Edge of the Couch

Jordan Pickell and Alison McCleary

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Therapy-process talk for the messy middle.

The gist

Edge of the Couch sits close to the messy parts of being a therapist. Its recurring speakers use friendship, clinical reflection, and everyday examples to think through timing, reciprocity, client distress, relationship red flags, and the limits of care.

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About Edge of the Couch

Edge of the Couch is a therapy-process show with its feet in the awkward middle of clinical work. It does not sound like a manual. It sounds like two reflective practitioners trying to catch the thing that happens between policy, instinct, client need, and therapist anxiety. The clips repeatedly return to relational pressure. What happens when clients want mutual care from friends but do not ask directly for what they need? What changes when a therapist gives one distressed client extra time, then ends another distressed client on schedule? Those questions are small on the surface and big underneath. The show is good at staying with that underneath. It treats boundaries as care, not as coldness. It treats humor as useful, but never as an excuse to dodge the clinical point. In the episodes sampled, Alison McCleary and Jordan Pickell are named in the intros, and their back-and-forth gives the show much of its shape. One example opens into another. A social pattern becomes a therapy-room pattern. A joke about being a wet blanket turns into a serious question about helping clients see the full landscape of a relationship. The show is especially interested in the therapist's own participation in the dance: the wish to be liked, the pull to rescue, and the temptation to make exceptions that feel kind in the moment but become uneven later. Recent topics include session endings, despair, shame, fit, drama, reciprocity, and romantic idealization. The stance is compassionate, but it still draws lines. It makes space for ambivalence without letting ambivalence become avoidance. For working therapists, that combination matters. Edge of the Couch offers the feeling of a thoughtful post-session conversation where uncertainty is allowed, but so are clearer policies, cleaner boundaries, and more honest clinical language.

Made for: Therapists and therapy students who want reflective, candid discussion of clinical judgment, boundaries, client dynamics, and therapist self-doubt.

What sets it apart: The show turns ordinary therapy-room discomforts into concrete process questions, with a warm duo rhythm that allows uncertainty while still naming firm clinical boundaries.

In their own words

Two good friends and experienced therapists explore the topics that were either shied away from or dismissed because they were too big, too nuanced, too risky, or too uncomfortable to address in school or even in supervision. We want to inspire and encourage therapists to think more deeply, show up more fully, and find humour and self-compassion in navigating the messier parts of being a therapist.

As heard by us

Based on 4 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Alison McCleary and Jordan Pickell make the judgment calls behind therapy clearer through candid, self-questioning conversation.

Edge of the Couch turns the everyday judgment calls of therapy into frank conversation. Alison McCleary and Jordan Pickell speak as working therapists and friends, testing their instincts against each other while keeping the uncertainty visible.

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The extra fifteen minutes sound generous until you wonder what they tell a client about your care.

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  • to think through when staying late in session makes care feel conditional
  • to hear how couples work resists a tidy manual, even when both people still care
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Best episodes of Edge of the Couch

Short reviews from the PlayNext desk, based on the episodes we processed.

If You Want a Village, You Have to be a VillagerApr 8, 2026

A grounded look at reciprocity, projection, and how easily unmet needs stay unsaid.

An episode that starts with a familiar therapy question and ends up doing more with it than expected. Alison McCleary and Jordan Pickell keep their focus on ordinary friendship moments, then circle back to what people assume will be understood, what they actually say, and how…

Ending Sessions on TimeApr 1, 2026

A steady look at how a few extra minutes can blur care, trust, and professional boundaries.

Alison McCleary and Jordan Piquel spend the episode on a small but thorny question: what clients may hear when a therapist gives extra minutes. It can read as care, favoritism, or a sign that the relationship is bending toward one person.

Therapists as Wet BlanketsMar 25, 2026

Therapists sometimes have to slow the room down before the fantasy gets too comfortable.

This episode treats therapists as the people who slow the room down, name what is happening, and keep it from turning glossy. Allison McCleary and Jordan Pickell lean into that tension, especially when a client is idealizing a partner, skipping past warning signs, or getting…

Therapy Beyond Individual WorkOct 22, 2025

Therapy gets more complex when the work shifts from one person to couples and parenting.

The piece frames couples work and parenting therapy as a demanding kind of treatment, where the therapist has to hold history, habits, boundaries, and whatever each person can still manage to say to the other.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Working with Dissociation

    Sep 30, 2026·39m
  2. 2

    The Role of Emotion in Therapy

    May 6, 2026·40m
  3. 3

    How to Avoid Being Harmful on Social Media

    Apr 29, 2026·40m
  4. 4

    Has a Client Ever Hurt Your Feelings?

