Coaching Real Leaders

Harvard Business Review / Muriel Wilkins

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Real coaching sessions where Muriel Wilkins helps one professional solve one leadership dilemma.

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Coaching Real Leaders follows working leaders through focused, one-time coaching sessions about promotion, uncertainty, visibility, and career choice. Muriel Wilkins listens closely, names the tension, and helps each guest separate what they want from what they are avoiding.

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About Coaching Real Leaders

Coaching Real Leaders is a one-on-one coaching-session show: host Muriel Wilkins, an executive coach affiliated with Harvard Business Review, works live through a real professional dilemma with one guest per episode. Guests are typically anonymized or given pseudonyms (Chloe, Jada, Elsie, Gia, Erica, Stefan) and span director-to-C-suite levels across industries including healthcare, product, and agency-side design work. Recurring problem types include promotion stalls, being told to 'increase visibility,' conflict with a competitive or difficult peer, co-leadership breakdowns over decision rights, and weighing a next career move while still content in a current role. Most episodes follow a consistent arc: the guest states the presenting problem, Wilkins reframes it against a specific decision or value (e.g., outcome versus reaction, guilt versus happiness, content versus process), and the guest leaves with a concrete next step or plan. A smaller number of episodes depart from the single-client format for an 'Ask Muriel Anything' style conversation with an outside guest, such as Dave Stachowiak of Coaching for Leaders. The show carries corporate sponsor ad reads (Alma, NetSuite by Oracle, Quince, Liberty Mutual) typical of an HBR-network production. Tone throughout is educational and conversational rather than performative, with no studio audience or scripted narrative. Listeners are mid-career and senior professionals — directors, VPs, business owners — who are facing a specific advancement, visibility, or workplace-conflict decision rather than seeking general management theory. Episodes run roughly 40 to 57 minutes and are framed around one clear question per session (e.g., 'Do I Really Want to Be CEO?', 'How Do I Deal with a Competitive Peer?').

Made for: Directors, VPs, and business owners weighing a specific promotion, visibility, or workplace-conflict decision.

What sets it apart: Unlike interview-format leadership shows, each episode is an actual unscripted coaching session with one anonymized client working a single real dilemma, not a scripted conversation with a public figure.

In their own words

We all want to get to the next level of our career, but so many of us get stuck. Longtime leadership coach Muriel Wilkins takes you inside real-life leadership coaching sessions with high performers working to overcome professional challenges and grow as leaders. Listen in on real conversations and leave with new insights and practical guidance for your own career. The views expressed on this podcast are those of its hosts, guests, and callers, and not those of Harvard Business Review.

As heard by us

Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Muriel Wilkins makes leadership dilemmas concrete by testing ambitions, trade-offs, workplace relationships, and the choices hiding beneath career frustration.

Coaching Real Leaders turns workplace friction into a disciplined examination of choices. Muriel Wilkins works through confidential cases involving promotion, visibility, competitive peers, shared authority, and decisions about leaving a comfortable role.

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Muriel Wilkins keeps asking what you want until office politics loses its convenient disguise.

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  • Muriel Wilkins to keep probing before you turn a competitive colleague into the whole problem
  • a way to make visibility mean valuable work, not merely being seen
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Short reviews from the PlayNext desk, based on the episodes we processed.

Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Dave StachowiakApr 13, 2026

A measured leadership conversation about defining non-negotiables before taking a larger role with real trade-offs.

A senior leader weighing a bigger role gets the central question here: how do you decide what is genuinely non-negotiable before leaving a company where you are known and well liked?

How Can I Move Forward When My Company Won’t Promote Me?Mar 30, 2026

A focused coaching session on ambition, stalled advancement, and the personal cost of choosing a C-suite path.

