Birth Moms Real Talk

D. Yvonne Rivers

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Adoption stories from the mothers who lived them.

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Birth Moms Real Talk is an interview-led space for birth, first, and natural mothers describing what placement felt like before, during, and long after adoption. The conversations stay close to lived detail: family pressure, secrets, hospital rooms, reunion, support that never came, and the words women still carry.

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About Birth Moms Real Talk

Birth Moms Real Talk treats adoption as something lived in the body, the family, and the memory for decades. It is not a neat recovery show. Dee Yvonne Rivers speaks with birth, first, and natural mothers about placement, grief, secrets, and what it means to tell the story later. The interviews move slowly enough for detail to matter. Guests are asked about childhood, pregnancy, who knew, who reacted, where support appeared, and where it did not. Cassie describes not believing she could raise a child and finding small pockets of support outside her immediate situation. Sherry looks back on relatives treating a baby as someone else's answer before asking what she needed. Ann brings the perspective of someone who came into the world as an adoptee and later occupied another position in the adoption story. Laura's episode begins with trauma, secrets, and shame, then follows the family history that shaped her path. Kitty speaks from the lens of an adult adoptee before telling her birth mother story. Brandy remembers numbness, a sterile hospital room, three days in the hospital, and the feeling that choice had narrowed around her. Lori names reunion as hard and describes the grace she needed when guilt and pressure followed her. The live triad dialogue widens the circle to adoptees, birth mothers, and adoptive mothers, with secrets and reunion sitting at the center. The show is plainspoken. It does not rush guests toward closure. Rivers often repeats a charged word, asks for the next step, and gives the guest space to return to what still hurts. Shame is treated as something placed on women, not as the whole of who they are. Support is a recurring absence and a recurring need. The strongest throughline is voice: who had one, who lost one, and what changes when it is finally heard.

Made for: For listeners seeking candid, emotionally serious conversations about adoption from birth, first, and natural mothers. It especially suits people interested in personal testimony, reunion, family secrets, and the long emotional aftermath of placement.

What sets it apart: The show stays centered on birth mothers' own sequencing of events instead of turning their experiences into debate points. Its patient interview style makes room for uncertainty, repetition, grief, and details that are often left out of adoption narratives.

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Birth mothers telling their stories of placement.

As heard by us

Based on 5 episodes we listened to · September 2026

Dee Yvonne Rivers centers detailed testimony about adoption, making its lasting grief, family pressures, and reunion difficulties easier to understand.

Birth Moms Real Talk follows Dee Yvonne Rivers through extended conversations with women about placing children for adoption and living with what followed.

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Why you'd press play

Dee Yvonne Rivers makes room for the adoption questions polite company keeps trying to seat elsewhere.

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  • to hear birth mothers speak for themselves about placement, grief, and reunion
  • an honest look at the moment "choice" can feel more theoretical than real
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Best episodes of Birth Moms Real Talk

Short reviews from the PlayNext desk, based on the episodes we processed.

Episode 126- BMRT – Cassy – Love Makes You Stronger Than You ThinkApr 7, 2026

A plainspoken birth-mother story about self-doubt, support, and the fear of facing pregnancy alone.

Birth Moms Real Talk follows Cassie as she revisits the moment she learned she was pregnant and the self-doubt that settled in afterward. Dee Yvonne Rivers keeps the exchange plain and steady, asking for the next detail without rushing past the harder parts.

Episode 125- Sherry – “ Don’t Carry the Emotional Load Alone “Mar 21, 2026

A plainspoken birth mother account about adoption pressure, missing support, and the long road out of the fog.

Sherry's account stays close to the grief, pressure, and silence that can surround a birth mother with little support. It starts in San Jose, where she says she was the fourth of five children and that her father left when she was about four, then moves to the moment her…

Episode 121- BMRT LIVE Triad Dialogue – Adoptees, Birth/First Moms and Adoptive MomsMar 4, 2026

A live adoption conversation built around secrecy, reunion, and direct storytelling.

