Boy Please, Whatever!

Dee Smith

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Messy talk with a point.

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Boy Please, Whatever! runs like a crowded couch conversation where one tangent can take over the whole room. D. Smith moves from dating, family drama, food memories, church jokes, and viral videos into sharper talk about loyalty, boundaries, and community.

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About Boy Please, Whatever!

Boy Please, Whatever! is a personal-stories and culture-talk show with the volume of a live group chat and the patience of somebody who has already heard every excuse. D. Smith anchors it with fast opinions, side stories, subscriber reminders, health updates, family interruptions, and a steady sense that the audience is sitting right there in the room. The show rarely walks in a straight line. It swerves. A couch setup, a cough drop, a drink, or a comment about someone being absent can become part of the episode before the announced topic gets a full sentence. That looseness is the appeal. Recent shows turn dating apps, Jack’d stories, assumptions about masculinity, local pride, celebrity family obligations, home cooking, church humor, viral videos, and live audience reactions into comic arguments with real social texture. The host is especially good at making ordinary details sound like evidence in a case. A pork chop, a gumbo question, a missed call, a family vacation, a subscription button, or a stranger in a viral clip can all become proof of somebody’s standards, boundaries, taste, or lack of planning. The comedy is blunt. It is also communal. Viewers in the comments are not background noise; they steer the room, interrupt the rhythm, and give the host fresh targets or support. Episodes with guests, including Nappi Boi, add more flirtation, back-and-forth teasing, and pop-cultural riffing, but the show keeps its core shape: talk first, polish later, point made somewhere in the middle. It can be raunchy, argumentative, and emotionally sudden. A laugh may sit beside talk about family trauma, public shame, community loss, or people failing the children and relatives around them. The show works best for listeners who understand that a tangent is not a delay here. It is often where the real subject appears. Boy Please, Whatever! is funny because it is overfull: too many memories, too many comments, too many examples, too much disbelief, and just enough seriousness to keep the jokes from floating away.

Made for: For listeners who like live, blunt culture talk where personal stories, online drama, food opinions, dating, and family arguments all share the same couch.

What sets it apart: Its edge comes from the live-room feel: comments, guests, plugs, corrections, and tangents all become part of the show instead of interruptions to it.

In their own words

Boy Please, Whatever! is a raw and uncut, all inclusive, nonstop conversation about LIFE with a guarantee to make you LAUGH! Join me, Dee Smith as I discuss Sex, Family Trauma, Growing Up Black, LGBTQ issues and more!

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Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Dee Smith makes candid guest conversation a funny, revealing record of Black queer social life, family expectations, taste, and ambition.

Dee Smith turns free-flowing conversation into a lively record of social life, moving among queer dating, family loyalty, church culture, celebrity talk, and comedy.

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A dating-app near-ghosting becomes a seven-foot reveal; your group chat has competition.

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  • dating-app talk where getting your TV hung is apparently on the table
  • family food opinions fierce enough to reject a boneless pork chop
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Get Jack’D Up or Off!Apr 14, 2026

A funny, messy look at how one app turns into a whole social game.

A dating-app story becomes a sharp look at assumptions, old photos, job status, and how fast a first impression can fall apart. The strongest stretch is the Jack'd banter, where flirtation turns into a joke about being misread and then re-seen once the two finally meet in person.

Tina’s GumboMar 17, 2026

Food, family standards, and celebrity-mama jokes keep getting pulled into the same lively argument.

The episode treats food like a running joke and a measuring stick: who can cook, who likes to boast, and who gets defended a little too hard online.

The Tale Of Two Tops w/ Nappi BoiMar 10, 2026

Loose, flirtatious banter with Nappy Boy, with music and church talk woven through.

Boy Please, Whatever! leans into a loose guest chat with Nappy Boy, moving from wardrobe compliments to flirting, music talk, and church references with very little warning. The result feels casual and a little unruly, which fits the show’s tone.

Separate But Equal…Mar 4, 2026

A loose, funny conversation about privilege, survival, and making a way out of no way.

This solo-night episode settles into an easy, conversational riff on privilege, money, race, and what it takes to keep moving with whatever is on hand.

We Lived The Same Black Ass Life w/ LaTrez AndersonMar 4, 2026

A loose, playful guest spot that works best when the conversation turns personal.

The Boy Please Lever episode pairs the host with LaTress Anderson, a comedian, viral content creator, and entertainer who keeps the conversation loose. It moves through favorite comics like Bernie Mac, Monique, Sommore, Patrice O'Neal, and D.L.

Dee, Martez w/ Rhonda on the Rhocks!Mar 4, 2026

A loud room turns a troubling video into comedy, disgust, and concern.

This episode starts with a CAMH Sunrise Challenge fundraising plug, then settles into a loose, audience-backed conversation with D. Smith, Shannon Sharp, and Ann Isby. The pace stays loud and quick, with drinks, jokes, and sign-off chatter carrying much of the run.

What’s Cracker Barrel Without Crackers?!Aug 26, 2025

A loud, funny take on a logo change and the reaction around it.

The episode turns a Cracker Barrel logo change into a loud, fast-moving bit of commentary about why a restaurant sign can hit such a nerve. It starts loose, with tequila, a wrong thumbnail, and a quick apology, then swings into breakfast, white people, and the odd force of the…

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    Nov 28, 2023·56m
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    Meet My Parents or Whatever…

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    Meet My Parents or Whatever…

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    Your Child Is Wearing $200 Shoes But Can’t Read or Whatever…

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    Kirk Franklin’s Mama or Whatever…

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    Whoop These Kids or Whatever…

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    Exposing DL’s or Whatever…

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    Having A Bad Day or Whatever…

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