Erica, a long-tenured healthcare leader, wants the final push into the C-suite after years of steady advancement inside one organization. The episode works because Muriel Wilkins moves the issue away from a simple promotion gap and into the harder business of choice: what Erica…

Introducing: Ask Muriel AnythingMar 16, 2026

Muriel Wilkins opens a monthly leadership Q&A format, with producer Mary Du adding a warmer voice to the room.

Muriel Wilkins uses this short launch episode to introduce Ask Muriel Anything, a monthly Coaching Real Leaders format built around questions from listeners, her community, LinkedIn, past coaching guests, and people who applied to be coached but did not make it onto the show.

Do I Really Want to Be CEO?Dec 1, 2025

A grounded coaching session on whether bigger leadership ambition can survive the habits that got someone this far.

Do I Really Want to Be CEO? frames leadership ambition less as a title question than as a test of working habits. Muriel Wilkins coaches a guest called Chloe through a familiar executive problem: she understands time-management ideas, but has not yet found or owned a system that…

How Do I Address Feedback on Increasing My Visibility?Sep 22, 2025

A practical coaching session on turning visibility from vague exposure into promotion-relevant business credibility.

Career visibility is framed here as a business problem, not a personality makeover. Muriel Wilkins coaches a leader called Jada, who is working through feedback about increasing her visibility after earlier career momentum and promotions.

How Do I Deal with a Competitive Peer?May 19, 2025

A grounded coaching session on promotion ambition, peer tension, and staying focused on the outcome that matters.

Muriel Wilkins coaches a director who wants to be the first person the executive team thinks of when a VP role opens, while tension with a former mentor, now a peer, is starting to affect how she sees her path forward.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Ask Muriel Anything: Listening to Your Team, Leading With Uncertainty, Balancing Empathy and Accountability

    Sep 28, 2026·41m
  2. 2

    How Do I Lead with Confidence Without Always Needing To Be Right?

    Sep 14, 2026·55m
  3. 3

    Ask Muriel Anything: Staying Motivated, The Pros and Cons of People Management, and Handling Ambitious Employees

    Aug 31, 2026·35m
  4. 4

    Behind the Scenes: A Coaching Debrief

    Aug 24, 2026·32m
  5. 5

    Best of CRL: Why Haven’t I Made it to the C-Suite?

    Aug 17, 2026·48m
  6. 6

    Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Damien Faughnan

    Aug 3, 2026·47m
  7. 7

    How Do I Lead Someone Who Doesn’t Seem to Fit the Team Culture?

    Jul 20, 2026·1h 5m
  8. 8

    Ask Muriel Anything: Becoming My Friend’s Boss, Upsetting a Coworker, Dealing With Micromanagers

    Jul 6, 2026·35m
  9. 9

    How Do I Lead When Being the Expert Isn't Enough?

    Jun 22, 2026·56m
  10. 10

    Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Amy Gallo

    Jun 8, 2026·47m
  11. 11

    How Do I Find Fulfillment In My Leadership Role?

    May 25, 2026·1h 1m
  12. 12

    Ask Muriel Anything: Productivity, Layoffs, and Visibility

    May 11, 2026·36m
  13. 13

    How Do I Help My Boss Without Doing Their Job For Them?

    Apr 27, 2026·51m
  14. 14

    Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Dave Stachowiak

    A leader is staring at a serious career move.

    Apr 13, 2026·44m·3 clips
  15. 15

    How Can I Move Forward When My Company Won’t Promote Me?

    Erica wants the C-suite.

    Mar 30, 2026·48m·2 clips
  16. 16

    Introducing: Ask Muriel Anything

    Ask Muriel Anything changes the format.

    Mar 16, 2026·29m·2 clips
  17. 17

    How Do I Get Buy-In From My Boss?

    Executive coach Muriel Wilkins conducts a coaching session with a marketing leader named Elizabeth who is navigating her new senior role and seeking growth opportunities in her organization.

    Mar 2, 2026·50m
  18. 18

    Coming Soon: Season 11

    Muriel Wilkins announces the return of Coaching Real Leaders for Season 11, featuring year-round episodes with coaching conversations and a new Ask Muriel Anything segment to help leaders overcome challenges.

