Feel Good Alcohol-Free with Lindsay Hennekey

Lindsay Hennekey

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Sober coaching for high-achieving women.

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Feel Good Alcohol-Free with Lindsay Hennekey frames sobriety as an identity shift, not a punishment or willpower contest. Episodes mix lived-experience coaching, practical tools, midlife health conversations, and steady encouragement for women who want alcohol to become irrelevant.

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About Feel Good Alcohol-Free with Lindsay Hennekey

Feel Good Alcohol-Free with Lindsay Hennekey is a sobriety and sober-curious show centered on capable women who are done negotiating with alcohol. Its core question is blunt: if a woman can lead a team, manage a household, and make high-stakes decisions, why does drinking still get to break promises she makes to herself? That tension gives the show its shape. Lindsay Heneke speaks from lived experience as a former high-functioning drinker and from her work as an accredited sober coach. The episodes are coaching-forward, personal, and practical. They do not linger in abstract wellness language. Instead, they name specific moments: the drink after work, the campfire where everyone else is drinking, the family visit, the holiday season, the post-Dry January confidence wobble, the old thought that moderation might be different this time. The show keeps returning to identity. Alcohol-free life is presented less as a streak to protect and more as a way to become someone who trusts her own decisions. Short solo episodes often work like guided recalibration sessions, moving from self-questioning into a concrete plan. Longer conversations widen the frame. Dr. Jen Zelovitzky connects alcohol with perimenopause concerns such as sleep disruption, hot flashes, mood changes, irritability, and weight redistribution. Rebecca Weller brings the perspective of an author and speaker whose work helped shape Lindsay Heneke's own sober-curious journey. Across its episodes, the show is especially interested in women who seem fine externally while privately feeling stuck in a drinking loop. It challenges the idea that more rules or more willpower are the answer. Support, tools, repetition, and honest self-observation matter more. The pacing is intimate and insistent. It has the feel of a coach speaking to someone who has already tried the obvious fixes and needs a more durable way forward. For PlayNext listeners, it sits at the intersection of sobriety, women's health, leadership, and midlife self-trust.

Made for: The show is for women who are sober, sober curious, or repeatedly trying to cut back while maintaining demanding careers, homes, and relationships. It especially suits listeners who want alcohol-free tools without shame-based rules or polished perfection.

What sets it apart: The show connects sobriety to leadership, identity, and self-trust rather than treating drinking as a simple habit to control. Its episodes pair lived-experience coaching with concrete real-life scenarios and occasional women's health conversations.

In their own words

Hi, I'm Lindsay Hennekey, Sober Coach and Founder of Feel Good AF. This is a podcast for women who are sober or sober curious, looking for support in navigating a life without alcohol. I'm so glad you are here. You may be thinking: What does an alcohol-free life look like for me? How do I live a life without drinking that doesn’t feel like I am missing something? How do I move beyond alcohol and into the elevated version of myself that I know is inside of me. You are a hardworking, high-achieving, successful woman in so many areas of y...

alcohol-free identityhigh-achieving womenstop-start drinking cyclesDry January follow-throughmidlife health and menopausesleep, mood, and alcoholfamily and work stressself-trust and decision-making

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Episode 55: Navigating Your Health at Midlife: A Conversation on Menopause and Alcohol with Dr. Jen ZelovitzkyApr 8, 2026

A clear menopause-and-alcohol conversation that stays close to sleep, mood, hot flashes, and daily life.

The episode treats menopause through the lens of how alcohol can intensify it, with Dr. Jennifer Zelowitzky laying out the symptoms people most often recognize: temperature dysregulation, sleep disruption, irritability or mood changes, and weight redistribution or weight gain.

Episode 54: What Happens To A Woman’s Life When Alcohol Becomes IrrelevantApr 1, 2026

A direct, coach-led look at alcohol-free living as a shift in identity rather than a test of will.