    Apr 22, 2026·43m
  5. 5

    Confrontation is a Key Part of the Job

    Apr 15, 2026·38m
  6. 6

    If You Want a Village, You Have to be a Villager

    Hidden gem

    Alison McCleary and Jordan Pickell start with the familiar complaint that someone wants the village, but does not quite show up like a villager.

    Apr 8, 2026·36m·2 clips
  7. 7

    PATREON PREVIEW: Therapist Red Flags

    Apr 2, 2026·20m
  8. 8

    Ending Sessions on Time

    Hidden gem

    Alison McCleary and Jordan Piquel open with a therapist clip that gets them talking about ending sessions on time.

    Apr 1, 2026·40m·2 clips
  9. 9

    Therapists as Wet Blankets

    Hidden gem

    Allison McCleary and Jordan Pickell take up the idea of therapists as wet blankets.

    Mar 25, 2026·40m·2 clips
  10. 10

    Touching in Therapy: A Relational Perspective

    Jordan Piquel and Allison McCleary debate touch in talk therapy, including hugs, greetings, goodbyes, and touch requests from clients.

    Mar 18, 2026·34m·2 clips
  11. 11

    It's Not Morbid to Talk About Death

    Mar 11, 2026·43m
  12. 12

    Where Story Meets Science

    Two therapists discuss topics often avoided in therapy training, aiming to inspire deeper thinking and self-compassion among therapists.

    Mar 4, 2026·41m
  13. 13

    Should We Bring Back Shame?

    Two therapists announce their live tour and promote Jane practice management software before the main episode.

    Feb 25, 2026·38m
  14. 14

    The Problem with Therapist Promises and Guarantees

    Feb 18, 2026·35m
  15. 15

    Show and Tell in Therapy: When Clients Want to Share Videos, Text messages, or Poetry with Us

    Feb 11, 2026·36m
  16. 16

    For the Record... Neutrality Doesn't Exist

    Feb 4, 2026·37m
  17. 17

    Our Thoughts on Acceptance and Forgiveness

    Jan 28, 2026·38m
  18. 18

    Permissive Parenting, Spanking, and The Therapist's Conundrum

    Jan 21, 2026·43m
  19. 19

    Naming The Culture of Thinness in the Room

    Jan 14, 2026·45m
  20. 20

    Working With Clients Who Know Each Other

    Jan 7, 2026·40m
  21. 21

    Heated Rivalry and Why We Need to Know What Our Clients are Watching

    Dec 31, 2025·36m
  22. 22

    Working with Despair

    The hosts announce a live tour and promote Jane practice management software, setting up the episode's focus on therapist support.

    Dec 17, 2025·42m
  23. 23

    Treating Different Clients Differently

    Dec 10, 2025·37m
  24. 24

    We Wish Your Mom Would Go To Therapy

    Nov 26, 2025·45m
  25. 25

    What is 'Fit'?

    Two therapists announce their live tour and promote Jane practice management software, discussing the challenges and humor in therapy.

    Nov 19, 2025·41m
  26. 26

    What Makes Someone a Specialist?

    Nov 12, 2025·38m
  27. 27

    Working with Clients who Thrive on Drama

    This episode discusses strategies for therapists to effectively work with clients who thrive on drama, focusing on professional approaches in mental health practice.

    Nov 5, 2025·33m
  28. 28

    Is Therapy a Cult?

    Two therapists discuss challenging topics in therapy to inspire deeper thinking and self-compassion among therapists.

    Oct 29, 2025·34m
  29. 29

    Therapy Beyond Individual Work

    Hidden gem

    Edge of the Couch starts with a simple but tricky question: what changes when therapy moves beyond the individual?

    Oct 22, 2025·57m·2 clips
  30. 30

    Self-Awareness Can Become Its Own Problem

    Oct 15, 2025·37m
  31. 31

    Oversaturation Part 2: Fit and Rejecting Competition

    Oct 8, 2025·54m
  32. 32

    Oversaturation: Graduate Programs and the Importance of Gatekeeping

    Oct 1, 2025·39m
  33. 33

    Imposter Syndrome Revisited

    Two therapists announce a live tour and discuss the importance of supervision in therapy practice, sponsored by Jane software.

    Jun 4, 2025·50m
  34. 34

    Examining the "Victim Mentality"

    May 28, 2025·47m
  35. 35

    Who is The Villain?

