Carlie's Couch

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Personal growth with warmth, wit, and real-time reflection.

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Carlie's Couch blends self-reflection, casual humor, and practical encouragement into episodes about growth, purpose, relationships, and everyday joy. The conversations move easily from candy debates and bookshelf whimsy to entrepreneurship, internalized misogyny, grief, and beginning again.

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About Carlie's Couch

Carlie's Couch is a personal-growth conversation show with a lived-in, informal rhythm. It treats reflection as a weekly practice rather than a finished answer. The show moves between solo episodes and guest conversations, and both formats keep the same close, candid feel. One episode may ask how to savor a moment without rushing toward the next achievement. Another may sit with the difference between protecting peace and avoiding discomfort. It can be playful. Candy hot takes, miniature bookshelf coffee shops, claw machines, love notes, and summer whimsy all have room here. The lighter turns are not filler; they are part of the show's belief that joy, curiosity, and small rituals matter. At the same time, the conversations reach into grief, transition, identity, social expectations, mental health, resilience, and purpose. A visit with Tony Jolly of Aura Cafe frames entrepreneurship through community care and investment in people. A conversation featuring Kristina Mills opens with looseness and humor before leaning toward purpose, mental health, resilience, and legacy. Episodes about starting over are especially central, with the show using its own changes as material for thinking about beginnings, endings, and what it means to keep a microphone. The show is warm, direct, and emotionally available. It often turns big ideas into small questions a listener can actually carry into the week. How is life being savored right now? Is peace being protected, or is discomfort being dodged? What would it look like to present oneself from joy instead of pressure? Carlie's Couch is best for listeners who like self-work with laughter still in the room. It is reflective, friendly, and grounded in everyday life.

Made for: For listeners who like conversational self-work, practical reflection, and emotional honesty without a clinical tone. It especially fits people navigating transitions, purpose, identity, community, and the work of being more present.

What sets it apart: The show pairs casual couch-talk energy with sincere personal-growth questions, letting humor and vulnerability sit side by side. Its strongest moments turn ordinary details into usable reflection rather than abstract advice.

In their own words

Get comfortable with Carlie and Lex on the Couch as they explore a wide range of topics to help you live your best life - whatever that looks like for you! Visit www.carliescouch.com to watch, listen and learn more about Carlie & Lex. You can also watch all episodes on the Carlie's Couch YouTube channel.

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Your Guide to Creating More Whimsy in Your LifeSep 1, 2025

Small, playful ideas for home, friendship, and everyday life.

After Carly talks about going back to Oklahoma, the hosts settle on a question closer to home: how can ordinary spaces feel a little more like your own? Their suggestions have the appeal of things someone might actually try. Put art from places you've visited on display.

Understanding and Unlearning Internalized MisogynyAug 25, 2025

Carly and Lex consider how misogyny shapes choices about appearance and judgments of other women.

Carly and Lex consider how misogyny can shape everyday judgments about appearance, professionalism, and other women. A visit to a temple raises a question about respecting a place's expectations.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Clearing Up Confusion Around Humility

    ·22m
  2. 2

    374: Practice as Prayer

  3. 3

    Get Off the Self-Improvement Rollercoaster

  4. 4

    How to Savor the Moment

    ·12m
  5. 5

    Is It a Red Flag or Are You Just Scared?

    ·27m
  6. 6

    371: Do. The. Thing.

  7. 7

    Love Yourself First: The Art of Self-Dating

  8. 8

    The Parts of Me I Don't Show

  9. 9

    Soft Launching My New Personality

    ·23m
  10. 10

    Coffee, Community, & Purpose ft. Tony Jolly

    ·25m
  11. 11

    Are You Protecting Your Peace or Just Avoiding Discomfort?

    ·12m
  12. 12

    Tips for Starting Over or Beginning Again

    ·8m
  13. 13

    Celebrating 7 Years of Carlie's Couch! Cocktails, Transitions, & a Lexit!