Birth Moms Real Talk follows a live three-way conversation with adoptees, birth first moms, and an adoptive mom, led by Dee Yvonne Rivers. It stays close to secrecy, shame, reunion, and the strain of telling family history that was kept hidden.

Episode 120: Brandy – ‘ I Didn’t Think I had a Choice “Mar 2, 2026

A plainspoken account of birth, numbness, and the ache of being handed off too soon.

Brandy's story moves from a stressful childhood in rural West Michigan into foster care, pregnancy, and the uneasy stretch around her son's birth.

Episode 119: Lori – “Reunion is Hard”Feb 28, 2026

A plainspoken adoption story about placement, guilt, and grief that never quite lets go.

Dee Yvonne Rivers begins with Lori's Kentucky upbringing near Fort Knox and lets the conversation settle into the guilt, shame, and pressure that came with placement. It feels intimate without getting polished into something neat.

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Episodes

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    Episode 132- Samantha – “We are STILL Mothers “

    Hidden gem

    Samantha, 37, tells host D.Yvonne Rivers how she stopped using drugs "cold turkey" when she learned she was pregnant, after years of addiction that began in 2010.

    Aug 25, 2026·55m·2 clips
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    Episode 132- Kathie- On the Road of Hope

    Aug 20, 2026·56m
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    Episode 131- Kate – I am Now Loved the Way I Deserve

    Aug 13, 2026·38m
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    Episode 130 – Tara – “I Left a Piece of My Heart “

    Jul 31, 2026·59m
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    Episode 129 – YES in Virginia with Rebecca

    Jun 30, 2026·33m
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    Episode 128 – “Moms. Our Voices Need to Be Heard “

    May 18, 2026·1h 28m
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    Episode 127 –“ Grief and Trauma is Messy “ – Yvonne’s Update

    Apr 24, 2026·10m
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    Episode 126- BMRT – Cassy – Love Makes You Stronger Than You Think

    Hidden gem

    Dee Yvonne Rivers opens by framing Birth Moms Real Talk as a space where birth or natural mothers can tell their stories plainly.

    Apr 7, 2026·1h 3m·4 clips
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    Episode 125- Sherry – “ Don’t Carry the Emotional Load Alone “

    Hidden gem

    Birth Moms Real Talk frames itself as a place where birth and natural mothers can share their journeys and tell the truth.

    Mar 21, 2026·1h 4m·4 clips
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    Episode 124 -Anne – “ No One Asked If I was Ok, I Just Wanted to be Seen”

    This episode features an interview with Ann, an adoptee and birth mother, who shares her personal journey and experiences with adoption, focusing on themes of healing, transparency, and identity.

    Mar 13, 2026·55m
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    Episode 123- Laura – Trauma, Secrets and Shame

    This episode features Laura sharing her personal journey as a birth mother, discussing childhood trauma, family secrets, and the emotional challenges of adoption.

    Mar 9, 2026·1h
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    Episode 122: Kitty – A Recurring Family History

    This episode features an interview with Kitty, a birth mother and adoptee, who shares her personal journey and perspective on adoption in the debut episode of Birth Moms Real Talk.

    Mar 6, 2026·45m
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    Episode 121- BMRT LIVE Triad Dialogue – Adoptees, Birth/First Moms and Adoptive Moms

    Hidden gem

    Dee Yvonne Rivers opens a live triad conversation with adoptees, birth moms, and an adoptive mom.

    Mar 4, 2026·1h·3 clips
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    Episode 120: Brandy – ‘ I Didn’t Think I had a Choice “

    Hidden gem

    Brandy traces a hard road to motherhood.

    Mar 2, 2026·48m·3 clips
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    Episode 119: Lori – “Reunion is Hard”

    Hidden gem

    Dee Yvonne Rivers opens the conversation with Lori and asks her to start at the beginning.

    Feb 28, 2026·46m·4 clips
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    Episode 119: Beth – “I Made It Through in Spite of My Trauma”

    Hidden gem

    Beth tells host Dee Yvonne Rivers that her mother, a Christian Scientist who refused medication, beat her children, and that the family fractured when her parents split up when Beth was seven.

