Dear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch

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Therapy-room clarity for real-life emotional knots.

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Dear Therapists follows Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch as they work through intimate problems with everyday people. The sessions move from raw stories toward concrete emotional guidance, then often return to hear what changed afterward.

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About Dear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch

Dear Therapists is an advice-and-session series shaped around real emotional problems rather than abstract self-help themes. Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch guide people through conflicts that are familiar, messy, and usually bigger than the presenting issue. A mother brings cookies and toys, and the conversation opens into a daughter’s old fear of not being seen. A woman describes the turbulence of her parents’ divorce, and the focus shifts from the facts of the conflict to the feelings she rarely names. The show listens for repetition. Childhood coping strategies reappear in adult relationships, adult children struggle with what they owe parents who caused harm, and family holidays carry old custody battles into the present. Some episodes work through romantic trust and Instagram flirtations. Others sit with infertility, chronic illness, stepfamily strain, alcoholism, depression, abuse, and the exhaustion of trying to repair a relationship alone. The pacing is patient. The language is plain. The emotional work is often sharp. Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch are direct when someone is avoiding the real subject, but the tone stays humane and careful. The format also gives the series a rare sense of consequence. Advice is not treated as a closing speech; the show often circles back to hear how a person used it, resisted it, or changed after the session. That follow-through makes the episodes feel less like performance and more like supervised practice. The show suits listeners who are interested in therapy’s mechanics: how questions are framed, how defenses soften, how people learn to say what hurts without drowning in the whole history. It is especially strong on family systems, emotional inheritance, and the difficult difference between explaining someone’s behavior and excusing it. The result is intimate, useful audio that turns other people’s sessions into mirrors without pretending that one answer fixes every life.

Made for: For listeners drawn to therapy, advice columns, family dynamics, and emotionally specific storytelling. It suits people who prefer careful questions and practical reflection over quick inspiration.

What sets it apart: The show’s strength is its session-and-follow-up structure: problems are explored in real time, then revisited after the advice has been tried. Its best moments come from tracing how old family patterns quietly shape present relationships.

In their own words

I’m Lori Gottlieb, author of Maybe You Should Talk To Someone. And I’m Guy Winch, author of Emotional First Aid. We’re both advice columnists, TED speakers, and of course therapists in clinical practice who want to bring the lessons of the therapy room outside the therapy room… to all of you. Each week on DEAR THERAPISTS, we invite you to be a fly-on-the-wall in these personal, raw, transformative sessions with everyday people and then hear what happens when we give concrete, actionable advice and have them report back to let us know how things went after the session...

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Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch make family conflict legible by tracing present reactions back to the emotional patterns that keep them alive.

Dear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch lets difficult relationships reveal themselves in real time, then slows the conversation where a familiar complaint starts hiding a deeper pattern.

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Why you'd press play

Cookies arrive, old loneliness flares; Lori and Guy help you hear the argument underneath.

Press play if you want

  • to understand why a mother's helpful gesture can land as an old hurt, without picking a villain
  • to notice when telling your partner what happened hides how you actually feel
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Best episodes of Dear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch

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Encore: S02 Ep 6 - Carol and Michelle’s Mother-Daughter ConflictApr 14, 2026

A careful mother-daughter conversation that treats old hurt as something to understand, not score.

Carol and Michelle's conversation stays with how Carol's depression shaped Michelle's loneliness and alarm, and the hosts give that space without rushing past it.

Encore: S02 Ep 5 - Nicole’s Family DivorceApr 7, 2026

A measured episode that finds its force in careful listening and plainspoken feeling.

Nicole's story keeps returning to the same gap: what happened, and what it felt like to live through it. Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch stay on that seam with care, and the episode works best when it moves from plain reporting into the harder work of saying stress, anger, and…

Encore: S02 Ep 4 - What We’ve Learned about LoveMar 31, 2026

An encore that revisits a difficult family dynamic with practical, humane attention.

This encore returns to a relationship still working out how to live with a partner's child in the middle of it. Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch treat Priscilla's story less as a settled success and more as an ongoing case of repair, where the signs of progress are tentative plans…

Encore: Ep. 19 - Shannon's Holiday-Season DreadFeb 24, 2026

A holiday story about family logistics, loyalty, and the strain of being split in two.

Holiday dread here comes less from the calendar than from the custody schedule. The guest talks through shuttling between parents, fitting in Thanksgiving twice, and moving through Hanukkah and Christmas while trying to give both households equal time.

Encore: Ep. 18 - Scott's Wife's AffairFeb 17, 2026

A plainspoken marriage story about being unheard, the fallout for children, and the hard work of facing what is true.

Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch keep the focus on a marriage that breaks down around being unheard. The piece stays with the damage that follows when adult conflict spills onto children and an affair is brought into the open.

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Episodes

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    Encore: S02 Ep 20 - Doug's Fear of Intimacy

    Hidden gem

    Dear Therapists hosts Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch examine Doug's difficulty moving forward after a five-and-a-half-year engagement to Max, whose clinical OCD dominated their relationship.