    ·34m
  14. 14

    Your Guide to Creating More Whimsy in Your Life

    ·27m
  15. 15

    Understanding and Unlearning Internalized Misogyny

    ·24m
  16. 16

    Stop Rushing! Why Slowing Down Gets You Further

    ·24m
  17. 17

    Everybody's Got a Story

    ·22m
  18. 18

    Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage

    ·30m
  19. 19

    Dont Save Her, He/She/They Don’t Wanna Be Saved

    ·26m
  20. 20

    The Power of "I Don't Know Yet"

    ·22m
  21. 21

    You Don't Have to Monetize Everything You're Good At

    ·23m
  22. 22

    Fuel or Fool? Chasing Goals to Prove Haters Wrong

    ·21m
  23. 23

    Discretion: The Power of Knowing When to Shut Up

    ·27m
  24. 24

    The Mirror Theory & Why People Trigger You

    ·18m
  25. 25

    The Fear of Being Seen

    ·23m
  26. 26

    Do You Love Yourself Enough To Choose Better?

    ·29m
  27. 27

    Time for a Mental Health Check-in?

    ·20m
  28. 28

    Why You Should Pay Attention to Your Pelvic Floor ft. Dr. Josephine Duncan

  29. 29

    A Trick to Help Regulate Your Nervous System

    ·23m
  30. 30

    From Avoidance to Action: Facing Your Fears

    ·19m
  31. 31

    Don't Order What's Not On The Menu

    ·28m
  32. 32

    Reframe Your Outlook on Failure

    ·25m
  33. 33

    Let's Take a Time Out

    ·17m
  34. 34

    Tomorrow Man Theory as a Way of Life

    ·20m
  35. 35

    375: How to Get Out of Your Own Way

  36. 36

    The Power of Purpose in Your Life

    ·25m
  37. 37

    Is Fear Holding You Back or Pushing You Forward?

    ·27m
  38. 38

    Paying Attention: The Real Cost of Where You. Focus

    ·24m
  39. 39

    Are Competing Beliefs Blocking Manifestation

    ·27m
  40. 40

    Since You Got Your Degree & You Know Everything

    ·25m
  41. 41

    Ask For What You Want

    ·20m
  42. 42

    The First Rule of Fight Club Is

    ·21m
  43. 43

    Reclaiming Your Body Image

    ·26m
  44. 44

    The World Could Use a Little More Empathy

    ·26m
  45. 45

    Romance As A Way of Life

    ·32m
  46. 46

    Letting Go & Getting Into Alignment ft. Coach LaLa V

    ·32m
  47. 47

    This Christmas: Protect Your Peace & Avoid Crashing Out

    ·17m
  48. 48

    Go Shawty, It's Ya Birthday!

    ·20m
  49. 49

    You Don't Have to Do Everything By Yourself

  50. 50

    Psychology of Self: 3 Biases & How They Impact Your Life

    ·22m
  51. 51

    Accepting Where You Are

    ·24m
  52. 52

    Glimmers: The Opposite of Triggers

    ·28m
  53. 53

    Fighting Sleep?

  54. 54

    Closing the Gap Between Your Talent and Taste

    ·24m
  55. 55

    5 Steps to Finally Overcome Procrastination

    ·22m
  56. 56

    Stop Thinking Through Your Emotions, Feel Them

    ·25m
  57. 57

    Sneaky Signs That You're Insecure

    ·25m
  58. 58

    Choose Your Own Adventure: Being vs. Doing

    ·24m
  59. 59

    Opening Up for Deeper Relationships

    ·26m
  60. 60

    The Value of Friends Across Generations

    ·28m
  61. 61

    Beyond Money: How Scarcity Keeps You Stuck

    ·32m
  62. 62

    Say Goodbye to Busyness: Decrease Stress, Increase Productivity

    ·36m
  63. 63

    Taking The Path of Least Resistance

    ·31m
  64. 64

    You May Be Oversharing If...