    Feb 27, 2026·1h 17m·2 clips
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    Episode 118: Donna – “ No One Asked Me Who – “

    Hidden gem

    Donna tells host D.

    Feb 23, 2026·47m·2 clips
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    117 : Cindy - “ I Didn’t Know Much “ When I Went Away “

    Feb 19, 2026·1h 1m
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    Episode 116: Nicole – "We are Told to Move On "

    Feb 15, 2026·40m
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    Episode 115: Karen - "Fear Made Me Feel Inadequate"

    Feb 11, 2026·1h 16m
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    Episode 114 - Adoption is NOT the First Option – Superbowl Ad – Cindy and Yvonne

    Feb 8, 2026·54m
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    Episode 113 :Sydney – The Pressures of Being a Birth Mother

    Feb 7, 2026·49m
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    Episode 112 :Shelley - “I Never Gave Up on Him “

    Feb 3, 2026·1h 11m
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    Episode 111 : Yvonne- Radical Acceptance as a Birth/First Mom

    Jan 19, 2026·15m
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    Episode 110: Alycea – “A Birthmother’s Path to Wholeness”

    Jan 7, 2026·46m
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    Episode 109: Cathryn - " I Need to Tell You"

    Jan 3, 2026·59m
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    Episode 108: Shanae – “ Believe Your Truth – You Belong Here “

    Dec 30, 2025·52m
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    Episode 107: Yvonne – I Felt Like I Could Breathe Again

    Dec 27, 2025·1h 3m
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    Episode 106: Marisa – “My Love was Overwhelming”

    Dec 23, 2025·54m
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    Episode 105: Monica – “I Just Needed to be Loved“

    Dec 20, 2025·1h 23m
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    Episode 104: Patience – Feeling Lost , in Love and in Trauma

    Dec 16, 2025·57m
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    Episode 103: Denise - Secrets in the Family

    Dec 13, 2025·1h 5m
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    Episode 102: Jeanne – What About Me?

    Dec 9, 2025·1h 3m
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    Episode 101:" Grace and Healing in 7 Year Reunion Journey"

    Dec 6, 2025·19m
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    Episode 100- Jenny –The Search For What's Best For My Baby

    Dec 2, 2025·1h 24m
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    Episode 99: Dr." Abby-Truth about Trauma"

    Nov 28, 2025·59m
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    Episode 98 -Two Moms: Adopting Each Other – Carman and Susan – Part 2

    Nov 25, 2025·50m
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    Episode 97-Two Moms : Adopting Each Other - Carmen and Susan - Part 1

    Nov 22, 2025·54m
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    Episode 96 – Janelle & Katherine – Mom and Daughter – History Repeats Itself – Part 2

    Nov 18, 2025·1h 1m
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    Episode 95 – Janelle & Katherine – Mom and Daughter – “History Repeats Itself

    This episode features a mother and daughter sharing their personal journey as birth mothers, discussing pregnancy, family dynamics, and healing in an open conversation.

    Nov 15, 2025·1h 7m
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    Episode 95: Lynea – “I Wanted Someone to Hold My Hand”

    Nov 14, 2025·59m
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    53: Yvonne – “The Journey of Reunion “

    Nov 12, 2025·22m
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    Episode 94 : Kathy – Sharing My Story Gave Me Freedom

    Oct 20, 2025·34m
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    Episode 93: Ruby Lee – "Don’t be Selfish, Do the Right Thing"

    Oct 17, 2025·1h 14m
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    Episode 92 : Sharon - "Never Spoken Of Again"

    Oct 13, 2025·50m
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    Episode 91 – Rebekkah – “ I Finally Knew What I Wanted”

    Oct 10, 2025·1h 4m
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    Episode 90 – Laura – “ You’ll Forget This Ever Happened”

    Oct 6, 2025·48m
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    Episode 89: Vicky – “Love has No Color”

    Oct 3, 2025·46m
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    Episode 88: Nicole – The ‘Touch’ that Changed My Life

    This episode features Nicole sharing her personal journey as a birth mother, discussing her traumatic childhood and the path to healing after placing a child for adoption.

