Confidently You: Women in Leadership

Rebecca Malotke-Meslin & Lynne Macziewski

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EMA's latest podcast is Confidently You: Women in Leadership, designed to support women working in independent schools who are or want to become leaders. The podcast is hosted by Lynne Macziewski from The Baldwin School and Rebecca Malotke-Meslin of Pleasantly Aggressive Coaching & Consulting. We engage in thoughtful discussions about our experiences as women leaders to demystify the path to leadership and provide valuable resources in our field.

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Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026

School leaders turn confidence and career growth into concrete lessons about power, boundaries, advancement, and the daily work of leading.

Confidently You: Women in Leadership keeps returning to the practical tensions beneath advancement: perfectionism that turns into office housework, vulnerability complicated by positional power, and the difficult decisions that accompany headship.

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Confidence & Career PivotsFeb 3, 2026

A practical leadership conversation centered on confidence, structure, and support.

Erin Riel's conversation with Rebecca Malotke-Messlin and Lynn Macheskey follows a leadership path shaped by early turns, education choices, and a return to purpose.

New to Headship ReflectionDec 16, 2025

A warm, unhurried leadership conversation centered on change and headship.

This episode follows a headship journey through role changes, moves, and the practical strain that comes with transition, all in a warm and conversational tone.

Running Towards ConfidenceNov 3, 2025

Confidence here grows from memory, not from a keynote.

Emily Kritschbaum's story builds confidence through small scenes that stay with the listener: a sixth-grade run to a tree and back, a teacher who said somebody should be cheering for the girls, the awkwardness of braces and glasses, and an adult turn toward running as joy, flow,…

Unlocking Your Leadership with ListeningJan 10, 2025

REAL Discussion turns classroom inequity into a teachable framework for listening and leading.

At its core, this is a teacher noticing that classroom talk can tilt unfairly and deciding to make that problem teachable. Liza Goranzik follows REAL Discussion from that middle school frustration through graduate school and into a four-part method built on relate, excerpt, ask,…

Stronger Together: Women Supporting WomenNov 14, 2024

A warm conversation about peer support, perfectionism, and the habits that shape women’s advancement.

It leans into women supporting women, then settles into the habits that can shape leadership: perfectionism, office housework, the urge to prove competence by doing everything alone, and the peers who help make room to step back.

Wellness and BelongingJun 20, 2024

A school culture conversation that treats belonging as shared work, not a side project.

Confidently You follows Dr. Susan Perry as it connects wellness and belonging to the larger duties school communities carry. Its strongest point is simple and firm: these practices cannot rest with only a few adults in the building.

Headspace: Dr. Autumn GravesJun 6, 2024

A practical leadership conversation on mentoring, expectations, and confidence in independent-school life.

Confidently You stays true to its mission with a focused discussion of women in leadership, imposter syndrome, new roles, authentic style, and confidence.

Connecting Women LeadersMar 29, 2024

Confidence is shown as something built through support and experience, not treated as a fixed trait.

This piece treats women moving into leadership as a process of building confidence while already in motion, not a moment that arrives fully formed.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Shaping the Future of All-Girls Education

    Hidden gem

    Megan Malotke-Messlin describes how the International Coalition of Girls' Schools grew from the National Coalition of Girls Schools formed in 1991 into ICGS in 2022, then absorbed the Alliance of Girls' Schools in Australasia and the Association of State Girls' Schools in the UK by 2024.

    ·29m·2 clips
  2. 2

    Headspace: Polly Fredlund

    Hidden gem

    Polly Fredlund, head of school at Westover in Middlebury, Connecticut, traces a 25-plus-year career through Hathaway Brown, the Bush School, and a brief Washington, D.C.

    ·52m·3 clips
  3. 3

    Vulnerability & Inclusivity

    Hidden gem

    Rebecca Malachy-Meslin and Lynn Macheskey welcome Cheryl Schenck for a conversation about leadership, inclusion, and the strain of asking others to hold what you are carrying.

    ·46m·3 clips
  4. 4

    Authentically Embracing Risk

    Hidden gem

    Claire Goldsmith joins Rebecca Malotke-Messlin and Lynn Macheskey for a conversation about leadership, technology, and women’s experience in school settings.