    ·34m
  65. 65

    Overconsumption is Killing Your Creativity

    ·30m
  66. 66

    Put Joy First

    ·29m
  67. 67

    Understanding Gut Health & The Gut-Brain Connection

    ·38m
  68. 68

    The Power of Likability

    ·31m
  69. 69

    If They Wanted To, They Would: Fact or Fiction?

    ·30m
  70. 70

    Transform Relationships & Find Peace with the "Let Them" Theory

    ·23m
  71. 71

    Find Yourself & Meet Success Halfway ft. Taurean Nixon

  72. 72

    Be Impeccable with Your Word

  73. 73

    The Key to Personal Growth

    ·26m
  74. 74

    Release That Anger

    ·28m
  75. 75

    Delulu is the Solulu

    ·24m
  76. 76

    How to Show Up for Your Strong Friends

    ·24m
  77. 77

    Should You Be With Someone Who Loves You More?

    ·20m
  78. 78

    How to Have Better Meetings

    ·28m
  79. 79

    296: Why Keeping It Casual is Making You Lose in Life

    ·22m
  80. 80

    The Best Part of Getting Older

    ·28m
  81. 81

    Confrontation? Yes, Please!

  82. 82

    Balance Your Mental Workload

    ·24m
  83. 83

    292: Guide to Finding Yourself

    ·33m
  84. 84

    Lex Goes on a Silent Retreat

    ·32m
  85. 85

    Building a Framework for Lasting Change

    ·37m
  86. 86

    The 48 Laws of Power?

    ·31m
  87. 87

    288: Prioritizing Your Future Self

    ·33m
  88. 88

    Reflections of the Human Condition ft. Tyvette Symone

    ·48m
  89. 89

    The Ugly Truth Behind Mr. Nice Guy/Ms. Nice Girl

    ·36m
  90. 90

    285: Shame is an Identity Problem

    ·27m
  91. 91

    Personal Productivity Hacks

    ·23m
  92. 92

    Stop Beating Yourself Up!

    ·23m
  93. 93

    More Romance, Please

    ·24m
  94. 94

    Own Your Sexual Desire

    ·28m
  95. 95

    280: The Art of Comparison

    ·23m
  96. 96

    What Would Happen If You Went All In?

    ·29m
  97. 97

    Are You Projecting?

    ·29m
  98. 98

    How To Write Your Life Manifesto

    ·29m
  99. 99

    Playing for Purpose: Mental Health, Resilience, & Legacy ft. Kristina Mills

    Hidden gem

    On Carlie's Couch, host Carly speaks with Christina Mills about appearing on Survivor, building a 40-before-40 list, and finding resilience through grief and competition.

    ·43m·2 clips
  100. 100

    Living in the Future v. Living in the Now

    Carly and Lex compare present-focused living with future-focused planning, using Carly's attention to movies and Lex's lists and efficient errands as examples.

    ·23m·1 clip
  101. 101

    How to Savor the Moment

    Carly discusses how to savor moments and celebrate yourself, inspired by Duran Bernard's Grammy win.

    Mar 9, 2026·12m
  102. 102

    Coffee, Community, & Purpose ft. Tony Jolly

    Tony Jolly discusses his journey as a social entrepreneur and the importance of investing in human capital through his coffee shop, Aura Cafe.

    Jan 19, 2026·25m
  103. 103

    Are You Protecting Your Peace or Just Avoiding Discomfort?

    Carly explores the difference between genuinely protecting your peace and simply avoiding discomfort, encouraging self-reflection on personal choices.

    Dec 29, 2025·12m
  104. 104

    Playing for Purpose: Mental Health, Resilience, & Legacy ft. Kristina Mills

    Kristina Mills tells Carlie on Carlie's Couch that Survivor tested her self-reliance after years of depending on a close-knit village.

    Dec 22, 2025·43m·2 clips
  105. 105

    Tips for Starting Over or Beginning Again

    Carly discusses the process of starting something new or beginning again, using her own solo podcast restart as an example.