    Jul 21, 2026·1h 9m·5 clips
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    Encore: S02 Ep 19 - Zoey’s Wealthy Brother

    Jul 14, 2026·1h 3m
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    Encore: Lori and Guy Answer Your Questions

    Jul 7, 2026·45m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 17 - Hilary’s Shopping Addiction

    Jun 30, 2026·1h
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    Encore: Having Hard Conversations: How to Avoid Being Avoidant

    Jun 23, 2026·43m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 15 - Melissa’s Stifled Emotions

    Jun 16, 2026·1h 1m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 14 - Paul’s Inappropriate Boss

    Jun 9, 2026·47m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 13 - Audrey’s Narcissistic Ex-Husband

    Jun 2, 2026·1h 6m
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    Encore: How to Emotionally Free Yourself

    May 26, 2026·54m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 11 - Lauren’s Sexual Shame

    May 19, 2026·52m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 10 - Mark’s Romantic Dilemma

    May 12, 2026·59m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 9 - Wendy’s Ruptured Friendship

    May 5, 2026·53m
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    Encore: Family Struggles: How We Move Through Them

    Apr 28, 2026·43m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 7 - Emma’s Unavailable Men

    Apr 21, 2026·1h 7m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 6 - Carol and Michelle’s Mother-Daughter Conflict

    Hidden gem

    This encore episode of Dear Therapists revisits a popular session where therapists Lori and Guy help Carol and Michelle navigate their mother-daughter conflict, offering listeners another chance to gain therapeutic insights.

    Apr 14, 2026·1h 5m·2 clips
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    Encore: S02 Ep 5 - Nicole’s Family Divorce

    Nicole brings Dear Therapists a letter about her parents separating after 39 years of marriage, and Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch quickly identify her as the youngest child who has long been the family mediator.

    Apr 7, 2026·57m·3 clips
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    Encore: S02 Ep 4 - What We’ve Learned about Love

    Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch present follow-ups from four past therapy clients one year after their sessions.

    Mar 31, 2026·43m·4 clips
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    Encore: S02 Ep 3 - Diane’s Infertility Struggle

    This encore episode of Dear Therapists revisits a popular session about Diane's infertility struggle, offering listeners a chance to gain new insights through repeated listening.

    Mar 24, 2026·1h 1m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 2 - Jason’s Alcoholic Father

    A therapy session where a man discusses his guilt over caring for his aging, abusive alcoholic father who called him names and physically abused him growing up.

    Mar 17, 2026·1h 15m
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    Encore: S02 Ep 1 - Jennifer's Fiance's Instagram Flirtations

    This encore episode of Dear Therapists revisits a popular session where Jennifer seeks advice about her fiance's Instagram flirtations, offering listeners a chance to gain new insights through repeated listening.

    Mar 10, 2026·1h 1m
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    Encore: Ep. 20 - Savannah's Chronically-Ill Husband

    This is an encore episode of Dear Therapists featuring a session about Savannah's chronically-ill husband, offering therapeutic insights on navigating such relationships.

    Mar 3, 2026·58m
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    Encore: Ep. 19 - Shannon's Holiday-Season Dread

    Hidden gem

    "I would probably spend it with my best friend" becomes a concrete plan, not just a wish.

    Feb 24, 2026·1h 1m·2 clips
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    Encore: Ep. 18 - Scott's Wife's Affair

    Hidden gem

    "You were the one that was trying to convince her to stay, to repair, to work."

    Feb 17, 2026·1h 4m·2 clips
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    Encore: Ep. 17 - Danica's Rejected Sibling

    Feb 10, 2026·53m
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    Encore: Ep. 16 - Two Therapists and a Monk

    Feb 3, 2026·48m
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    Encore: Ep. 15 - Molly's Father's Suicide

    Jan 27, 2026·1h 8m
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    Encore: Ep. 14 - Libby’s Self-Induced Stress

    Jan 20, 2026·46m
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    Encore: Ep. 13 - Maria's Childless Son

    Jan 13, 2026·48m
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    Encore: Ep. 12 - Liam's Gender Transition

    Jan 6, 2026·57m
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    Encore: Ep. 11 - Haley's Perfect Sister

    Dec 23, 2025·57m
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    Encore: Ep. 10 - Lenny's Estranged Daughter

    Dec 16, 2025·1h 1m
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    Encore: Ep. 9 - Elena's Cheating Husband

    Dec 9, 2025·51m
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    Encore: Ep. 8 - Jeff’s Critical Parents

    Dec 2, 2025·56m
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    Encore: Ep. 7 - Allison’s Lonely Students

    Nov 25, 2025·32m
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    Encore: Ep. 6 - Kristine's DNA Bombshell

    Nov 18, 2025·47m
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    Encore: Ep. 5 - Amy's Boyfriend's Dog

    Nov 11, 2025·39m
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    Encore: Ep. 4 - Ryan and Beth's Relationship Impasse

    Nov 4, 2025·44m
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    Encore: Ep. 3 - Mike's Messy Affair

    Oct 28, 2025·51m
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    Encore: Ep. 2 - Priscilla's Blended Family

    Oct 21, 2025·33m
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    Encore: Ep. 1 - Shrina's Broken Heart

    Oct 14, 2025·43m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 10 - Stephanie’s Mother’s Judgment

    Oct 7, 2025·1h 17m
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    BONUS: Since You Asked: Is a Flakey Friend Worth Keeping? Plus: Badly Behaved Kids!