Lindsay Heneke presents alcohol-free living as an identity shift, not a daily test of restraint. She describes moving from constant attention on not drinking to a steadier focus on who she wanted to become and how she wanted to live.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Episode 80: Why Your Husband Keeps Offering You Wine When You’re Trying to Quit Drinking

    Sep 30, 2026·21m
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    Episode 79: Why You Want a Drink at 5 PM Even When You Promised Yourself You Wouldn’t

    Sep 23, 2026·26m
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    Episode 78: Using Breathwork to Regulate Stress & Break the Cycle of Coping with Megan Ashton

    Sep 16, 2026·45m
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    Episode 77: Alcohol + Perimenopause: Is wine making your symptoms worse?

    Sep 9, 2026·29m
  5. 5

    Episode 76: Make Sober September Help You Quit Drinking

    Sep 2, 2026·24m
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    Episode 75: The Truth About Rock Bottom, Relapse & Recovery with Ryan Kennedy

    Aug 26, 2026·52m
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    Episode 74: Things I tried before admitting Moderation wasn't working

    Aug 19, 2026·30m
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    Episode 73: Alcohol, Brain Health & Dementia: What Every Woman Needs to Know with Rachel Wiley

    Aug 12, 2026·53m
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    Episode 72: Wine Is Not the Reward You Think It Is

    Aug 5, 2026·27m
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    Episode 71: You Haven’t Lost Your Ambition. Alcohol Is Draining It.

    Jul 29, 2026·31m
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    Episode 70: You Know How to Quit Drinking. So Why Haven’t You?

    Jul 22, 2026·24m
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    Episode 69: Why Waiting Until After Summer to Quit Drinking Keeps You Stuck

    Jul 15, 2026·26m
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    Episode 68: What Happens When Women Tell the Truth About Drinking with Kerri Maher, Author of Summer of Love

    Jul 8, 2026·50m
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    Episode 67: How Self Trust Gets You To Sobriety

    Jul 1, 2026·33m
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    Episode 66: Why Are We Afraid to Quit Drinking?

    Jun 24, 2026·29m
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    Episode 65: How to Quit Drinking and Still Have a Social Life with Jakee Zaccor

    Jun 17, 2026·59m
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    Episode 64: Alcohol, Perimenopause, and Feeling Good Again

    Jun 10, 2026·27m
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    Episode 63: The Burnout Era - Why Living Alcohol-Free Is An Act of Self-Care

    Jun 3, 2026·30m
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    Episode 62: Finding Your Voice in Sobriety with Self Expression & Podcast Guide, Sophia Noelle Graniela

    May 27, 2026·1h 6m
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    Episode 61: For the Woman Who Doesn't Feel Ready To Quit Drinking

    May 20, 2026·30m
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    Episode 60: Alcohol and Marriage - Lessons I Learned From My Honeymoon Hangovers

    May 13, 2026·34m
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    Episode 59: How to actually SLEEP in Midlife: Practical Advice from Sleep and Divorce Expert, Alanna McGinn

    May 6, 2026·50m
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    Episode 58: The High Functioning Trap (Why Stress Drinking is a Leadership Failure)

    Apr 29, 2026·27m
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    Episode 57: Why Alcohol Is Not What Makes You Interesting

    Apr 22, 2026·28m
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    Episode 56: What Your "Just One Glass" Mindset Actually Leads To

    Apr 15, 2026·26m
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    Episode 55: Navigating Your Health at Midlife: A Conversation on Menopause and Alcohol with Dr. Jen Zelovitzky

    Hidden gem

    ["Jennifer Zelovitzky says alcohol can amplify hot flashes, sleep disruption, irritability, and weight gain in perimenopause.", "Lindsay Hennekey interviews the Toronto-based certified menopause provider and clinical director of women's health at Vitality at MedCan, where she uses lifestyle counseling, hormone therapy, and non-hormonal options.", "Zelovitzky explains that perimenopause can start up to 10 years before the final period, often shows up first as sleep or temperature changes, and cannot be confirmed with a blood test.", "She also covers hysterectomy, endometriosis, bone density, and why many women need to bring up cholesterol, ferritin, vitamin D, thyroid, and blood pressure themselves."]