    Feb 16, 2026·2m
  19. 19

    Do I Really Want to Be CEO?

    Hidden gem

    Work harder is the reflex.

    Dec 1, 2025·41m·2 clips
  20. 20

    How Do I Manage My Former Peers Now That I’m Their Boss?

    This episode features a coaching session with Thomas, who is struggling to manage former peers after rapid promotions into a supervisory role.

    Nov 17, 2025·47m
  21. 21

    How Do I Handle So Much Organizational Uncertainty?

    An executive coach helps a leader named Maggie navigate organizational uncertainty and career advancement questions as her company transitions to a new phase of growth.

    Nov 3, 2025·52m
  22. 22

    How Do I Lead When I Don’t Feel Like I Belong at the Table?

    An executive coach helps a leader named John navigate feelings of not belonging and lack of operational responsibility as he seeks to advance from a strategy role to a senior leadership position.

    Oct 20, 2025·1h 1m
  23. 23

    How Leaders Can Spot What’s Really Holding Them Back

    This episode explores how hidden beliefs like 'I don't belong here' or 'I have to have all the answers' limit leadership effectiveness, featuring a conversation with executive coach Muriel Wilkins on identifying and overcoming these psychological barriers.

    Oct 13, 2025·36m
  24. 24

    How Do I Address Feedback on Increasing My Visibility?

    Hidden gem

    Muriel Wilkins coaches a guest called Jada on why managers at her company keep telling her she needs more 'visibility' after faster promotions earlier in her career.

    Sep 22, 2025·53m·3 clips
  25. 25

    Coming Soon: Season 10 of Coaching Real Leaders

    This episode previews Season 10 of Coaching Real Leaders, where host Muriel Wilkins helps leaders overcome career blocks like imposter syndrome and tough feedback through executive coaching.

    Sep 15, 2025·2m
  26. 26

    How Do I Adapt My Leadership as My Company Grows?

    An executive coach helps an entrepreneur navigate a leadership challenge and company transition.

    Jun 16, 2025·42m
  27. 27

    How Do I Deal with a Competitive Peer?

    Elsie wants the path to VP to feel less foggy.

    May 19, 2025·54m·2 clips
  28. 28

    How Do I Get Out of Constant Crisis Mode?

    An executive coach works with a high-performing leader to address a specific leadership challenge through a one-time coaching session.

    May 5, 2025·51m
  29. 29

    How Do I Define My Personal Brand at Work?

    An executive coach works with a seasoned consultant to address a leadership challenge in a one-time coaching session.

    Apr 21, 2025·48m
  30. 30

    How Do I Get Recognized as a Leader?

    A leadership coach works with a high-performing individual contributor who is taking on unofficial management responsibilities.

    Apr 7, 2025·1h 1m
  31. 31

    Coming Soon: Season 9 of Coaching Real Leaders

    A leadership coach works with a high performer struggling with imposter syndrome and loss of confidence in their career.

    Mar 31, 2025·2m
  32. 32

    How Do I Position Myself to Influence Senior Leadership?

    A leadership coach introduces a coaching immersion event and begins a session with a client facing a strategic leadership challenge.

    Dec 16, 2024·50m
  33. 33

    How Do I Lead Change When There Is Stakeholder Resistance?

    A leadership coach introduces a coaching session with a senior executive facing a career transition and a major transformational project.

    Dec 2, 2024·1h 5m
  34. 34

    Do I Really Want To Be a C-Suite Leader?

    An executive coach helps a professional named Sarah decide whether to leave her long-time job for a C-level role.

    Nov 18, 2024·53m
  35. 35

    How Do I Deal with Low Performers on My Team?

    A leadership coach works with a newly promoted director struggling to manage a growing team across multiple locations.