    Dec 15, 2025·8m
  106. 106

    Celebrating 7 Years of Carlie's Couch! Cocktails, Transitions, & a Lexit!

    Sep 15, 2025·34m
  107. 107

    Living in the Future v. Living in the Now

    Sep 8, 2025·23m
  108. 108

    Your Guide to Creating More Whimsy in Your Life

    Hidden gem

    Carly's Couch opens with the TikTok prompt 'how do you bring more whimsy into your life' and uses it as the episode's frame.

    Sep 1, 2025·27m·2 clips
  109. 109

    Understanding and Unlearning Internalized Misogyny

    Hidden gem

    Carly and Lexia Clancy use a listener question about misogyny to examine how male-centered norms shape women's clothing, tone, and public behavior.

    Aug 25, 2025·24m·1 clip
  110. 110

    Stop Rushing! Why Slowing Down Gets You Further

    Aug 18, 2025·24m
  111. 111

    Everybody's Got a Story

    Aug 11, 2025·22m
  112. 112

    Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage

    Aug 4, 2025·30m
  113. 113

    Soft Launching My New Personality

    Jul 21, 2025·23m
  114. 114

    Is It a Red Flag or Are You Just Scared?

    Jul 14, 2025·27m
  115. 115

    Dont Save Her, He/She/They Don’t Wanna Be Saved

    Jul 6, 2025·26m
  116. 116

    The Power of "I Don't Know Yet"

    Jun 30, 2025·22m
  117. 117

    You Don't Have to Monetize Everything You're Good At

    Jun 23, 2025·23m
  118. 118

    Fuel or Fool? Chasing Goals to Prove Haters Wrong

    Jun 16, 2025·21m
  119. 119

    Discretion: The Power of Knowing When to Shut Up

    Jun 9, 2025·27m
  120. 120

    The Mirror Theory & Why People Trigger You

    Jun 2, 2025·18m
  121. 121

    The Fear of Being Seen

    May 26, 2025·23m
  122. 122

    Do You Love Yourself Enough To Choose Better?

    May 19, 2025·29m
  123. 123

    Time for a Mental Health Check-in?

    May 12, 2025·20m
  124. 124

    A Trick to Help Regulate Your Nervous System

    Apr 28, 2025·23m
  125. 125

    From Avoidance to Action: Facing Your Fears

    Apr 21, 2025·19m
  126. 126

    Don't Order What's Not On The Menu

    Apr 14, 2025·28m
  127. 127

    Reframe Your Outlook on Failure

    Apr 7, 2025·25m
  128. 128

    Let's Take a Time Out

    Mar 31, 2025·17m
  129. 129

    Tomorrow Man Theory as a Way of Life

    Mar 24, 2025·20m
  130. 130

    Clearing Up Confusion Around Humility

    Mar 17, 2025·22m
  131. 131

    The Power of Purpose in Your Life

    Mar 10, 2025·25m
  132. 132

    Is Fear Holding You Back or Pushing You Forward?

    Mar 3, 2025·27m
  133. 133

    Paying Attention: The Real Cost of Where You. Focus

    Feb 24, 2025·24m
  134. 134

    Are Competing Beliefs Blocking Manifestation

    Feb 17, 2025·27m
  135. 135

    Since You Got Your Degree & You Know Everything

    Feb 10, 2025·25m
  136. 136

    Ask For What You Want

    Feb 3, 2025·20m
  137. 137

    The First Rule of Fight Club Is

    Jan 27, 2025·21m
  138. 138

    Reclaiming Your Body Image

    Jan 20, 2025·26m
  139. 139

    The World Could Use a Little More Empathy

    Jan 13, 2025·26m
  140. 140

    Romance As A Way of Life

    Jan 6, 2025·32m
  141. 141

    Letting Go & Getting Into Alignment ft. Coach LaLa V

    Dec 30, 2024·32m
  142. 142

    This Christmas: Protect Your Peace & Avoid Crashing Out

    Dec 23, 2024·17m