kirizal & S
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Blunt kink talk with communication at the center.
Don’t Scare the Newbies! treats kink as something funny, complicated, negotiated, and deeply personal. Carizel and S move from teasing banter into careful talk about power exchange, taboo fantasies, business, bodies, safety, and aftermath.
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Don’t Scare the Newbies! makes kink feel less like a locked room and more like a long, candid conversation at the edge of someone’s comfort zone. Carizel and S talk from inside a 24-7 dynamic, but the show rarely treats that as a template for everyone else. It keeps saying, in different ways, that kink is built, negotiated, revised, and sometimes laughed through. The tone is warm and blunt. One minute may be a joke about microphones, movie nights, or an awkward phrase; the next may be a careful distinction between humiliation, insecurity, self-harm, obedience, and emotional safety. That pivot is the show’s real rhythm. It is casual, but not careless. Episodes on degradation, financial domination, size kink, and appearance control stay grounded in lived dynamics rather than abstract theory. When the subject gets heavier, the conversation usually circles back to trust, limits, and what a partner can responsibly hold. Guest episodes add range without turning into detached interviews. Lydia talks about running Kilter and building subtle kinky clothing around the practical problems of being public, visible, and stocked. Bunny and L bring in wet and messy play, balloons, and the sillier side of kink that pushes against the all-black, all-severe stereotype. Mark’s sharps play episode gets into risk, blood, negotiation, repeated checking-in, and the gap between outsider fantasy and how bottoms can drive the ideas. The film discussion of Secretary adds another recurring strand: kink media, trauma, structure, and the danger of treating a relationship as therapy. Don’t Scare the Newbies! is strongest when it refuses easy categories. It can enjoy intensity without pretending intensity is simple. It can joke about taboo material without losing sight of consequences. It can make space for silly, pretty, painful, expensive, theatrical, and emotionally loaded forms of play in the same feed. The result is a show for adults who want kink explained by people who are both amused by it and serious about doing it with care.
Made for: For curious adults, kink newcomers, and experienced listeners who want candid BDSM conversation without sensationalism. It especially suits people interested in power exchange, negotiation, and the emotional logic behind taboo play.
What sets it apart: The show pairs lived 24-7 power exchange with a habit of slowing down at the risky parts. Its best moments mix teasing, practical examples, and careful framing instead of treating kink as either shock value or textbook material.
Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy stuff in between.Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at www.kirizal.comSupport U/us on Patreon at patreon.com/dontscarethenewbiesVote for U/us in The Alternative Awards by liking this Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DTdI0ZZDGlw/?igsh=bDhweDh6aDl1MW45
Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026
Carizel and S turn candid kink conversations into thoughtful accounts of trust, power, risk and the routines that hold relationships together.
Don't Scare the Newbies! makes kink legible through the lived dynamic between Carizel and S, pairing candid personal experience with careful discussion of power, consent and emotional consequence.
S brings an ex to discuss power exchange breakups; your group chat would need a minute.
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A candid look at how a kink idea becomes a business.
This episode treats a luxury bondage brand as a business story first and a kink conversation second. Lydia explains how Kilter began as something she made for herself five years ago, then grew into a full-time business and later into Subtle Bond, where the embroidery is meant to…
A plain look at how humiliation play can cut deeper than expected.
Carizel and S spend the episode spelling out degradation and humiliation in plain language, then tracing where the two start to diverge. The conversation keeps returning to a practical question: words that may sound similar can land very differently once they are tied to a…
A blunt, thoughtful look at a well-known kink film and the line between structure and dependence.
Carisel and S treat Secretary like a movie people think they already know, then spend the run time taking it apart with care. The talk is strongest when it separates masochism from self-harm and makes room for the idea that clear rules, trust, and firm authority can be…
A sharp, candid sharps-play chat that keeps consent and practical detail at the center.
Sharps play is handled as a real exchange, not a stunt. Carizel, S, and Mark move through needles, scalpels, blood, and the awkward work of asking for something intense while keeping safety and consent in view.
A frank, funny look at what a D/s breakup leaves behind.
Carizal and S bring Hope, their ex, into a candid talk about D/s breakups, and the strongest stretch stays with the small, specific details: the morning check-ins, the outfit photos, and the daily structure that suddenly stops.
Pathfinder chaos with a crooked grin.
Lydia joins Carizel and S to talk about Kilter.
Carizel and S open by working through degradation and humiliation as terms that get tangled up fast.
This episode explores financial domination in kink relationships, discussing its controversial nature and how it works for the hosts.
This episode explores size kink, discussing topics like big dicks, large insertions, and the dynamics of putting big things in small spaces in a raw and unfiltered manner.
This episode features an interview with Bunny and L discussing wet and messy (WAM) and looner kinks, exploring the lighter, sillier side of kink culture beyond traditional dark stereotypes.
Carisel and S finally get to *Secretary*, a movie their listeners have been asking about for a while.
Carizel, S, and Mark settle into a loose, joking conversation about sharps play.
This episode explores appearance control in kink, particularly focusing on bimbofication as a personal take within a 24-7 dominant-submissive dynamic.
Carizal and S open with their usual teasing before bringing Hope, Carizal's ex, into a conversation about D/s breakups.
The hosts discuss their mixed feelings about the kink-themed movie 'Pillion', analyzing its strengths and weaknesses while warning about spoilers.
The hosts discuss sadism and masochism in kink, exploring their personal experiences with pain and how these roles relate to identity within BDSM.
This episode features Nat of the North East Life Art Project discussing the intersection of nudity, power dynamics, and body image in life drawing and kink contexts.