    Nov 4, 2024·48m
  36. 36

    How Do I Handle It When I Disagree with My Boss’s Decisions?

    A leadership coach works with a client named Adam to help him navigate a career challenge and achieve his professional goals.

    Oct 21, 2024·55m
  37. 37

    How Do I Balance My Career Ambitions as Part of a Dual-Career Couple?

    Oct 7, 2024·42m
  38. 38

    Coming Soon: Season 8 of Coaching Real Leaders

    Sep 30, 2024·2m
  39. 39

    How To Make the Most of Your Work Day (from Working It)

    The host shares a preview of an upcoming season and recommends an episode from another podcast about managing energy and productivity at work.

    Aug 12, 2024·21m
  40. 40

    How Can I Set the Right Boundaries in a New Job?

    May 20, 2024·54m
  41. 41

    How Do I Prove I’m the Right Person for a Different Leadership Role?

    May 6, 2024·53m
  42. 42

    How Do I Avoid a Career Plateau at Midlife?

    Apr 22, 2024·1h 3m
  43. 43

    How Do I Stay on the Fast Track to the Next Level of Leadership?

    Apr 8, 2024·1h 6m
  44. 44

    How Do I Get Results Without Feeling Burned Out?

    An executive coach works with a manufacturing manager struggling to balance long hours and make a meaningful impact in his organization.

    Mar 25, 2024·51m
  45. 45

    How Do I Balance My Career Goals with My Company’s Needs?

    A leadership coach works with a long-tenured employee named Sophie to help her navigate career stagnation and loyalty conflicts within her organization.

    Mar 11, 2024·41m
  46. 46

    Coming Soon: Season 7

    Mar 4, 2024·2m
  47. 47

    How Do I Handle Negative Feedback from My Team?

    Nov 27, 2023·54m
  48. 48

    Should I Continue to Climb the Corporate Ladder?

    Nov 13, 2023·1h 1m
  49. 49

    How Do I Find Meaning in My Work?

    Oct 30, 2023·1h
  50. 50

    How Do I More Effectively Build Stakeholder Alignment?

    Oct 16, 2023·52m
  51. 51

    Should I Push To Make My Interim Leadership Role Permanent?

    Oct 2, 2023·52m
  52. 52

    How Do I Communicate With More Tact?

    A leadership coach works with a client who stepped back from a leadership role to address skill gaps and advance his career.

    Sep 18, 2023·52m
  53. 53

    Coming Soon: Season 6

    Sep 11, 2023·2m
  54. 54

    How to Use Your Presence (from Think Fast, Talk Smart)

    A leadership coach promotes an upcoming immersion event and shares a guest appearance on another podcast discussing executive presence.

    Aug 21, 2023·24m
  55. 55

    The One Skill Leaders Need Today (from Radical Candor)

    Jul 25, 2023·50m
  56. 56

    How Do I Move Forward from a Career Setback?

    Jun 19, 2023·56m
  57. 57

    How Do I Set the Right Pace To Meet Our Strategic Goals?

    Jun 5, 2023·58m
  58. 58

    How Do I Work with a Difficult Boss?

    A leadership coach helps a mission-driven professional navigate a career challenge in a one-time coaching session.

    May 22, 2023·57m
  59. 59

    How Do I Define My New Role to Set Myself Up for Success?

    May 8, 2023·1h 1m
  60. 60

    How Do I Lead My Team without Strategic Direction from the Top?

    An executive coach promotes a coaching immersion event and then introduces a coaching session with a leader struggling to measure his team's impact.

    Apr 24, 2023·52m
  61. 61

    How Do I Stay Motivated After Surviving Layoffs?

    Apr 10, 2023·48m
  62. 62

    Coming Soon: Season 5

    Apr 3, 2023·2m
  63. 63

    How Do I Ask for Help?

    Dec 12, 2022·56m
  64. 64

    How Do I Overcome My Disillusionment with the Executive Team?