    Apr 8, 2026·51m·3 clips
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    Episode 54: What Happens To A Woman’s Life When Alcohol Becomes Irrelevant

    ["Feel Good Alcohol-Free with Lindsay Heneke Episode 54 asks what happens to a woman's life when alcohol becomes irrelevant, and Lindsay Heneke frames that shift as an identity change rather than a willpower test.", "She says high-achieving women often tie alcohol to relaxation, celebration, connection, and numbing, then describes a year-or-two transition where curiosity replaces fear and self-trust grows.", "The episode uses concrete examples from her own life and clients, including alcohol-free camping with her husband, flower-arranging classes, and a four-month sober listener who said \"everything I thought wasn't true.\"", "Lindsay also links the drinking loop to sleep disruption, next-day working-memory problems, shame spirals, and work rumination, then says the payoff is more clarity, peace, and capacity."]

    Apr 1, 2026·47m·3 clips
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    Episode 53: How To Quit Drinking Without AA

    Lindsay Heneke, host of Feel Good Alcohol-Free with Lindsay Hennekey, explains how she quit drinking without AA after attending one meeting and deciding its steps and labels did not fit her.

    Mar 25, 2026·23m·1 clip
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    Episode 52: The Leadership Upgrade That Happens When You Remove Alcohol

    Lindsay Heneke, an accredited sober coach and former high-functioning drinker, examines why women who lead teams and manage households may still break promises not to drink.

    Mar 18, 2026·26m·1 clip
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    Episode 51: Finding Balance Through Holistic Nutrition With Lila Volkas

    Hidden gem

    Lindsay Heneke interviews Oakland-based holistic nutritionist Lila Volkis about alcohol-free living, food, blood sugar, digestion, and workplace wellness.

    Mar 11, 2026·49m·3 clips
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    Episode 50: The Exact Thought Process I Used When My Husband Asked If I Was Ever Going to Drink Again

    Mar 4, 2026·35m
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    Episode 49: Have You Outgrown Alcohol? Signs It No Longer Fits the Woman You’re Becoming.

    Feb 25, 2026·25m
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    Episode 48: High-Functioning But Drinking Too Much? Why Success Can Keep Women Stuck

    Feb 18, 2026·24m
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    Episode 47: 3 Simple Ways To Bring You Closer To An Alcohol-Free Life

    Feb 11, 2026·26m
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    Episode 46: Creating Space for Self-Care with Jess Jackson

    Feb 4, 2026·51m
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    Episode 45: Why This Dry January Was Progress (No Matter How It Went)

    Jan 28, 2026·28m
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    Episode 44: Dry January and the Journey to an Alcohol-Free Identity

    Jan 21, 2026·27m
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    Episode 43: How To Stay Alcohol-Free After Dry January

    A sober coach discusses the pattern of women succeeding in Dry January but then facing thoughts that lead back to drinking, offering tools to break the cycle.

    Jan 14, 2026·28m
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    Episode 42: Your Dry January Checkpoint

    Jan 7, 2026·29m
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    Episode 41: Intention Setting For The New Year

    Dec 31, 2025·32m
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    Episode 40: The Gift You Give Yourself When You Stop Negotiating With Alcohol

    This episode explores the personal and emotional journey of stopping negotiations with alcohol, particularly during the holiday season, as shared by a sober coach on her birthday.