    May 21, 2025·49m
  36. 36

    Working "Harder" Than Your Client

    May 14, 2025·47m
  37. 37

    Honing Your Therapist Intuition

    May 7, 2025·44m
  38. 38

    Time to Grieve

    Apr 30, 2025·1m
  39. 39

    Let's Talk About Mean Therapists

    Apr 23, 2025·42m
  40. 40

    When Therapists Miss Key Information

    Apr 16, 2025·51m
  41. 41

    Working with Intellectualizing

    Apr 9, 2025·46m
  42. 42

    Are We "Treating" Our Clients?

    Two therapists announce a live tour and promote Jane practice management software before discussing therapy topics.

    Apr 2, 2025·39m
  43. 43

    Being a Therapist on Social Media

    Mar 26, 2025·41m
  44. 44

    When the Client Hits a Nerve

    Mar 19, 2025·40m
  45. 45

    How to Get the Most Out of Supervision

    The hosts announce a live tour and promote Jane practice management software before beginning the episode.

    Mar 12, 2025·36m
  46. 46

    The Trend of ‘The Cool Therapist’

    Mar 5, 2025·35m
  47. 47

    Talking to Clients About Politics

    Feb 26, 2025·38m
  48. 48

    When Clients Set Unrealistic Expectations

    Feb 19, 2025·38m
  49. 49

    Opening a Private Practice: Our Personal Stories

    Feb 12, 2025·42m
  50. 50

    Live Q+A

    Two therapists introduce their podcast and a sponsor, discussing the challenges of charting and the importance of exploring uncomfortable topics in therapy.

    Nov 6, 2024·48m
  51. 51

    Working with Discernment

    Oct 23, 2024·37m
  52. 52

    Managing Crisis (Without Becoming a Crisis Worker)

    Oct 16, 2024·47m
  53. 53

    What Does 'Following the Client' Mean?

    Oct 9, 2024·41m
  54. 54

    When Does Compassion Cross Over into Complicity?

    Oct 2, 2024·37m
  55. 55

    Clients are Lonelier Than Ever Before

    Sep 25, 2024·46m
  56. 56

    Watching Our Very First Recording: When Edge of the Couch was Reel Therapy Talk

    Sep 18, 2024·1h 8m
  57. 57

    DEI is Not Enough: A Conversation with Bhupie Dulay and Abby Chow

    Sep 11, 2024·42m
  58. 58

    Getting Dumped: When the client decides to terminate

    Sep 4, 2024·29m
  59. 59

    Working with Dreams

    Aug 28, 2024·26m
  60. 60

    Is This Client Being Passive Aggressive?

    Aug 21, 2024·31m
  61. 61

    Clients Recording Their Therapist: An emerging trend

    Aug 14, 2024·38m
  62. 62

    How to Create Continuity from Session to Session

    Aug 7, 2024·29m
  63. 63

    Erotic Transference

    Jul 31, 2024·44m
  64. 64

    The Misuse of Therapy Speak

    Jul 24, 2024·38m
  65. 65

    The Meaning of Silence

    Jul 10, 2024·29m
  66. 66

    Rethinking Unconditional Positive Regard

    Jul 3, 2024·32m
  67. 67

    When Clients Dismiss Their Trauma

    Jun 26, 2024·30m
  68. 68

    Working with Clients who are "Too Emotional"

    Jun 19, 2024·45m
  69. 69

    Are Therapists Becoming Enmeshed?

    Jun 12, 2024·42m
  70. 70

    Why Therapists Aren't Talking about Genocide

    Jun 5, 2024·17m
  71. 71

    Celebrating 100 Episodes: A Love Letter to Ourselves and to You, Our Listeners

    Mar 20, 2024·56m
  72. 72

    Managing Our Own Shit When It's Activated in Session

    Mar 13, 2024·38m
  73. 73

    When You Feel Like You Need to Prove Yourself

    Mar 6, 2024·39m
  74. 74

    When a Client Rejects Us

    Feb 28, 2024·44m
  75. 75

    Starting and Ending Sessions

    Feb 21, 2024·32m
  76. 76

    Responding to "I Don't Know"

    Feb 14, 2024·40m
  77. 77

    Cancellations, Late Cancellations, and No-Shows

    Feb 7, 2024·47m
  78. 78

    Helping Clients Take Relational Risks

    Jan 31, 2024·37m
  79. 79

    Disillusionment, Exhaustion, and the Economy: Why so many therapists are leaving the field