    A leadership coach works with a client named Michael to help him overcome a professional challenge and grow as a leader.

    Nov 28, 2022·51m
  65. 65

    How Do I Adapt My Leadership Style as My Team Grows?

    Nov 14, 2022·51m
  66. 66

    How Do I Make a Career Change when the Odds Are Stacked Against Me?

    Oct 31, 2022·50m
  67. 67

    How Do I Transition from a Corporate Leadership Role to Entrepreneurship?

    Oct 17, 2022·55m
  68. 68

    How Do I Get Promoted Without a Clear Career Path?

    An executive coach works with a finance professional aiming to become a CFO, addressing his leadership challenges.

    Oct 3, 2022·53m
  69. 69

    Coming Soon: Season 4

    Sep 26, 2022·3m
  70. 70

    How Can I Get Along with My “Difficult” Boss? (from HBR’s Women at Work)

    A leadership coach shares a preview of an upcoming coaching immersion event and introduces a special episode from a colleague's podcast about workplace relationships.

    Sep 19, 2022·37m
  71. 71

    How Do I Transition Out of My Current Career?

    Jul 11, 2022·1h 2m
  72. 72

    How Can I Build Credibility with My Team?

    Jun 27, 2022·48m
  73. 73

    How Do I Move from a Specialist to a General Leadership Role?

    Jun 13, 2022·41m
  74. 74

    How Do I Fast-Track My Career?

    May 30, 2022·48m
  75. 75

    How Do I Hold My Team Accountable?

    May 16, 2022·48m
  76. 76

    How Do I Become an Intrapreneur?

    May 2, 2022·48m
  77. 77

    Coming Soon: Season 3

    Apr 18, 2022·2m
  78. 78

    How Do I Navigate a New Senior Role?

    Dec 22, 2021·40m
  79. 79

    Why Do I Keep Getting Passed Over for the C-Suite?

    Dec 15, 2021·47m
  80. 80

    How to Handle Feeling Overworked

    Dec 8, 2021·38m
  81. 81

    How Do I Get My Confidence Back?

    Dec 1, 2021·46m
  82. 82

    How Do I Get Sponsorship Support?

    Nov 24, 2021·41m
  83. 83

    How Can I Lead Authentically?

    Nov 17, 2021·47m
  84. 84

    Where Are They Now?: Checking in with Guests from Season 1

    Nov 10, 2021·18m
  85. 85

    How Do I Stop Being Defensive?

    Nov 3, 2021·47m
  86. 86

    How Do I Manage Other Managers?

    Oct 27, 2021·38m
  87. 87

    How Do I Get Through My Mid-Career Crisis?

    Oct 20, 2021·44m
  88. 88

    Am I Approaching My Female Coworkers the Wrong Way?

    Oct 13, 2021·41m
  89. 89

    How Do I Know When It’s Time to Leave?

    Oct 6, 2021·44m
  90. 90

    Coming Soon: Season 2

    Sep 15, 2021·2m
  91. 91

    Finding My Leadership Voice

    Mar 15, 2021·51m
  92. 92

    Building Influence Without Authority

    Mar 8, 2021·42m
  93. 93

    The Problem with Always Being the Problem Solver

    Mar 1, 2021·42m
  94. 94

    How Does My Team Perceive Me?

    Feb 22, 2021·36m
  95. 95

    Choosing What’s Next for My Career

    Feb 15, 2021·33m
  96. 96

    Getting the Leadership Respect I Deserve

    Feb 8, 2021·28m
  97. 97

    On the Brink of Burnout

    Feb 1, 2021·37m
  98. 98

    Bridging the Gap Between Me & My Team

    Jan 25, 2021·40m
  99. 99

    Caught in the Middle

    Jan 19, 2021·38m
  100. 100

    Am I C-Suite Material?

    Jan 11, 2021·40m
  101. 101

    Introducing Coaching Real Leaders

    Dec 17, 2020·2m