losing the central emphasis on embodied change. The pacing is fast and insistent. The editorial promise is clear: stop masking exhaustion, stop calling survival normal, and rebuild ambition around support, pleasure, health, and intimate power.
Made for: For high-achieving women, especially mothers and entrepreneurs, who want blunt coaching on money, relationships, trauma patterns, and receiving support. It suits listeners comfortable with manifestation language and strong feminine-masculine framing.
What sets it apart: The show ties wealth, partnership, motherhood, and physical symptoms into one embodied self-work framework. Its edge comes from treating success and softness as connected, not competing goals.
Sometimes the truth is hard to hear. Sometimes it’s a little triggering and very uncomfortable. Yet, we all know that this space is where the true magic happens. Luckily for you, Monica Yates is like the best friend you never had. She gives it to you straight, without all the fluff, so that you can pursue more of what you desire in love, relationships and career. From emotional and energetic trauma/blocks to health, period problems, business and manifestation, Monica helps you get out of your own way to become the version of you that has only been a dream, until now.
Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026
Feminine as F*ck makes control, exhaustion and relationship tension legible through candid personal examples and direct coaching.
Monica Yates turns everyday friction into coaching material, moving from difficulty asking for help to correcting a partner, handling unsolicited advice and returning to regulation after a flash of irritation.
One minute you're checking a diaper; the next Monica Yates is linking resentment to receiving money.
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Short reviews from the PlayNext desk, based on the episodes we processed.
A relationship-control episode about resentment, bodily strain, and the fatigue of managing everything.
This single-episode review follows a relationship-control framework that treats over-leading as something that can spill across work, motherhood, business, career, and intimate life. The L.O.V.E.R.
Wealth is treated as freedom, embodiment, and self-worth shaped through boundaries, pricing, family lessons, and time.
This single-episode review frames wealth as something less visible than luxury and more rooted in freedom, time, trust, emotion, embodiment, and the body’s sense of safety.
A candid reframing of working motherhood as its own reality when career advice starts to pinch.
This episode treats working motherhood as its own operating reality, not just working womanhood with more tasks attached. It is especially pointed on the strain placed on mothers who are both default parent and breadwinner, and on the need to test career and life advice against…
A grounded look at how self-reliance, resentment, and correction can quietly reshape intimacy.
The episode takes a common relationship flashpoint, a partner offering help and getting corrected, and turns it into a clear conversation about accepting support without reading it as weakness.
A direct case for treating support and rest as part of a sustained life.
High-performing women are often read as if they have everything handled, and this episode looks at what that image can conceal: exhaustion, unease around receiving support, and the learned sense that rest is not safe.
A wedding debrief where private tenderness meets public celebration and careful choices about money.
The episode works as a candid wedding debrief with a clear emotional center: marriage as a full body, mind, and soul commitment, held up against the surprises and financial choices of an actual celebration.
A pointed look at how helpfulness can slide into control around intimate choices.
Advice can sound like care while quietly becoming control, and Feminine as F*ck turns that tension through pregnancy, birth, politics, and the online pile-ons where strangers rush to correct each other.
Jonquilyn Hill chases one listener question per episode to the experts who can answer it.
Hard conversations, patiently held, with room to laugh.
Fearne Cotton interviews guests like Boy George and Bryony Gordon about mental health and identity.
Dr. Joy Harden Bradford pairs therapy insight with Black TV recaps, maternal health, and history.
Monica Yates discusses the energetics of unsolicited advice, explaining why people offer it and how it erodes trust.
This episode teaches how to use October Theory to quantum leap into your ideal self by the end of the year, focusing on high-ROI actions.
The host shares personal experiences of less-than-ideal Christmases and offers a guided meditation to help listeners create their ideal holiday experience.
Monica Yates hosts her husband Hal for the first time on her podcast to debrief their recent wedding weekend in Rome.
Monica’s central claim is that mothers can avoid becoming a “shell” by adjusting expectations instead of trying to recreate their pre-baby lives.
Feminine as F*ck episode 473 frames the L.O.V.E.R.
["Feminine as F*ck frames this interview around Shamina Taylor's claim that wealth is freedom and time, not just a G-Wagon, Range Rover, or big house.", "Taylor, a former attorney, bestselling author of Unlocking the Quantum Woman, mother of two, and host of The Unapologetically Rich Show, says high-achieving women hit glass ceilings when they stay in hustle mode.", "She ties money blocks to unresolved trauma, scarcity beliefs about money running out, and the wounded masculine pattern of proving, performing, and seeking validation.", "The conversation moves through her cash G-Wagon purchase, her choice to keep most money invested, and the way she models generosity and high standards for her children."]
Feminine as F*ck episode 471 argues that career advice built for women without children breaks when the audience is a mother, default parent, and breadwinner at the same time.
A high-achieving businesswoman discusses how love life impacts success and income, offering a new approach for women to achieve more without burnout.
This episode explores common physical symptoms of trauma and explains how the body communicates underlying issues, especially for high-performing women who may be disconnected from their bodies.
In episode 468 of Feminine as F*ck, host Monica delivers a solo episode on what she calls emasculation — the pattern of high-performing women inadvertently blocking their partner's masculine energy through correction, control, and distrust, causing men to retreat and stop leading.
In episode 467 of Feminine as F*ck, host Monica delivers a solo episode arguing that high-performing women are in a collective epidemic of refusing to ask for help, and that this pattern is culturally installed by the girl boss movement and capitalism — not a personal character strength.
The host explains how to use October Theory to quantum leap into your dream self by the end of the year, sharing advice from a client coaching session.
The host and her husband Hal discuss the challenging behind-the-scenes journey of launching a book that became a New York Times bestseller.
Cait Scudder and the host discuss how motherhood can be a transformative portal that enhances success in business and life, challenging negative stereotypes.