
Candid tea on love, worth, and growth.
The gist
Black Girl Tea turns casual check-ins into blunt, reflective conversations about womanhood, dating, friendship, faith, and growing up. Its strongest episodes feel like voice-note therapy: messy, funny, searching, and serious about choosing self-respect over bare minimum love.
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About Black Girl Tea
Black Girl Tea is a personal culture and relationship show with the rhythm of a long phone call. It is casual on the surface, but the recent episodes carry real emotional weight. The show moves through single life, romantic expectations, friendship disappointments, family hurt, faith, and self-worth without pretending those subjects can be neatly separated. A glass of wine, a quick joke, or a side comment can turn into a serious reflection on boundaries. Then the show snaps back into humor. That back-and-forth is part of its identity. The Living Single episodes frame singleness as more than a dating status; they treat it as a season for noticing patterns, naming loneliness, and breaking cycles that keep desire attached to disappointment. Valentine's Day becomes a way to talk about standards, timelines, and the grief of wanting love without accepting the bare minimum. Birthday reflections open into lessons about intentional gifting, confidence, and the refusal to shrink around people who cannot handle someone's full presence. In a conversation with Leslie, the show becomes especially tender. The mother-daughter exchange reaches into childhood memory, family strain, protection, and the later clarity that can arrive after silence or confusion. Black Girl Tea also keeps returning to journaling, prayer, and personal accountability as tools for sorting through emotional clutter. It does not sound like a polished advice column. It sounds like someone working through the lesson while letting the audience hear the process. That gives the show its charge. It can be funny, scattered, intimate, and suddenly piercing. Its relationship talk is frank about attraction, sex, loneliness, and toxic familiarity, but the deeper concern is dignity. The recurring question is not simply who stays or leaves. It is what a woman stops tolerating once self-respect becomes louder than fear. For listeners who want cleanly packaged tips, the looseness may feel wandering. For listeners who value candor, warmth, and emotionally specific testimony, that looseness is the point.
Made for: Black Girl Tea is for listeners who want intimate relationship and self-worth conversations with humor, spiritual reflection, and emotional directness. It especially suits women sorting through dating standards, family history, friendship boundaries, and personal reinvention.
What sets it apart: The show stands out through its unfiltered, voice-note style: casual tangents, real-time realizations, and hard-earned lessons share the same space. It feels less like formal advice and more like overhearing someone turn a messy season into language.
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Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026
Nye turns candid life updates into funny, practical reflection on boundaries, family memory, relationships, and personal responsibility.
Black Girl Tea turns Nye's life updates into candid reflection on boundaries, self-respect, family, and the work of changing familiar patterns.
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- to laugh at the 'old faithful' temptation while keeping your standards intact
- to hear a mother and daughter ask hard questions without rehearsing the answers
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Episodes
- 1
Learning Your Place
·35m - 2
Living Single PT 3
·49m - 3
Living Single PT 2
·38m - 4
Living Single
·20m - 5
29
·21m - 6
Welcome to 2026
·16m - 7
I’m Thankful For Me!
·29m - 8
Absent But Not Forgotten
·30m - 9
The 2025 Dating Experience
·48m - 10
Goodbye 2025
·33m - 11
Romance Isn’t Missing! It’s redirected.
·50m - 12
We’re 6!!!
·19m - 13
12 Pizzas?
·24m - 14
Sheree Wants The Tea
·26m - 15
You Grow Girl!
·29m - 16
Un-Learning
·26m - 17
Million Dollar Plan
·40m - 18
Coming to America
·28m - 19
Expensive Pain
·21m - 20
A Life That Overflows: Black Women, Black Joy, and Black Wholeness!
·31m - 21
More of the Healing Files
·16m - 22
Main Character Energy
·19m - 23
First Step
·20m - 24
The Seventh Pour: Healing in Abundance
·24m - 25
Fall Revamp
·21m - 26
On A Positive Note
·31m - 27
Dinner W/ Friends Recap
·28m - 28
Tha Chat
·4h 19m - 29
Pardon The Interruption
·37m - 30
Mike’s Focus
·2h 15m - 31
Music Heals Him
·1h 27m - 32
Men’s Mental Health Awareness
·3h 38m - 33
Positive Self Talk
·18m - 34
The Trending Topic
·22m - 35
We Outside?
