Bonding Time

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Food, flops and friendship, from the car to the patio.

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Bonding Time is conversation between two friends, Amanda and Lou, recorded in cars, on a patio during a sleepover and on a walk around town. The talk moves easily from food and hosting mishaps to imposter syndrome, outgrowing old habits and the retreats the two are planning.

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About Bonding Time

Bonding Time is the sound of two friends picking up a conversation that plainly started long before anyone pressed record. Amanda and Lou are the pair at its heart, and these episodes find them in all kinds of places. One is recorded in a moving car, with driving directions folded in between questions. Another comes from a patio during a sleepover, after a drive, an appearance on their friend Candice's podcast and a dinner of Mediterranean orzo. A third is taped on a walk around town and closes with someone out of breath on a hill. Background noise is part of the texture, and in 'Beginners' they hope listeners can hear them over the traffic. Food is the thread. In 'Food in Three languages- Cousin Vinnie', a visiting 17-year-old cousin who was born in Utah, has lived in Italy and Japan and now lives in Seattle talks about bombolini rolled in sugar while still hot, tiramisu, limoncello and meringues dipped in chocolate. The conversation then compares eating abroad with eating in America. 'Disaster Dinners' goes after the fear that keeps people from hosting at all. The remedy is honesty: stories of their own belly flops, including a birthday barbecue during a strict gluten-free phase and a son's request for a rainbow cake. The talk does not stay on the plate. On the walk in 'Nourish - Amanda & Lou', the subject is consumption versus nourishment. On one side are belly laughs with friends and a chaotic game of wiffle ball with the kids. On the other is reaching for crackers or a drink to numb a restless feeling. 'Beginners' begins with a kitchen sink salad and turns to imposter syndrome, and to a phrase the two say they keep repeating to each other: nothing is wasted. Years of caring for children, odd jobs and someone who once taught them to cut an onion properly all count as experience. In 'Snakes & outgrowing', a birthday gift of earrings leads to the snake that has to shed its skin, because staying in the old one is the unhealthy choice. 'Road trip!' finds them driving up early to a cabin in Donnelly with food and swag, set on resting well instead of over-planning. Those plans keep coming up: retreats with hikes, bike rides and good food, a new Substack newsletter and an upcoming sale. The mood swings between silly and sincere, with a passing note of faith. A couple of conversations end with recommendations, from Pan's Labyrinth to a short, lighthearted TV series. For a first listen, the Cousin Vinnie episode is an easy way in: a car, a curious teenager and a great deal of dessert.

Made for: Suits a listener who enjoys easygoing talk between friends that drifts from recipes and hosting mishaps to self-doubt and personal growth, and who does not mind a little road noise.

What sets it apart: The conversations happen in cars, on patios, on walks and mid-cooking instead of in a studio, and food opens the way into frank talk about nourishment, failure and outgrowing old habits.

In their own words

Storytelling, and great conversation.

Why you'd press play

A gluten-free rainbow cake tastes like Play-Doh, and you might invite people over anyway.

Press play if you want

  • to laugh at a hosting disaster while you work up the nerve to host
  • to see your odd jobs as experience when imposter syndrome gets loud
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food and home cookinghosting and dinner disastersfriendship and sleepoversimposter syndrome and self-doubtconsumption versus nourishmentoutgrowing old habitsplanning retreats and gatheringseating abroad and travel

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Food in Three languages- Cousin VinnieAug 10, 2022

A warm car-ride conversation about food, memory, moving places, and a teenager's wide-ranging palate.

A car ride with 17-year-old Cousin Vinny opens into a warm conversation about how place can shape a young person's taste. Born in Utah and visiting from Seattle, Vinny looks back on living in Italy and Japan, where the food memories are vivid: bombolini, chocolate-dipped…

Disaster DinnersJul 27, 2022

A warm, funny look at hosting fears, gluten-free cake, and gatherings that wobble despite everyone's best efforts.

Hosting anxiety turns into a comic endurance test as Amanda and her co-host trade stories about gatherings that nearly come undone. The standout mishap is Julian's birthday, where a gluten-free rainbow cake tastes like Play-Doh and a barbecue somehow leaves every guest with…

BeginnersJul 15, 2022

An intimate Oregon-summer conversation about imposter syndrome, faith, and the courage built through ordinary work.

The episode settles into the work that sits behind a fresh start: cooking for people, caring for children, taking odd jobs, and trusting that experience will matter later.

Nourish - Amanda & LouJun 29, 2022

A warm walk-and-talk reflection on real nourishment inside ordinary family life.

Bonding Time frames a hot summer-night walk with a wakeful baby as a quiet test of what separates consumption from nourishment. Amanda and her co-host keep the idea grounded in family life: camping and playing at Willow Lake, wiffle ball with the kids, laughter in community,…

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Episodes

  1. 1

    Goodbye Bonding Time!

    In Bonding Time’s final episode, Pam says her first podcast listening experience eased the loneliness she felt at home with two young children.

    Sep 1, 2022·23m·1 clip
  2. 2

    Food in Three languages- Cousin Vinnie

    Hidden gem

    Bonding Time follows Cousin Vinny, who is 17 and has lived in Utah, Italy, Japan, and Seattle while talking food during a drive home from Korean takeout.