    Sep 29, 2025·45m
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    Episode 87: Autunm – “I Didn’t Know”

    Sep 26, 2025·47m
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    Episode 86: Madison – ‘Start Saying “Yes” to Yourself”

    This episode features Madison sharing her personal journey as a birth mother, starting from her childhood in Kansas City, as part of a podcast dedicated to adoption stories and emotional conversations.

    Sep 22, 2025·54m
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    Episode 85: Rosalie – “Forgiveness Helped Me To Heal“

    Sep 19, 2025·35m
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    Episode 84 : Rose – “Who is Talking to the Elephant in the Room”

    Sep 15, 2025·47m
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    Episode 83: Marcie – “What’s in Your Secret Shoebox?”

    Sep 12, 2025·1h 2m
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    Episode 82 : Lori P – “I Felt Alone and Abandoned”

    Sep 8, 2025·50m
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    Episode 81 : Angie – “I Broke Through My Shame”

    Sep 2, 2025·1h 11m
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    Episode 80: Maddy – “The Best Two Days of My Life “

    This episode features Maddy sharing her personal journey as a birth mother, discussing her upbringing and experiences leading up to adoption.

    Aug 26, 2025·54m
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    Episode 79: Ashley - “ I Took the Road less Traveled “

    Aug 19, 2025·58m
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    Episode 78: Barbara – “ Writing Our Secrets Healed Us”

    Aug 15, 2025·57m
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    Episode 77: Amy - “Secrets in the Adoption Closet “

    Aug 5, 2025·48m
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    Episode 76 : Nikki – I Am Always A Mom

    Jul 29, 2025·41m
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    Episode 75 : Yvonne – I Felt Like I Could Breathe Again

    Jul 23, 2025·1h 3m
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    Episode 72- Grace and Healing in 7 Year Reunion Journey

    May 9, 2025·19m
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    Episode 71- Yvonne’s Journey – LIVE Podcast at Black Voices Amplified Summit 2024

    Nov 14, 2024·1h 3m
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    Dr.Abby-Truth about the Trauma

    Sep 6, 2024·59m
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    Episode 67- Jenny – My Search for Attention

    Sep 1, 2024·1h 24m
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    Dr. Abby –Truth about the Trauma

    Aug 16, 2024·59m
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    56: Melissa – “ The Message Was Everything”

    Apr 25, 2023·53m
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    56: Melissa – “ The Message Was Everything”

    Apr 25, 2023·53m
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    55: Mellisa – “The Message Was Everything”

    Mar 28, 2023·56m
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    46: Courtney – “ I Found My Worth as a Mom at 17”

    Sep 30, 2022·45m
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    43: Candace – “I Am Good Enough to Be a Mother”

    Sep 9, 2022·53m
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    38: Fran – Finding Peace from Unbearable Loss

    Aug 5, 2022·41m
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    27: Mother’s Day – “Angie, Ashley and Laura”

    May 6, 2022·41m
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    23: Nikki – I Am Always A Mom

    Mar 18, 2022·41m
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    22: Yvonne – I Felt Like I Could Breathe Again

    Mar 4, 2022·1h 3m
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    17: Kristen and Lindsey – “Just the Two of Us – The Journey Continues – Part 2″

    Nov 27, 2021·31m
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    16: Kristen and Lindsey – “The Two of Us: Love Never Failing“

    Nov 5, 2021·39m
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    14: Amy - “Secrets in the Adoption Closet “

    Oct 8, 2021·48m
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    13: Haley – “I Didn’t Know What to Do“

    Oct 1, 2021·48m
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    6: Yvonne - I Felt Like I Could Breathe Again

    Aug 14, 2021·1h 4m
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    4: Nikki – I Am Always A Mom

    Jul 17, 2021·41m
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    2: Beth – We have a Weekly Date

    Jul 3, 2021·31m