    ·40m·2 clips
  5. 5

    Powerful Women & Real Friendships

    Hidden gem

    Confidently You: Women in Leadership centers on Rebecca Malotke-Messlin and Lynn Macheskey talking with Dr.

    ·36m·2 clips
  6. 6

    Core Values and Connection

    Core values get practical.

    Feb 27, 2026·34m·3 clips
  7. 7

    Confidence & Career Pivots

    Hidden gem

    Erin Riel brings a winding career road into the room.

    Feb 3, 2026·39m
  8. 8

    New to Headship Reflection

    Rebecca Malotke-Maslin interviews her co-host, Lynn Macheskey, about Lynn’s path to headship.

    Dec 16, 2025·43m
  9. 9

    Running Towards Confidence

    Hidden gem

    Rebecca Malotke-Messlin and Lynn Macheskey welcome Emily Kritschbaum for a conversation about confidence, leadership, and the long road between them.

    Nov 3, 2025·44m·2 clips
  10. 10

    Unlocking Your Leadership with Listening

    Rebecca Malotke-Messlin and Limma Chesky sit down with Liza Goranzik to talk about confidence, leadership, and listening well in discussion.

    Jan 10, 2025·34m·1 clip
  11. 11

    Stronger Together: Women Supporting Women

    Women leaders from independent schools discuss building confidence, supporting other women, and overcoming perfectionism.

    Nov 14, 2024·47m·4 clips
  12. 12

    Wellness and Belonging

    Dr.

    Jun 20, 2024·41m·3 clips
  13. 13

    Headspace: Dr. Autumn Graves

    Hidden gem

    Rebecca Malachy-Meslin and Lynn Macheskey open a conversation about women in leadership, confidence, and the shift into new roles and responsibilities.

    Jun 6, 2024·40m·1 clip
  14. 14

    Connecting Women Leaders

    Hosts Rebecca and Lynne interview Jen Evers, Executive Director of the HEADS Network, about her career journey, the organization's mission to support women leaders in independent schools, and practical advice on confidence, empathy, and authentic leadership.

    Mar 29, 2024·39m·3 clips
  15. 15

    Elevating Your Leadership

    Whitney Soule joins Rebecca Malotke-Messlin and Lynn Bocheski for a conversation about what year one in a new leadership role can feel like.

    Feb 9, 2024·42m·1 clip
  16. 16

    Headspace: Jodi Grass

    Jan 16, 2024·32m
  17. 17

    Wise Women with Donna Orem [S2.E4]

    Dec 12, 2023·44m
  18. 18

    Demystifying the Search Process: Part II [S2:E3]

    Nov 26, 2023·39m
  19. 19

    Hiring and Getting Hired [S2.E1]

    Nov 21, 2023·48m
  20. 20

    Demystifying the Search Process: Part I [S2:E2]

    Nov 15, 2023·45m
  21. 21

    Women & EMA's 2023 State of the Independent School Enrollment Industry Report

    Jun 29, 2023·39m
  22. 22

    Headspace

    May 15, 2023·35m
  23. 23

    Innovative Leadership

    May 4, 2023·43m
  24. 24

    Valuing the Outside-In Perspective

    Mar 2, 2023·37m
  25. 25

    Leading Teams with Confidence and Kindness

    Feb 2, 2023·43m
  26. 26

    Reimagining the Education of Leaders

    Jan 19, 2023·33m
  27. 27

    The Struggle is Real: Avoiding & Managing Burnout in Admissions​

    Jan 5, 2023·48m
  28. 28

    Women of Color Power Hour

    Dec 8, 2022·41m
  29. 29

    Tooting Your Own Horn

    Nov 24, 2022·43m
  30. 30

    Parenting and Leading at School

    Nov 10, 2022·39m
  31. 31

    Staying In It

    Oct 27, 2022·27m
  32. 32

    Building Meaningful Relationships to Advance Your Career

    Oct 10, 2022·31m
  33. 33

    How to be a Better Risk-Taker

    Oct 10, 2022·39m