Raunchy, warm talk for open-hearted adults.
By the Bi pairs quick, teasing chemistry with plainspoken conversations about sex, identity, and non-traditional relationships. Recent episodes move from community care at adult events to kink experiences, STI stigma, body hair history, and live recordings from an event.
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By the Bi is built around frank adult conversation, quick banter, and the messy realities of sex, identity, and community. Bradford and Angela treat bisexuality, kink, swinging, and open relationships as lived subjects rather than abstract talking points. The show is funny first, but not only funny. Recent episodes spend real time on how people relax into adult community spaces, why returning members need to keep the circle open, and how safety can grow over several days instead of appearing on command. That community focus gives the show a social texture beyond bedroom stories. Event updates, Discord references, parties, and live recordings make the audience feel like part of an ongoing scene. The structure is loose. A joke can become a story, a story can become an explanation, and an explanation can swing back into another aside before the point lands. That looseness is part of the appeal. Episodes about kink and hypnosis describe discovery with curiosity and care, while still keeping the tone playful. Episodes about STIs and sexual health push against shame, especially around diagnosis, confusion, and emotional fallout. A history-focused episode on pubic hair turns grooming into a conversation about beauty standards, discomfort, and gendered expectations. Even the more chaotic holiday material fits the same pattern: embarrassing, intimate, and willing to laugh at the body without treating it as something to hide. The show is adult and often explicit in subject matter, but its underlying rhythm is about permission, honesty, and belonging. It does not sound like a lecture. It sounds like two people comfortable enough with each other to let awkward truths become useful. For the right audience, that makes By the Bi feel less like instruction and more like access to a candid, queer-friendly room.
Made for: For adults interested in bisexuality, kink, swinging, non-monogamy, sexual health, and the social side of alternative relationship communities. It best suits people who prefer candid, humorous conversation over polished advice.
What sets it apart: By the Bi stands out by mixing adult comedy with real community practice: welcoming newcomers, reducing shame, and talking through taboo subjects in everyday language. The show’s loose chemistry makes serious topics feel approachable without sanding off the edge.
By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex. Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re explo…
Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026
By the Bi makes intimate choices legible as questions of trust, belonging, gender expectations and the communities people build around them.
Bradford and Angela turn intimate life into a running conversation between experience, curiosity and comic friction. By the Bi moves from love languages and community-building to kink, body grooming and the gender expectations attached to it, with the hosts testing ideas against…
Pubic-hair history meets an on-mic waxing experiment, if you like your curiosity gloriously unbuttoned.
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A thoughtful conversation about helping familiar communities stay open to people still finding their footing.
Community takes its time in this episode, which is at its best when it treats belonging as something people ease into rather than something that simply happens.
Holiday banter turns a testicular grooming attempt into a funny, intimate test of trust.
Holiday cheer collides with intimate grooming as By the By moves from seasonal greetings and Patreon and Discord housekeeping into a videoed attempt to remove hair from a scrotum.
A hypno-Dom session becomes a candid study of arousal, permission, and the intimacy of asking to give a cuddle.
The episode centers on a hypno-Dom session where arousal is tied less to performance than to permission, attention, and emotional timing. One speaker recalls being guided toward the memory and sensation of orgasm without a physical erection, then sitting naked while the other…
A candid STI discussion gives shame, serious distress, and everyday laughter room to sit together.
By the Bi uses a discussion of sexually transmitted infections to focus less on mechanics than on the feelings that can follow a diagnosis: shame, depression, suicidal ideation, and the slow work of coping.
A sharp, darkly funny look at pubic hair, beauty standards, and the pain women were expected to absorb.
Pubic hair becomes the entry point for a broader look at who was expected to suffer in order to seem acceptable. The episode moves from arsenic and quicklime hair-removal practices into the gendered rules beneath them: women were pushed toward a painful ideal, while men could…
A candid, curious conversation about intimate theater and the charged space between watching and taking part.
By the By turns a conversation about Compersion into a lively look at how theater can make an audience feel implicated in the room. The guests describe performance as a space where the fourth wall can soften, openness can be invited, and compersion can read as theatrical as well…
A playful disagreement over dinner and television turns quality time into something practical and lived-in.
By the By treats quality time as something more specific than simply being in the same room. Bradford and Angela work through the website's full-attention standard, weighing the TV-off, fork-and-knife-down, chores-paused version of presence against the easier intimacy of dinner,…
Adult talk with no indoor voice.
Shock comedy with tight structure.
Hosts Bradford and Angela return from holiday to revisit the concept of love languages.
Hosts Bradford and Angela interview the Steamy Romantics, a couple from Adelaide who created a parlor play called 'Compersion' about the concept of feeling joy in others' happiness.
Two friends chat about their experiences at a sex party called Pendulum and tease upcoming holiday plans.
By the Bi hosts discuss the 2024-25 Bi+ Sexual Health and HIV (BiSHH) study from UNSW, which surveyed about 2,100 bi+ Australians.
By the By episode 445 argues that community is not optional for sex, kink, or non-monogamous life, calling it a "must have" rather than a nice-to-have.
By the Bi's "Jingle Balls" turns a holiday recording session into a plan to wax Bradford's balls and cover them in glitter.
By the Bi pivots from a New Zealand Grindr hookup to a Melbourne encounter with a man in his 60s who says he has done hypnosis since his mid-teens.
The hosts of By the By discuss their live podcast recording at Xcape to the Tropics 2025, wading in a pool and teasing future dates.
The hosts return from a break to discuss an upcoming sex-themed party and engage in crude, humorous banter.
"Clean" and "dirty" language around STI testing is one of the stigma drivers they want to change.
By the Bi episode 438 traces pubic hair from ancient Egypt, where smoothness meant order and "sacred femininity," through Greek, Roman, and medieval ideas about class and sexuality.
The hosts of By the By podcast promote their steampunk-themed pendulum party and Patreon while engaging in crude banter.
Bradford and Angela promote their upcoming events and engage in playful banter.
Angela teases the upcoming 400th episode by revisiting the podcast's first and thirty-first episodes, reflecting on their journey since 2015.
A comedic podcast episode where hosts and guests discuss PornHub facts for 2023, interspersed with banter about an upcoming event.