    Oct 2, 2025·33m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 09 - Alexis’s Controlling Family

    Sep 30, 2025·1h 17m
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    Introducing: Since You Asked

    Sep 25, 2025·10m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 08 - Grace and Finn’s Escalating Arguments

    Sep 23, 2025·1h 7m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 07 - Vanessa’s Parental Betrayal

    Sep 16, 2025·1h 18m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 06 - Andrew’s Shared Ex-Boyfriend

    Sep 9, 2025·1h 1m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 05 - Emily’s Shaky Marriage

    Sep 2, 2025·1h 10m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 04 - Elise’s Angry Sister

    Aug 26, 2025·1h 19m
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    BONUS: More Happier: Talking Romance Writing with Stacey Abrams and Lori Gottlieb

    This bonus episode features a conversation with Stacey Abrams and Lori Gottlieb about romance writing and the creative process.

    Aug 23, 2025·36m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 03 - Richard’s Wife’s Death

    This episode features promotional trailers for iHeart podcasts including Math & Magic with marketing insights from industry leaders and Mind Over Mountain with Cheryl Strayed interviewing adventurers.

    Aug 19, 2025·1h 14m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 02 - Nora’s Unexpected Pregnancy

    Aug 12, 2025·1h 17m
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    Encore: S04 Ep. 01 - Amanda’s Cheating Husband

    Aug 5, 2025·1h 13m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 21 - We Discuss Becca & Jake

    Jul 29, 2025·33m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 20 - We Discuss Adam

    Jul 22, 2025·20m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 19 - Kate’s People-Pleasing Trap

    Jul 15, 2025·1h 17m
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    Encore: Jennifer’s Fiance’s Instagram Flirtations One Year Later

    Jul 8, 2025·16m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 17 - Jordan’s Troubled Marriage

    This transcript features promotional trailers for multiple iHeart podcasts covering topics like marketing insights, financial education, and interviews with athletes and adventurers.

    Jul 1, 2025·1h 4m
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    Encore: Hillary’s Shopping Addiction One Year Later

    Jun 24, 2025·11m
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    Encore: Lauren’s Sexual Shame One Year Later

    Jun 17, 2025·12m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 14 - Anna and Chris’ Marital Betrayal

    This episode features promotional trailers for multiple iHeart podcasts, including Math & Magic on marketing, Earn Your Leisure on financial literacy, and Mind Over Mountain on athlete interviews.

    Jun 10, 2025·1h 16m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 13 - Melanie’s Difficult Mother

    This transcript features promotional trailers for multiple iHeart podcasts covering topics like marketing insights, financial education, and personal growth through interviews with athletes and adventurers.

    Jun 3, 2025·1h 15m
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    Encore: Melissa’s Stifled Emotions One Year Later

    May 27, 2025·12m
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    Encore: Doug’s Fear of Intimacy One Year Later

    May 20, 2025·11m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 10 - Kayla’s Toxic Relationship

    May 13, 2025·1h 5m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 9 - Sandra and Kim’s Family Secret

    May 6, 2025·1h 14m
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    Diane’s Infertility Struggles One Year Later

    Apr 29, 2025·15m
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    Nicole’s Family Divorce One Year Later

    Apr 22, 2025·9m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 6 - Becca and Jake’s Marital Impasse

    Apr 15, 2025·1h 8m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 5 - Catherine’s Secret Revenge

    Apr 8, 2025·1h 6m
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    Paul’s Inappropriate Boss One Year Later

    Apr 1, 2025·12m
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    Audrey’s Narcissistic Ex-Husband One Year Later

    Mar 25, 2025·12m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 2 - Lily and Nathan’s Second Marriage

    Mar 18, 2025·1h 7m
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    Encore: S03 Ep. 1 - Adam’s Cheating Boyfriend

    Mar 11, 2025·1h 6m
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    Season 4 of Dear Therapists Launches Next Week!

    Jun 6, 2023·3m
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    Dear Therapists Season 3 Begins!

    May 3, 2022·2m
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    DEAR THERAPISTS Podcast returns next Tuesday, 7/20!

    Jul 12, 2021·3m
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    Lori And Guy's Exciting Announcements

    May 12, 2021·4m
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    Bonus Episode: Instagram Live Q&A

    Mar 4, 2021·42m
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    Lori & Guy's Mid-Season Break

    Oct 8, 2020·3m
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    Introducing: Dear Therapists

    Jul 22, 2020·3m