    Dec 24, 2025·35m
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    Episode 39: There's No Easy Season to Quit Drinking

    Dec 17, 2025·26m
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    Episode 38: Disrupting The Pattern This December

    Dec 10, 2025·26m
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    Episode 37: Supporting Future You Through Time Management - A Conversation With Kelly Nolan

    Dec 3, 2025·51m
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    Episode 36: Why The Holiday Season Is A Good Time To Quit

    Nov 26, 2025·32m
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    Episode 35: Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable

    Nov 19, 2025·29m
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    Episode 34: Sobriety Isn't One-Size-Fits-All

    Nov 12, 2025·36m
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    Episode 33: Breaking Free From The 'I'm Not Ready' Mindset

    Nov 5, 2025·31m
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    Episode 32: Repetition Over Perfection

    Oct 29, 2025·32m
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    Episode 31: Is It Really Failure? Or Just Fear Talking?

    Oct 22, 2025·40m
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    Episode 30: How Drinking Quietly Creates Distance In Your Relationship

    Oct 15, 2025·48m
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    Episode 29: The Moderation Myth: "Just One Glass"

    Oct 8, 2025·48m
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    Episode 28: The Impact of Alcohol on Women's Health: A Conversation with Dr. Hanna Blaney, MD, MPH

    Oct 1, 2025·44m
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    Episode 27: One Bold AF Move

    Sep 24, 2025·28m
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    Episode 26: Stop Counting Days, Start Living Bigger

    Sep 17, 2025·23m
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    Episode 25: It's Q+A Day!

    Sep 10, 2025·30m
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    Episode 24: Shifting Your Focus

    Sep 3, 2025·28m
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    Episode 23: The Real Reason Your Brain Justifies Drinking

    Aug 27, 2025·23m
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    Episode 22: For The Woman Who Has Read The Books And Still Feels Stuck

    Aug 20, 2025·29m
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    Episode 21: When High-Functioning Means High Tolerance for Feeling Like Crap

    Aug 13, 2025·23m
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    Episode 20: Sharing Our Stories with Rebecca Weller

    Host Lindsay Heneke interviews author Rebecca Weller about her influence on the sober curious movement and creating an alcohol-free life.

    Jul 23, 2025·50m
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    Episode 19: Burnout, Stress, And The Glass Of Wine Keeping You Stuck

    Jul 16, 2025·26m
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    Episode 18: The Lies That Make Quitting Drinking Harder Than It Needs To Be

    Jul 9, 2025·25m
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    Episode 17: Why Can't I Get It? How Long Will It Take?

    Jul 2, 2025·25m
  65. 65

    Episode 16: The Difference Between Thinking And Writing

    Jun 25, 2025·25m
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    Episode 15: Navigating Firsts On You Alcohol-Free Journey

    Jun 18, 2025·28m
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    Episode 14: Sadness in Sobriety

    Jun 11, 2025·25m
  68. 68

    Episode 13: Habits and Mindset with Claire Roberts

    Jun 4, 2025·59m
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    Episode 12: The Emotional Cycle of Quitting Drinking

    May 28, 2025·32m
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    Episode 11: Willpower Is A Finite Resource

    May 21, 2025·23m
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    Episode 10: What You Gain By Quitting

    May 14, 2025·24m
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    Episode 9: Who Do You Want To Become?

    May 7, 2025·24m
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    Episode 8: Socializing Sober with Deb Podlogar - Mocktail Mom

    Apr 30, 2025·35m
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    Episode 7: Rediscovering Your Confidence

    Apr 23, 2025·19m
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    Episode 6: Why Drinking in Moderation Doesn't Work: The Science of "Just One Glass"

    Apr 16, 2025·21m
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    Episode 5: The 3:00 AM Wake-Up Call: Alcohol, Anxiety, and Better Sleep

    Apr 9, 2025·23m
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    Episode 4: Kristin's Transformation: Sobriety for High-Achieving Women

    Apr 2, 2025·37m
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    Episode 1: How to Feel Good Alcohol-Free: The First Steps to Sobriety

    Mar 25, 2025·20m
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    Episode 2: Everyone Qualifies for Sobriety: Signs You May Have Outgrown Alcohol

    Mar 25, 2025·25m
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    Episode 3: The One Lie Keeping You Stuck: Overcoming Alcohol Cravings

    Mar 25, 2025·24m