·36m - 36
Closing Out Q1
·1h 14m - 37
Mom, Can I Ask You Something?
·1h 6m - 38
Coming Home
·23m - 39
Healing Ain’t Easy
·42m - 40
Music Heals
·29m - 41
.. I’m Just A Girl
·29m - 42
Ok .. Now what?
·25m - 43
The Good & The Bad
·22m - 44
So What We Talking Bout?
·23m - 45
Beyond The Quarter
·43m - 46
It’s 2025
·26m - 47
Close The Door on 2024
·35m - 48
Chey X
·2h 8m - 49
Can You Do What It Do, Comfortably?
·54m - 50
Let’s Get Comfortable With Talking About Sex
·31m - 51
The Birds and the Bees
·40m - 52
Bye Bye October
·29m - 53
Why You Being Weird To Me?
·1h 53m - 54
Welcome to the Chat
·2h 1m - 55
Kickin It With Chey
·1h 14m - 56
Worldwide Issues
·35m - 57
Do You!
·40m - 58
How You Feelin Naii?
·34m - 59
But how sis?
·27m - 60
The Real Tea
·39m - 61
Real Friends
·45m - 62
Summer PSA
·29m - 63
A Sip W/ Stella Recap
·18m - 64
Bringing Sexy Back
·28m - 65
What happened, sis?
·32m - 66
What’s Happenin’?
·22m - 67
You Down W/ G-O-D?
·25m - 68
A Healing Update
·54m - 69
Dear Fellas
·28m - 70
Hey, there!
·13m - 71
To Be A Woman
·39m - 72
Shay Takes 29
·30m - 73
There’s Pee In The Pool
·2h 25m - 74
Do We Really Know What We Want?
·15m - 75
29 Days of Love
·14m - 76
Check In Month 1
·37m - 77
Plan A Girls Night
·26m - 78
Shay, The Chef
·36m - 79
2023 Ls = 2024 Lemonade
·33m - 80
Merry Christmas and Goodbye 2023 From Naii
·43m - 81
Reconstruction Era Update
·33m - 82
Let’s Piggyback Real Quick
·32m - 83
Naii’s Back
·47m - 84
Thanksgiving is just…different now.
·38m - 85
Dating in 2023? Good Luck
·29m - 86
Reconstruction Begins NOW
·31m - 87
In My Reconstruction Era
·32m - 88
Damn .. I’m old
·27m - 89
Month 3 in Mexico
·30m - 90
ADHD Kicked In
·39m - 91
1 of 100
·34m - 92
You CANNOT Change A Man
·24m - 93
Retail Horror Stories
·24m - 94
Mexico Update
·32m - 95
Brotha Brent
·41m - 96
The Story Of Many Women
·1h 8m - 97
Cut It Out
·30m - 98
Hygiene Makes A Difference
·53m - 99
The Heeled Tea Party Recap
·25m - 100
It Starts With Me
Hidden gemNaomi Dawkins frames Black Girl Tea around 2024 reflection, four journals, and a New Year's Eve reset after "highs" and "lows" in 2023.
·25m·1 clip - 101
The Results Are In
Hidden gemThe host rambles about her favorite drinks and wine pairings without a clear topic.
Apr 14, 2026·25m·1 clip - 102
Mom, Can I Ask You Something?
Black Girl Tea’s “Mom, Can I Ask You Something?” is a conversation between Naomi and her mother Leslie about womanhood, parenting, faith, and family history.
Mar 30, 2026·1h 6m·4 clips - 103
Living Single PT 3
Black Girl Tea’s “Living Single PT 3” examines dating, loneliness, sexual boundaries, and self-knowledge while living alone.
Mar 23, 2026·49m·3 clips - 104
Living Single PT 2
Black Girl Tee’s “Living Single PT 2” examines reparenting, emotional regulation, and learning to care for oneself while living alone.