    Jan 24, 2024·31m
  80. 80

    The Differences and Similarities Between In-Person and Virtual Sessions

    Jan 17, 2024·46m
  81. 81

    When Clients Talk about "Small Things"

    Jan 3, 2024·45m
  82. 82

    Therapist Boundaries

    Dec 27, 2023·31m
  83. 83

    Naming the Elephant in the Room

    Dec 20, 2023·26m
  84. 84

    Working with Shame

    Dec 13, 2023·31m
  85. 85

    The Therapist as Fellow Traveller

    Dec 6, 2023·24m
  86. 86

    What We Look for in Practicum Students

    Nov 29, 2023·34m
  87. 87

    Hardest Moments, Most Joyful Moments

    Aug 30, 2023·42m
  88. 88

    The Dreaded Summer Slump

    Aug 23, 2023·33m
  89. 89

    The Basic Skills of Therapy, According to Us

    Jun 14, 2023·39m
  90. 90

    Q&A: Big Questions Answered

    Jun 7, 2023·47m
  91. 91

    Sitting with Grieving Clients

    May 31, 2023·45m
  92. 92

    The Unsettling Truth of Bad Therapists

    May 24, 2023·44m
  93. 93

    Clients Who Exclusively Talk About Other People

    May 17, 2023·50m
  94. 94

    Do Clients Owe Us The Truth?

    May 10, 2023·37m
  95. 95

    Being Selective about Clients: Are we allowed to work solely with ideal clients?

    May 3, 2023·48m
  96. 96

    The Difference Between Theoretical Orientation and Personal Approach

    Apr 26, 2023·40m
  97. 97

    Finding Levity in Therapy

    Apr 19, 2023·44m
  98. 98

    Metaphor and Analogy as Therapeutic Tools

    Apr 12, 2023·40m
  99. 99

    Parents, Parenting, and Parental Estrangement

    Apr 5, 2023·56m
  100. 100

    How Much Relational Processing is Too Much?

    Mar 29, 2023·42m
  101. 101

    When Clients Say They Aren't Getting Anything Out of Therapy

    Mar 22, 2023·40m
  102. 102

    Showing Up When You Don’t Feel Your Best

    Mar 15, 2023·39m
  103. 103

    Responding to Feedback about the Podcast

    Dec 21, 2022·37m
  104. 104

    When You Have a Mediocre Session

    Dec 14, 2022·41m
  105. 105

    Can Clients Become Too Dependent on Therapy?

    Dec 7, 2022·42m
  106. 106

    When Your Clients Take Your Words and Run with Them

    Nov 30, 2022·36m
  107. 107

    The Art of Asking Questions

    Nov 23, 2022·43m
  108. 108

    Are Boys and Men a Special Population? - Interview with Jake Ernst

    Nov 16, 2022·1h 5m
  109. 109

    Honouring All of Your Identities as a Therapist

    Nov 9, 2022·37m
  110. 110

    Understanding Your Scope of Practice

    Nov 2, 2022·41m
  111. 111

    What You Deserve From Supervision: An Interview with Jennifer Hollinshead

    Oct 26, 2022·52m
  112. 112

    There are Consequences to Therapy

    Oct 19, 2022·51m
  113. 113

    What Does Authenticity Mean as a Therapist?

    Oct 12, 2022·40m
  114. 114

    Burnout, Vicarious Trauma, and the Myth of Self-Care

    Oct 5, 2022·42m
  115. 115

    Using Your Face in Therapy: Sometimes a slow nod or an eye roll says it all

    Sep 28, 2022·53m
  116. 116

    Worry about Clients (How Much is Too Much?)

    Sep 21, 2022·47m
  117. 117

    Setting Intentions for Second Sessions

    Sep 14, 2022·46m
  118. 118

    How to Know What to Say

    Sep 7, 2022·47m
  119. 119

    Season 3 Thoughts and the Current Landscape for Therapists

    Jun 8, 2022·41m
  120. 120

    How to Build Trust

    Jun 1, 2022·45m
  121. 121

    Q+A Best Trainings, Saying the Wrong Thing, and Managing Guilt for Leaving Agency Work