    Aug 10, 2022·16m·1 clip
  3. 3

    Disaster Dinners

    Hidden gem

    A gluten-free rainbow cake turned into Play-Doh and cement-hard buns made Julian's birthday barbecue the episode's sharpest hosting story.

    Jul 27, 2022·25m·1 clip
  4. 4

    Beginners

    Hidden gem

    Bonding Time: Beginners follows Amanda and Cody as they describe amateurism during an Oregon summer filled with kids, cooking, and new work.

    Jul 15, 2022·27m·2 clips
  5. 5

    Nourish - Amanda & Lou

    Hidden gem

    Amanda and Lou walk around their town on a hot summer night, talking about "consumption" versus "nourishment" and why being "full" is not the same thing as being nourished.

    Jun 29, 2022·28m·1 clip
  6. 6

    Road trip!

    The hosts treat sleep as essential preparation, not an optional extra, before their Donnelly retreat.

    Jun 10, 2022·21m·1 clip
  7. 7

    Snakes & outgrowing

    On Bonding Time, Amanda and Lou connect snake shedding to the discomfort of outgrowing familiar roles, including the shift to life with a first baby.

    Jun 1, 2022·18m·1 clip
  8. 8

    Sensory memories/Dinner invite.

    Bonding Time's “Sensory memories/Dinner invite” links childhood sensory cues to present-day beauty, including a mint-scented field and a planned shared meal.

    May 12, 2022·20m·1 clip
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    Making- FOOD

    May 4, 2022·24m
  10. 10

    Lou & Amanda- Happy La Chandeleur!

    Feb 4, 2022·31m
  11. 11

    New Years Un-resolutions Amanda & Lou

    Two hosts discuss their feelings about the end of 2021 and hopes for 2022, reflecting on the blur of the pandemic years.

    Dec 31, 2021·43m
  12. 12

    Advent convo week 4- Lou & Amanda

    Dec 24, 2021·14m
  13. 13

    Advent talks with Amanda & Lou week 3

    Dec 16, 2021·27m
  14. 14

    Advent talks week 2- Peace- Lou & Amanda

    Dec 10, 2021·31m
  15. 15

    Looking for Light- Advent talks Amanda & Lou

    Dec 3, 2021·23m
  16. 16

    Yohonna Smith

    Nov 18, 2021·36m
  17. 17

    Amber Grant

    Oct 28, 2021·45m
  18. 18

    change your mind

    Sep 17, 2021·38m
  19. 19

    Anna Kettle

    Sep 2, 2021·33m
  20. 20

    Sarah Westfall- Not My Story

    Aug 13, 2021·38m
  21. 21

    How's your summer ? - Lou & Amanda

    Aug 5, 2021·41m
  22. 22

    Lindsay Crandall -

    Jul 22, 2021·41m
  23. 23

    Adventure Selah Wade and Cody

    Jul 8, 2021·31m
  24. 24

    Fatherless Fathering- Cody and Wade

    Jun 18, 2021·32m
  25. 25

    Temitope Peters - Living like Reconcilers

    Jun 10, 2021·36m
  26. 26

    Noelle Rhodes

    Jun 3, 2021·49m
  27. 27

    Fave Things

    May 27, 2021·54m
  28. 28

    Lou Drey- telling my story with Candis smith

    The hosts celebrate a birthday and graduation while introducing an emotional interview with a guest about her life.

    Apr 30, 2021·1h 1m
  29. 29

    My Heart's Garden~ Charity Rios

    Host interviews children's book author Charity Rios about her book 'My Heart's Garden' and her creative journey.

    Apr 23, 2021·42m
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    Aimee Walker

    Apr 16, 2021·39m
  31. 31

    Reading 12

    Apr 2, 2021·10m
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    Reading 11

    Mar 30, 2021·4m
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    Reading 10

    Mar 23, 2021·4m
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    Reading 9

    Mar 17, 2021·5m
  35. 35

    Reading 8

    Mar 15, 2021·6m
  36. 36

    #7

    Mar 9, 2021·12m
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    Reading 6

    Mar 4, 2021·13m
  38. 38

    Reading 5

    Feb 26, 2021·4m
  39. 39

    reading 4

    Feb 24, 2021·4m
  40. 40

    Reading 3

    Feb 22, 2021·3m
  41. 41

    Easter/Spring Reading #2

    Feb 19, 2021·7m
  42. 42

    Easter readings

    Feb 17, 2021·8m
  43. 43

    -#37- Good, Toxic People

    Two hosts discuss their past toxic behaviors in their marriage and reflect on personal growth.

    Feb 11, 2021·49m
  44. 44

    #36- Candis Smith - Paint, Listen, Rest

    Feb 5, 2021·44m
  45. 45

    Kris Kamealy- Everything Is Yours #35

    Jan 24, 2021·39m
  46. 46

    gentle thoughts

    Jan 10, 2021·4m
  47. 47

    The story of my Fall, and my Fletcher.

    Jan 1, 2021·1h 12m
  48. 48

    Kathy Coprivnicar - 100 Women for Good

    Dec 11, 2020·33m
  49. 49

    Lou and Amanda- Healing Through Creating

    Nov 27, 2020·44m
  50. 50

    Kari Patterson - The Second Mile

    Nov 18, 2020·42m