Mar 23, 2026·38m·2 clips - 105
Living Single
The host rambles about being single, Women's History Month, and a recent troll comment on Spotify.
Mar 2, 2026·20m - 106
29
Hidden gem“Everybody doesn't deserve access to me,” after a friend situation made her “look a little crazy.”
Feb 23, 2026·21m·1 clip - 107
Romance Isn’t Missing! It’s redirected.
Hidden gem"Love" can look like safety, not fireworks.
Feb 9, 2026·50m·2 clips - 108
Expensive Pain
Hidden gem“Some people just don’t break your heart, but they run the tab on your soul.”
Feb 3, 2026·21m·1 clip - 109
A Life That Overflows: Black Women, Black Joy, and Black Wholeness!
Jan 19, 2026·31m - 110
Welcome to 2026
Jan 5, 2026·16m - 111
The 2025 Dating Experience
Dec 22, 2025·48m - 112
Goodbye 2025
Dec 15, 2025·33m - 113
I’m Thankful For Me!
Nov 25, 2025·29m - 114
Absent But Not Forgotten
Nov 10, 2025·30m - 115
More of the Healing Files
Oct 27, 2025·16m - 116
Main Character Energy
Oct 13, 2025·19m - 117
First Step
Sep 29, 2025·20m - 118
The Seventh Pour: Healing in Abundance
Sep 15, 2025·24m - 119
Fall Revamp
Sep 3, 2025·21m - 120
On A Positive Note
Aug 11, 2025·31m - 121
Dinner W/ Friends Recap
Jul 28, 2025·28m - 122
Tha Chat
Jul 21, 2025·4h 19m - 123
Pardon The Interruption
Jul 7, 2025·37m - 124
Mike’s Focus
Jun 30, 2025·2h 15m - 125
Music Heals Him
Jun 16, 2025·1h 27m - 126
Men’s Mental Health Awareness
Jun 9, 2025·3h 38m - 127
Positive Self Talk
May 26, 2025·18m - 128
The Trending Topic
May 19, 2025·22m - 129
We Outside?
May 12, 2025·36m - 130
Closing Out Q1
Apr 28, 2025·1h 14m - 131
Learning Your Place
Apr 21, 2025·35m - 132
Coming Home
Apr 14, 2025·23m - 133
Healing Ain’t Easy
Mar 24, 2025·42m - 134
Music Heals
Mar 17, 2025·29m - 135
.. I’m Just A Girl
Mar 10, 2025·29m - 136
Ok .. Now what?
Mar 3, 2025·25m - 137
The Good & The Bad
Feb 17, 2025·22m - 138
So What We Talking Bout?
Feb 11, 2025·23m - 139
Beyond The Quarter
Host Nye thanks listeners for their engagement and support, reflects on personal growth through vulnerability, and invites audience interaction while teasing future content.
Jan 20, 2025·43m - 140
It’s 2025
The host greets listeners in 2025, discusses a mini hiatus, personal habits, and invites self-reflection.
Jan 13, 2025·26m - 141
Close The Door on 2024
The host reflects on the year 2024 and encourages listeners to journal and reflect on their own experiences.
Dec 23, 2024·35m - 142
Chey X
Dec 9, 2024·2h 8m - 143
Can You Do What It Do, Comfortably?
Dec 2, 2024·54m - 144
Let’s Get Comfortable With Talking About Sex
The host of the Black Girl T podcast discusses the importance of becoming comfortable talking about sex and continues the conversation from a previous episode.
Nov 18, 2024·31m - 145
The Birds and the Bees
Nov 11, 2024·40m - 146
Bye Bye October
Oct 28, 2024·29m - 147
Why You Being Weird To Me?
Oct 21, 2024·1h 53m - 148
Welcome to the Chat
Oct 14, 2024·2h 1m - 149
Kickin It With Chey
Nye welcomes listeners back to the Black Girl Tee Podcast, discusses the arrival of fall and upcoming shows, and introduces a returning guest for a catch-up conversation.
Oct 7, 2024·1h 14m - 150
Worldwide Issues
Sep 30, 2024·35m