    May 25, 2022·40m
  122. 122

    When You Judge Your Clients

    May 18, 2022·43m
  123. 123

    You Have to be a Therapist to be a Therapist

    May 11, 2022·38m
  124. 124

    Saying Goodbye to Clients

    May 4, 2022·39m
  125. 125

    The Messiness of Therapy - Interview with Tyndal Schreiner

    Apr 27, 2022·41m
  126. 126

    Take Up Space in Session

    Apr 20, 2022·38m
  127. 127

    Why Therapists Must Go to Therapy

    Apr 13, 2022·43m
  128. 128

    Your Dread is Telling You Something

    Apr 6, 2022·43m
  129. 129

    Own Who You Are and What You Need - Interview with Theresa Thomas

    Mar 30, 2022·42m
  130. 130

    How to Do Free Consultations

    Mar 23, 2022·41m
  131. 131

    Chitchat Isn't Therapy

    Mar 16, 2022·35m
  132. 132

    Anti-fat Bias in Therapy -- Interview with Alexandra Shewan

    Mar 9, 2022·43m
  133. 133

    The Insidious Nature of Competitiveness

    Mar 2, 2022·36m
  134. 134

    Finding Your Theoretical Orientation

    Feb 23, 2022·40m
  135. 135

    When Things Go Sideways

    Feb 16, 2022·43m
  136. 136

    Holding onto Hope

    Jan 12, 2022·45m
  137. 137

    Religion, Spirituality, and Ghosts

    Dec 8, 2021·48m
  138. 138

    How to Leave Work at Work

    Dec 1, 2021·46m
  139. 139

    Rupture and Repair

    Nov 24, 2021·43m
  140. 140

    Reframing Our Fear of Failure and Embracing Mistake Making - Interview with Kat DeFatta

    Nov 17, 2021·34m
  141. 141

    The Beautiful, Powerful Art of Self-Disclosure

    Nov 10, 2021·48m
  142. 142

    Progress Notes: Often Stressful, Sometimes Dangerous

    Nov 3, 2021·27m
  143. 143

    Practicing Joy and Play for Collective Liberation - Interview with Ji-Youn Kim

    Oct 27, 2021·44m
  144. 144

    I passed a client on the street! Should I say 'Hi'?

    Oct 20, 2021·44m
  145. 145

    Multiple clients owe me money. Now what??

    Oct 6, 2021·40m
  146. 146

    Talking to Clients about Sex

    Sep 29, 2021·39m
  147. 147

    Celebrating Humanness in the Therapy Room and on Social Media - Interview with Taylor Broughton

    Sep 22, 2021·44m
  148. 148

    What the heck happens in first sessions anyway?

    Sep 15, 2021·36m
  149. 149

    Moving Through Client Stuckness

    Sep 8, 2021·40m
  150. 150

    Re-imagining therapy - Interview with Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy

    Sep 1, 2021·39m
  151. 151

    The Myth of Dressing Unprofessionally

    Aug 25, 2021·31m
  152. 152

    As therapists, do we become desensitized to trauma stories?

    Jun 23, 2021·14m
  153. 153

    Can therapists say "I'm proud of you" to clients?

    Jun 9, 2021·18m
  154. 154

    Q+A Part 2 Dealing with a racist client, processing our own "stuff", and thoughts on homework

    Jun 2, 2021·28m
  155. 155

    Q+A Part 1 Breaking up with a supervisor, using jargon, and a client says "You're pretty"

    May 26, 2021·29m
  156. 156

    The therapeutic relationship is a place of experimentation and affirmation - Interview with Co-host Jordan Pickell

    May 19, 2021·28m
  157. 157

    We're all going to die someday - Interview with Co-host Alison McCleary

    May 12, 2021·29m
  158. 158

    When you are attracted to the client

    May 5, 2021·40m
  159. 159

    When you disagree with your school

    Apr 28, 2021·29m
  160. 160

    When the client wants to die

    Apr 21, 2021·35m
  161. 161

    When you want to be friends with the client

    Apr 14, 2021·26m
  162. 162

    When you have lived experience - Interview with Mimi Cole

    Apr 7, 2021·27m
  163. 163

    When you can't help laughing

    Mar 31, 2021·26m
  164. 164

    When you dislike your client

    Mar 24, 2021·31m
  165. 165

    When you are chronically ill

    Mar 17, 2021·31m
  166. 166

    When you fall in love with therapy - Interview with Chloe Powell

    Mar 10, 2021·39m
  167. 167

    When you are a therapist in a pandemic

    Mar 3, 2021·35m
  168. 168

    When the client won't cry

    Feb 24, 2021·31m
  169. 169

    When you feel like an imposter

    Feb 17, 2021·39m
  170. 170

    Trailer

    Feb 3, 2021·1m